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Begging for a meet !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have had this a lot lately, which is not a sexy thing to do guys

I know it's hard for you all as we constantly see it in the forums, about not getting this that and the other. But you need to look at the way you message us ladies, most of us are not up for "One liner's" especially "Chat up lines"

Be nice, be respectful and not go off charging like a bull wanting to get our knickers down as soon as you lay eyes on our photos.

So no more begging please as it gets you blocked......

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

So that's a 'no' then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy beg for a meet even after I told him he was too far, just comes across as desperate then

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

We all get it. I just dont reply and block. Its easy enough to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy beg for a meet even after I told him he was too far, just comes across as desperate then "

did u misspell fat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had this a lot lately, which is not a sexy thing to do guys

I know it's hard for you all as we constantly see it in the forums, about not getting this that and the other. But you need to look at the way you message us ladies, most of us are not up for "One liner's" especially "Chat up lines"

Be nice, be respectful and not go off charging like a bull wanting to get our knickers down as soon as you lay eyes on our photos.

So no more begging please as it gets you blocked......

"

Never begged and never will. Am not that desperate. A meet would be nice every now and again but I certainly wouldn't beg , I have to much self repect

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

This not excusively a single male issue I can assure you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy beg for a meet even after I told him he was too far, just comes across as desperate then

did u misspell fat? "

No I didn't as he was well over the hours distance

Besides I like em a bit cuddly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say there isn't a handful of women I'd actually meet off here and I can't understand men's desperation. I think more wanking and clarity of thought is needed by the make population. I think people forget it's just a website and not real life hello all I'm back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got offered money for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy beg for a meet even after I told him he was too far, just comes across as desperate then "

With u being so sexy I'd say x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont resort to begging. Im new on here anyway..Ill message the lady/couple and if they are interested then they will message me back..simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This not excusively a single male issue I can assure you..."

100% agree. I've turned couples down and you would think the world is about to end the way they carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They get blocked if they show signs of desperation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i got offered money for a meet"

See there are alot of desperate men about who will offer money!! take it and run if a woman offered me cash for sex id do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This not excusively a single male issue I can assure you...

100% agree. I've turned couples down and you would think the world is about to end the way they carry on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This not excusively a single male issue I can assure you...

100% agree. I've turned couples down and you would think the world is about to end the way they carry on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This not excusively a single male issue I can assure you...

100% agree. I've turned couples down and you would think the world is about to end the way they carry on "

As a single guy now, I have found that couples are FAR worse than single women when it comes to the abuse you get when you say 'No'. Had one do this a week or so ago, and it really came over as the guy thought he was doing ME a favour letting me fuck his missus! Got news for him... BLOCKED (and reported )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been offered holidays, meets in top class hotels etc etc etc.

One guy even said to that he wanted to be his only one and that he set me with a place to stay..... ERRRR what about my children and other life.

Above all else by even reading his message i felt like a high class prostitute

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They get blocked if they show signs of desperation. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been offered holidays, meets in top class hotels etc etc etc.

One guy even said to that he wanted to be his only one and that he set me with a place to stay..... ERRRR what about my children and other life.

Above all else by even reading his message i felt like a high class prostitute

"

high class...ayeright!

oops..I better run now..fast!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only time I beg is if I'm already on my knees... But that's a different story

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been offered holidays, meets in top class hotels etc etc etc.

One guy even said to that he wanted to be his only one and that he set me with a place to stay..... ERRRR what about my children and other life.

Above all else by even reading his message i felt like a high class prostitute !-

high class...ayeright!

oops..I better run now..fast! "

Mmmmmmm I am sure i could use the power of persuasion to slow you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been offered holidays, meets in top class hotels etc etc etc.

One guy even said to that he wanted to be his only one and that he set me with a place to stay..... ERRRR what about my children and other life.

Above all else by even reading his message i felt like a high class prostitute !-

high class...ayeright!

oops..I better run now..fast!

Mmmmmmm I am sure i could use the power of persuasion to slow you down

"

Lump of concrete and a chain would be better.... It's a language they understand in Glasgowshire...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only time I beg is if I'm already on my knees... But that's a different story "

Now that's an image that's going to affect my driving this afternoon!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only time I beg is if I'm already on my knees... But that's a different story

Now that's an image that's going to affect my driving this afternoon!!!! "

Oooops sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This not excusively a single male issue I can assure you..."

And don't I know it !! Can I get off my knees now please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only time I beg is if I'm already on my knees... But that's a different story

Now that's an image that's going to affect my driving this afternoon!!!!

