FabSwingers.com forum: If your partner left the mobile without password.....

By *hagTonight OP Man
38 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

Would you look? I saw a fun thing and I wanted to share it. I dont have a partner, but if I did. I wouldnt look as I think that trust is the key in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I know her password.

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By *lueDressWoman
38 weeks ago

Bath

We both know one another's passwords.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

No because I respect his privacy.

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By *needabrewMan
38 weeks ago

the hills

Frape them to fuck.

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By *adCherriesCouple
38 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

I know Mr's password and he knows mine, so we can look anytime but haven't otherwise we wouldn't be on here as you need trust.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
38 weeks ago

Aberdeen

If I wanted to look in his phone I'd just ask.

If it comes to the point I feel the need to check up on someone it is time to accept the relationship is in trouble.

MrsAbz

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By *ackformore100Man
38 weeks ago

Tin town

"Would you look? I saw a fun thing and I wanted to share it. I dont have a partner, but if I did. I wouldnt look as I think that trust is the key in a relationship

Nah just leave it. And let them know so they don't do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

A definite no,

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
38 weeks ago

East Sussex

Nope.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
38 weeks ago

your head

No. He can have my password if he wants though, I have nothing to hide. It's only there to keep the kids out of my phone.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
38 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

No.

If I felt I needed to sneak and snoop to find things out that I should know, I can't trust that person enough to be involved with them.

I expect people to share the appropriate information with me as needed

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By *TG3Man
38 weeks ago

Dorchester

Absolutely not its mine, my password and not to be used by anyone but me

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

No. But I would probably take selfies. Tbf I do that if it’s locked or not. So they have lovely pics of me to surprise them

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
38 weeks ago

East Sussex

"No. But I would probably take selfies. Tbf I do that if it’s locked or not. So they have lovely pics of me to surprise them

Oo I didn't think of that.

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By *ex HolesMan
38 weeks ago

Up North

Never miss a free opportunity for a dick pic

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Nope if I felt the need to snoop would mean I didn’t have trust in the person so I just wouldn’t be with them

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"No. But I would probably take selfies. Tbf I do that if it’s locked or not. So they have lovely pics of me to surprise them

Oo I didn't think of that.

I do it to my fiancé all the time it’s so funny randomly getting told ‘you’re so annoying

’ throughout the day

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
38 weeks ago

East Sussex

"No. But I would probably take selfies. Tbf I do that if it’s locked or not. So they have lovely pics of me to surprise them

Oo I didn't think of that.

I do it to my fiancé all the time it’s so funny randomly getting told ‘you’re so annoying

’ throughout the day"

I think it's quite sweet

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Maidstone

This topic came up on a forum post before. The inconclusive discussion was a man who said his partner knows his passcode but would go ballistic if she looked without his knowledge.

My response was ... "huh?"

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By *agnar73Man
38 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

No. However tempting.

There’s something I could say but I think better not to.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
38 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

That would kill any trust.

I hide nothing anyway

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
38 weeks ago

Tamworth

We know eachothers pins, we both leave our phones just hanging around the house. Neither of us have snooped, there's just no reason to.

If trust took such a massive hit that checking someone's phone becomes a good idea, it's probably a better idea just to walk away from the relationship imo

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By *ecky and justCouple
38 weeks ago

Godalming

We can both access each other’s phones.

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By *ycanNightsMan
38 weeks ago

Workington

I don't want or need to snoop.

But she could happily have my phone password if she wanted but it's not necessary.

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
38 weeks ago

west london

No never ..we trust each other

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By *riel13Woman
38 weeks ago

Northampton

Why would you want to see anything on your partners phone? Unless it's something they are showing you or asked you to find... Weird

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
38 weeks ago

The Side of the Mersey

Nope. Not bothered.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
38 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"I know her password.

