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"What was it like? Was it everything you expected and more? Or not? Did you meet them again or was it a one off? " Complete and utter disaster. I had been on Fab about a week and didn't know the ropes at all. Clever pics and an imposter turned up. Absolutely no chemistry at all and couldn't wait to get out of there. That was the polite version. Meet #2 blasts that out of the water but its not for the forums. | |||
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"It was a disaster... Went to his place, he hadn't even made the bed, the dog whined outside the bedroom the whole time, he came during foreplay (on him) then said he couldn't manage any more, wouldn't even play with me, so called me a taxi home. I left mine at 6, was back home by 8. Took me longer to get ready! He had great veris... I was expecting a whole evening of fun. " Oh Christ on a bike what a tit. | |||
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"What was it like? Was it everything you expected and more? Or not? Did you meet them again or was it a one off? " i met my first evwr fab meet for over a year | |||
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"It was the only time I went straight to a meet and didn’t have a social. We had been chatting for a while and I met him at a hotel. I was very fortunate and I had a great time and met him a few times after but distance and availability was an issue. I wouldn’t meet now with out a social first though." That was my meet #2. She told me her car packed in and couldn't make it but I should go round hers. FFS. Never again. Trading standards should've got involved as she again did not look like her pics. I was going to meet a Nigella Lawson lookalike and she was like Sam Smith in that rubber suit. I still have nightmares. | |||
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"It was a disaster... Went to his place, he hadn't even made the bed, the dog whined outside the bedroom the whole time, he came during foreplay (on him) then said he couldn't manage any more, wouldn't even play with me, so called me a taxi home. I left mine at 6, was back home by 8. Took me longer to get ready! He had great veris... I was expecting a whole evening of fun. " Oh dammm.... I feel for you ... At least play with the lady till early morning hours | |||
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"A year something ago. It was terrible, bad experience " Please do tell us more | |||
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"What was it like? Was it everything you expected and more? Or not? Did you meet them again or was it a one off? " Great question Spur of the moment First fell through. So arranged a meet thinking it would not happen. Also had never done any of what we had just arranged. Was so nervous Guy was so nice Had a great time and excellent first experience. But definitely nervous Broke almost all the rules we had spoken about ?? Met again and it's so relaxed no nerves now And more experienced | |||
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"Ha ha no! Our fist very nervous social was with a single guy for a lunchtime drink and chat. He spent an hour talking about the difficulties of getting there with traffic, his motorbike and his extensive experience “breaking in” couples. He barely glanced at Elle despite her pretty much unbuttoning her blouse and parting her legs opposite him! Obviously as soon as he got home he sent the 3 page essay of what he would have done to her if only he’d had a chance! " Did you meet him again? | |||
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"Ha ha no! Our fist very nervous social was with a single guy for a lunchtime drink and chat. He spent an hour talking about the difficulties of getting there with traffic, his motorbike and his extensive experience “breaking in” couples. He barely glanced at Elle despite her pretty much unbuttoning her blouse and parting her legs opposite him! Obviously as soon as he got home he sent the 3 page essay of what he would have done to her if only he’d had a chance! Did you meet him again? " No! Although he still messages us from time to time. | |||
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"What was it like? Was it everything you expected and more? Or not? Did you meet them again or was it a one off? " It was great fun. We didn’t expect anything so the mind blowing kinky sex we had until the early hours was more, so much more. Yes, but we never had sex again. I’d still call her a friend. If you happen to read this… Hi villanelle | |||
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"What was it like? Was it everything you expected and more? Or not? Did you meet them again or was it a one off? " I’ve never been lucky enough to get to that point, all my experiences have been in the Club environment | |||
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"I travelled 200 miles.. he was a greek god, huge cock, 20 years younger then me! Was done in 5 mins, zipped up, left riom and didnt even want a shower .. i had to go find someone else in hotel to finish me off." . Eugh, this is my fear | |||
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"What was it like? Was it everything you expected and more? Or not? Did you meet them again or was it a one off? " Was nervous the first time as I did not know what to expect. She was as well. Went very well after we had a cuppa and saw ourselves multiple times until she moved away with work. Still meet up when she's around. | |||
