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Under 30s room on chat?

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By *essex1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

Hi,

Wondering if I could drum up some support for an under 30's room on chat.

I feel that sometimes on chat older members cut younger members out. I'm not against talking/playing with older couples/members in anyway just think it would be nice for somewhere for younger members to talk to eachother.

... any thoughts/support/ideas from anyone would be appreciated!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

How would you verify they are definitely under 30? People can lie and change their age etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But how or who would police it ?

How would you stop anybody over 30 going in there ?

There is a Scotland chat room but i still can go into the room and I've never been to Scotland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a room for just people who are 41 years 5 months 3 weeks and 2 days old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about couples where one is over 30?

I'm not a great user of chat but fail to see any advantage to this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

exclusivity...not a great idea

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By *essex1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

tbh not thought out the specifics.

I'd have thought it's be possible to limit people in the room as it is possible to filter out people looking at profiles.

As for the couple think I think if one is younger then it would be reasonable to allow them to go into the room.

Like I said I just posted as a suggestion and wondered what the response would be to the idea.

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"How would you verify they are definitely under 30? People can lie and change their age etc "
was going to say the same I know 4 guys on here who have changed to a younger age.

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By *essex1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth


"How would you verify they are definitely under 30? People can lie and change their age etc was going to say the same I know 4 guys on here who have changed to a younger age. "

thats creepy and shouldn't be allowed. should only be allowed to change age up by one year once a year!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very much like the idea.. But as everyone's pointed the flaws can't see it happening

I'd like to see some "interests" groups,

Like sports for the men etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

look this is getting ridiculous now. leave the poor boy alone.

the idea of an under 30's chatroom wouldn't restrict people who are over 30 from entering any more than a gay nightclub can restrict straight people from entering. its not about exclusivity, its about giving some of the younger guys a place to hang out where they can talk to other young people or even older people who are into the younger peoples.

cougars and cubs can find eachother a little easier. young romance can blossom and brad and janet can soon hope to find themselves in another man's castle wearing a corset and singing show tunes.

is this not what the internet is for?

i say let them eat cake

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We would like a room full of single girls just for us please.... preferably all wearing bikinis...playing strip poker and kiss chase all day.... oh and they must be virgins but experienced in oral....that would be very kind thank you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter how many rooms there are the rooms will have a wide range of ages in them so under 30s over 30s under 40s over 40s silver surfers anything else

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't meet anyone under the age of 35 as I would have nothing in common with them to talk about other than sex. Not a bad thing I guess but the 40's will know what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I very much like the idea.. But as everyone's pointed the flaws can't see it happening

I'd like to see some "interests" groups,

Like sports for the men etc"

Because women dont like sport?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would like a room full of single girls just for us please.... preferably all wearing bikinis...playing strip poker and kiss chase all day.... oh and they must be virgins but experienced in oral....that would be very kind thank you... "

Oh, a new career for me...cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I very much like the idea.. But as everyone's pointed the flaws can't see it happening

I'd like to see some "interests" groups,

Like sports for the men etc

Because women dont like sport? "

I didn't mean it like that just rooms for general interests,

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By *ust_for_laughsCouple
over a year ago

Hinckley


"I very much like the idea.. But as everyone's pointed the flaws can't see it happening

I'd like to see some "interests" groups,

Like sports for the men etc

Because women dont like sport?

I didn't mean it like that just rooms for general interests, "

It could be like a Wacky Warehouse, bolted onto the side of one of the main rooms, with a ball pool and Fruit Shoots !

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By *NicenNaughteyCouple
over a year ago

Preston

seen this with under 35 munches before now lets face it why the hell should age matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"look this is getting ridiculous now. leave the poor boy alone.

the idea of an under 30's chatroom wouldn't restrict people who are over 30 from entering any more than a gay nightclub can restrict straight people from entering. its not about exclusivity, its about giving some of the younger guys a place to hang out where they can talk to other young people or even older people who are into the younger peoples.

cougars and cubs can find eachother a little easier. young romance can blossom and brad and janet can soon hope to find themselves in another man's castle wearing a corset and singing show tunes.

is this not what the internet is for?

i say let them eat cake"

anyone entering a room would know its aimed at an age bracket, and therefore would enter at their peril.

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"tbh not thought out the specifics.

I'd have thought it's be possible to limit people in the room as it is possible to filter out people looking at profiles.

As for the couple think I think if one is younger then it would be reasonable to allow them to go into the room.

