FabSwingers.com forum: Is your face on your profile?

By *aughtydave81 OP Man
43 weeks ago

Moray

Plenty of profiles on here have face pics alongside some very explicit and sexy photos/videos.

I've chosen not to have my face showing due to my profession and living in a small town but wonder if those that do, ever find it causes issues?

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By *eeds fun guyMan
43 weeks ago

yorkshire

Good question I have often thought the same

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By *agneto.Man
43 weeks ago

Bham

People have been sacked for less in my line of work so I don't put face on there.

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By *LiamMan
43 weeks ago

Midlands

No it's asking for trouble

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By *otSoPoshWoman
43 weeks ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

My face used to be on my profile. But apparently local people took that to mean they should rock up at my house at weird hours to offer me a shag.

And my face/boobs/real name ended up on a local Facebook group announcing to everyone I was a slag and a home wrecker (despite me never having even interacted with the person whose wife caught him with my photo).

I live in a smallish town and I think at least half the men are on fab. I'm keeping my face to myself, especially as I don't particularly enjoy being gossiped about. I'm not meeting anyway, so it makes no odds what my face looks like.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

No. Bad experiences from the past.

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By *ir kinkyMan
43 weeks ago

munster

Mine isn’t on my profile I’d prefer to swap after a chat instead,

Too many small minded people in this world.

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By *eroLondonMan
43 weeks ago

Mayfair

My cløck-fåce is on my profile. Surely that counts...?

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
43 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

Years ago I used to show my face, till someone from my then work told me he knew who I was but wouldn’t identify himself. The violent nausea in my stomach that day has stopped me doing it again

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
43 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"My face used to be on my profile. But apparently local people took that to mean they should rock up at my house at weird hours to offer me a shag.

I’m sorry that happened to you, it sounds awful. Big hugs

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By *agneto.Man
43 weeks ago

Bham

"My face used to be on my profile. But apparently local people took that to mean they should rock up at my house at weird hours to offer me a shag.

Fucking hell!

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By *agneto.Man
43 weeks ago

Bham

"My cløck-fåce is on my profile. Surely that counts...?"

It's gonna be a keyser Soze moment for someone round yours one day, staring at the clock for a minute....

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
43 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"My face used to be on my profile. But apparently local people took that to mean they should rock up at my house at weird hours to offer me a shag.

What an absolute arse of a woman! I bet she stayed with him after catching him on fab and slandering you?

That’s awful Posh. So sorry you went through that.

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By *inful DogMan
43 weeks ago

Birmingham

No, keep face pics for private communications.

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By *aughtydave81 OP Man
43 weeks ago

Moray

Folk rocking up to your house is bang out of order!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
43 weeks ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Thanks peeps. I'm over it, aside from no more public face. I didn't actually go out into town much anyway by the time that happened so it hasn't ruined my non existent social life or anything!

And MYB... obviously she stayed with him!

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
43 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Yeah my face is out. My boss is on here anyway so we just catch up every Friday to make sure we don’t go to the same clubs. I don’t want to see his winky!

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By *ACOLCouple
43 weeks ago

limerick

Funny story, yesterday we were at an event, and then we started chatting to a couple, they were lovely and requested our fab name. When I tried searching ourselves on their FAB I could not find us. I asked if perhaps he had block us. And indeed he had blocked us previously, because they thought were were a fake profile because we don't have face pics.

Lina

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By *ACOLCouple
43 weeks ago

limerick

"Yeah my face is out. My boss is on here anyway so we just catch up every Friday to make sure we don’t go to the same clubs. I don’t want to see his winky!"

Love this!!!

Lina

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I use to be naive in thining Fab face pics should be cumpulsory to creating a profile. However, a site with the name swingers in it has a stigma attached and nobody wants to show for fear of riddicule. Even though all the other supposed innocent dating sites are equally if not worse in reality. If Fab dropped the 'swingers' and used 'friends/dates' instead and ommitted the triple x content. Perhaps more users would show. It would eliminate so much wasted time recognising attraction.