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"Not great. Condom got stuck inside me and the guy fucked off leaving me to deal with it." | |||
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"A year something ago. It was terrible, bad experience " I hope you had better experience since then. Quality fun is worth it. | |||
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"What was it like? Was it everything you expected and more? Or not? Did you meet them again or was it a one off? " First ever meet wasn't from fab but the old dogging site. She’s on here too so I’ll class it as from fab. Met for a social in ikea. She had her young child so left them in the soft play area then came up to meet me. Had a cuppa and a really good chat. Arranged to meet for some fun, was hot and how I expected. We met several times over the years. Haven’t for a long time now sexually but met last year for a coffee and catch up. She’s one of my favourites and a good friend. Would play with her again if the opportunity arose | |||
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"A year or something ago. It was a terrible, bad experience Please do tell us more " At that time I hadn't had any experience with another man besides my partner, for 22 years. So I was nervous but burning with desire. I was spending the summer in France, he was here in London. We chatted for almost two months. He was so seductive with words giving me every detail of what he going to do with me, kissing me tasting me for hours until make me begged him. I was on fire. Finally, he met me in a cheap hotel, arriving one hour later and looking 15 years younger. In a rush, he pushed me over the bed, not even taking my clothes off, and cum inside in 5 minutes. Then he fell asleep. When I left the room he was still sleeping. I decided to take the card with me and make the checkout. The next day he texted me he woke up in the middle of the night and nothing was working in the room, not even the lights. Blocked. Good lesson. Now, every young lad who texts me saying he is an Alpha stallion who could read a book while he is down on me, instantly deleted. Average, dadbod, mature, charming men, not promising anything more than a good time and connection, my favourites. | |||
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"A year or something ago. It was a terrible, bad experience Please do tell us more At that time I hadn't had any experience with another man besides my partner, for 22 years. So I was nervous but burning with desire. I was spending the summer in France, he was here in London. We chatted for almost two months. He was so seductive with words giving me every detail of what he going to do with me, kissing me tasting me for hours until make me begged him. I was on fire. Finally, he met me in a cheap hotel, arriving one hour later and looking 15 years younger. In a rush, he pushed me over the bed, not even taking my clothes off, and cum inside in 5 minutes. Then he fell asleep. When I left the room he was still sleeping. I decided to take the card with me and make the checkout. The next day he texted me he woke up in the middle of the night and nothing was working in the room, not even the lights. Blocked. Good lesson. Now, every young lad who texts me saying he is an Alpha stallion who could read a book while he is down on me, instantly deleted. Average, dadbod, mature, charming men, not promising anything more than a good time and connection, my favourites. " lol a mini win taking the room card | |||
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"It was a disaster... Went to his place, he hadn't even made the bed, the dog whined outside the bedroom the whole time, he came during foreplay (on him) then said he couldn't manage any more, wouldn't even play with me, so called me a taxi home. I left mine at 6, was back home by 8. Took me longer to get ready! He had great veris... I was expecting a whole evening of fun. " Damn.. I just checked the dictionary under 'anticlimax' and found this post. | |||
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"A year or something ago. It was a terrible, bad experience Please do tell us more At that time I hadn't had any experience with another man besides my partner, for 22 years. So I was nervous but burning with desire. I was spending the summer in France, he was here in London. We chatted for almost two months. He was so seductive with words giving me every detail of what he going to do with me, kissing me tasting me for hours until make me begged him. I was on fire. Finally, he met me in a cheap hotel, arriving one hour later and looking 15 years younger. In a rush, he pushed me over the bed, not even taking my clothes off, and cum inside in 5 minutes. Then he fell asleep. When I left the room he was still sleeping. I decided to take the card with me and make the checkout. The next day he texted me he woke up in the middle of the night and nothing was working in the room, not even the lights. Blocked. Good lesson. Now, every young lad who texts me saying he is an Alpha stallion who could read a book while he is down on me, instantly deleted. Average, dadbod, mature, charming men, not promising anything more than a good time and connection, my favourites. " Haha that’s hilarious! (The taking the card part!) | |||
