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"I hate those moany threads where people complain about how other Fab users do things. But this is a thread about double standards so I’m going to do exactly that! When someone posts a status saying men who ask for meets without even seeing any face pics are ‘desperate’ - even though she’s been messaging me asking for a meet for the past fortnight without seeing any pics of my face (or sharing any of hers). Or when someone’s profile headline shouts “NO married men!” with capital letters and everything - but then they contact you asking for a meet with a message that starts “I know you’re married but …” Two examples is probably enough. Your turn: Give me your examples of two-faced men, deceitful women, untrustworthy trannies, and couples ignoring their own rules … Play nice though. Keep things anonymous. No names or identifying features please. This is about things that make you laugh and shake your head, not things that need Police intervention. " I think demanding a face pic in the first message while refusing to return the favour is pretty annoying. If she's not responding, or of she's just telling me to "fuck off" then fair enough but, don't ask for a face pic and engage me in conversation while refusing to show me your face. Women | |||
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"The ones that come to mind are forum comments rather than status updates or messages. People who are extremely vocal about not meeting married people but argued vociferously that people should not be judged for meeting others during covid lockdowns as it was nobody's business apart from those they were meeting and they should be allowed to do as they wish. Those who insist that a man who can't or won't accommodate is obviously married while a woman who can't or won't accommodate is protecting her privacy. Those who insist that a man who stands a woman up is a bullet dodged and a definite cunt while a man who is stood up by a woman must be a cunt because she didn't meet him. Fab is full of inconsistent behaviour but then again it's not really inconsistent if you know the people involved and how they run with the hare and hunt with the hounds." I think the consistency that runs through these is "rules are for thee and not for me" | |||
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"Those that insist on discretion whilst their profile is plastered with explicit pictures!" | |||
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"I hate those moany threads where people complain about how other Fab users do things. But this is a thread about double standards so I’m going to do exactly that! When someone posts a status saying men who ask for meets without even seeing any face pics are ‘desperate’ - even though she’s been messaging me asking for a meet for the past fortnight without seeing any pics of my face (or sharing any of hers). Or when someone’s profile headline shouts “NO married men!” with capital letters and everything - but then they contact you asking for a meet with a message that starts “I know you’re married but …” Two examples is probably enough. Your turn: Give me your examples of two-faced men, deceitful women, untrustworthy trannies, and couples ignoring their own rules … Play nice though. Keep things anonymous. No names or identifying features please. This is about things that make you laugh and shake your head, not things that need Police intervention. " I probably see status updates similar to yours. I have to admit there’s maybe four or five that I’d never contact given what I see on them. It works both ways I guess. | |||
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"Those that insist on discretion whilst their profile is plastered with explicit pictures!" That always makes me laugh. | |||
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"You'll be sucking on my cock for hours, but I'm not putting my mouth near your nasty genitals; that's for girlfriends only." I don't understand guys who won't go down on women. It's one of life's most basic and rewarding pleasures. | |||
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"Those people who bleat on their profile about the need for others to make an effort in their first message - “Don’t be boring! Say something interesting in your first message or I’ll just delete you! Such examples of no effort are: ‘Hey’, how u doin’ etc. Ask me something!” And then they send me a message saying “Hey.” " Haha! Yep. That one happens a LOT. | |||
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"People asking for face pics, without attaching their own and none on profile. Or when you've had to give someone the polite no thanks, getting responses back along the lines of "why?" or "but you don't even know me"" I could live a year on a polite "no thanks"! Haha | |||
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"Can't travel, can't accommodate. Looking for ..." Ethereal experience ? | |||
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"Can't travel, can't accommodate. Looking for ... Ethereal experience ?" That one doesn't seem like double standards to me. That means "can travel under specific circumstances, can accommodate under specific circumstances". It's to ward off the jokers who go "here's an extreme close up of my genitals, fancy travelling 200 miles/ giving me your address?" | |||
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"Can't travel, can't accommodate. Looking for ... Ethereal experience ?" That’s tickled me! | |||
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"Can't travel, can't accommodate. Looking for ... Ethereal experience ? That’s tickled me! " I promise, it wasn't me | |||
