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"….. Does anyone think that being here can be more damaging than good? Is it just a case of finding people who have similar mindsets to you or not? X" It’s not negative on me, it’s my mindset that’s detrimental if I have a good time in here, whenever I’ve felt in the wrong place, I’d leave. And of course it’s finding people that you get along with, I’ve got a LOT of fantasies, and I’m a little bit kinky, I’m still hoping to meet someone that matches what I want in a sexual relationship . Here, or anywhere else  | |||
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"I think being on here has had some negative effects tbh I've never been more put off men in my life. I don't trust anything anyone says because people will say anything to get a fuck. I've most definitely become more cynical after joining here. But on the upside it hasn't put me off the ladies they are much better behaved. Mrs " Look - all I said was SOME people enjoy the Alabama Hot Pocket. I neither suggested, implied, nor persuaded you of its merits. That being said, ever been to Alabama?   | |||
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"I honestly think that being on this site induces more fantasy play than I have ever had, my mind is a seriously terrible place for ideas of rp and fantasy ideas and just being here seems to kick that side of me into action more than it should. Does anyone think that being here can be more damaging than good? Is it just a case of finding people who have similar mindsets to you or not? X" Can u just confirm please what rp is?? Role play yes? Not the other word | |||
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"I honestly think that being on this site induces more fantasy play than I have ever had, my mind is a seriously terrible place for ideas of rp and fantasy ideas and just being here seems to kick that side of me into action more than it should. Does anyone think that being here can be more damaging than good? Is it just a case of finding people who have similar mindsets to you or not? X Can u just confirm please what rp is?? Role play yes? Not the other word" Yes role play, not sure of another word  feel free to elaborate though x | |||
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"I think being on here has had some negative effects tbh I've never been more put off men in my life. I don't trust anything anyone says because people will say anything to get a fuck. I've most definitely become more cynical after joining here. But on the upside it hasn't put me off the ladies they are much better behaved. Mrs " Hmm yea I get that too, it can make you more cautious too x | |||
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"….. Does anyone think that being here can be more damaging than good? Is it just a case of finding people who have similar mindsets to you or not? X It’s not negative on me, it’s my mindset that’s detrimental if I have a good time in here, whenever I’ve felt in the wrong place, I’d leave. And of course it’s finding people that you get along with, I’ve got a LOT of fantasies, and I’m a little bit kinky, I’m still hoping to meet someone that matches what I want in a sexual relationship . Here, or anywhere else "Would be a very nice situation but also seems quite impossible here from my experience, have been on and off here for years searching x | |||
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"It’s definitely switched us on to thinking about sex more and therefore trying new things and enjoying them and so trying further things. I can see it having a detrimental effect if you were single and not getting the opportunities to realise these fantasies. K" Would you mind explaining yourself on the second part please? | |||
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"It’s definitely switched us on to thinking about sex more and therefore trying new things and enjoying them and so trying further things. I can see it having a detrimental effect if you were single and not getting the opportunities to realise these fantasies. K Would you mind explaining yourself on the second part please?" He thinks you’re going to wank yourself silly. | |||
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"It’s definitely switched us on to thinking about sex more and therefore trying new things and enjoying them and so trying further things. I can see it having a detrimental effect if you were single and not getting the opportunities to realise these fantasies. K Would you mind explaining yourself on the second part please? He thinks you’re going to wank yourself silly. " Oh God, we don't want that to happen. Help me Hippy before it's too late | |||
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"It’s definitely switched us on to thinking about sex more and therefore trying new things and enjoying them and so trying further things. I can see it having a detrimental effect if you were single and not getting the opportunities to realise these fantasies. K Would you mind explaining yourself on the second part please? He thinks you’re going to wank yourself silly. Oh God, we don't want that to happen. Help me Hippy before it's too late" Sorry, I’m too busy wanking myself silly  | |||
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"It’s definitely switched us on to thinking about sex more and therefore trying new things and enjoying them and so trying further things. I can see it having a detrimental effect if you were single and not getting the opportunities to realise these fantasies. K Would you mind explaining yourself on the second part please? He thinks you’re going to wank yourself silly. Oh God, we don't want that to happen. Help me Hippy before it's too late Sorry, I’m too busy wanking myself silly "That's fair enough. Enjoy x | |||
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"It’s definitely switched us on to thinking about sex more and therefore trying new things and enjoying them and so trying further things. I can see it having a detrimental effect if you were single and not getting the opportunities to realise these fantasies. K Would you mind explaining yourself on the second part please? He thinks you’re going to wank yourself silly. Oh God, we don't want that to happen. Help me Hippy before it's too late Sorry, I’m too busy wanking myself silly
That's fair enough.