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By *J_SpiceyCouple
43 weeks ago

Kinky Kings Lynn

Yes face is shown on my profile with no issues because I am doing nothing wrong and I own it.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I do.

I always have.

I have a profile & a career.

I have nothing to hide nor be ashamed off, as I am authentic and own it. Shaming or naming doesn’t work with me.

However I respect each to their own, Your choice and reasons are good for me, and mine should be for you.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
43 weeks ago

walsall

"I use to be naive in thining Fab face pics should be cumpulsory to creating a profile. However, a site with the name swingers in it has a stigma attached and nobody wants to show for fear of riddicule. Even though all the other supposed innocent dating sites are equally if not worse in reality. If Fab dropped the 'swingers' and used 'friends/dates' instead and ommitted the triple x content. Perhaps more users would show. It would eliminate so much wasted time recognising attraction. "

You mean change it from a swingers site to a dating site?

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By *RFR72Man
43 weeks ago

Watford

Yup mine is, never used to be due to job but in different job now and it is what it is. If your on here and see me then how can you question me?

If anyone takes offence or it gets out I will say I have been hacked by AI lol

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By *issBellaWoman
43 weeks ago

Wales

I have in the past and almost instantly was recognised. No drama came about it luckily, but there could have. I'm a little more careful these days, being a teacher I'd hate to have to explain that complaint from a parent

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

No it isn't. I would never show my face. For starters , I wouldn't want to explain to neither my children nor my Mum why I was on here, they wouldn't understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"My face used to be on my profile. But apparently local people took that to mean they should rock up at my house at weird hours to offer me a shag.

Shit posh, i didn't know that

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

My face picture is on my profile. I’m self employed so nobody to “sack” me.

I’ve had people recognise me on here and in real life, majority usually see me and then run to message here afterwards.

Everyone’s different.

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By *ayHaychMan
43 weeks ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

I used to, but not any more.

People whose profiles say they don’t want to hear about a career or discretion are instantly avoidrd by me. The older I get, the more I become self-assured that being strict with privacy is key and doesn’t need to be sacrificed to prove “fab legitimacy”.

We really don’t live in a kind, tolerant, and understanding world.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

You mean change it from a swingers site to a dating site?"

No, that would distract from the sites original purpose. I just think it would forego messaging and chatting only to realise, you don't fancy each other. Also. If men had to add and display a verified face photo to join and message, would womens' inbox be so full of unwanted unsolicted cock pics at the detriment of missing the decent approaches?

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By *rill PhilMan
43 weeks ago

Crediton

I have my face on my profile in spite of being a gigging musician and theatre performer across mid, East and South Devon.

I don't really care if anyone recognises me partly because, so far no one has (as far as I'm aware) and thus I have had no negative experiences.

The thing I would be most embarrassed about would be having to admit that no one seems interested in meeting me!

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By *lltheboostCouple
43 weeks ago

Shefford

No, because people do lose their jobs over this kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

We have our faces on, there is no issue with our jobs and if someone recognises us we own that because we aren't doing anything wrong, we are pretty open about it anyways.

We aren't judgey about lack of face pictures because the majority of interactions they get sent in the DMs anyways and each to their own.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
43 weeks ago

Reading

I didnt for ages. Now I do and have never had an issue.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
43 weeks ago

walsall

You mean change it from a swingers site to a dating site?

It was the bit you wrote about dropping the swingers as it has a stigma attached to it and replacing with friends dates and losing the xxx content that made me think you meant otgerwise.

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By *isterPepperMan
43 weeks ago

Central Swindon

I have my face on there as I don’t want to be recognised by my dick

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Sometimes.

but not now.

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By *lakeyboyMan
43 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I keep my face hidden just to avoid any awkwardness.