Like I said I just posted as a suggestion and wondered what the response would be to the idea. "

so then it isn't an under 30's chatroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A safe haven for txtspk and crap music.

Eek I sound really old now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A safe haven for txtspk and crap music.

Eek I sound really old now. "

You don't look it though, so that's fine.

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By *essex1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A safe haven for txtspk and crap music.

Eek I sound really old now. "

Yes because all under 30's use text speak and listen to crap music..

Just what do you class as crap music?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe bi ladys chat room too ...... no men , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A safe haven for txtspk and crap music.

Eek I sound really old now.

Yes because all under 30's use text speak and listen to crap music..

Just what do you class as crap music? "

personally? any over generic bassy music with an overly repetative loop, with lyrics you could write down on a business card, being about self indulgent bullshit, drugs, bitches or ofcourse that dirty stinking bass that everybody seems to love nowadays.

oh and incase anyone is wondering, yes i have a BA in music, specialising in compositions and experimentation. i've been a part of the music industry for some time now and in my spare time i work in a nightclub that caters for BOTH decent rock music and the heavily generic dance/electro/dubstep, so i think i know what im talking about when it comes to identifying decent music and shit.

god i hate how i've gotten so old so quickly

rant over

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

If you want something specific which is not on the main menu then you will have to pay for it. The site is free now but getting it tailored to your own wants and needs will cost and someone has to pay.

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By *essex1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

haha I know people think there should bea specific room for things e.g single bi fems and sport etc but age is a general thing and generally people of similar ages would more likely to have similar interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"haha I know people think there should bea specific room for things e.g single bi fems and sport etc but age is a general thing and generally people of similar ages would more likely to have similar interests "
like bi woman , Bi men .. fetishes younger men loving older woman , ooo my list could go into 100s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A safe haven for txtspk and crap music.

Eek I sound really old now.

Yes because all under 30's use text speak and listen to crap music..

Just what do you class as crap music?

personally? any over generic bassy music with an overly repetative loop, with lyrics you could write down on a business card, being about self indulgent bullshit, drugs, bitches or ofcourse that dirty stinking bass that everybody seems to love nowadays.

oh and incase anyone is wondering, yes i have a BA in music, specialising in compositions and experimentation. i've been a part of the music industry for some time now and in my spare time i work in a nightclub that caters for BOTH decent rock music and the heavily generic dance/electro/dubstep, so i think i know what im talking about when it comes to identifying decent music and shit.

god i hate how i've gotten so old so quickly

rant over "

Fair point, I quite like a dirty stinking bass.. Each to their own I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow I feel old!lol. Wish I was 29 again. Never wanted to join the 30 something club. Unfortunately it's one that o have no choice in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

Wondering if I could drum up some support for an under 30's room on chat.

I feel that sometimes on chat older members cut younger members out. I'm not against talking/playing with older couples/members in anyway just think it would be nice for somewhere for younger members to talk to eachother.

... any thoughts/support/ideas from anyone would be appreciated!"

well to be honest i am one of the elders of chat ha ha really old and love to chat to the youngens dont medt but chat to em. A lot of fbs one is under 30 and one is over 30 what happens then ya gotta split em up in chat. What you want us to do send our birth certificates to site owners lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I think it should be rooms broken up into 5 year groups. So 20 to 25's in one room 26 to 30 in another etc. If you are found in the wrong room then you are banned for life and killed RIGHT IN THE FACE!!!

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By *issMillieMinxTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I'm under a 30 year old, can I join?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A safe haven for txtspk and crap music.

Eek I sound really old now. "

How......'MATURE'

We have found that its the older guys that cannot string a sentence together......

Love how its all the oldies getting up tight about the idea!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

This idea raises serious issues for the time-travelling community in chat.

For that reason, I'm out...

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I think it should be rooms broken up into 5 year groups. So 20 to 25's in one room 26 to 30 in another etc. If you are found in the wrong room then you are banned for life and killed RIGHT IN THE FACE!!! "

I don't think that goes far enough....

Are you becoming too kind to rule breakers in your old age?...

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By *ust_for_laughsCouple
over a year ago

Hinckley


"A safe haven for txtspk and crap music.

Eek I sound really old now.

Yes because all under 30's use text speak and listen to crap music..

