FabSwingers.com forum: Age? What's your thoughts.

By *ympho girl OP Woman
43 weeks ago

Ferryden

So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger?

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

My thought on age is I wish I was younger, but would go 10 years either side of my age.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
43 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Not for me. Prefer around my age or higher.

How old is Sophia Loren again?

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By *oupleus30Couple
43 weeks ago

Minster

"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "

Not sure I could give you an answer as I have no context ours are all very young.

But H and I are 18 years apart end if the day it's just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Younger = 1/2 + 2

Older = 1/3

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By *asques and boxersCouple
43 weeks ago

Ashford and dept16

"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "

Both ours are over 30 we dont meet people the younger than them, leaves us uncomfortable silly perhaps but honest.

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By *rs BxxWoman
43 weeks ago

Chippenham, Wiltshire.

My eldest is 38, and yes I've met younger and don't see any problems with it

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By *ympho girl OP Woman
43 weeks ago

Ferryden

"My thought on age is I wish I was younger, but would go 10 years either side of my age."

Sorry u wasn't asking about age difference in general I was asking if you had adult children woukd you meet anyone their age or younger. X

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By *ympho girl OP Woman
43 weeks ago

Ferryden

"Not for me. Prefer around my age or higher.

How old is Sophia Loren again?"

Sorry I wasn't asking about age difference in general. The question was more how do people with adult children feel about would they meet anyone the same age or younger than their adult children.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
43 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

My daughter is in her early twenties. I'm not comfortable meeting anyone under 30.

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By *ympho girl OP Woman
43 weeks ago

Ferryden

"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "

Thus question isn't about age diffeence in general it's about woukd you feel comfortable or uncomfortable meeting someone the age of your adult children or younger than them.

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By *ympho girl OP Woman
43 weeks ago

Ferryden

Not silly at all. My oldest is 30 and i won't meet around that age and younger. To me it just feels weird, but have has a few disagree and don't seem to understand.. X

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By *rill PhilMan
43 weeks ago

Crediton

I don't have kids (big sad about that) but, even if I did I do believe that for the most part age is just a number. What matters to me is personality and maturity. If found that there are plenty of young women who are immensely more mature than I am.

I have dated older, and I've dated girls 15 years younger and ot always comes down to chemistry and personality.

Age is only a problem if people make it a problem.

Oh, and one of my cousins has a step daughter who is two years older than her, and that all seems fine.

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By *ympho girl OP Woman
43 weeks ago

Ferryden

Yes I'm the same..some don't like when I tell them why I won't meet and don't understand. I suppose if they are under 3p0 they aren't going to have older children and understand how weird it can feel for some x

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By *rill PhilMan
43 weeks ago

Crediton

Re-reading the OP, I would have to say I definitely wouldn't date or hook up with anyone younger than my children. I don't really like the idea of having sex with sperms or eggs! Haha

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
43 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Age ain’t nuthin’ but a number.

Emotional maturity is the thing I’m interested in. And I’ve met 20-year olds who were more ‘adult’ than some 50-year olds in that respect.

Maybe it’s easier for me to say that because I don’t have kids.

(I don’t go actively looking for anyone specifically younger or older, but I wouldn’t turn anyone away based just on age. I’d chat and see who they were regardless.)

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By *ornycougaWoman
43 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I have done. Age is irrevant. If they are hot, fun AND emotionally mature then I don't see the problem.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
43 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I have done. Age is irrevant. If they are hot, fun AND emotionally mature then I don't see the problem. "

^ She said what I said, but better.

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By *batMan
43 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

" Age is irrelevant. If they are hot, fun AND emotionally mature then I don't see the problem. "

This.

If I was in a club, I doubt asking someone their age would even cross my mind.

Gbat

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By *rill PhilMan
43 weeks ago

Crediton

"I have done. Age is irrevant. If they are hot, fun AND emotionally mature then I don't see the problem.

^ She said what I said, but better.

Both he and she said what I said but better!

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By *illynillyCouple
43 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Our age range mainly...possibly 10 years younger but definitely older than our children

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By *xeterCandRCouple
43 weeks ago

Digby & Sowton, Exeter

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By *xeterCandRCouple
43 weeks ago

Digby & Sowton, Exeter

"I have done. Age is irrevant. If they are hot, fun AND emotionally mature then I don't see the problem.

^ She said what I said, but better.