Interesting though that people raise that they fear they will sacked for being on here. Maybe people have specific clauses in their own employment contracts they are bound by but I personally can advise this cropped up where I used to work a few years ago when our company tried to bring in a social media policy of what you can and can't do. It ultimately failed (another story for another day) but one employee openly asked about being on such as here? In the end the powers that be deemed such as Fab as "dating sites" so employees were free to be here, or would have been if the "rules" had been ok to implement.

For clarity I am aware there have been at least two police officers sacked "for being on Fab" and the clickbait loving media reported as such. But when you actually study the facts they were actually sacked for other transgressions but both had posted their uniform and badge and police card details which officers cannot do anywhere on line. Not just here. Naming Fab being purely a juicier headline.

However, I am not aware of anyone else losing their job purely for being on here. Although do correct me if that's wrong.

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By *ealitybitesMan
43 weeks ago

Belfast

I've never had a facepic on my profile and have only ever shared one privately when I've already agreed to meet someone so despite being here 8 years I could almost say with certainty how many and who have seen my facepic.

Imagine my surprise then when a complete stranger at a social told me they recognised me from my pic in the chatgroup.

I was surprised because I wasn't in the chatgroup and wouldn't have posted a pic even if I had been.

Information is currency in fab and that includes facepics.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
43 weeks ago

Worcester

I’ve got my face on other profiles on similar websites, but not on this one because of the locational data available on my profile.

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By *iHungMikeMan
43 weeks ago

Shaw

I have face pics but only show them to people I trust or they have one, got to be respectful to people but unfortunately some people aren't, I'm always respectful to everyone who I chat with and meet

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By *agneto.Man
43 weeks ago

Bham

"I keep my face hidden just to avoid any awkwardness.

However, I am not aware of anyone else losing their job purely for being on here. Although do correct me if that's wrong.

Someone I know of was sacked for saucy pics on Facebook. Which weren't even naked.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I would be mortified to be recognised by my colleagues and would be very uncomfortable at the thought that they might have seen my fab pictures. One of my (ex) colleagues is here, with face pics - i have blocked her, but if one is here, there must be more!

We have explicit SM rules and anything that links you back to the company would be grounds for dismissal

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"I ….

We have explicit SM rules and anything that links you back to the company would be grounds for dismissal"

Is that ANY social media?

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"I ….

We have explicit SM rules and anything that links you back to the company would be grounds for dismissal

Is that ANY social media? "

Anything that would bring the company into disrepute if it were linked with whatever was being reported

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By *agnar73Man
43 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"I ….

We have explicit SM rules and anything that links you back to the company would be grounds for dismissal

Is that ANY social media?

Anything that would bring the company into disrepute if it were linked with whatever was being reported"

Whoah that’s strict.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
43 weeks ago

chichester

I don’t show mine anymore for long time

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

My photos are not altered in any way and show my face ( well, partly hidden by long hair )....I think it is only fair that people should see exactly what I look like, if they are happy with my photos then they won't be disappointed in real life.

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
43 weeks ago

Chelmsford

We have mug shots on ours....pfft, whatever...if people recognise us then they're clearly on here as well

A few idiots have recognised Alyson, but gone about it in completely the wrong way so ended up in the block bin....if we were approached in public in the wrong way then I'm pretty sure I wouldn't get a punch in as Mrs would wipe the floor with them, then go to town on them....THEN beat the living crap out of them

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
43 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

No, because I'm not mental.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
43 weeks ago

Beverley

Some people I've spoken to have had some pretty horrible public remarks and Chinese whispers made about them. If you don't care, good on you, but I do. If you want my face picture, have a conversation with me and ask for it. You'll only be disappointed

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By *lamDunkDaSpunkCouple
43 weeks ago

Harpenden

No because we like to be discreet but you can still see plenty

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
43 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I have my face on my public photos, but I don't have any explicit pictures online - not even in my friends gallery. I don't show anything here that I wouldn't show in a public place.

I don't work in a high profile job, and I don't 'advertise' any activities I get up to on here, so I don't believe I would fall foul of my employers 'disrepute' condition in my contract of employment.

