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Marriage Across Social Divides

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Is a marriage across social divides doomed for failure? If a man with wealth marries someone from a poor background then in the back of his mind does he worry about his wealth and introducing her to his friends ad peers.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
48 weeks ago

in Lancashire


"Is a marriage across social divides doomed for failure? If a man or woman with wealth marries someone from a poor background then in the back of their minds do they worry about the others wealth and introducing him/her to their friends ad peers.

"

Ftfy ..

Don't know tbh..

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By *abioMan
48 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I had an ex who was an ardent Spurs fan… does that count?

She said it wasn’t funny when I got a whole train carriage of arsenal fans to laugh at her over the phone after a cup semi final

Apparently that was “needlessly cruel” ……

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
48 weeks ago

East Sussex

It'll bring challenges as any marriage does.

I'm not sure why a wealthy person would worry about introducing someone from a less well off background to their friends and family though.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

What prenups are for.

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Is it about her knowing how to hold a knife and fork. Table manners are very important to some and being able to hold small talk with the other wives when the men are discussing other things.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
48 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Is it about her knowing how to hold a knife and fork. Table manners are very important to some and being able to hold small talk with the other wives when the men are discussing other things. "

Well if she'd been a scullery maid she would have picked these things up while observing the social interaction of her employers so I'm sure it would be fine

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
48 weeks ago

Leeds


"Is it about her knowing how to hold a knife and fork. Table manners are very important to some and being able to hold small talk with the other wives when the men are discussing other things. "

I'm pretty sure poor people have table manners too.

I don't see it as an issue, I've dated people where I have been the high earner and vice versa it's never affected any relationships.

Mrs

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
48 weeks ago

in Lancashire

Was this all over the news in the 1930s?

When the women retired and chatted about flower arranging and how good the new Nanny is whilst the men drank brandy, smoked a Cuban cigar and did man talk..

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By *onameyet2Man
48 weeks ago

chorley


"Was this all over the news in the 1930s?

When the women retired and chatted about flower arranging and how good the new Nanny is whilst the men drank brandy, smoked a Cuban cigar and did man talk..

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The good old days eh

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By *eplerMan
48 weeks ago

Weybridge

I think it’s less of a challenge now than it was 60 years ago.

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By *host63Man
48 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Is a marriage across social divides doomed for failure? If a man with wealth marries someone from a poor background then in the back of his mind does he worry about his wealth and introducing her to his friends ad peers.

"

A man with Wealth can marry any woman or class he desires he wint have antsy problems.

However women only marry upwards and will be unlikely to marry a man with less means or social status.

Men are attracted to beauty and women to status. A poor but beautiful woman will always marry wealth or look for a man with higher social status.

A man has to build his by work or study.

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By *ellinever70Woman
48 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"Is a marriage across social divides doomed for failure? If a man with wealth marries someone from a poor background then in the back of his mind does he worry about his wealth and introducing her to his friends ad peers.

A man with Wealth can marry any woman or class he desires he wint have antsy problems.

However women only marry upwards and will be unlikely to marry a man with less means or social status.

Men are attracted to beauty and women to status. A poor but beautiful woman will always marry wealth or look for a man with higher social status.

A man has to build his by work or study.

"

Well at least the poor ugly women will snap up the men that are left

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
48 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Is a marriage across social divides doomed for failure? If a man with wealth marries someone from a poor background then in the back of his mind does he worry about his wealth and introducing her to his friends ad peers.

A man with Wealth can marry any woman or class he desires he wint have antsy problems.

However women only marry upwards and will be unlikely to marry a man with less means or social status.

Men are attracted to beauty and women to status. A poor but beautiful woman will always marry wealth or look for a man with higher social status.

A man has to build his by work or study.

Well at least the poor ugly women will snap up the men that are left "

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By *host63Man
48 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Is a marriage across social divides doomed for failure? If a man with wealth marries someone from a poor background then in the back of his mind does he worry about his wealth and introducing her to his friends ad peers.

A man with Wealth can marry any woman or class he desires he wint have antsy problems.

However women only marry upwards and will be unlikely to marry a man with less means or social status.

Men are attracted to beauty and women to status. A poor but beautiful woman will always marry wealth or look for a man with higher social status.

A man has to build his by work or study.

Well at least the poor ugly women will snap up the men that are left "

It doesn't work like that either. If a woman wants a man she is always going to get one regardless of looks/body type.

It's the women that tend to set to high standards.

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By *rHotNottsMan
48 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Is it about her knowing how to hold a knife and fork. Table manners are very important to some and being able to hold small talk with the other wives when the men are discussing other things. "

If those things were that important to you then why would you marry someone without them ?

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By *icolerobbieCouple
48 weeks ago

walsall


"Is a marriage across social divides doomed for failure? If a man with wealth marries someone from a poor background then in the back of his mind does he worry about his wealth and introducing her to his friends ad peers.

"

Have you been reading George Bernard shaws work again Tom?

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Chelmsford


"Is a marriage across social divides doomed for failure? If a man with wealth marries someone from a poor background then in the back of his mind does he worry about his wealth and introducing her to his friends ad peers.

Have you been reading George Bernard shaws work again Tom?

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Tom is more of a writer than a reader

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By *icolerobbieCouple
48 weeks ago

walsall


"Is a marriage across social divides doomed for failure? If a man with wealth marries someone from a poor background then in the back of his mind does he worry about his wealth and introducing her to his friends ad peers.

Have you been reading George Bernard shaws work again Tom?

Tom is more of a writer than a reader "

That, he is!

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
48 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

There is also the language barrier to consider, have you heard the way some women from common backgrounds speak, it’s almost indecipherable.

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
48 weeks ago

Hell


"Is a marriage across social divides doomed for failure? If a man with wealth marries someone from a poor background then in the back of his mind does he worry about his wealth and introducing her to his friends ad peers.

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My ex husband came from a very wealthy background whilst I grew up in a council house.

However, I turned out to be a grafter while he turned out to be a work shy scumbag and a criminal to boot.

No wonder it failed

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By *ermite12ukMan
48 weeks ago

Solihull and Brentwood


"A man with Wealth can marry any woman or class he desires he wint have antsy problems.

However women only marry upwards and will be unlikely to marry a man with less means or social status.

Men are attracted to beauty and women to status. A poor but beautiful woman will always marry wealth or look for a man with higher social status.

A man has to build his by work or study.

"

Someone needs to fire up the quattro and go back to the 70's. Jus sayin.

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By *estarossa.Woman
48 weeks ago

Flagrante


"Is it about her knowing how to hold a knife and fork. Table manners are very important to some and being able to hold small talk with the other wives when the men are discussing other things. "

Downton Abbey called, they want their plot back!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
48 weeks ago

in Lancashire


"There is also the language barrier to consider, have you heard the way some women from common backgrounds speak, it’s almost indecipherable. "

Innit..

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By *lder.Woman
48 weeks ago

Not Local

In 1880 maybe.

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