Both he and she said what I said but better!"

As above but basically if there is a connection and everybody is amenable then age is completely irrelevant, as long as its legal of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I have done and would meet again anyone over the legal age of consent as long as they can prove it.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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43 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Age ain’t nuthin’ but a number.

Emotional maturity is the thing I’m interested in. And I’ve met 20-year olds who were more ‘adult’ than some 50-year olds in that respect.

Maybe it’s easier for me to say that because I don’t have kids.

(I don’t go actively looking for anyone specifically younger or older, but I wouldn’t turn anyone away based just on age. I’d chat and see who they were regardless.)"

Same boat here.

I've met people considerably younger, rarely anyone older. Of course those with children will potentially have a different midset as their home environment will be fundamentally different.

But I've never asked anyone their age at a club or social. And never been worried if someone appears a slightly (note slightly) different age to that stated on their profile. If they look like their photos and there was interest/attraction on seeing them, then that's all that matters to me.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
43 weeks ago

ashford

My eldest child is 50 this year! I would not meet below 30! X

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"Age ain’t nuthin’ but a number.

Emotional maturity is the thing I’m interested in. And I’ve met 20-year olds who were more ‘adult’ than some 50-year olds in that respect.

Maybe it’s easier for me to say that because I don’t have kids.

(I don’t go actively looking for anyone specifically younger or older, but I wouldn’t turn anyone away based just on age. I’d chat and see who they were regardless.)"

But you do have an age filter? Is that just a light preference?

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

It doesn't really matter to me. I kind of get the argument of not wanting to have sex with someone the same age as your kids, but I suppose the only comparison I can make is I wouldn't mind having sex with someone the same age as my Mum because I can make that distinction. The older I get though, the less keen I am to try and fuck someone who's 18 or 19.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
43 weeks ago

Beverley

Prefer to go older, but that's not set in stone in any way, shape or form. I used to work on the uni campus in my early 30s, so my socials and meets were primarily with 19-23year olds

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"Age ain’t nuthin’ but a number.

Emotional maturity is the thing I’m interested in. And I’ve met 20-year olds who were more ‘adult’ than some 50-year olds in that respect.

Maybe it’s easier for me to say that because I don’t have kids.

(I don’t go actively looking for anyone specifically younger or older, but I wouldn’t turn anyone away based just on age. I’d chat and see who they were regardless.)

But you do have an age filter? Is that just a light preference? "

I think you will find that most users here have filters, but are happy to make exceptions.

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By *hrowawaydevice1987Man
43 weeks ago

SW London/Surrey

I'm fairly open. No older than my mum!

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I have little interest in meeting people much older than myself tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I think people’s “hard” preferences are often flexible in my experience.

I’ve had many messages from those who state in their profile they won’t meet anyone younger than their children and yet I’m younger than them…

Some people’s preferences and limits tend to change based on attraction I find, not mine though.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"Age ain’t nuthin’ but a number.

Emotional maturity is the thing I’m interested in. And I’ve met 20-year olds who were more ‘adult’ than some 50-year olds in that respect.

Maybe it’s easier for me to say that because I don’t have kids.

(I don’t go actively looking for anyone specifically younger or older, but I wouldn’t turn anyone away based just on age. I’d chat and see who they were regardless.)

But you do have an age filter? Is that just a light preference?

I think you will find that most users here have filters, but are happy to make exceptions."

Kind of defeats the object if it isn’t stated clearly don’t you think?

When I come across profiles like that I bypass them as it sounds to me like “I like X but you’ll do”.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I wouldn't meet anyone much younger than me - what would we talk about

I also find sub-30 there is a difference in maturity that i just don't have the patience for

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"Age ain’t nuthin’ but a number.

Emotional maturity is the thing I’m interested in. And I’ve met 20-year olds who were more ‘adult’ than some 50-year olds in that respect.

Maybe it’s easier for me to say that because I don’t have kids.

(I don’t go actively looking for anyone specifically younger or older, but I wouldn’t turn anyone away based just on age. I’d chat and see who they were regardless.)

But you do have an age filter? Is that just a light preference?

I think you will find that most users here have filters, but are happy to make exceptions.

Kind of defeats the object if it isn’t stated clearly don’t you think?

When I come across profiles like that I bypass them as it sounds to me like “I like X but you’ll do”.