Just what do you class as crap music?

personally? any over generic bassy music with an overly repetative loop, with lyrics you could write down on a business card, being about self indulgent bullshit, drugs, bitches or ofcourse that dirty stinking bass that everybody seems to love nowadays.

oh and incase anyone is wondering, yes i have a BA in music, specialising in compositions and experimentation. i've been a part of the music industry for some time now and in my spare time i work in a nightclub that caters for BOTH decent rock music and the heavily generic dance/electro/dubstep, so i think i know what im talking about when it comes to identifying decent music and shit.

god i hate how i've gotten so old so quickly

rant over "

Define decent rock music...

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By *essex1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth


"A safe haven for txtspk and crap music.

Eek I sound really old now.

How......'MATURE'

We have found that its the older guys that cannot string a sentence together......

Love how its all the oldies getting up tight about the idea! "

Agreed, on chat older women write well and its the men that resort to cavemanisms!

Agree also I think we've touched a nerve with some oldies!

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

You could try posting a thread on the forums about it to see if any other under thirties are interested and if so you could all meet in one of the little used chatrooms like verified users or site supporters rooms.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I think the Under 30's should have their own chat room if they want one.....I'd enjoy watching them try to police it though, could be quite comical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a chat room which is populated by me and big boobed redheaded ladies with loose morals who live within 50 miles of Nottingham.

Age is less relevant.

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"I think it should be rooms broken up into 5 year groups. So 20 to 25's in one room 26 to 30 in another etc. If you are found in the wrong room then you are banned for life and killed RIGHT IN THE FACE!!! "

Lol, can I do the kicking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

Wondering if I could drum up some support for an under 30's room on chat.

I feel that sometimes on chat older members cut younger members out. I'm not against talking/playing with older couples/members in anyway just think it would be nice for somewhere for younger members to talk to eachother.

... any thoughts/support/ideas from anyone would be appreciated!"

Cant you make it under 35? I dont want stuck in with all the oldies. lol.

Thing is know many a young man on here lying saying there older. And older men saying there younger. How you gonna proove that one.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Now look! I already said no! Stop backchatting me...

Do you want me to send you all to your room?

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By *essex1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

Hopey I was going to reply as a message but ironically I'm to young!

Check my pics I'm def 21!

I think it would be interesting to trial...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hopey I was going to reply as a message but ironically I'm to young!

Check my pics I'm def 21!

I think it would be interesting to trial..."

And I can tell your 21 by those photos?

Actually meet with a younger lad and he was not the age he stated, found out through a social site, doh!

Though most profiles are misleading on here with description and age, etc.

I would defo's welcome a younger room. Though maybe say there's a 18-30 room, 30-49 and a 50+ room.

But then I'd need to lie to get in the 18-30 room, damn, haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"tbh not thought out the specifics.

I'd have thought it's be possible to limit people in the room as it is possible to filter out people looking at profiles.

As for the couple think I think if one is younger then it would be reasonable to allow them to go into the room.

Like I said I just posted as a suggestion and wondered what the response would be to the idea. "

A way to make it easier on chat would to have the age and sex of the person beside there user id on chat instead of having to go searching for it on there profile.

But then again people lie about there age. Works on other sites though.

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By *essex1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

In two camps about this, letting older people in would be good, especially yummy cougar mummy's but it would just be the same as what is on offer now and would be full of older men all the time..... Hmmm.

Maybe a strict young room would be the best way or young people can kick out older people.... Not sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In two camps about this, letting older people in would be good, especially yummy cougar mummy's but it would just be the same as what is on offer now and would be full of older men all the time..... Hmmm.

Maybe a strict young room would be the best way or young people can kick out older people.... Not sure"

I'm offically not a cougar till I'm 40, well thats's what a young man told me.

I think you need to think your idea through better before campaigning for anything.

The age thing, would then open a whole can of worms, like a good looking, bad looking, or that damn ugly you should be booted from the site. And so on. : P

Don;t think it is feasible, but certainly having an age and sex of the person beside there username would help some. Means you don't have to go spend time opening profiles to find everything out.

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"Hi,

Wondering if I could drum up some support for an under 30's room on chat.

I feel that sometimes on chat older members cut younger members out. I'm not against talking/playing with older couples/members in anyway just think it would be nice for somewhere for younger members to talk to eachother.

... any thoughts/support/ideas from anyone would be appreciated!"

already available on another popular swing site where you can create your own rooms..

it still doesn't prevent people coming in that don't meet the title.

so they also allow you to make rooms private requiring a password..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me what categories of rooms there were, so yes have an Under 30s room and an oldies room.