I like to be honest and open with the good people of FabSwingers, and that's why I have a face pic on my profile.

I don't judge people that don't have a public face pic, but if I don't receive a face pic on asking for one then that says more than words can ever tell me.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
43 weeks ago

Birmingham

Nope, it's never caused a problem. We do occasionally get a message from people we know though.

And we had one single guy "out us" whilst we were shopping with our children. Didn't really appreciate the compliments on my blow job skills at that very moment.

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By *a LunaWoman
43 weeks ago

South Wales

No, I want to attract men to my profile not scare them away!

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
43 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"No, I want to attract men to my profile not scare them away! "

Haha I was going to be a bellend and say I don't want to be inundated!

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
43 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I don't have public face pics up,as I wouldn't want to be approached away from here by anyone. I've seen lots of threads where it's happened to others.

I totally get why people say no face pics due to work, but it's the blank profiles with not one pic that get me.

We can all add a pic that won't identify us to others.

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
43 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I never used to show my face, and i was 'outed' via screenshots to my family and boss anyway. Nothing negative happened beyond a little initial embarrassment. So now it's allll my face! Real first name too.

I don't post genital pics on here anyway, boobs is about as racy as it gets on my profile. I breastfed my kid up to 3yo, and when you do that everybody in about a 5 mile radius has seen your tits anyway, so I don't care about those

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By *oquars19458Man
43 weeks ago

sheffield

I find it ridiculous that people should lose their jobs because they are on here

Its not against the law and we are’nt commiting any crime xx

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By *ario1972Man
43 weeks ago

Guildford

"No, I want to attract men to my profile not scare them away! "

Succeeded. Luvleh, simpleh luvleh.

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By *arkus1812Man
43 weeks ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

My face is on my profile for all to see, Have had face pictures on here for around 12 years without any problems.

My current photo is about 4 years old so must put an updated one in the near future.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I used to have mine up for a short time, the only reason I removed it is because I have a 4 year old, I wouldn't want someone to recognise her dad, see her, point, and be all like "oi oooiiii, your dad's out here tryna bang other fellas wives"

If it wernt for her, I really wouldn't care, I'd leave it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"Plenty of profiles on here have face pics alongside some very explicit and sexy photos/videos.

I've chosen not to have my face showing due to my profession and living in a small town but wonder if those that do, ever find it causes issues? "

No face, too many people close by where I work.

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By *inkysubmissive84Woman
43 weeks ago

Telford

I have lots of face pics on and other pics too. I’m self employed so no one can sack me

Most of my family and friends know what I do too.

I’ve been recognised plenty of times and luckily it’s always ended well when I’ve said they are not my type.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"No, because I'm not mental."

Mental and proud.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
43 weeks ago

Beverley

"No, because I'm not mental.

Mental and proud.

And lovely. Yum

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By *atch1982Man
43 weeks ago

Abingdon

Not publicly, but plenty in my private photos.

Not that anyone ever looks at my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"No, because I'm not mental.

Mental and proud.

And lovely. Yum "

Thank you

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By *loomy GirlWoman
43 weeks ago

leicester

I have part of my face but it doesn’t identify who I am so I think I’m safe lol

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By *atch1982Man
43 weeks ago

Abingdon

"I have part of my face but it doesn’t identify who I am so I think I’m safe lol"

It identifies your beauty, that’s for sure x

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By *loomy GirlWoman
43 weeks ago

leicester

"I have part of my face but it doesn’t identify who I am so I think I’m safe lol

It identifies your beauty, that’s for sure x "

It clearly lies lol

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By *ust want fun 888Man
43 weeks ago

nearby

Personally, I don’t mind showing myself, it’s not that I’m much to look at, but I believe if anyone sees me on here that knows me, it also means they’re on here.

And for me, I’m only doing what most of us do nearly every day

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
43 weeks ago

Essex

No. I quite like getting messages

And also I like my job.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I share a little, enough hopefully not to be recognisable. But I care less the older I get & I have no employment-related fears.