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That is good you know the password too

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By *umbriaman1962Man
38 weeks ago

outside of penrith

Know each others password us each other phone now again

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By *iss.ddWoman
38 weeks ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Not really interested in what he does on his phone as we are incredibly open but I would be very interested to see how many grim photos he takes of me and the family unbeknownst to us, like I do to him

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
38 weeks ago

Leeds

I know his password & he knows mine, he can look whenever he wants.

Mrs

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By *parkle1974Woman
38 weeks ago

Leeds

With previous partners, I knew their password and they knew mine. Never felt the need to hide anything. If someone can't be honest with me then it's game over x

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By *elix SightedMan
38 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I wouldn’t look at messages but I absolutely would:

1) change their contact names to something appropriate

2) change the ringtone to something embarrassing

3) make their wallpaper something funny

4) set an alarm for when I know they’ll be in a meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Why would I?

That’s a relationship that I would want, one where I know, I don’t have an issue of them looking at my phone, and one where I know they wouldn’t have an issue of me looking out there’s.

I’d also like to be in a relationship where I wouldn’t have a think I needed to look at her phone for anything, but innocent reasons.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
38 weeks ago

Reading

No I wouldn't unless i asked first and had a specific reason.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
38 weeks ago

Leeds

She knows my password, she wants to look all she has to do is ask, I have nothing to hide.

To be fair she knows where my phone is more than I do.

The mr

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
38 weeks ago

manchester

"Would you look? I saw a fun thing and I wanted to share it. I dont have a partner, but if I did. I wouldnt look as I think that trust is the key in a relationship

We don’t have pass codes on our phones but also respect each others privacy.

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By *olfandtazCouple
38 weeks ago

Bristol

Wolf knows my password

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
38 weeks ago

ashford

Don't have a partner! But if I did then absolutely I would! X

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By *undee2Man
38 weeks ago

Dundee

I know my partner's passwords and she knows mine. I have never, ever looked.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
38 weeks ago

kent

We know each others passwords, and often use each others phones x

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By *orthernJayMan
38 weeks ago

LHR

"Don't have a partner! But if I did then absolutely I would! X"

So you’d absolutely look through your partners phone if you had a partner ?

I’ve always thought phones akin to diaries and a ladies handbag, all of which are incredibly private entities!

Perhaps I’m fully old school and maybe random, but I’ve never even put my hand in a ladies bag; if she’s asked for something from said bag, I’ve always passed the bag across, even if the lady insisted “it’s fine”

I’d never dream of snooping in someone’s phone, locked or otherwise!

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By *educing_EmCouple
38 weeks ago

Tipperary

"I know his password & he knows mine, he can look whenever he wants.

Mrs "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"I know his password & he knows mine, he can look whenever he wants.

Mrs

This "

This is how I've been with partners, no barriers to access but equally, no inclination to look, though would feel free to use their phone or them use mine.

People who want to hide can easily use other phones or tablets, etc. If your gut says something is off, it likely is.

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By *omKsubSMan
38 weeks ago

Newton

My phone and computer was locked, but never to keep my ex out... she knew the passwords anyway and I knew hers.

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By *an_spMan
38 weeks ago

Coventry

In the case you don’t have consent to check their phone, If your trust toward your partner is low enough to violate their privacy, perhaps your relationship has taken a wrong turn and it’s best to have a conversation with your partner.

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By *ou only live onceMan
38 weeks ago

London

"Don't have a partner! But if I did then absolutely I would! X

So you’d absolutely look through your partners phone if you had a partner ?

I’ve always thought phones akin to diaries and a ladies handbag, all of which are incredibly private entities!

I’d never dream of snooping in someone’s phone, locked or otherwise!"

I vote odd rather than old school. Why on earth wouldn't you put your hand in someone's handbag if she asked you to pass her something? Just passing the bag is unhelpful!

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By *ou only live onceMan
38 weeks ago

London

"I know his password & he knows mine, he can look whenever he wants.