Or it may mean, "wow, I never thought I'd find someone like you"

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By *bi HaiveMan
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43 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I think people’s “hard” preferences are often flexible in my experience.

I’ve had many messages from those who state in their profile they won’t meet anyone younger than their children and yet I’m younger than them…

Some people’s preferences and limits tend to change based on attraction I find, not mine though.

Definitely.

And don't forget. Whilst people age, they often will forget to adjust their stated preferences on here at the same time, or the same rate.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
43 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I don't have kids, but wouldn't meet anyone below 35 ish, deffo no one in their 20s.

I'll be 50 this year, so that will increase too.

I just wouldn't feel like we have any common ground and I like to click with those I may meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"I think people’s “hard” preferences are often flexible in my experience.

I’ve had many messages from those who state in their profile they won’t meet anyone younger than their children and yet I’m younger than them…

Some people’s preferences and limits tend to change based on attraction I find, not mine though.

Definitely.

And don't forget. Whilst people age, they often will forget to adjust their stated preferences on here at the same time, or the same rate.

Very true!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
43 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"But you do have an age filter? Is that just a light preference? "

Exactly. It’s a guideline, not a rule. So I have it set as a preference on Fab, not a filter. Anyone can message me.

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By *uffnmuffCouple
43 weeks ago

London

Our kids are in their late 20s and we look for 30+ but I am actually thinking of moving the age we are looking up. X

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By *ealitybitesMan
43 weeks ago

Belfast

I won't meet or even chat to anyone within 10 years of my kids ages and my lower age filter is adjusted upwards every year in line with their ages.

It's not open for negotiation.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I’ve met late 20’s so yes, I don’t equate the two things at all. The same name on the other hand can be a bit strange xx

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By *ama bamaMan
43 weeks ago

dalkeith

When I was younger it was older of any age as I got older it is younger now but generally all ages is fine with me

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
43 weeks ago

West Bromwich

"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger?

Both ours are over 30 we dont meet people the younger than them, leaves us uncomfortable silly perhaps but honest.

We're the same. It just doesn't sit right for us

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By *ayRyuMan
43 weeks ago

Harrogate

I have a daughter who's coming up 30 and I definitely would feel strange meeting anyone her age or younger.

But that's me. Not saying there's any kind of right or wrong answer.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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43 weeks ago

East Sussex

Not sexually is the simple answer to that. Socially we're happy meeting all age groups, it keeps your mind fresh to hear younger people's view on the world

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By *ust want fun 888Man
43 weeks ago

nearby

"Not sexually is the simple answer to that. Socially we're happy meeting all age groups, it keeps your mind fresh to hear younger people's view on the world "
I don’t really know how to answer this as I am a person who believes, when it comes to mutual sexual activity, age shouldn’t really matter, as long as everyone is consensual and legal age, it doesn’t matter to me.

For example, and this possibly could be a thread, guessing the age of a man by just looking at his penis, I don’t think there’s much difference between young men and old men if you don’t know the age and just see the pictures

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By *ora the explorerWoman
43 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Definitely not. To each their own though, as they say

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By *iasubTV/TS
43 weeks ago

Ilkeston

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By *icecouple561Couple
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43 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Not sexually is the simple answer to that. Socially we're happy meeting all age groups, it keeps your mind fresh to hear younger people's view on the world I don’t really know how to answer this as I am a person who believes, when it comes to mutual sexual activity, age shouldn’t really matter, as long as everyone is consensual and legal age, it doesn’t matter to me.

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By *ust want fun 888Man
43 weeks ago

nearby

The thing is I'm interested in much more than a man's penis, we have met much younger men before and it just hasn't worked out sexually. I understand what you're saying but I'm 67 and you have an upper age limit of 60."
I really should change that, it’s just that I don’t really expect to meet many on here, so just didn’t change it from when I was setting up the profile

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
43 weeks ago

Leeds

I wouldn't meet younger than my kids, it's wrong they are 5 & 2

However I wouldn't meet anyone early 20's either I find I don't have much in common with people a lot younger.

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By *ex HolesMan
43 weeks ago

Up North

Older +69 -69

Younger +69 -68

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By *otSoPoshWoman
43 weeks ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

General rule of thumb for me is that if you're young enough to have come out of it... you're not going in it.

In the opposite direction same kind of thing.

