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By *ose-tinted Glasses OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I hate those moany threads where people complain about how other Fab users do things. But this is a thread about double standards so I’m going to do exactly that!

When someone posts a status saying men who ask for meets without even seeing any face pics are ‘desperate’ - even though she’s been messaging me asking for a meet for the past fortnight without seeing any pics of my face (or sharing any of hers).

Or when someone’s profile headline shouts “NO married men!” with capital letters and everything - but then they contact you asking for a meet with a message that starts “I know you’re married but …”

Two examples is probably enough. Your turn: Give me your examples of two-faced men, deceitful women, untrustworthy trannies, and couples ignoring their own rules …

Play nice though. Keep things anonymous. No names or identifying features please. This is about things that make you laugh and shake your head, not things that need Police intervention.

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

The thing that makes me laugh in double standards world

"What do you mean, I have to send you a private picture of my face. You don't have any pictures of your face that I can see *in public*!"

And apparently it's the person who's been asked to send a private picture that's hard done by, and the person who doesn't have public face pictures is a stuck up so and so.

Yeah. These things are entirely the same, well done dingdong.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

When they demand pics but refuse to send them in return and get pissed when you say no to meeting them

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By *ose-tinted Glasses OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Good start, both of you.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
41 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

My favourite is the local loony.

One minute the status is : X is a fucking WHORE! Attention seeking pathetic blah blah etc. (X being someone she has never met, or met anyone who X has met.)

Twenty minutes later : Why are women on here so vicious and horrible to me?

It tickles me every time.

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By *ealitybitesMan
41 weeks ago

Belfast

The ones that come to mind are forum comments rather than status updates or messages.

People who are extremely vocal about not meeting married people but argued vociferously that people should not be judged for meeting others during covid lockdowns as it was nobody's business apart from those they were meeting and they should be allowed to do as they wish.

Those who insist that a man who can't or won't accommodate is obviously married while a woman who can't or won't accommodate is protecting her privacy.

Those who insist that a man who stands a woman up is a bullet dodged and a definite cunt while a man who is stood up by a woman must be a cunt because she didn't meet him.

Fab is full of inconsistent behaviour but then again it's not really inconsistent if you know the people involved and how they run with the hare and hunt with the hounds.

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By *rill PhilMan
41 weeks ago

Crediton


"I hate those moany threads where people complain about how other Fab users do things. But this is a thread about double standards so I’m going to do exactly that!

When someone posts a status saying men who ask for meets without even seeing any face pics are ‘desperate’ - even though she’s been messaging me asking for a meet for the past fortnight without seeing any pics of my face (or sharing any of hers).

Or when someone’s profile headline shouts “NO married men!” with capital letters and everything - but then they contact you asking for a meet with a message that starts “I know you’re married but …”

Two examples is probably enough. Your turn: Give me your examples of two-faced men, deceitful women, untrustworthy trannies, and couples ignoring their own rules …

Play nice though. Keep things anonymous. No names or identifying features please. This is about things that make you laugh and shake your head, not things that need Police intervention.

"

I think demanding a face pic in the first message while refusing to return the favour is pretty annoying. If she's not responding, or of she's just telling me to "fuck off" then fair enough but, don't ask for a face pic and engage me in conversation while refusing to show me your face.

Women

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The ones that come to mind are forum comments rather than status updates or messages.

People who are extremely vocal about not meeting married people but argued vociferously that people should not be judged for meeting others during covid lockdowns as it was nobody's business apart from those they were meeting and they should be allowed to do as they wish.

Those who insist that a man who can't or won't accommodate is obviously married while a woman who can't or won't accommodate is protecting her privacy.

Those who insist that a man who stands a woman up is a bullet dodged and a definite cunt while a man who is stood up by a woman must be a cunt because she didn't meet him.

Fab is full of inconsistent behaviour but then again it's not really inconsistent if you know the people involved and how they run with the hare and hunt with the hounds."

I think the consistency that runs through these is "rules are for thee and not for me"

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By *estarossa.Woman
41 weeks ago

Flagrante

Those that insist on discretion whilst their profile is plastered with explicit pictures!