But I do think it should be very heavily moderated and policed and anyone caught in an inappropriate room be immediately banned, or killed as in Funky's suggestion.

Maybe at first you'd get these crossovers but eventually people would show their true colours via various interests, ie, anyone knowing who Simon Le Bon is immediately kicked out of the under 30s and anyone knowing who Oli Sykes is kicked out the oldies room.

My main gripe would be youngsters trying to come into the oldies room to steal our sex secrets and experience

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My main gripe would be youngsters trying to come into the oldies room to steal our sex secrets and experience

"

I have my own oldie so as soon as your God' waiting room is set up I'll send him in to steal all your secrets and your cod liver oil so nerrrrrr, what you gonna do about it?!

crystal

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Hi,

Wondering if I could drum up some support for an under 30's room on chat.

I feel that sometimes on chat older members cut younger members out. I'm not against talking/playing with older couples/members in anyway just think it would be nice for somewhere for younger members to talk to eachother.

... any thoughts/support/ideas from anyone would be appreciated!"

O.P ? It's an internet room. No one is shouting louder than anyone else.

Only YOUR fingers are on YOUR keyboard.

How come you've reached the decision that you have been 'cut out' what ever that means ?

Do you mean the older people won't speak to you or do you mean they take YOUR younger people away from you?

I'm having trouble understanding. Forgive me tho .....cos im an oldie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My main gripe would be youngsters trying to come into the oldies room to steal our sex secrets and experience

I have my own oldie so as soon as your God' waiting room is set up I'll send him in to steal all your secrets and your cod liver oil so nerrrrrr, what you gonna do about it?!

crystal "

Well this is a difficult one Crystal as its too late now, I suspect you know and have experienced the sex skills of an older experienced man. You must be sworn to secrecy

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By *essex1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My main gripe would be youngsters trying to come into the oldies room to steal our sex secrets and experience

I have my own oldie so as soon as your God' waiting room is set up I'll send him in to steal all your secrets and your cod liver oil so nerrrrrr, what you gonna do about it?!

crystal

Well this is a difficult one Crystal as its too late now, I suspect you know and have experienced the sex skills of an older experienced man. You must be sworn to secrecy "

Was he supposed to make me promise to keep those secrets secret? He must have forgotten his meds that day...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


" I know 4 guys on here who have changed to a younger age. "

Only four?!!

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By *essex1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth


" I know 4 guys on here who have changed to a younger age.

Only four?!! "

Lol

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I don't think it's too bad an idea, as others have said though it'd be difficult to police if needed, but at least it would give you an idea that maybe you wouldn't want to go in there if you weren't interested in younger folk...the only chat room I ever go in is Canada on forum invasions, and I've never been anywhere near a Mountie (apart from in the occasional daydream lol)

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Hi,

Wondering if I could drum up some support for an under 30's room on chat.

I feel that sometimes on chat older members cut younger members out. I'm not against talking/playing with older couples/members in anyway just think it would be nice for somewhere for younger members to talk to eachother.

... any thoughts/support/ideas from anyone would be appreciated!"

see.. I see that as trying to have it both ways....

where people complain about age... and yet you want an age restriction, but yet when people exercise the right to that very preference... people moan..

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"It wouldn't bother me what categories of rooms there were, so yes have an Under 30s room and an oldies room.

But I do think it should be very heavily moderated and policed and anyone caught in an inappropriate room be immediately banned, or killed as in Funky's suggestion.

Maybe at first you'd get these crossovers but eventually people would show their true colours via various interests, ie, anyone knowing who Simon Le Bon is immediately kicked out of the under 30s and anyone knowing who Oli Sykes is kicked out the oldies room.

My main gripe would be youngsters trying to come into the oldies room to steal our sex secrets and experience

"

Jesus that means I am an oldie at 31......

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By *essex1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

Haha I guess you are.

Maybe it could be a similar policy to the directing/non-directing rooms where oldies would be blocked if they start pestering people - as with people who direct in non directing rooms

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I'm a bit confused as to why you'd want to exclude one of your target groups from the chat room you are in??

I see you said you could let older yummy mummy's in..who decides who's yummy and who's not? Then what If the young girls want hot older guys in? Before you know it.. Everyone's in there! Bit like the original chat rooms you wanted to change from in the first place. Lol.

The main problem is where does it end? First a room for under 30's then everyone starts requesting rooms that they want. Not a bad idea but just don't think it will work put into practice.

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