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"I think you nailed the big one for me, women who say they don’t like cheating / cheaters , complain if they get cheated on but more happy to meet one " I'm with you on this one Mrs | |||
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"In the true spirit of double standards I’m sure I’m guilty of something or other as well. I can be a right dick at times." Or a left dick depending on how you're hanging? | |||
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"Or a left dick depending on how you're hanging? " Anytime you want to check, Alder. Just cop a feel. | |||
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"Those who say “manners cost nothing” and then send you the most aggressive message ever " Something I see everywhere…the ones who keep saying ‘be kind’ all the time are usually anything but. | |||
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"Those who say “manners cost nothing” and then send you the most aggressive message ever " I think they confused getting what they want, with you saying no! | |||
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"Those who say “manners cost nothing” and then send you the most aggressive message ever Something I see everywhere…the ones who keep saying ‘be kind’ all the time are usually anything but. " Big agree on this one. Have seen some status updates that do not align with the profile information. Not so carefree and fun outlook etc. | |||
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"I hate those moany threads where people complain about how other Fab users do things. But this is a thread about double standards so I’m going to do exactly that! When someone posts a status saying men who ask for meets without even seeing any face pics are ‘desperate’ - even though she’s been messaging me asking for a meet for the past fortnight without seeing any pics of my face (or sharing any of hers). Or when someone’s profile headline shouts “NO married men!” with capital letters and everything - but then they contact you asking for a meet with a message that starts “I know you’re married but …” Two examples is probably enough. Your turn: Give me your examples of two-faced men, deceitful women, untrustworthy trannies, and couples ignoring their own rules … Play nice though. Keep things anonymous. No names or identifying features please. This is about things that make you laugh and shake your head, not things that need Police intervention. " | |||
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"Women with really harsh profiles, who are t interested in meeting. And then have new veris pop up. Awful behaviour " Do you know many of such women? | |||
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"The biggest double standard on here is the reaction to a single man posting the exact same thread topic a couple or single woman has posted." Yeah this kind of thing is. Like I’ll do a tight boxer thread or someone will do a tackle swinging about in grey joggers thread and everyone loves it. A man does a thread mentioning camel toe and he’s fucking slated! | |||
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"The biggest double standard on here is the reaction to a single man posting the exact same thread topic a couple or single woman has posted. Yeah this kind of thing is. Like I’ll do a tight boxer thread or someone will do a tackle swinging about in grey joggers thread and everyone loves it. A man does a thread mentioning camel toe and he’s fucking slated! " Exactly. I haven’t seen it recently but cheating threads were always the worst. Man cheating = Scum Woman cheating = “You deserve a good sex life” | |||
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"The biggest double standard on here is the reaction to a single man posting the exact same thread topic a couple or single woman has posted. Yeah this kind of thing is. Like I’ll do a tight boxer thread or someone will do a tackle swinging about in grey joggers thread and everyone loves it. A man does a thread mentioning camel toe and he’s fucking slated! Exactly. I haven’t seen it recently but cheating threads were always the worst. Man cheating = Scum Woman cheating = “You deserve a good sex life”" Oh definitely!! Woman cheating it’s more a ahh bless you you poor thing vibe! Man cheating is a scumbag. Really pisses me off | |||
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"Women to men - Make sure your message is well thought out and breaks down point by point why I should even consider giving you the time of day. You also need to match every single thing on my physical, mental, emotional and personality level. Womens vibe in return - Hey." Oh yes this! And men told to 'improve themselves', up their game, stand out, maximise their profile, take better photos, etc. Try that in reverse! | |||
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"Probably not a double standard but - Threads where its couples only or guys looking for guys, its populated by couples or guys, with no input from the non target parties. Threads on ladies looking for ladies, there are always comments from guys about being allowed to watch or join in. " The idea of having threads only for a subset of the forum is just wrong. | |||