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By *eliWoman
43 weeks ago

When I get to the age that's a possibility? I don't think I will. I'm not sure though, I've definitely dropped the age I thought I attracted to quite a lot recently. Happily.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
43 weeks ago

My Own Little World

"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "

45-99 filters set

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By *ogk9Man
43 weeks ago

worksop

My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
43 weeks ago

Worcester

"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "

I won’t meet anyone who is a substantial age gap from mine.

It creates a power dynamic that I’m not happy to play with.

Do I fancy young guys? For sure. Do I want to be with someone whose brain isn’t yet fully developed and potentially can’t yet process the long-term consequences of their actions and choices? Nah, that’s not sexy to me.

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By *ex HolesMan
43 weeks ago

Up North

18-99 with a pulse

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By *otSoPoshWoman
43 weeks ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"18-99 with a pulse"

That's a lot more specific than you used to be...

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By *ex HolesMan
43 weeks ago

Up North

"18-99 with a pulse

That's a lot more specific than you used to be..."

Must be getting picky in my old age

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By *rHotNottsMan
43 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yeah - why wouldn’t you ?

Would you apply the same restrictions to hair colour?

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

My preference is, I prefer older woman but I completely understand if they would feel uncomfortable, having a relationship with someone potentially the same age as their children. There’s many times where a couple or a female would not feel comfortable, because I would just be the same ages, their children it’s completely understandable I take no offense of that.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
43 weeks ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"18-99 with a pulse

That's a lot more specific than you used to be...

Must be getting picky in my old age

It had to happen sooner or later. You'll get over it soon

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By *ogk9Man
43 weeks ago

worksop

My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

My children aren’t old enough but if they are around the same age as my sister I probably wouldn’t go there. Similarly, if they are the same age as my parents, although I am more flexible with the upper age limit we have set. It’s all about attraction and whether we have anything in common.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
43 weeks ago

If I had children in their 20s I'd still meet a Woman of similar age as I don't see a issue with it, But I wouldn't meet someone who knew my children

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By *oupleus30Couple
43 weeks ago

Minster

Our kids together are all young.but I am 31 and wouldn't want to go younger than 28 as I think it's cringe!(mrs)

But Mr k would go younger.

(He has a older child from previous marriage)

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By *andT2023Couple
43 weeks ago

in the middle

My oldest is mid 20s and i just cant say i would go that low down. It just doesnt feel right .

I much prefer people more up my end of the scale ... feels more acceptable to me and we have more to chat about.

Tx ( Mrs)

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By *ea wangMan
43 weeks ago

scunthorpe

"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "
20s no 39s yes as mine aren't in that age range yet

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
43 weeks ago

Central

No problem going younger, the kids to me are unique individuals and nothing like an NSA potential partner

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By *addyKayMan
43 weeks ago

romford

When I was 18/19 at my local pub the land lady was like 50+ got d*unk one night and had the wildest night ever since then I’ve always preferred mature women lol although at the time she was older than my mother but I loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I try to stick to 10 years younger and 10 years older ish!

Youngest I've met was 27 and oldest 52.

Not felt the need to sway too far from that if I'm honest.

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By *revaunanceCouple
43 weeks ago

Exeter

"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 "
why did you keep it secret ?

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
43 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No, my child is 21. That's definitely far too young and they have no experience... Life or otherwise!

25 and over, but even that's really stretching it for the lower age, depends massively on their maturity.

Someone thought it was particularly "naughty" that I was meeting much younger men, looking at my veris as he felt it would be questionable if he did the same (with women).

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By *antricSeeker60Man
43 weeks ago

Durham

Age gap sex, like any other type of sexual activity, it should be consensual, respectful, and based on mutual attraction, understanding and communication between partners.

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By *edonisticRockerMan
43 weeks ago

Chorley

I think so long as there is an attraction and that both parties are fully aware of what the other expects and can communicate to each other clearly then it's ok.

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By *ogk9Man
43 weeks ago

worksop

"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 why did you keep it secret ?"

We knew it wouldn’t last. And I wanted to protect her from public attacks. Which would’ve happened. Still see her but friends only. Lasted a year

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By *icecouple561Couple
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43 weeks ago

East Sussex

"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 why did you keep it secret ?

We knew it wouldn’t last. And I wanted to protect her from public attacks. Which would’ve happened. Still see her but friends only. Lasted a year "

Did her parents know or was it secret from everyone?

