FabSwingers.com forum: Twenty eight.

By *eli OP Woman
40 weeks ago

Has being on Fab changed you in anyway?

Are there things you've explored/experienced that you didn't think you ever would? That the old you would be certain you'd say no to this?

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By *ayRyuMan
40 weeks ago

Harrogate

Yes, it's changed perceptions on other people's views about things I would say I was closed off about.

Generally. I think I'm more tolerant these days.

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By *ellhungvweMan
40 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I would say the only thing I have tried that I probably would never consider before was being spanked in front of a group of people - I never really thought I would enjoy pain but it was definitely quite exhilarating.

Everything else I wanted to do anyway!

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By *electableicecreamMan
40 weeks ago

The West

I never photographed myself before I joined fab and it's through that process I've come to appreciate my body in a way that I didn't before. I literally see it in a different light.

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By *cLovin2Man
40 weeks ago

Reading

"Has being on Fab changed you in anyway?

Are there things you've explored/experienced that you didn't think you ever would? That the old you would be certain you'd say no to this?

Coming onto fab led me to my first time at a swinger's club, I was in total shock the first time, a room full of people fucking away, most teenage boys fantasy.

It has changed me as I am not shy about wanting to fulfil my desires. I was taught like many others to be ashamed of such feelings growing up.

So it's been a good experience.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
40 weeks ago

Essex

I love myself a little bit more.

I love people a little bit less.

That is possibly a little bit dark of me. But I am far far less trusting. A lot more cynical.

I was never a romantic & im so glad of that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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40 weeks ago

East Sussex

I've certainly tried things that I never thought I would .

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
40 weeks ago

Debauchery

I want to say it hasn’t changed me, I think I’ve always been a pervert, but it probably has.

Without wanting to sound cheesy I’ve never been more conscious of how a woman should be treated. That could be an age thing with me.

Cherry says she is probably more of a pervert, but has found a home for that and has met pervert friends to be amongst.

We both met on here having had some experience so it probably hasn’t changed us as a couple.

Hades

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By *iasubTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Ilkeston

As cringy as it probably sounds its allowed me to actually be me. Not what everyone else wants and given me the confidence to do so

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
40 weeks ago

Reading

Yes it has rather corrupted me.

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By *ympha LuxuriaWoman
40 weeks ago

La La Land

"Has being on Fab changed you in anyway?

Are there things you've explored/experienced that you didn't think you ever would? That the old you would be certain you'd say no to this?

I have definitely ticked off my 'fuck it' list over the years, thank you Fab

But I don't think I have changed....I'm still just little old me

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By *eyond PurityCouple
40 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

It’s changed us sexually - we’ve both delved down rabbit holes and explored new ways of play/BDSM and the numbers of people we like to play with.

We’ve had the best of both a single female and single male and they’ve raised the bar so we’ve become accustomed to a great connection and that’s hard to replicate then.

But the great thing about this is we don’t need others for a fantastic sex life; so it’s all a bonus if it happens.

This lifestyle has open our eyes and minds.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Yep. I was an open, chatty, empathetic person and now I'm a hardass bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I think it has.

It’s allowed me to be more open about what I want, so I guess it’s helped my confidence a bit too.

I’ve done things that if someone had suggested to me a few years ago i would have immediately said no, but I’m so glad now that I got to experience those things.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
40 weeks ago

kent

"I love myself a little bit more.

I love people a little bit less.

That is possibly a little bit dark of me. But I am far far less trusting. A lot more cynical.

I was never a romantic & im so glad of that."

I couldn’t have said this better. Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Not changed me. Opened my eyes to how sex life can be more varied. Clubs where you can meet fellow swingers. Sex should be fun always.

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By *a LunaWoman
40 weeks ago

South Wales

Only in that I’ve come to appreciate that actually I’m more of a relationship kind of gal than a casual sex gal, and if I do have casual sex I prefer it to happen organically and be spontaneous rather than pre planning it.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I've just been thinking about this Meli! Certainly the pre-pandemic me would loathe the idea of going to big socials and clubs with people I don't know and would go with the mindset that I wouldn't have a good time. But doing that through Fab has made a huge impact on my social life and being more proactive with it instead of waiting for things to happen and being left behind.

Sexually, I think I've surprised myself with how open-minded I am to trying different things depending on the partner I'm with to the point I think I even surprised them as well!

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
40 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Turns out our age limits are a little more flexible in person Meli. That's all I'm saying.

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By *ittle. BeaverWoman
40 weeks ago

Launceston

It's made me more adventurous in the sack, and revel in the lack of being judged!

What about you Meli?

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By *edeWoman
40 weeks ago

the abyss

Why did I sing the end of that question

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Turns out our age limits are a little more flexible in person Meli. That's all I'm saying.

Same actually

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
40 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

"Why did I sing the end of that question

Because you've listened to my playlists too many times

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By *adyBugsWoman
40 weeks ago

cognito

It’s turned me into a tough old goat.

— because there’s no goat emoticon

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By *edeWoman
40 weeks ago

the abyss

"Why did I sing the end of that question

Because you've listened to my playlists too many times

Hahahaha so true!! I may have danced around naked a few times too

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By *imisugarWoman
40 weeks ago

Rugby

Definitely changed me.

Realised things I like I never knew before.

Some negatives but I feel that's part of the experience of this place.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Yes it has in a lot off ways

Before fab I was a bit conventional looking back on life before fab it highlights a big mastke I made with someone that I never took in to account

After 10 years on fab I would like to think I am very opened up

As for trying new things yes a lot not go in to what

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By *stellaWoman
40 weeks ago

London

Yes. It’s given me more confidence.

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By *C79Man
40 weeks ago

Caterham

It has allowed me to try things I never had the bravery to do before. My very first social ended in a mmf which was great fun. After years of disliking my body, I gained the confidence to not care so much about what others thought & enjoyed naked strolls along the beach in PDI. That was probably one of the most peaceful moments I've ever had

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By *eli OP Woman
39 weeks ago

"Yes, it's changed perceptions on other people's views about things I would say I was closed off about.

Generally. I think I'm more tolerant these days. "

Oh that's really positive! Yes, I'm the same. There are certain views I held but once I learnt more about why others particularly enjoyed it, I found my "tolerance" increasing.

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