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By *icassolifelikeMan
41 weeks ago

Luton


"Those that insist on discretion whilst their profile is plastered with explicit pictures!"

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
41 weeks ago

Staffordshire

It’s the double dicking that really catches my imagination.

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By *ad NannaWoman
41 weeks ago

East London

You'll be sucking on my cock for hours, but I'm not putting my mouth near your nasty genitals; that's for girlfriends only.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Can't travel, can't accommodate. Looking for ...

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By *agnar73Man
41 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"I hate those moany threads where people complain about how other Fab users do things. But this is a thread about double standards so I’m going to do exactly that!

When someone posts a status saying men who ask for meets without even seeing any face pics are ‘desperate’ - even though she’s been messaging me asking for a meet for the past fortnight without seeing any pics of my face (or sharing any of hers).

Or when someone’s profile headline shouts “NO married men!” with capital letters and everything - but then they contact you asking for a meet with a message that starts “I know you’re married but …”

Two examples is probably enough. Your turn: Give me your examples of two-faced men, deceitful women, untrustworthy trannies, and couples ignoring their own rules …

Play nice though. Keep things anonymous. No names or identifying features please. This is about things that make you laugh and shake your head, not things that need Police intervention.

"

I probably see status updates similar to yours. I have to admit there’s maybe four or five that I’d never contact given what I see on them. It works both ways I guess.

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By *ad NannaWoman
41 weeks ago

East London

I want to be the only man you're having sex with...but can you bring a female friend for a threesome.

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By *ayRyuMan
41 weeks ago

Harrogate


"Those that insist on discretion whilst their profile is plastered with explicit pictures!"

That always makes me laugh.

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By *issmorganWoman
41 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I think people will bend their own rules when it suits, ie they have no Married men/women and are verified by openly married members. If they fancy them, it doesn't seem to apply.

Another one that gets me is, I won't accommodate, but expect you to.

I don't accom, it's just for me & my partner,so I wouldn't demand someone else does or automatically think someone's cheating because they don't/can't.

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By *rill PhilMan
41 weeks ago

Crediton


"You'll be sucking on my cock for hours, but I'm not putting my mouth near your nasty genitals; that's for girlfriends only."

I don't understand guys who won't go down on women. It's one of life's most basic and rewarding pleasures.

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By *alcon77Man
41 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

Not sure if the scenario is double standards, but I come across a predicament which presents itself as contradiction of sorts sometimes.

I'll get a friend request from a profile which will say "no ***( add the ethnic group) ..it's not my/our thing.." or words to that effect.

-And i will be part of that ethnic group ( I'm a mixture of many different things) that they have excluded on their profile ..and yet, they have sent me a friend request.

It's a phenomenon I encounter fairly often on the online world.

I told a friend of mine about this quandary, (he's caucasian/british going back generations)..and he joked that perhaps people have some sort of colour chart on their wall..

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By *ellinever70Woman
41 weeks ago

Ayrshire

People who expect others to change their behaviour but won't entertain the notion of changing their own

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By *parkle1974Woman
41 weeks ago

Leeds

The ones who say they don't like facial hair but meet people who do..

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"One of Fab's nice guys"

Sends 5 dick pics and 3 messages within 15 minutes

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

The single guy with his wife's belongings in the background.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Couple's wanting a bloke be gym fit, 6ft tall, hung 8+.

But the pictures of the male half is none of those himself and the female is average. OH YEAH I Forgot IT'S PREFERENCE? Or is it projecting insecurities??

Profiles state don't do bareback, but pictures and verification show they clearly do.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Women who are put off by action shots but will have them on their profile. I get that it's a different audience and men probably enjoy seeing them more than women, but it's still a bit of a double standard.

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By *elix SightedMan
41 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Those people who bleat on their profile about the need for others to make an effort in their first message - “Don’t be boring! Say something interesting in your first message or I’ll just delete you! Such examples of no effort are: ‘Hey’, how u doin’ etc. Ask me something!”

And then they send me a message saying “Hey.”