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By *ogk9Man
43 weeks ago

worksop

"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 why did you keep it secret ?

We knew it wouldn’t last. And I wanted to protect her from public attacks. Which would’ve happened. Still see her but friends only. Lasted a year

Did her parents know or was it secret from everyone?"

Secret from all. Shes actually a lesbian. We work together. Got on well and still do.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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43 weeks ago

East Sussex

"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 why did you keep it secret ?

We knew it wouldn’t last. And I wanted to protect her from public attacks. Which would’ve happened. Still see her but friends only. Lasted a year

Did her parents know or was it secret from everyone?

Secret from all. Shes actually a lesbian. We work together. Got on well and still do. "

Good to know you get along, we all need friends

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
43 weeks ago

Hampshire

We have a son in his 30's and a daughter in her 20's and yes, I've met younger!

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
43 weeks ago

wonderland.

"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "
I try not to meet people same age as my kids

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By *ogk9Man
43 weeks ago

worksop

"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 why did you keep it secret ?

We knew it wouldn’t last. And I wanted to protect her from public attacks. Which would’ve happened. Still see her but friends only. Lasted a year

Did her parents know or was it secret from everyone?

Secret from all. Shes actually a lesbian. We work together. Got on well and still do.

Good to know you get along, we all need friends

True. I’m her gaffer but kinda mentor her

She cute and lovely. Always be friends

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By *rReyMan
43 weeks ago

Fleet

I'm young at heart, mind and body (even if I'm the only one who thinks so

) . I prefer women younger but no younger than 30 and up to 60.

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By *ogk9Man
43 weeks ago

worksop

Each to their own taste’s preferences

Be kind and respect.

Didn’t expect to be with a 18 year old

Defo dont regret one minute.

My kids are 32 and 35.

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By *riel13Woman
43 weeks ago

Northampton

I have

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By *ogk9Man
43 weeks ago

worksop

"I have "

Lucky them

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By *icecouple561Couple
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43 weeks ago

East Sussex

"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 why did you keep it secret ?

We knew it wouldn’t last. And I wanted to protect her from public attacks. Which would’ve happened. Still see her but friends only. Lasted a year

Did her parents know or was it secret from everyone?

Secret from all. Shes actually a lesbian. We work together. Got on well and still do.

Good to know you get along, we all need friends

True. I’m her gaffer but kinda mentor her

She cute and lovely. Always be friends "

You're her boss

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By *ogk9Man
43 weeks ago

worksop

"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 why did you keep it secret ?

We knew it wouldn’t last. And I wanted to protect her from public attacks. Which would’ve happened. Still see her but friends only. Lasted a year

Did her parents know or was it secret from

everyone?

Secret from all. Shes actually a lesbian. We work together. Got on well and still do.

Good to know you get along, we all need friends

True. I’m her gaffer but kinda mentor her

She cute and lovely. Always be friends

You're her boss

Yeah. She left for a few months but came back as she’s happier here.

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By *ario1972Man
43 weeks ago

Guildford

my ex was 20 years my senior, granted she looked half her age.

I feel comfortable going up to 10 years younger, not because I wouldn't want a 20 or 30 something to lust after me, but the truth is I know they won't.

I can't even get a woman my own age to lust after me, so half my age is going to be a definite no. I could be wrong but mm, yea/nah.

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By *ntrusive ThoughtsMan
43 weeks ago

Middleton

I prefer older women, prefer the sex and the company. I’ve slept with women 10years younger than me, and would again but it’s like say, In my work. I’m surrounded by dozens of fit little 20-22year olds but Im not comfortable flirting and trying to trap off with any of them, it’s not a good look in the work place and I suppose it’s just not me and seems noncy. Older women are just a fucking massive turn on. I grew up wanting to fuck most my mates mums. Should say it all

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
43 weeks ago

Norwich

I’ve always liked older women. When I was at school I fancied one teacher in particular. She used to wear very tight trousers

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By *ogk9Man
43 weeks ago

worksop

"I prefer older women, prefer the sex and the company. I’ve slept with women 10years younger than me, and would again but it’s like say, In my work. I’m surrounded by dozens of fit little 20-22year olds but Im not comfortable flirting and trying to trap off with any of them, it’s not a good look in the work place and I suppose it’s just not me and seems noncy. Older women are just a fucking massive turn on. I grew up wanting to fuck most my mates mums. Should say it all

Wasn’t a trap at all thanks. We got on well and it happened. Never even entered my mind till it eventually happened

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By *ornycougaWoman
43 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Age ain’t nuthin’ but a number.