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"Probably not a double standard but - Threads where its couples only or guys looking for guys, its populated by couples or guys, with no input from the non target parties. Threads on ladies looking for ladies, there are always comments from guys about being allowed to watch or join in. The idea of having threads only for a subset of the forum is just wrong." Not really. There are plenty of threads where there's a specific target audience, whether that's men, women, couples, TV/TS's, BBC's, BBW's, older, younger, bi, straight....the list is pretty much endless. Mostly out of the lounge of course and as always anyone can comment. But what's the point if it's a topic that isn't aimed at you? I doubt many straight guys would leap on a thread asking for bi guys experiences of MMF's. What input could men have on previous experience of FF meets? There's room for all. And that includes people seeking a specific target audience. 🤷♂️ | |||
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"I did meet a couple who said no kissing which I respected. Imagine my surprise when I met the lady on her own, she was a fabulous kisser." Wouldn’t that be cheating? | |||
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"Really winds me up when a couple ask for a face pic, you send one only to be told not for us, wouldn’t it be decency to send one back then maybe say sorry not for us?? " No 😂 why would I send my face to someone I'm not interested in, that would be of no good to anyone. Ask for theirs 1st if you don't like it, but let's face it no one's going to send one to someone that's not for them, it's like no thanks but here's what you could have had. Mrs | |||
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"The biggest double standard on here is the reaction to a single man posting the exact same thread topic a couple or single woman has posted. Yeah this kind of thing is. Like I’ll do a tight boxer thread or someone will do a tackle swinging about in grey joggers thread and everyone loves it. A man does a thread mentioning camel toe and he’s fucking slated! Exactly. I haven’t seen it recently but cheating threads were always the worst. Man cheating = Scum Woman cheating = “You deserve a good sex life”" I have definitely seen the irony when seeing certain forum members suck air through their teeth and judge cheaters on the forum, while being married on the QT. | |||
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"Really winds me up when a couple ask for a face pic, you send one only to be told not for us, wouldn’t it be decency to send one back then maybe say sorry not for us?? " We ask for face pictures if you message us first.Then if you are not for us we reply but really at that point why would we send our face pictures.Also we have had face pictures of people we know & couldn't meet. | |||
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"The biggest double standard on here is the reaction to a single man posting the exact same thread topic a couple or single woman has posted. Yeah this kind of thing is. Like I’ll do a tight boxer thread or someone will do a tackle swinging about in grey joggers thread and everyone loves it. A man does a thread mentioning camel toe and he’s fucking slated! Exactly. I haven’t seen it recently but cheating threads were always the worst. Man cheating = Scum Woman cheating = “You deserve a good sex life” I have definitely seen the irony when seeing certain forum members suck air through their teeth and judge cheaters on the forum, while being married on the QT." Or people slating the married ones where I’ve thought you obviously don’t know that person you’re meeting is married! | |||
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"Can't travel, can't accommodate. Looking for ..." This is just a filter The number of posts from people that don't understand it is proof of how well it works | |||
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"Or people slating the married ones where I’ve thought you obviously don’t know that person you’re meeting is married!" Side note, if anyone knows the asshole I'm fucking is married, please do tell me. When they neglect their families hard enough and have mastered the lies over years it's pretty difficult to tell 💜 | |||
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"I hate when women are all like 'i don't wanna fuck you brucey' but then fuck others! What the fuck! Get some STANDARDS ladies. And not double ones!" I'd give you a sympathy shag Brucey 💜 | |||
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"I hate when women are all like 'i don't wanna fuck you brucey' but then fuck others! What the fuck! Get some STANDARDS ladies. And not double ones! I'd give you a sympathy shag Brucey 💜" And I would enjoy it. See people, this right here is a CLASSY WOMAN. Have some decency and learn from her | |||
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"I hate those moany threads where people complain about how other Fab users do things. But this is a thread about double standards so I’m going to do exactly that! When someone posts a status saying men who ask for meets without even seeing any face pics are ‘desperate’ - even though she’s been messaging me asking for a meet for the past fortnight without seeing any pics of my face (or sharing any of hers). Or when someone’s profile headline shouts “NO married men!” with capital letters and everything - but then they contact you asking for a meet with a message that starts “I know you’re married but …” Two examples is probably enough. Your turn: Give me your examples of two-faced men, deceitful women, untrustworthy trannies, and couples ignoring their own rules … Play nice though. Keep things anonymous. No names or identifying features please. This is about things that make you laugh and shake your head, not things that need Police intervention. " women that insist on face pics and have blank profiles | |||
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