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By *rHotNottsMan
41 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think you nailed the big one for me, women who say they don’t like cheating / cheaters , complain if they get cheated on but more happy to meet one

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By *ose-tinted Glasses OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"Those people who bleat on their profile about the need for others to make an effort in their first message - “Don’t be boring! Say something interesting in your first message or I’ll just delete you! Such examples of no effort are: ‘Hey’, how u doin’ etc. Ask me something!”

And then they send me a message saying “Hey.”

"

Haha! Yep. That one happens a LOT.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

41 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

No bi/curious guys. With multiple verifications from them.

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By *ringles0510Woman
41 weeks ago

Central Borders

People asking for face pics, without attaching their own and none on profile.

Or when you've had to give someone the polite no thanks, getting responses back along the lines of "why?" or "but you don't even know me"

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By *emorefridaCouple
41 weeks ago

La la land

The women where they say they're all natural they dislike fillers, Botox and the like. Yet their photos are filtered to the max, so fillers to smooth your wrinkles are bad but photo filters doing the same are fine

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By *rill PhilMan
41 weeks ago

Crediton


"People asking for face pics, without attaching their own and none on profile.

Or when you've had to give someone the polite no thanks, getting responses back along the lines of "why?" or "but you don't even know me""

I could live a year on a polite "no thanks"! Haha

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By *obilebottomMan
41 weeks ago

All over


"Can't travel, can't accommodate. Looking for ..."

Ethereal experience ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I always treat you with respect and expect the same in return"

They message you

You either say no thanks or delete

You get a barrage of abuse

yup yup. respect innit

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Can't travel, can't accommodate. Looking for ...

Ethereal experience ?"

That one doesn't seem like double standards to me. That means "can travel under specific circumstances, can accommodate under specific circumstances".

It's to ward off the jokers who go "here's an extreme close up of my genitals, fancy travelling 200 miles/ giving me your address?"

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By *icassolifelikeMan
41 weeks ago

Luton


"Can't travel, can't accommodate. Looking for ...

Ethereal experience ?"

That’s tickled me!

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By *obilebottomMan
41 weeks ago

All over


"Can't travel, can't accommodate. Looking for ...

Ethereal experience ?

That’s tickled me! "

I promise, it wasn't me

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds


"I think you nailed the big one for me, women who say they don’t like cheating / cheaters , complain if they get cheated on but more happy to meet one "

I'm with you on this one

Mrs

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
41 weeks ago

Wales

The women that make demands to every one that approaches them when they don't even reply to men that they have no interest in.

A friend of mine recently said "I'm trying to jump through hoops for a chance at a woman I wouldn't normally look twice at". I initially thought it was a bit harsh. But after hearing some of the demands I kind of see his point.

But again this is down to ratios and we all know this level of entitlement doesn't exist in the real world, or so you'd hope?

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By *ose-tinted Glasses OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

In the true spirit of double standards I’m sure I’m guilty of something or other as well. I can be a right dick at times.

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By *eroLondonMan
41 weeks ago

Covent Garden

As I've often said it's when I receive introductory messages from women whose skills at managing a conversation are significantly less than managing a cock. In particularly when their profile states "must be articulate and hold a conversation". They expect verbosity from me but they're happy to engage in monosyllabic responses in return.

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By *lder.Woman
41 weeks ago

Not Local


"In the true spirit of double standards I’m sure I’m guilty of something or other as well. I can be a right dick at times."

Or a left dick depending on how you're hanging?

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

So.. Face pic.. Moan

Conversation... Moan.

We ever going to stop moaning.. No. I love a good moan sexually when you feel amorous insertion.

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By *ose-tinted Glasses OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"Or a left dick depending on how you're hanging? "

Anytime you want to check, Alder. Just cop a feel.

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
41 weeks ago

Hell

Those who say “manners cost nothing” and then send you the most aggressive message ever

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"Those who say “manners cost nothing” and then send you the most aggressive message ever "

Something I see everywhere…the ones who keep saying ‘be kind’ all the time are usually anything but.

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By *ittle. BeaverWoman
41 weeks ago

Launceston


"Those who say “manners cost nothing” and then send you the most aggressive message ever "

I think they confused getting what they want, with you saying no!

