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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
38 weeks ago

Leeds

Love what Bob Marley said once when asked if there was a perfect woman.

He replied,

Who cares about perfection?

Even the moon is not perfect, it is full of craters

What about the sea?

It's very beautiful, but very salty and dark in the depths.

And what about heaven?

Always so infinite, that is, the most beautiful things are not perfect, they are special and every woman, every man and every human being chooses who is special '' in his life.

Stop trying to be ''perfect''. Better try to be free and live doing what you like, without trying to please others.

So true x

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
38 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.

Bob Marley

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
38 weeks ago

Leeds


"If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.

Bob Marley"

Another good one x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

38 weeks ago

East Sussex

There's such a thing as 'perfect for you'.

Is Bob saying amazing women are difficult? I can't agree

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
38 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.

Bob Marley

Another good one x"

He did quite a few really good ones, but that one was the one that stands out for me. C&P though - I'm not that much of a spotter.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
38 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"There's such a thing as 'perfect for you'.

Is Bob saying amazing women are difficult? I can't agree"

Think it's more geared towards finding 'the one' and persevering. Not Fab

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By *icecouple561Couple
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38 weeks ago

East Sussex


"There's such a thing as 'perfect for you'.

Is Bob saying amazing women are difficult? I can't agree

Think it's more geared towards finding 'the one' and persevering. Not Fab"

Yeah I realise that. But if a relationship is difficult and causes suffering to a large degree it really isn't worth it ...is it?

We quite often say we're perfect for each other (mainly because nobody else would have us) and we've certainly rubbed the sharp edges off each other over the years but hurt and suffering are the least of our experience of each other.

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
38 weeks ago

Durham

Robin Williams:

We need to choose who we let in to our weird little worlds. You're not perfect Sport, and let me save you the suspense. This girl you met, she isn't perfect either, but the question is whether or not you're perfect for each other. That's the whole deal, that's what intimacy is all about. Now you can know everything in the world Sport, but the only way you're finding out that one is by giving it a shot

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By *ris GrayMan
38 weeks ago

Dorchester

This is how i live my life

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Thank you op. That was actually nice to be reminded of that type of stuff.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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38 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Robin Williams:

We need to choose who we let in to our weird little worlds. You're not perfect Sport, and let me save you the suspense. This girl you met, she isn't perfect either, but the question is whether or not you're perfect for each other. That's the whole deal, that's what intimacy is all about. Now you can know everything in the world Sport, but the only way you're finding out that one is by giving it a shot"

I can identify with this.

Know and accept each other, warts and all. Persevere when things get tough but don't accept toxicity.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"Thank you op. That was actually nice to be reminded of that type of stuff. "

To follow that on what I just said, I had to look at some people and I see people I think are perfect, and it baffles me that they think they’re not, or weren’t. I don’t think they understand how I saw them or see them through my eyes. And I’ve always get frustrated with myself that I can’t verbalise and get them to understand it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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38 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Thank you op. That was actually nice to be reminded of that type of stuff.

To follow that on what I just said, I had to look at some people and I see people I think are perfect, and it baffles me that they think they’re not, or weren’t. I don’t think they understand how I saw them or see them through my eyes. And I’ve always get frustrated with myself that I can’t verbalise and get them to understand it. "

Maybe if you tack 'to me' on the end it'll become more believable

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"Thank you op. That was actually nice to be reminded of that type of stuff.

To follow that on what I just said, I had to look at some people and I see people I think are perfect, and it baffles me that they think they’re not, or weren’t. I don’t think they understand how I saw them or see them through my eyes. And I’ve always get frustrated with myself that I can’t verbalise and get them to understand it.

Maybe if you tack 'to me' on the end it'll become more believable "

That’s what I meant, or at least that’s what I tried to say, you can see my problem. Haha.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

38 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Thank you op. That was actually nice to be reminded of that type of stuff.

To follow that on what I just said, I had to look at some people and I see people I think are perfect, and it baffles me that they think they’re not, or weren’t. I don’t think they understand how I saw them or see them through my eyes. And I’ve always get frustrated with myself that I can’t verbalise and get them to understand it.

Maybe if you tack 'to me' on the end it'll become more believable

That’s what I meant, or at least that’s what I tried to say, you can see my problem. Haha. "

Lol. Tongue tied in the presence of beauty

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.

Bob Marley"

Does "easy" here mean eager to have sex, or have I misinterpreted that?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
38 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.

Bob Marley"

I’ve always liked this one

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