Emotional maturity is the thing I’m interested in. And I’ve met 20-year olds who were more ‘adult’ than some 50-year olds in that respect.

Maybe it’s easier for me to say that because I don’t have kids.

(I don’t go actively looking for anyone specifically younger or older, but I wouldn’t turn anyone away based just on age. I’d chat and see who they were regardless.)"

RTG that will teach me not to scan the replies in thread already. Eloquent response as always

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By *ornycougaWoman
43 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Age ain’t nuthin’ but a number.

Emotional maturity is the thing I’m interested in. And I’ve met 20-year olds who were more ‘adult’ than some 50-year olds in that respect.

Maybe it’s easier for me to say that because I don’t have kids.

(I don’t go actively looking for anyone specifically younger or older, but I wouldn’t turn anyone away based just on age. I’d chat and see who they were regardless.)

RTG that will teach me not to scan the replies in thread already. Eloquent response as always

Ffs wrong emoji

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
43 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Ffs wrong emoji

How many of those jalapeño margaritas have you had?

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By *ogk9Man
43 weeks ago

worksop

"I’ve always liked older women. When I was at school I fancied one teacher in particular. She used to wear very tight trousers

Teacher in my school slept with a few pupils. One a mate He actually felt her breasts in front of all class

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By *ornycougaWoman
43 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Ffs wrong emoji

How many of those jalapeño margaritas have you had?

Ha ha. Probably one too many and another is on its way

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"I’ve always liked older women. When I was at school I fancied one teacher in particular. She used to wear very tight trousers

I had a crush of two teachers when I was 15. I had to wait three years to make it happen with one of them. It happened by chance, I met her sister in a bar, she invited me over to her place and there was my teacher... I learned a lot from that experience.

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By *ature BBW Lover 69Man
43 weeks ago

exeter

"My eldest is 38, and yes I've met younger and don't see any problems with it"

I prefer older and just looking at you on your profile definitely backs that up for me , very nice

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By *j555Couple
43 weeks ago

Huntingdon

Initially I said no. I have children 27 and 30 and so thought 30 and lower was wrong... what does it matter really? It's only because I got married and had children young that I have kids that age. When you meet someone in a club you don't ask their age. So yes, I have had someone younger than my oldest and I enjoyed it too!

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
43 weeks ago

Hell

I don’t really meet anyone younger than me. Dilfs are my type

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By *oshblueyedmanMan
43 weeks ago

hereford

"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "

No too young I think. Think late 40s and 50s.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I wouldn’t say age is the matter, just all depends on the flow of the conversation you have with the person and connection

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"Initially I said no. I have children 27 and 30 and so thought 30 and lower was wrong... what does it matter really? It's only because I got married and had children young that I have kids that age. When you meet someone in a club you don't ask their age. So yes, I have had someone younger than my oldest and I enjoyed it too!"

And good for you

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By *oshblueyedmanMan
43 weeks ago

hereford

Really no hard and fast rules though as it’s the chemistry and spark between you … and recently dated someone in late 30s… so ignore me lol !!!

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By *ames-77Man
43 weeks ago

milton keynes

Well said ! I agree !

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"I’ve always liked older women. When I was at school I fancied one teacher in particular. She used to wear very tight trousers

Teacher in my school slept with a few pupils. One a mate He actually felt her breasts in front of all class

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now in prison ?

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By *TG3Man
43 weeks ago

Dorchester

"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "
phew actually as I've got older my age range has become simpler, its not set in stone unlike many womens because age is just a number literally. So many attractive women on here but for the young ones they are just that an attraction

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
43 weeks ago

Worcester

"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 why did you keep it secret ?

We knew it wouldn’t last. And I wanted to protect her from public attacks. Which would’ve happened. Still see her but friends only. Lasted a year

Did her parents know or was it secret from everyone?

Secret from all. Shes actually a lesbian. We work together. Got on well and still do. "

Ah. Another man who thinks he slept with a lesbian.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

And another each question. ..

I don’t have kids at that age, so I’m just imagining when they are 30 to 40 years old. I will be a lot older, and I think the options will be taken out of my hands.

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By *ogk9Man
43 weeks ago

worksop

"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 why did you keep it secret ?