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By *heSchwingersCouple
43 weeks ago

Essex

Yes x

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By *ubbie300Couple
43 weeks ago

Bawtry

Yes

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By *edonisticRockerMan
43 weeks ago

Chorley

No but a picture of it is

I'd feel a bit weird pressing my face to the screen

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By *erkshire8299Man
43 weeks ago

slough

I quite happy to send a face photo when messaging but on my profile...def no.

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By *parkle1974Woman
43 weeks ago

Leeds

I should put it on..its enough to scare anyone from messaging

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By *andT2023Couple
43 weeks ago

in the middle

No and not in friends either ... too risky from a professional point of view . But will share once we have been chatting a while .

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By *ocksareoffMan
43 weeks ago

Out n About

"I should put it on..its enough to scare anyone from messaging

I call bullshit

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By *atch1982Man
43 weeks ago

Abingdon

"I should put it on..its enough to scare anyone from messaging

I call bullshit

I second bullshit

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
43 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No, I value my safety too much for that. It's bad enough being harassed online, let alone in real life. I get people saying they've seen me in the pub or we must pass each other on the street... I certainly don't want anyone actually approaching me.

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By *elboy1978Man
43 weeks ago

Fellgate

Yes

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By *parkle1974Woman
43 weeks ago

Leeds

"I should put it on..its enough to scare anyone from messaging

I call bullshit

Alas its true

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By *ife NinjaMan
43 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"I should put it on..its enough to scare anyone from messaging

I call bullshit

Alas its true

I've seen it. It most certainly isn't

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By *parkle1974Woman
43 weeks ago

Leeds

"I should put it on..its enough to scare anyone from messaging

I call bullshit

Alas its true

I've seen it. It most certainly isn't

How's the therapy going??

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
43 weeks ago

In the clouds

No I don't put my face on my profile

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By *ittle. BeaverWoman
43 weeks ago

Launceston

"I find it ridiculous that people should lose their jobs because they are on here

Its not against the law and we are’nt commiting any crime xx"

It's not about committing a crime, it's about bringing the company into disrepute (perceived) social media clause is very broad, which makes it ambiguous. For that reason fab is not worth me risking losing my job!

I also like to keep fab and vanilla life separate. So being recognised and approached whilst out and about is not a compliment for me. More like an ambush!

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By *ife NinjaMan
43 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"I should put it on..its enough to scare anyone from messaging

I call bullshit

Alas its true

I've seen it. It most certainly isn't

How's the therapy going??

Now then nurse. You can take my temperature any time

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By *he Gentleman 84Man
43 weeks ago

North East

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By *he Gentleman 84Man
43 weeks ago

North East

No I tend to keep that to my self but happy to share privately, people have had no complaints!

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43 weeks ago

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By *aughtydave81 OP Man
43 weeks ago

Moray

Some interesting and at times worrying responses here. I'll not be sharing my face pics with anyone unless they've read my profile and want to meet. I'm very privileged to work in a position of great responsibility and I'm sure that my employer and some of the public that I come into contact with would view Fab negatively. The main reason for not sharing though is to protect my kids from embarrassment and bullying if some of the unscrupulous kids at school ever found out.

As many have said, each to their own and respect to those that can own it.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

No due to being in a small town, happy to send once chatting, also quite annoying when profiles demand a face pic with a message, not keen on sending your face here there and everywhere to not even get a reply lol

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By *ornycougaWoman
43 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I have a pixelated cum shot but my hair, body and tats mean I would be easy to identify even without a clear face pic. Tbh I don't give a crap so long as my children aren't hurt/embarrassed by how I live my life

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Yes because we ain’t bothered haha

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By *j555Couple
43 weeks ago

Huntingdon

No, I normally post pics nose down so you can see my smile and chin but not know who I am. We have had a couple of messages saying they know who I/we are but then it's clear that they don't and some poor woman somewhere is receiving knowing looks from someone they know

Nobody cares about my face anyway as long as I have my tits out!