Mrs

This "

This for me too, when it applied. Really not that big an issue for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I think if there is mutual behaviour that builds trust, a dodgy looking situation wouldn't cause alarm because you'd be sure it was innocent & can be explained. Where as vague, grey area behaviour breeds doubts, suspicions grow and even an innocent situation can feel off because the person isnt reinforcing security/ confidence in the relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Mr has no password on his phone I do and he knows it, neither of us are interested looking at the others phone.

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By *essTTWoman
38 weeks ago

Birmingham

I would but not because I want to check if they're cheating but cause I'd want to know if they're complaining about me when I'm being needy/annoying lol

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By *luffyrabitCouple
38 weeks ago

Catterick Garrison/ Stockton

I know his password, but only look if he needs me to (if he's driving, etc.)

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Wouldn't look, couldn't be bothered wasting my energy.

Keep my side of the street clean.

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By *eliWoman
38 weeks ago

I could, I wouldn't. He could, he wouldn't.

I kind of... don't want to be a silent spectator to his conversations. It's not fair on the person. Plus, I trust him. I have no need to.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I had an ex, who wasnt sure about me. So she messaged a previous ex asking for her opinion on me...

What a s#!t storm that turned into. Naturally they are now both blocked.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
38 weeks ago

Epsom

We both have fingerprint access to each others phone ..it's the most liberating thing ever and a great feeling I never feel the need to check tbh as we're always showing each other boobs or porn ..and it's useful when paying for stuff you don't want to also

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By *aked2sumCouple
38 weeks ago

playa del ingles

Both know each others password nothing to hide on our phones just lots of naked pics of the wife on there which I keep in a safe vault pass protected so only me and her can access them . Only really perv fab and the odd cuckhold vid on xhamster. Beauty of being. Swinger is you don’t have to sneak about for your kicks

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
38 weeks ago

ashford

"Don't have a partner! But if I did then absolutely I would! X

So you’d absolutely look through your partners phone if you had a partner ?

I’ve always thought phones akin to diaries and a ladies handbag, all of which are incredibly private entities!

I’d never dream of snooping in someone’s phone, locked or otherwise!"

Yup absolutely!100% but never gonna happen as never gonna have a partner! X

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
38 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I would never look in someone else's phone. My late partner and son had password to mine

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By *inkyropecoupleCouple
38 weeks ago

carluke

I’d tell her to put a password on her phone in case someone else picked it up!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Central

No. I trust others and expect to be trusted too.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
38 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"No because I respect his privacy. "
That is good and yes, it is all about privacy too

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By *he Flat CapsCouple
38 weeks ago

Pontypool

No, I wouldn't. We respect each other too much.

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By *AYENCouple
38 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We have the same passwords. We watched a shocking but brilliant true story film yesterday about a serial killer - neither of us could belive the guy's partner knew nothing of his activities. We don't have secrets because we have nothing to be secretive about.

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By *hesblokeMan
38 weeks ago

Derbyshire village

I could probably guess her password, and no - I wouldn't look at anything, no reason to.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
38 weeks ago

Durham

We both know each others passcodes, but we wouldn't ever go looking through each others phones. No need to at all. Trust is key.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
38 weeks ago

Portstewart

We both know the others code and have no issues with trust

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

As a member of a rugby club. Unattended phones are fair game and duly filled up with hairy bum and dick photos on burst mode. Current record is just under 3500

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By *hagTonight OP Man
38 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"I know Mr's password and he knows mine, so we can look anytime but haven't otherwise we wouldn't be on here as you need trust. "
That is good you both know it too

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By *estarossa.Woman
38 weeks ago

Flagrante

I did, once. He had already cheated on me so the trust wasn't there.

I wasn't proud of myself, but I did also find More women he was messaging, so it was already too late.

I should have walked away a Lot earlier, but sometimes the flags being red isn't enough. Sometimes they creep up gradually, and sometimes, If I am brutally honest, I didn't want to see.

Because I had over-invested, and didn't want to lose.