We knew it wouldn’t last. And I wanted to protect her from public attacks. Which would’ve happened. Still see her but friends only. Lasted a year

Did her parents know or was it secret from everyone?

Secret from all. Shes actually a lesbian. We work together. Got on well and still do.

Ah. Another man who thinks he slept with a lesbian.

I don’t care what you think lol

Have a good day tho

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By *lik and PaulCouple
43 weeks ago

cahoots

"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "

No we wouldn't

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
43 weeks ago

St Leonards

I make my decisions on the overall package - wit, intelligence, sexual "nous".

That tends to be mid-20s to mid-50s, but there are no absolute reasons why it can't be older or younger.

I'd be fully turned off if a younger person was only interested in "Daddy" dynamics, and equally turned off in an older person had lost their mental, emotional, and intellectual curiosity.

So age is less vital to me than other factors.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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43 weeks ago

East Sussex

Actually even if we didn't have adult children I probably wouldn't want to meet someone in their 20s or 30s for sex.

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By *ememberTheNameMan
43 weeks ago

barnsley

"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "

Recently entered my 30s last couple of years and I’ve always had a thing for woman older than myself

My mates mums age

But I’d also be interested in going younger too I don’t think younger than 22 but

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By *ny1localMan
43 weeks ago

READING

"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "
not if they lived in the same area as the kids. I'd hate to think that they knew them.

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By *heodore21Man
43 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

My partner is 25 and I am approaching 50....

I am extrovert and she is introvert...I am a social butterfly and she prefers to stay in....

Mentality and personality are more important than your age ....if there is a will...there is always a way.....

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
43 weeks ago

Ryde

We tend not to see anyone under 40.

Firstly, it's rather creepy to have someone ploughing away who is conceivably of an age to be your son.

The second reason is they are more social-media oriented, and with that can come a rather cavalier attitude to privacy. While they are younger and have less to lose, for those entrenched in long-term careers and their community, loose talk can have devastating consequences.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "

I have children in their mid 30s. I don't meet anyone their age or younger. In fact i don't meet anyone even 10 years older than my children.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Prefer to get to know them a bit and base a decision to meet on what they are like as a person rather than dismissing a meet just based on how old they are really. Each to their own though of course.

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By *ad NannaWoman
43 weeks ago

East London

Old people tend to be more creepy and pervy. And they're so boring to be around.

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By *olfandtazCouple
43 weeks ago

Bristol

Nope we wouldn't, it's why we have filters up to stop it.

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By *iman2100Man
43 weeks ago

Glasgow

I have no sexual interest in my daughters so I am not at all bothered if I meet someone younger than them. Don't really understand the minimum age problem myself.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
43 weeks ago

St Leonards

"Old people tend to be more creepy and pervy. And they're so boring to be around.

Don't forget that slightly crusty, shimmery dribble at the corner of our mouths.

And eye bogies.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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43 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Old people tend to be more creepy and pervy. And they're so boring to be around.

It's true. I'm deadly boring and horribly creepy.

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By *arkus1812Man
43 weeks ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"Old people tend to be more creepy and pervy. And they're so boring to be around.

It's true. I'm deadly boring and horribly creepy. "

I will admit to being boring at times but have never been accused of being horribly creepy. Yet!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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43 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Old people tend to be more creepy and pervy. And they're so boring to be around.

It's true. I'm deadly boring and horribly creepy.

I will admit to being boring at times but have never been accused of being horribly creepy. Yet!

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By *ariadx2Couple
43 weeks ago

Wrexham

Absolutely no issues with meeting people younger than our grown up kids. We can separate the fact our kids our grown ups from our sex life!

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By *unover40Couple
43 weeks ago

yeovil

Why not ?

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By *j555Couple
43 weeks ago

Huntingdon

And good for you

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By *j555Couple
43 weeks ago

Huntingdon

Well said ! I agree !"

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By *ustBoWoman
43 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't have children but I've no interest in having sex with people a lot younger than me. Or those who are a lot older than me either. I find people closer to my own age more attractive and we have more in common.

My filters on here are more to cut down on messages but I probably wouldn't go any lower than what they are set as now.

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By *ogk9Man
43 weeks ago

worksop

"Old people tend to be more creepy and pervy. And they're so boring to be around.

It's true. I'm deadly boring and horribly creepy. "

lol

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