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
41 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Nobody can accuse me of double standards, I don’t have any standards

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
41 weeks ago

Essex

Women with really harsh profiles, who are t interested in meeting.

And then have new veris pop up.

Awful behaviour

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By *imisugarWoman
41 weeks ago

Rugby


"Those who say “manners cost nothing” and then send you the most aggressive message ever

Something I see everywhere…the ones who keep saying ‘be kind’ all the time are usually anything but. "

Big agree on this one.

Have seen some status updates that do not align with the profile information. Not so carefree and fun outlook etc.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
41 weeks ago

London

Someone who says in a thread that they are interested in others opinions and then is critical of all the responses.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
41 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

I was contacted recently by a woman whose profile aggressively stated “READ MY PROFILE BEFORE CONTACTING ME”.

If she had bothered to read mine (and move was 1/3 the length of hers) she’d have seen I explicitly state I’m not looking to meet women.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"I hate those moany threads where people complain about how other Fab users do things. But this is a thread about double standards so I’m going to do exactly that!

When someone posts a status saying men who ask for meets without even seeing any face pics are ‘desperate’ - even though she’s been messaging me asking for a meet for the past fortnight without seeing any pics of my face (or sharing any of hers).

Or when someone’s profile headline shouts “NO married men!” with capital letters and everything - but then they contact you asking for a meet with a message that starts “I know you’re married but …”

Two examples is probably enough. Your turn: Give me your examples of two-faced men, deceitful women, untrustworthy trannies, and couples ignoring their own rules …

Play nice though. Keep things anonymous. No names or identifying features please. This is about things that make you laugh and shake your head, not things that need Police intervention.

"

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By *cottish guy 555Man
41 weeks ago

London


"Women with really harsh profiles, who are t interested in meeting.

And then have new veris pop up.

Awful behaviour "

Do you know many of such women?

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

single guys wanting to go dogging, but dont drive, cant get to a dogging location and either expect you to go to them or expect a lift.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester

I had a funny one today. One guy who clearly hadn't read my profile messaged me. I had a nosey at his and he had the cheek to have written "write ... to show you're read this". The nerve!

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By *imisugarWoman
40 weeks ago

Rugby

"Read my profile before messaging me"

Friend request sent - never interacted with them before.

Baffled.

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By *ansoffateMan
40 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

AHH the when it suits mentality.

That moment when she starts ranting about how someone has done the same thing to her that you pointed out she does earlier.

There's an awkward pause... As the penny drops and she's trying to suss out if you are on it. You just leave the awkward tension to stew and steep - like a Yorkshire teabag on a cold Sunday morning. Swirling it gently with a cheeky smirk, savouring the aroma, till the moment of perfection. Lift the chalice of victory to your lips and taste the glory.

1-0 sweetie... I know I know... I'm a dickhead - but what does that make you?

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By *endalshaggersCouple
8 weeks ago

Kendal

The one we came across most often is couples who have "NO SINGLE MALES" splashed all over their profile.

Then very recent verifications showing from single male profiles, or public pictures/videos of the female half engaged in sexual shenanigans and it's captured "not hubby" or "not Mr *username* etc.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
8 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The biggest double standard on here is the reaction to a single man posting the exact same thread topic a couple or single woman has posted.

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By *ust another WonkoMan
8 weeks ago

here and there

I love them

It means I never have to try and be nice to anyone. They are never going to pick me to start with

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By *ora the explorerWoman
8 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

A lot of the things people say are double standards on here I don’t think are though.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Women to men - Make sure your message is well thought out and breaks down point by point why I should even consider giving you the time of day. You also need to match every single thing on my physical, mental, emotional and personality level.

Womens vibe in return - Hey.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
8 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"The biggest double standard on here is the reaction to a single man posting the exact same thread topic a couple or single woman has posted."

Yeah this kind of thing is. Like I’ll do a tight boxer thread or someone will do a tackle swinging about in grey joggers thread and everyone loves it. A man does a thread mentioning camel toe and he’s fucking slated!

