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Definitely not for me!

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By *eettogetpleased OP   Man
38 weeks ago

Ponterfact

I've been looking at this swingers world but definitely not for me!

Well I mean I won't be comfortable to know that someone sticked his dick in my wife and after I have to do it, no I can't and I'll never can.

Also seen a video with a couple where his wife were rimming and another guy, well I'll never kiss my partner if she would do something like that.

Anyway I know that in the end is about boundaries and stuff but is that so much you can loose and nearly nothing to gain from this game.

I think is definitely not for me

At least I had a look around chat with a few people (weird) but I can't be part of this world as I don't want to regret it later!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
38 weeks ago

East Sussex

It's not for everyone.

Good luck for the future.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
38 weeks ago

North West

Everyone has different boundaries

Hope you find what your looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

It isn’t for all

But also years and years ago I was the same before fab

But my eye have been opened wide

To say I was convennul is a understatement

But after reflecting on past mistakes and stuff

And what could have been different if say my eyes were this wide open back then to now

I have realised realship are much more than sex

I have came to the realisation that maybe I can’t forfill someone’s total desires all by my self

I have also came to the realseshoin everyone has a past everone has been sexually active so why get hung up on who done what with who bl bl

just something I would like to point out

You sed you wouldn’t kiss your partner if she had rimmed another guy ever again

Someone you get in to a relationship with may all ready have done previous to meeting you

And now you put them in a position off them not being able to be open with you

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By *oubleswing2019Man
38 weeks ago

Colchester

Personally, if you are unable to have sex with your wife because she has had sex with someone else, it does imply that the crux of acceptance lies with you and how you process that. Not saying it is right or wrong. There is no such thing. However if that autonomy was negotiated and blessed in advance, then she is in the clear.

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As for rimming and kissing afterwards, most would brush and gargle. There are always solutions

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By *adCherriesCouple
38 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

Well it's horses for courses, I don't understand cheating and can never understand why people do it.

Mrs

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By *iasubTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Everyone is different and thats okay. Hopefully you figure out what you want too

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"I've been looking at this swingers world but definitely not for me!

Well I mean I won't be comfortable to know that someone sticked his dick in my wife and after I have to do it, no I can't and I'll never can.

Also seen a video with a couple where his wife were rimming and another guy, well I'll never kiss my partner if she would do something like that.

Anyway I know that in the end is about boundaries and stuff but is that so much you can loose and nearly nothing to gain from this game.

I think is definitely not for me

At least I had a look around chat with a few people (weird) but I can't be part of this world as I don't want to regret it later! "

We all have our reasons, and we are not here to persuade you.

Thanks for sharing.

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By *TG3Man
38 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I've been looking at this swingers world but definitely not for me!

Well I mean I won't be comfortable to know that someone sticked his dick in my wife and after I have to do it, no I can't and I'll never can.

Also seen a video with a couple where his wife were rimming and another guy, well I'll never kiss my partner if she would do something like that.

Anyway I know that in the end is about boundaries and stuff but is that so much you can loose and nearly nothing to gain from this game.

I think is definitely not for me

At least I had a look around chat with a few people (weird) but I can't be part of this world as I don't want to regret it later! "
its good to realise early you just don't know what we've been up to, even if we are honest in our profiles....... So much is unknown

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
38 weeks ago

Leeds

Well it isn't for you that's fine cheating isn't for me - you can't watch your wife be pounded and go in but your happy to go around pounding others then back to your wife.

Gotta love the double standards here.

I hope she finds your profile & sets one up of her own and has the time of her life.

Mrs

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By *allySlinkyWoman
38 weeks ago

Leeds

OP is the profile pic I can see on this thread your wife or a random woman who has consented to her pic being used on this site ?

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By *sWyldWoman
38 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Shame your wife isn't getting to decide what her boundaries might be

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
38 weeks ago

North West

Interesting to contrast this post and your profile OP. You seem conflicted or at least contradictory.

You're cheating on your wife. And part of your profile says "I'm not judging anyone's choices".

