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By *sWyld OP   Woman
38 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Tonight I'm catching up with someone I've known for over 20 years. He was at one point my first love. He has seen me at my best and my most vulnerable. He opened my eyes to many things and awakened me to a whole world of sexuality. We had many years of great times and memories made. However I've not seen him in about 8 years! We don't speak often these days, more just Facebook likes. I've changed, he's changed and quite honestly I'm nervous to see him.

Yet we left each other a voice note last night and it was like we were both transported back 20 years.

So my nerves, while still there are less, I want to hear all about his life, his adventures, his family and his excitement for his future.

Probably the best cake and catch up I'll have in a long time.

When was the last time you were reunited with someone? How did it go?

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Fingers crossed it gose well for you

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By *iss DevilWoman
38 weeks ago

Bedford

I hope it goes well for you, OP. Last time I reunited with someone was a few years back. Similar to you, we were in a relationship years ago but eventually realised we were after different things and parted ways. We stayed Facebook friends, chatted from time to time. Then one day we met at my local swingers club, by accident. He was there with his partner at that time, I was there with mine. My first reaction was to hide! Lol. But then just went quite adult about it, we acknowledged each other and had a short chat there. A few months later, he messaged me on Facebook to say that his relationship broke down-he just needed a friend to talk to, but one thing led to another and we decided to meet, just to catch up. I was very nervous beforehand, but once we met, everything just fell in place. We are now FWBs, with great sex

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
38 weeks ago

ashford

Have just got chatting with one of my first boy friends from 52 years ago! We did briefly speak at a school reunion 26 years ago! Alot of time has passed! But interesting! Good luck x

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By *sWyld OP   Woman
38 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"I hope it goes well for you, OP. Last time I reunited with someone was a few years back. Similar to you, we were in a relationship years ago but eventually realised we were after different things and parted ways. We stayed Facebook friends, chatted from time to time. Then one day we met at my local swingers club, by accident. He was there with his partner at that time, I was there with mine. My first reaction was to hide! Lol. But then just went quite adult about it, we acknowledged each other and had a short chat there. A few months later, he messaged me on Facebook to say that his relationship broke down-he just needed a friend to talk to, but one thing led to another and we decided to meet, just to catch up. I was very nervous beforehand, but once we met, everything just fell in place. We are now FWBs, with great sex "

Thats lovely

That won't be the outcome here. Strictly platonic!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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38 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

In the last few months I've had an ex wife I've not spoken to in 10 years, an ex FB in 12, and an ex GF I've not seen or heard of in about 27 send me messages on Facey.

Seems Facebook stalking is a common hobby still.

Two out of three I'd gladly meet for coffee.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
38 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Fingers crossed for tonight, Wyld one. I hope it’s minimum awkwardness and maximum smiles for you both.

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By *agnar73Man
38 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"In the last few months I've had an ex wife I've not spoken to in 10 years, an ex FB in 12, and an ex GF I've not seen or heard of in about 27 send me messages on Facey.

Seems Facebook stalking is a common hobby still.

Two out of three I'd gladly meet for coffee. "

Think I have it locked to friends only and whether ex girlfriends could message me I dunno.

In some ways a chat over a coffee would be nice

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
38 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Good luck with the meet. I met an ex girlfriend a while back and we were really looking forward to it.

Within about 2 hours I realised why she was an ex!

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Last year I saw my sister and brother-in-law for the first time in 6 or 7 years (I can't exactly remember). They live in Australia, and the last time they were out, my wife, and our brother were still with us, my daughter was still at secondary school and the pandemic was still to happen.

What a different world.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"I hope it goes well for you, OP. Last time I reunited with someone was a few years back. Similar to you, we were in a relationship years ago but eventually realised we were after different things and parted ways. We stayed Facebook friends, chatted from time to time. Then one day we met at my local swingers club, by accident. He was there with his partner at that time, I was there with mine. My first reaction was to hide! Lol. But then just went quite adult about it, we acknowledged each other and had a short chat there. A few months later, he messaged me on Facebook to say that his relationship broke down-he just needed a friend to talk to, but one thing led to another and we decided to meet, just to catch up. I was very nervous beforehand, but once we met, everything just fell in place. We are now FWBs, with great sex

Thats lovely

That won't be the outcome here. Strictly platonic! "

During lockdown got contacted by old work mates and a friend via BT YouTube channel from over 30 yrs ago. I realised I have nothing in common with those people as I'm a different person now.

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By *assy69Man
38 weeks ago

West Sussex and Wales


"Tonight I'm catching up with someone I've known for over 20 years. He was at one point my first love. He has seen me at my best and my most vulnerable. He opened my eyes to many things and awakened me to a whole world of sexuality. We had many years of great times and memories made. However I've not seen him in about 8 years! We don't speak often these days, more just Facebook likes. I've changed, he's changed and quite honestly I'm nervous to see him.

Yet we left each other a voice note last night and it was like we were both transported back 20 years.

So my nerves, while still there are less, I want to hear all about his life, his adventures, his family and his excitement for his future.

Probably the best cake and catch up I'll have in a long time.

When was the last time you were reunited with someone? How did it go? "

Have a friend that I’ve known since I was 5 years old. We grew up together and went through a lot of death and trouble together. We very rarely touch base anymore but, when we do get together (usually years in between meetings) it is always like we have never been apart for more than a day

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