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By *orksRockerMan
38 weeks ago

Bradford

"I did, once. He had already cheated on me so the trust wasn't there.

I wasn't proud of myself, but I did also find More women he was messaging, so it was already too late.

I should have walked away a Lot earlier, but sometimes the flags being red isn't enough. Sometimes they creep up gradually, and sometimes, If I am brutally honest, I didn't want to see.

Because I had over-invested, and didn't want to lose.

Over-invested. Oh I know that feeling... You throw everything you have into it and for years it's not reciprocated and you make excuse after excuse for them....

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By *essicagraceWoman
38 weeks ago

birmingham

No for both of my partners. I'd feel no desire to! Don't see the point. So it's not that I trust them, I do, it's more... it doesn't interest me!

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"Frape them to fuck."

Couldn't help laughing at this ^

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

If I had a partner, it wouldn't bother me sharing my password.

My adult kids know the password to my phone. Access to here is via incognito. Passwords and private pics saved in independent coded vaults which they don't have access to.

In my last LTR, we shared our passwords though I had no need to be accessing his until his behaviour changed slightly whenever he was using his and my gut instinct was right when I suspected he was cheating and I called him out on it - access to his phone and evidence was there.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
32 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"We know each others passwords, and often use each others phones x"
That is good you know each others passwords too

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By *uenevereWoman
32 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I think we both have access to each others phones.

Not that either of us would feel the need to look at them.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
32 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Would you look? I saw a fun thing and I wanted to share it. I dont have a partner, but if I did. I wouldnt look as I think that trust is the key in a relationship

Not with Mr I wouldn't. Have with former partners but I'd got my suspicions by then x

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By *obandruthCouple
32 weeks ago

wolverhampton

We both know each others password.

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By *TinRedCouple
32 weeks ago

Reading

T knows my password, I don't know hers... And have no need to know.

We always say if you go looking for trouble, you're going to find it. We trust each other totally... Which is kinda useful seeing as we're on here

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By *agnar73Man
32 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Would you look? I saw a fun thing and I wanted to share it. I dont have a partner, but if I did. I wouldnt look as I think that trust is the key in a relationship

One of the worst jobs I had after my wife died was looking through phone.

Didn’t want to do it, didn’t like doing it, but necessary in case I missed something or needed to know something.

Honestly if you don’t need to, don’t let curiousity or whatever tempt you into doing it.

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By *arrenandhisduckCouple
32 weeks ago

blackpool

No password on my phone, Darren knows password for my work phone & I know password for his - nothing to hide here

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Would you jump ship op if you were in a relationship from here and how would you trust that person knowing swinging can mean several partners and some maybe exes or friends or in the clique?

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By *ynecplCouple
32 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We know each others passwords so it doesn't matter.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
32 weeks ago

somewhere

We know each others (I mean I think we do lol) but we have no reason to want to look x

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By *asterAndFuckToyCouple
32 weeks ago

Newport

We know each others passwords been together 18 years, have a child, a mortgage we trust each other implicitly

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By *hagTonight OP Man
7 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"We know each others (I mean I think we do lol) but we have no reason to want to look x"
Hi giveme, that is good you know each others too

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
7 weeks ago

wonderland.

Mr has told me his unlock code.. I wouldn't look though. X

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By *agnar73Man
7 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Goodness no.

From experience though, knowing the unlock code a good thing, should the worst happen.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Central

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

No. It's an invasion of privacy.

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By *ucka39Man
7 weeks ago

Newcastle

I did and found out that she had been cheating so my suspicion was right

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By *ynecplCouple
7 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We both know the unlock codes to each others mobiles but never look as trust each other. Imagine if there were suspicions by either party the temptation would be too great.

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By *r John WickMan
7 weeks ago

The Continental

Mrs wick uses my phone more than I do.

Nothing to hide on it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
7 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

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By *8on33Man
7 weeks ago

winfrith

my phone has a password and only I know it .

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
7 weeks ago

District 13

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