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"A year or something ago. It was a terrible, bad experience Please do tell us more At that time I hadn't had any experience with another man besides my partner, for 22 years. So I was nervous but burning with desire. I was spending the summer in France, he was here in London. We chatted for almost two months. He was so seductive with words giving me every detail of what he going to do with me, kissing me tasting me for hours until make me begged him. I was on fire. Finally, he met me in a cheap hotel, arriving one hour later and looking 15 years younger. In a rush, he pushed me over the bed, not even taking my clothes off, and cum inside in 5 minutes. Then he fell asleep. When I left the room he was still sleeping. I decided to take the card with me and make the checkout. The next day he texted me he woke up in the middle of the night and nothing was working in the room, not even the lights. Blocked. Good lesson. Now, every young lad who texts me saying he is an Alpha stallion who could read a book while he is down on me, instantly deleted. Average, dadbod, mature, charming men, not promising anything more than a good time and connection, my favourites. Haha that’s hilarious! (The taking the card part!) " Nothing worse than a woman scorned | |||
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"A year or something ago. It was a terrible, bad experience Please do tell us more At that time I hadn't had any experience with another man besides my partner, for 22 years. So I was nervous but burning with desire. I was spending the summer in France, he was here in London. We chatted for almost two months. He was so seductive with words giving me every detail of what he going to do with me, kissing me tasting me for hours until make me begged him. I was on fire. Finally, he met me in a cheap hotel, arriving one hour later and looking 15 years younger. In a rush, he pushed me over the bed, not even taking my clothes off, and cum inside in 5 minutes. Then he fell asleep. When I left the room he was still sleeping. I decided to take the card with me and make the checkout. The next day he texted me he woke up in the middle of the night and nothing was working in the room, not even the lights. Blocked. Good lesson. Now, every young lad who texts me saying he is an Alpha stallion who could read a book while he is down on me, instantly deleted. Average, dadbod, mature, charming men, not promising anything more than a good time and connection, my favourites. Haha that’s hilarious! (The taking the card part!) Nothing worse than a woman scorned " Wow what a dick | |||
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"Ha ha no! Our fist very nervous social was with a single guy for a lunchtime drink and chat. He spent an hour talking about the difficulties of getting there with traffic, his motorbike and his extensive experience “breaking in” couples. He barely glanced at Elle despite her pretty much unbuttoning her blouse and parting her legs opposite him! Obviously as soon as he got home he sent the 3 page essay of what he would have done to her if only he’d had a chance! " Classic | |||
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"Tragic Nothing like I expected Nope never again although he tried I’ve tried to erase it from my memory and think of my second meet as my first " We deffo want more details | |||
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"As a new to the scene couple without a first meet we are loving this topic thanks for sharing. The bad meets sound awful but the good meets sound amazing " Whoever's meeting you will love your arse I know I do | |||
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"Tragic Nothing like I expected Nope never again although he tried I’ve tried to erase it from my memory and think of my second meet as my first We deffo want more details " No chance | |||
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"Awful awful awful. It was my first ever social meet as a single woman, and I was naive enough to meet for a dinner. We messaged for a while before and he was polite and friendly so I had no reason to worry. I was a bit late due to taxi shortage (it was some kind of bank holiday) but I let him know I’m going to be later than expected and he was okay with it. When I arrived to the restaurant I said to the waiter I’m going to meet so and so (his name) and if they would point me to his table. The waiter asked “How well do you know him and are you sure you want to meet him?” This rang an alarm bells a little but as I walked in already, I said yes, what could go wrong He looked at least 10 years older than his pictures, shorter than me and was completely d*unk. As people pleaser as I am, I decided to stay and not to make a scene (I know). After a short while I decided to order a taxi back home but he got really annoyed and started yelling to the point the waiter told him to leave and I cried all my way back home. Not a great start, but lesson learned. " Nightmare! I loved the waiter, a hero x | |||
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"My first ever fab meet was a car meet with someone I had been chatting with (wouldn't do this now but I was recently divorced and horny ). However it wss fantastic and we met up a on and off over the years. However my latest meet made me feel very unsafe - even after a social and his great veris so I guess it's luck of the draw " I'm glad your first meet went well, but I'm sorry to hear your latest meet made you feel very unsafe. Hopefully, it was a one-off and your next meet is good. Nonetheless, it sure does highlight how risky meets can be sometimes | |||
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