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By *eordieJeansCouple
8 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"The biggest double standard on here is the reaction to a single man posting the exact same thread topic a couple or single woman has posted.

Yeah this kind of thing is. Like I’ll do a tight boxer thread or someone will do a tackle swinging about in grey joggers thread and everyone loves it. A man does a thread mentioning camel toe and he’s fucking slated! "

Exactly. I haven’t seen it recently but cheating threads were always the worst.

Man cheating = Scum

Woman cheating = “You deserve a good sex life”

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By *ora the explorerWoman
8 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"The biggest double standard on here is the reaction to a single man posting the exact same thread topic a couple or single woman has posted.

Yeah this kind of thing is. Like I’ll do a tight boxer thread or someone will do a tackle swinging about in grey joggers thread and everyone loves it. A man does a thread mentioning camel toe and he’s fucking slated!

Exactly. I haven’t seen it recently but cheating threads were always the worst.

Man cheating = Scum

Woman cheating = “You deserve a good sex life”"

Oh definitely!! Woman cheating it’s more a ahh bless you you poor thing vibe! Man cheating is a scumbag.

Really pisses me off

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago


"Women to men - Make sure your message is well thought out and breaks down point by point why I should even consider giving you the time of day. You also need to match every single thing on my physical, mental, emotional and personality level.

Womens vibe in return - Hey."

Oh yes this! And men told to 'improve themselves', up their game, stand out, maximise their profile, take better photos, etc. Try that in reverse!

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
8 weeks ago

Wolvo

Probably not a double standard but - Threads where its couples only or guys looking for guys, its populated by couples or guys, with no input from the non target parties. Threads on ladies looking for ladies, there are always comments from guys about being allowed to watch or join in.

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By *ellhungvweMan
8 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Probably not a double standard but - Threads where its couples only or guys looking for guys, its populated by couples or guys, with no input from the non target parties. Threads on ladies looking for ladies, there are always comments from guys about being allowed to watch or join in. "

The idea of having threads only for a subset of the forum is just wrong.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

8 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Probably not a double standard but - Threads where its couples only or guys looking for guys, its populated by couples or guys, with no input from the non target parties. Threads on ladies looking for ladies, there are always comments from guys about being allowed to watch or join in.

The idea of having threads only for a subset of the forum is just wrong."

Not really.

There are plenty of threads where there's a specific target audience, whether that's men, women, couples, TV/TS's, BBC's, BBW's, older, younger, bi, straight....the list is pretty much endless.

Mostly out of the lounge of course and as always anyone can comment. But what's the point if it's a topic that isn't aimed at you? I doubt many straight guys would leap on a thread asking for bi guys experiences of MMF's. What input could men have on previous experience of FF meets?

There's room for all. And that includes people seeking a specific target audience. 🤷‍♂️

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By *agnar73Man
8 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

People are people. There’s a load of stuff we don’t acknowledge about ourselves but expect others not to.

Self awareness is bloody difficult but, people will always be like that.

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By *ony MannMan
8 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

I did meet a couple who said no kissing which I respected.

Imagine my surprise when I met the lady on her own, she was a fabulous kisser.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
8 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I did meet a couple who said no kissing which I respected.

Imagine my surprise when I met the lady on her own, she was a fabulous kisser."

Wouldn’t that be cheating?

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Really winds me up when a couple ask for a face pic, you send one only to be told not for us, wouldn’t it be decency to send one back then maybe say sorry not for us??

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
8 weeks ago

Leeds


"Really winds me up when a couple ask for a face pic, you send one only to be told not for us, wouldn’t it be decency to send one back then maybe say sorry not for us?? "

No 😂 why would I send my face to someone I'm not interested in, that would be of no good to anyone.

Ask for theirs 1st if you don't like it, but let's face it no one's going to send one to someone that's not for them, it's like no thanks but here's what you could have had.

Mrs

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By *irthandgirthMan
8 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"The biggest double standard on here is the reaction to a single man posting the exact same thread topic a couple or single woman has posted.