Then your post has a pop at swingers and other people's sexual preferences.

I'd respectfully suggest you go away and have a long hard hard look at yourself and what you want from your life.

Because rn you appear deeply unhappy. And I'd not wish that on anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Good bye and good luck for all your future endeavours.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Bur ul happily stick ur dick in to a woman while another man has his in her aswell?? Going by ur pics

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By *eyeYCouple
38 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Assume this is a touch of attention seeking.

Anyone reverse searched OP's images?

Frankly, hypocrisy.. Your good lady (if she exists of course) is not allowed to explore her desires whilst you indulge yours seemingly behind her back..

But, feel you're correct in this lifestyle isn't for you and very good luck in the future x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
38 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I do hope you respect your wife's boundaries about such things and give her the opportunity to make an informed decision about what she is and isn't comfortable with too

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
38 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

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By *TG3Man
38 weeks ago

Dorchester

Thinking is a must on here

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By *obilebottomMan
38 weeks ago

All over

What exactly is the purpose of this thread. Genuine question. Is it like a group message to friends and acquaintances that you are leaving?

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By *oiluvfunMan
38 weeks ago

Penrith

The countdown to UNLOS begins…….

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By *TG3Man
38 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I've been looking at this swingers world but definitely not for me!

Well I mean I won't be comfortable to know that someone sticked his dick in my wife and after I have to do it, no I can't and I'll never can.

Also seen a video with a couple where his wife were rimming and another guy, well I'll never kiss my partner if she would do something like that.

Anyway I know that in the end is about boundaries and stuff but is that so much you can loose and nearly nothing to gain from this game.

I think is definitely not for me

At least I had a look around chat with a few people (weird) but I can't be part of this world as I don't want to regret it later! "
where a condom and don't do oral sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Oh, there’s more to this than meets the eye!

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
38 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"I've been looking at this swingers world but definitely not for me!

Well I mean I won't be comfortable to know that someone sticked his dick in my wife and after I have to do it, no I can't and I'll never can.

Also seen a video with a couple where his wife were rimming and another guy, well I'll never kiss my partner if she would do something like that.

Anyway I know that in the end is about boundaries and stuff but is that so much you can loose and nearly nothing to gain from this game.

I think is definitely not for me

At least I had a look around chat with a few people (weird) but I can't be part of this world as I don't want to regret it later! "

Judgemental attitudes have no place in the swingers world so maybe you're right, maybe swinging isn't for you

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By *rgasmicChemistryCouple
38 weeks ago

east coast


"Well it isn't for you that's fine cheating isn't for me - you can't watch your wife be pounded and go in but your happy to go around pounding others then back to your wife.

Gotta love the double standards here.

I hope she finds your profile & sets one up of her own and has the time of her life.

Mrs "

Well said

High 5 x J

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

So you are happy to go and be all over another woman, put your dick in her, have her fanny in your face, then go back to your wife who has no idea what you're up to, yet you wouldn't your wife doing that with another man...hmmmmm. Strange logic there mate!

It's much better to swing than it is to cheat, just saying.

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By *ellhungvweMan
38 weeks ago

Cheltenham

OP - it has taken you 6 months of being here to come to this earth shattering view?

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

No pressure, mate. Give us your wife's number

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
38 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Crocs.

That’s all I’m saying.

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By *ruceyyMan
38 weeks ago

London


"So you are happy to go and be all over another woman, put your dick in her, have her fanny in your face, then go back to your wife who has no idea what you're up to, yet you wouldn't your wife doing that with another man...hmmmmm. Strange logic there mate!

It's much better to swing than it is to cheat, just saying."

Urgh fanny in face. I miss it

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
38 weeks ago

Southampton


"So you are happy to go and be all over another woman, put your dick in her, have her fanny in your face, then go back to your wife who has no idea what you're up to, yet you wouldn't your wife doing that with another man...hmmmmm. Strange logic there mate!

It's much better to swing than it is to cheat, just saying.

Urgh fanny in face. I miss it "

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By *rispyDuckMan
38 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I’m just hear for the comments hahaha

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