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By *amoruUsagiCouple
43 weeks ago

Glasgow

My partner and I have a private photo on our account which we show to some people

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By *ustfulbigboyMan
43 weeks ago

North Wales

I have a few but they are locked behind "friends pictures" so I can control who can see them.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
43 weeks ago

St Leonards

Posh's tale is awful, and makes me (and all of us probably) angry that we're still culturally stuck in "that place", with women at substantially more risk of vilification than men.

I imagine a lot of trans have already faced so much shit that another idiot picking on them isn't anything too new.

My face is always on my profile, but I can't be hurt professionally or within family, and being a big guy who's comfortable taking on morons verbally that they back off before it gets physical anyway, very few have ever tried their luck at any point in life, FAB or non-FAB.

But all of that places me in a very very small minority of people who have nothing to lose by showing their face.

Most people aren't so fortunate, and I can't wait for our culture to move on so we can all be much more open about so many things, sex only being one thing out of many.

Maybe by 2224....

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
43 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"My face used to be on my profile. But apparently local people took that to mean they should rock up at my house at weird hours to offer me a shag.

That’s wanky posh.

So many people just blinkered by their own self absorbed existence.

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By *riel13Woman
43 weeks ago

Northampton

I show my face as I want people to know if they are attracted tp me, before they message... I don't post anything explicit as that is only for those that I find attractive and they only see it once we are naked

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By *rill PhilMan
43 weeks ago

Crediton

Mine still is, I keep swapping the picture due to advice but, general consensus is that if I'm going to use part of me fir my pic, it should be my face...

Now that, is a backhanded compliment if ever I heard one! (Your face is ok but, the rest of you... no no no no!)

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
43 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I show mine, but with 3 feet of make up on, I'm not that recognisable

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

In my line of work, my phone gets checked on a regular basis. So security manager knows of my inclusion on this site. Face pic not a problem, ugly buggar that I am lol

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By *onningtonplumberMan
43 weeks ago

Donnington

I am back here as a single male at my wife's suggestion but explicit request that she never finds out. An odd situation but due to multiple operations and health issues we no longer have sex.. So no face pic as we know people here and don't wish to be recognised.

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By *wistedTooCouple
43 weeks ago

Frimley

Yep. All over it. And on X and other social media. We don’t care who sees our faces.

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By *ilyandronCouple
43 weeks ago

Bristol

Christ no ! People would run a mile !

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By *aked Wirral VoyeurMan
43 weeks ago

Rock Ferry

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By *aked Wirral VoyeurMan
43 weeks ago

Rock Ferry

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By *aked Wirral VoyeurMan
43 weeks ago

Rock Ferry

I've got mine on my profile but not bothed who sees it were all here for the same thing

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By *otSoPoshWoman
43 weeks ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I've got mine on my profile but not bothed who sees it were all here for the same thing "

The whole "here for the same thing" statement always makes me very confused.

We have no idea what other people are here for. And I'm not here for the same thing as Agnes down the road is... or Barry from the next town over. Agnes wants to peg men with a traffic cone and Barry is looking for a reverse gangbang.

I'm here for the random jollity in the forum, to look at pictures that make me go "ooh" (even though most of them make me go "oh") and to occasionally find a new friend... who chances are I'll not ever be naked with.

And there are some people who spend time on sites like this actively seeking people who can be identified, for a variety of reasons.

So... we aren't all here for the same thing. That's quite an innocent thing to believe, I think

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
43 weeks ago

sw London

I’m happy showing my face, I’ve got nothing to be ashamed of and life’s to short to worry about other people’s opinions of my fab-life

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By *orphia2003Woman
43 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I show my face on mine, as I don't feel that i have anything to hide. But I was very publicly outed as a Dom whilst in London and took the 'publicity' to make people realise that BDSM is about consent.

Also ended up being interviewed a few times.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
43 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Visible on mine

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