Enjoy x"I’lll be thinking of you  | |||
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"It’s definitely switched us on to thinking about sex more and therefore trying new things and enjoying them and so trying further things. I can see it having a detrimental effect if you were single and not getting the opportunities to realise these fantasies. K Would you mind explaining yourself on the second part please? He thinks you’re going to wank yourself silly. Oh God, we don't want that to happen. Help me Hippy before it's too late Sorry, I’m too busy wanking myself silly
That's fair enough.
Enjoy x
I’lll be thinking of you "You tease! | |||
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"It’s definitely switched us on to thinking about sex more and therefore trying new things and enjoying them and so trying further things. I can see it having a detrimental effect if you were single and not getting the opportunities to realise these fantasies. K Would you mind explaining yourself on the second part please? He thinks you’re going to wank yourself silly. " He is too…he’s sent a pic to us earlier of a pic of C he copied from our gallery and defaced - god knows what he was doing to it 
Willy, I haven’t got enough crayons to explain it to you if you don’t know by now | |||
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"It can be quite scary at times knowing that pretty much any fantasy I can think of could be fulfilled here. It keeps me in check a little. " Yea exactly what I'm getting at have to be reserved x | |||
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"I honestly think that being on this site induces more fantasy play than I have ever had, my mind is a seriously terrible place for ideas of rp and fantasy ideas and just being here seems to kick that side of me into action more than it should. Does anyone think that being here can be more damaging than good? Is it just a case of finding people who have similar mindsets to you or not? X Can u just confirm please what rp is?? Role play yes? Not the other word Yes role play, not sure of another word feel free to elaborate though x"It's a banned word r*p* I'm just checking as fantasy for some can include that word. I'm in no way saying that's what you meant. I only wanted to check | |||
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"It’s definitely switched us on to thinking about sex more and therefore trying new things and enjoying them and so trying further things. I can see it having a detrimental effect if you were single and not getting the opportunities to realise these fantasies. K Would you mind explaining yourself on the second part please? He thinks you’re going to wank yourself silly. He is too…he’s sent a pic to us earlier of a pic of C he copied from our gallery and defaced - god knows what he was doing to it
Willy, I haven’t got enough crayons to explain it to you if you don’t know by now "I really don't know why you're so nasty to me all of the time. I thought this place was meant to be inclusive?
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"Does anyone think that being here can be more damaging than good? Is it just a case of finding people who have similar mindsets to you or not? X" If you know how to navigate and manage Fab contacts, then it's the best sex shop window possible. My sex life is awesome because of Fab. Without it, my sex life would not be full of variety and experience that it is. For example, OP. Your cock is pretty awesome and is a window display for anyone who should apply to enjoy it. They and you will still need to be a match, so when well managed, Fab is the best avenue to achieve that! | |||
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"I honestly think that being on this site induces more fantasy play than I have ever had, my mind is a seriously terrible place for ideas of rp and fantasy ideas and just being here seems to kick that side of me into action more than it should. Does anyone think that being here can be more damaging than good? Is it just a case of finding people who have similar mindsets to you or not? X Can u just confirm please what rp is?? Role play yes? Not the other word Yes role play, not sure of another word feel free to elaborate though x
It's a banned word r*p*
I'm just checking as fantasy for some can include that word. I'm in no way saying that's what you meant. I only wanted to check "Oh no definitely not, just the role play haha | |||
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"Does anyone think that being here can be more damaging than good? Is it just a case of finding people who have similar mindsets to you or not? X If you know how to navigate and manage Fab contacts, then it's the best sex shop window possible. My sex life is awesome because of Fab. Without it, my sex life would not be full of variety and experience that it is. For example, OP. Your cock is pretty awesome and is a window display for anyone who should apply to enjoy it. They and you will still need to be a match, so when well managed, Fab is the best avenue to achieve that!" Oh thankyou, that's nice of you to say I very much appreciate it. I guess it's then lack of people wanting to apply too I guess, it's that display of others that are so within reach but never seem to be able to have. Im glad it works for you though, It's more of a huge tease on here for me, but I do very much enjoy putting myself on display even if it is just that. I'm okay with waiting, it just teases the mind having all the eye candy I suppose x | |||