Yeah this kind of thing is. Like I’ll do a tight boxer thread or someone will do a tackle swinging about in grey joggers thread and everyone loves it. A man does a thread mentioning camel toe and he’s fucking slated!

Exactly. I haven’t seen it recently but cheating threads were always the worst.

Man cheating = Scum

Woman cheating = “You deserve a good sex life”"

I have definitely seen the irony when seeing certain forum members suck air through their teeth and judge cheaters on the forum, while being married on the QT.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
8 weeks ago

Nr Rugby


"Really winds me up when a couple ask for a face pic, you send one only to be told not for us, wouldn’t it be decency to send one back then maybe say sorry not for us?? "

We ask for face pictures if you message us first.Then if you are not for us we reply but really at that point why would we send our face pictures.Also we have had face pictures of people we know & couldn't meet.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
8 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"The biggest double standard on here is the reaction to a single man posting the exact same thread topic a couple or single woman has posted.

Yeah this kind of thing is. Like I’ll do a tight boxer thread or someone will do a tackle swinging about in grey joggers thread and everyone loves it. A man does a thread mentioning camel toe and he’s fucking slated!

Exactly. I haven’t seen it recently but cheating threads were always the worst.

Man cheating = Scum

Woman cheating = “You deserve a good sex life”

I have definitely seen the irony when seeing certain forum members suck air through their teeth and judge cheaters on the forum, while being married on the QT."

Or people slating the married ones where I’ve thought you obviously don’t know that person you’re meeting is married!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
8 weeks ago

Norwich


"Can't travel, can't accommodate. Looking for ..."

This is just a filter

The number of posts from people that don't understand it is proof of how well it works

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
8 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Or people slating the married ones where I’ve thought you obviously don’t know that person you’re meeting is married!"

Side note, if anyone knows the asshole I'm fucking is married, please do tell me.

When they neglect their families hard enough and have mastered the lies over years it's pretty difficult to tell 💜

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By *ruceyyMan
8 weeks ago

London

I hate when women are all like 'i don't wanna fuck you brucey' but then fuck others! What the fuck! Get some STANDARDS ladies. And not double ones!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Herts

Straight men who complain about getting messages or views or fabs from guys it tv/ts..while they message, view and fab every woman and couple in a 100 mile radius regardless of their preferences.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
8 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I hate when women are all like 'i don't wanna fuck you brucey' but then fuck others! What the fuck! Get some STANDARDS ladies. And not double ones!"

I'd give you a sympathy shag Brucey 💜

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By *teveanddebsCouple
8 weeks ago

Norwich

We see the cheating thing a bit differently. For us it's all about drama (for us)

If a woman cheats she's less likely to get caught because they are better at it. Her partner is more likely to blame her than whoever she's fucking (or be turned on by it)

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By *ruceyyMan
8 weeks ago

London


"I hate when women are all like 'i don't wanna fuck you brucey' but then fuck others! What the fuck! Get some STANDARDS ladies. And not double ones!

I'd give you a sympathy shag Brucey 💜"

And I would enjoy it.

See people, this right here is a CLASSY WOMAN. Have some decency and learn from her

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago


"I hate those moany threads where people complain about how other Fab users do things. But this is a thread about double standards so I’m going to do exactly that!

When someone posts a status saying men who ask for meets without even seeing any face pics are ‘desperate’ - even though she’s been messaging me asking for a meet for the past fortnight without seeing any pics of my face (or sharing any of hers).

Or when someone’s profile headline shouts “NO married men!” with capital letters and everything - but then they contact you asking for a meet with a message that starts “I know you’re married but …”

Two examples is probably enough. Your turn: Give me your examples of two-faced men, deceitful women, untrustworthy trannies, and couples ignoring their own rules …

Play nice though. Keep things anonymous. No names or identifying features please. This is about things that make you laugh and shake your head, not things that need Police intervention.

"

women that insist on face pics and have blank profiles

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By *nterracial cpl essexCouple
8 weeks ago

Essex

Those who live 300+ miles away, who don’t travel, and gets arsey with you for not willing to spend 5 hours in a car to get to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago


"Those that insist on discretion whilst their profile is plastered with explicit pictures!"
here here

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