FabSwingers.com forum: Would it be a good idea

By *parkle1974 OP Woman
38 weeks ago

Leeds

To be able to see who's got you on their hotlist....or not? x

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
38 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Nope. No way no thanks.

But as a compromise … how about being able to see how many hotlists you’re on? No names, just a number.

Maybe even a number broken down into men, women, TV/TS, and couples.

That would be fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

No. It would lead to massive blockage.

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By *ltrMan
38 weeks ago

sheffield

"Nope. No way no thanks.

But as a compromise … how about being able to see how many hotlists you’re on? No names, just a number.

Maybe even a number broken down into men, women, TV/TS, and couples.

That would be fun."

Definitely like this idea

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"Yes. "

I’ve fabbed enough photos on fab to give a profile and idea that I had them on a watch list for a while. Or maybe not now I’ve just typed it, because I’m sure my 1 fab is lost in the hundreds that get them on page 1

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Nah, being on my hotlist and not knowing means I can keep the fantasy of there being mutual interest. Schroedinger's Fab so to speak

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
38 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'm an accidental hotlister, it probably wouldn't be a good idea

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By *ora the explorerWoman
38 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Noooooo. People are on mine for all sorts of reasons. I probably wouldn’t use it if it were public

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
38 weeks ago

Bristol

"Nah, being on my hotlist and not knowing means I can keep the fantasy of there being mutual interest. Schroedinger's Fab so to speak

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By *elix SightedMan
38 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"Noooooo. People are on mine for all sorts of reasons. I probably wouldn’t use it if it were public "

Exactly this.

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By *valanche1001Man
38 weeks ago

Leeds

Nope, you think your inbox is bad now?? I can only imagine the carnage!

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By *uliette500Woman
38 weeks ago

Hull

No thanks. If that came in I'd never use my hot list

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
38 weeks ago

Leeds

"Nope. No way no thanks.

But as a compromise … how about being able to see how many hotlists you’re on? No names, just a number.

Maybe even a number broken down into men, women, TV/TS, and couples.

That would be fun."

That's a good one

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By *osey WalesMan
38 weeks ago

Surrey

You are on my hotlist.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
38 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

There is no one on my hot list anymore, so it doesn't really affect me

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By *cunnylassCouple
38 weeks ago

Exeter

I think it's actually a notlist for some!

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By *agnar73Man
38 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"To be able to see who's got you on their hotlist....or not? x"

No. I think I’d stop using it.

I have very few on it and the rest are to see updates of. Clubs and events.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Central

Perhaps users could opt to have their list made public or not, that would be fairer

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By *heGateKeeperMan
38 weeks ago

Stratford

No unless you have two options:

a) hide my hotlist

b) notify someone of when I add them to my hotlist

A bit like how you used to be able to see people’s Friends list. I like the idea of anonymous nunbers/groupings though

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By *oo..Woman
38 weeks ago

Boo's World

Nope!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
38 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Oh gods no.

Half of my hotlist is the psychosis/car crash entertainment. I'd feel bad if they thought they were there for the same reasons as the actually hot ones

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By *eroLondonMan
38 weeks ago

Covent Garden

No.

In any case if that happened that would be the death knell for those "Who's On Your Hotlist" threads. And we can't have that can we?

Also, Fab should create a HotLust facility to quench my insatiable desires for all the sexy quaintrelles on here.

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By *alico_KittyWoman
38 weeks ago

Kittys Lane

Definitely not a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Mine is a mix... Also I'd have to stop stalking some hotties

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By *osey WalesMan
38 weeks ago

Surrey

"Mine is a mix... Also I'd have to stop stalking some hotties

Your stalking of me can continue regardless

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
38 weeks ago

Reading

"Nope. No way no thanks.

But as a compromise … how about being able to see how many hotlists you’re on? No names, just a number.

Maybe even a number broken down into men, women, TV/TS, and couples.

That would be fun."

I think that would make me cry.

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By *iddlesticksMan
38 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

I think it would be very useful. If you saw that there were people you were uncomfortable with on there at least you’d know.

It could be a way that somebody could catch your eye too.

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By *obilebottomMan
38 weeks ago

All over

I have no idea who they are

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By *iddlesticksMan
38 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"[profiles Removed from hotlist by poster at 29/02/24 15:49:42]"

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Hotlist/Hitlist.

Potato/potato.

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By *dventuresofLandSCouple
38 weeks ago

Lincoln

Oh we'd like that. We've no shame in our hotlist and I'm sure the people on it find it a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I'd prefer not to know tbh....Cos I use my hotlist to follow people not just for peeps I find hot....I basically use it for my Not List, Hit List

& Hot List....& Possibly to do list....

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
38 weeks ago

Leeds

No, I like to perve in peace & undetectable.

Mrs

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By *ealitybitesMan
38 weeks ago

Belfast

No because I've never used it as a hotlist.

If there is ever anyone on it I'm using it as a notlist for reasons that don't require a discussion here so the last thing I would want is those profiles knowing or thinking they were on my hotlist.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
38 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

I don't think so.

There's a least 2 of you on my hotlist on this thread. One ranked at #2, the other at #4 in the whole of Fabdom.

You can see it if you have the Diamond Membership anyway.

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By *osey WalesMan
38 weeks ago

Surrey

"I don't think so.

There's a least 2 of you on my hotlist on this thread. One ranked at #2, the other at #4 in the whole of Fabdom.

You can see it if you have the Diamond Membership anyway. "

I thought you had hotlist access with platinum. So you get it at diamond too.

Interesting

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By *eroLondonMan
38 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"I don't think so.

There's a least 2 of you on my hotlist on this thread. One ranked at #2, the other at #4 in the whole of Fabdom.

You can see it if you have the Diamond Membership anyway.

I thought you had hotlist access with platinum. So you get it at diamond too.

Interesting "

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No, he's wrong. Diamond membership, whilst it's an admirable tier to have, doesn't give you that feature.

Platinum membership does, but Platinum is by invitation only.

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By *host63Man
38 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

"To be able to see who's got you on their hotlist....or not? x"

It would be nice if it makes th chances of meeting easier.

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By *ife NinjaMan
38 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Yes. Make it spicy

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
38 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I think it would be fun.

At least for the first 5 minutes.....

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
38 weeks ago

Maidstone

Oh god no. How depressing would that be!

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

So what happens on the site when a woman puts a man on her hotlist, or takes a man off her hotlist? What is the average Fab man going to do in those situations? Personally, I would want more privacy. I think online status should be optional

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

If you have me on your hotlist just send me a friend request

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By *ookie46Woman
38 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"Noooooo. People are on mine for all sorts of reasons. I probably wouldn’t use it if it were public "

Twinnys in more than one way

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By *ittle. BeaverWoman
38 weeks ago

Launceston

Hell no! Ninja mode only thanks! ??

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By *layfullsamMan
38 weeks ago

Solihull

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By *olkiMan
38 weeks ago

somewhere

"To be able to see who's got you on their hotlist....or not? x"

Yes I'd love to see if I was on anyone's hotlist

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By *elix SightedMan
38 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"Noooooo. People are on mine for all sorts of reasons. I probably wouldn’t use it if it were public

Twinnys in more than one way

Oooo Nora and cookie. Yummy!

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Nooooooo!

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By *ake_or_deathMan
38 weeks ago

Manchester

It'd be lose-lose for me - it would confirm that I'm not on anybody's hotlist and it would mean people can see that they're on mine.

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