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"It’s definitely switched us on to thinking about sex more and therefore trying new things and enjoying them and so trying further things. I can see it having a detrimental effect if you were single and not getting the opportunities to realise these fantasies. K Would you mind explaining yourself on the second part please? He thinks you’re going to wank yourself silly. He is too…he’s sent a pic to us earlier of a pic of C he copied from our gallery and defaced - god knows what he was doing to it
Willy, I haven’t got enough crayons to explain it to you if you don’t know by now "Now I've calmed down a bit from your snippy response, I delve a little deeper into my polite request for you to explain yourself further. Firstly, your poor choice of the word "realise" suggested to me two different meanings in what you were trying to say? Secondly, why did you single out singles? Why do YOU believe it could be more detrimental to singles? Fantasies are personal. With couples it requires two of you to be okay with searching for that fulfillment. | |||
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"Oh thankyou, that's nice of you to say I very much appreciate it. I guess it's then lack of people wanting to apply too I guess, it's that display of others that are so within reach but never seem to be able to have. Im glad it works for you though, It's more of a huge tease on here for me, but I do very much enjoy putting myself on display even if it is just that. I'm okay with waiting, it just teases the mind having all the eye candy I suppose x" So when I say "navigate" and "manage" contacts, I have a rule never to contact profiles that don't say they are looking for TV/TS. I respect their choice, even tho loads of men without this choice contact me. But hey, there are so many men on here that it is never a level playing field. But you know uphill struggles especially need to be managed too. | |||
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"It’s definitely switched us on to thinking about sex more and therefore trying new things and enjoying them and so trying further things. I can see it having a detrimental effect if you were single and not getting the opportunities to realise these fantasies. K Would you mind explaining yourself on the second part please? He thinks you’re going to wank yourself silly. He is too…he’s sent a pic to us earlier of a pic of C he copied from our gallery and defaced - god knows what he was doing to it
Willy, I haven’t got enough crayons to explain it to you if you don’t know by now
Now I've calmed down a bit from your snippy response, I delve a little deeper into my polite request for you to explain yourself further.
Firstly, your poor choice of the word "realise" suggested to me two different meanings in what you were trying to say?
Secondly, why did you single out singles? Why do YOU believe it could be more detrimental to singles? Fantasies are personal. With couples it requires two of you to be okay with searching for that fulfillment."It wasn’t a poor choice of word - it was meant, that in a couple we have opportunities between the two of us to try different things on a regular basis, something which a lot of singles don’t have the opportunity to do, on a regular basis, unless they find another person to help ‘realise’ their fantasies. A lot of people on here moan about not getting meets, not finding time, for a multitude of different reasons why they can’t play out their fantasies they have. I was just commenting it must be harder if you’ve built up those sexual urges and you can’t play them out. Nothing malicious, no hidden meaning - just an observation 
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"It’s definitely switched us on to thinking about sex more and therefore trying new things and enjoying them and so trying further things. I can see it having a detrimental effect if you were single and not getting the opportunities to realise these fantasies. K Would you mind explaining yourself on the second part please? He thinks you’re going to wank yourself silly. He is too…he’s sent a pic to us earlier of a pic of C he copied from our gallery and defaced - god knows what he was doing to it
Willy, I haven’t got enough crayons to explain it to you if you don’t know by now
Now I've calmed down a bit from your snippy response, I delve a little deeper into my polite request for you to explain yourself further.
Firstly, your poor choice of the word "realise" suggested to me two different meanings in what you were trying to say?
Secondly, why did you single out singles? Why do YOU believe it could be more detrimental to singles? Fantasies are personal. With couples it requires two of you to be okay with searching for that fulfillment.
It wasn’t a poor choice of word - it was meant, that in a couple we have opportunities between the two of us to try different things on a regular basis, something which a lot of singles don’t have the opportunity to do, on a regular basis, unless they find another person to help ‘realise’ their fantasies.
A lot of people on here moan about not getting meets, not finding time, for a multitude of different reasons why they can’t play out their fantasies they have.
I was just commenting it must be harder if you’ve built up those sexual urges and you can’t play them out.
Nothing malicious, no hidden meaning - just an observation
K
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