Oooops sorry "

Apology accepted Still got the image though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must be pretty desperate bless em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This not excusively a single male issue I can assure you...

100% agree. I've turned couples down and you would think the world is about to end the way they carry on

As a single guy now, I have found that couples are FAR worse than single women when it comes to the abuse you get when you say 'No'. Had one do this a week or so ago, and it really came over as the guy thought he was doing ME a favour letting me fuck his missus! Got news for him... BLOCKED (and reported )"

I have had this a lot , its all about ego's . They are not doing me a favour at all . Supposed to be mutual and fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been offered holidays, meets in top class hotels etc etc etc.

One guy even said to that he wanted to be his only one and that he set me with a place to stay..... ERRRR what about my children and other life.

Above all else by even reading his message i felt like a high class prostitute

"
I get this alot too here .... and i bet 1000s of others do too ... And i bet if we said yes thay would run a mile , lol All words i bet to make them feel top dog , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would annoy the tits off me if people wouldnt take no for an answer. It might be a pain not getting the number of messages women do but it must be worse getting begging ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This not excusively a single male issue I can assure you...

100% agree. I've turned couples down and you would think the world is about to end the way they carry on

As a single guy now, I have found that couples are FAR worse than single women when it comes to the abuse you get when you say 'No'. Had one do this a week or so ago, and it really came over as the guy thought he was doing ME a favour letting me fuck his missus! Got news for him... BLOCKED (and reported )

I have had this a lot , its all about ego's . They are not doing me a favour at all . Supposed to be mutual and fun"

Exactly, but these days some think they are far too 'mutual' than others... lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This not excusively a single male issue I can assure you..."

cant say ive ever been begged by a couple or female..

plenty of males.. plenty

i think the deseperation comes from the fact males are so outnumbered.. lets face it why would a couple or woman need ot beg when they have so many to choose from??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This not excusively a single male issue I can assure you...

100% agree. I've turned couples down and you would think the world is about to end the way they carry on

As a single guy now, I have found that couples are FAR worse than single women when it comes to the abuse you get when you say 'No'. Had one do this a week or so ago, and it really came over as the guy thought he was doing ME a favour letting me fuck his missus! Got news for him... BLOCKED (and reported )"

it was the male of the couple giving u grief u say??......... interesting

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"This not excusively a single male issue I can assure you...

cant say ive ever been begged by a couple or female..

plenty of males.. plenty

i think the deseperation comes from the fact males are so outnumbered.. lets face it why would a couple or woman need ot beg when they have so many to choose from??"

Maybe begging is a tad extreme but I've certainly had desperate and pushy before.

There are more men doing it because there are more men on here. Cunts is cunts yo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bugger

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"We all get it. I just dont reply and block. Its easy enough to do"

My tactics too.....

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I love it when they get all arsey and say something like 'your loss'. Erm, no. Can't lose something I never had or never had any intention of having.

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By *onboy777Man
over a year ago

Newark

Begging for a meet gives out a signal of desperation and must be the biggest turn off !! I think some on here forget just because you chat and flirt does not mean you will end up meeting so you should chill and go with the flow not pressurise anyone into a meet of it happens it happens if not tough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This not excusively a single male issue I can assure you...

100% agree. I've turned couples down and you would think the world is about to end the way they carry on

As a single guy now, I have found that couples are FAR worse than single women when it comes to the abuse you get when you say 'No'. Had one do this a week or so ago, and it really came over as the guy thought he was doing ME a favour letting me fuck his missus! Got news for him... BLOCKED (and reported )

it was the male of the couple giving u grief u say??......... interesting"

Why 'interesting'? It usually is the male half of a couple who you get grief from - usually due to the fact he's trying to arrange something MMF behind her back...

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

We have been offered money for a meet twice in the last week or so. Now that is desperate. Both blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This not excusively a single male issue I can assure you...

100% agree. I've turned couples down and you would think the world is about to end the way they carry on

As a single guy now, I have found that couples are FAR worse than single women when it comes to the abuse you get when you say 'No'. Had one do this a week or so ago, and it really came over as the guy thought he was doing ME a favour letting me fuck his missus! Got news for him... BLOCKED (and reported )

it was the male of the couple giving u grief u say??......... interesting

Why 'interesting'? It usually is the male half of a couple who you get grief from - usually due to the fact he's trying to arrange something MMF behind her back... "

cos you tried to defend the single male by saying couples od it too.. yet its the male who is the desperate one of the couple.. so contridicted yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love it when they get all arsey and say something like 'your loss'. Erm, no. Can't lose something I never had or never had any intention of having."

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