FabSwingers.com forum: Verification.

By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

New here, trying to get a verification. Asked a number of verified people if they'd meet me, to verify, and only that.

Everybody I've asked has been abusive in their replies. As if I'd asked for their credit card no,.

Can anyone let me know in DM why this is such an issue. For context, I'm a single guy, looking for meets and events

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By *layfullsamMan
49 weeks ago

Solihull

"New here, trying to get a verification. Asked a number of verified people if they'd meet me, to verify, and only that.

Everybody I've asked has been abusive in their replies. As if I'd asked for their credit card no,.

Can anyone let me know in DM why this is such an issue. For context, I'm a single guy, looking for meets and events"

Go to an event or club it’s as simple as that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

Thank you _layfullsam x

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By *orny-DJMan
48 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Because the only reason you're showing any interest in them is for the little green tick.

People on fab are here for their own enjoyment and not interested in doing favours for anybody who asks. Most lead busy lives away from here and many value whatever free time they do have.

Don't be so hung up on getting your first verification. Your approach is actually putting up more barriers.

Not everyone on here insists that you be verified.

Just try interacting with people and getting yourself known around the site for the right reasons and try not to come across as so desperate.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
48 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

So, you're asking people to take time out of their day to meet you. Not because you're interested in them, not because you think it'll go anywhere, but purely so they can be the stepping stone for you to fuck the people you actually find attractive?

Seems a fair ask. Don't know why anyone would be put out by it

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
48 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Go to a social if you're getting no joy individually. I have no idea about the cam side of life but if it's about verifications maybe that is an alternative? Certainly you see that a lot...cam verifications

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By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

I never actually thought of it that way. New here, what do I know lol. Thank you for the reply

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
48 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

And if it's any consolation buddy, I did take time out of my busy schedule to meet someone for coffee this week. Purely social. To verify.

I like coffee. It was no sweat.

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By *electableicecreamMan
48 weeks ago

The West

Over on the Irish forum we have the Help a Fabber Out thread where anyone can request a coffee meet for verification and then other fabbers will message them, meet them and verify them. It works really well

I got my first verification on that thread and I have returned the favour to others.

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By *TG3Man
48 weeks ago

Dorchester

Go on cam in the cam rooms

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By *ennyleeeWoman
48 weeks ago

Southampton

"New here, trying to get a verification. Asked a number of verified people if they'd meet me, to verify, and only that.

Everybody I've asked has been abusive in their replies. As if I'd asked for their credit card no,.

Can anyone let me know in DM why this is such an issue. For context, I'm a single guy, looking for meets and events"

I will verify you over a Skype call

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By *hrimper36Couple
48 weeks ago

Central France dept 36

"New here, trying to get a verification. Asked a number of verified people if they'd meet me, to verify, and only that.

Everybody I've asked has been abusive in their replies. As if I'd asked for their credit card no,.

Can anyone let me know in DM why this is such an issue. For context, I'm a single guy, looking for meets and events

I will verify you over a Skype call "

There you go op all your dreams come true.

And op try using the reply+quote button if replying on a thread because it does help others know who you are replying too.

Your swinging life will change when you get that green tick or maybe it won’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Instead of hiding behind a phone screen, get out into the lifestyle. Go to a club or social event and you may even pick up several verifications in just one visit. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

Thank you

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
48 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Over on the Irish forum we have the Help a Fabber Out thread where anyone can request a coffee meet for verification and then other fabbers will message them, meet them and verify them. It works really well

I got my first verification on that thread and I have returned the favour to others."

That's a decent idea. Pay it forward no doubt too.

At least the OP has some solid offers now.

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By *itygamesMan
48 weeks ago

Why would you need to ask for a verification ? from a stranger ?...

Get a real one , go to a club , go on a date , go on cam

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By *parkle1974Woman
48 weeks ago

Leeds

I got my first verification on that thread and I have returned the favour to others."

I think that's a brill idea x

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