FabSwingers.com forum: Your 18 year old self

By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

What would you tell your 18 year old self to do and why?

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By *rispyDuckMan
44 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Don’t even know where to begin!

All I know is he’ll need a notebook to write it all down lol

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Go to uni and party hard. Full time work ain't all it's cracked up to be.

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By *ovingittwoCouple
44 weeks ago

Norwich

Loose your virginity Mrs x

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
44 weeks ago

chichester

Don’t join the military

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
44 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"What would you tell your 18 year old self to do and why?"

I would tell her she was stunning and to never give in to any thought that says otherwise.

Having self esteem would have made a huge difference in my life

MrsAbz

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By *ellhungvweMan
44 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Do what you are already going to do. You will have ups and downs but it will be fun ride and it will work out.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
44 weeks ago

Bristol.

Wake up, look around and grab it while you can....

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By *issBellaWoman
44 weeks ago

Wales

Go and travel you won't get chance later. And that 'friend' isn't a friend at all. Just someone after free nights out, wake up!

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Don’t do it.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
44 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Take that stripping job, do that latexrubber modelling job, you have an amazing body, you’ll make a killing, do it while you can, because in your 20s you’ll have a kid & it’ll ruin it!

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By *viatrixWoman
44 weeks ago

Redhill

Get yourself a scholarship to become a commercial pilot. You can do it easily with your grades even if everybody around you says you can’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Lovely, thought provoking question. I'd say,

"you did OK"

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Buckle up .

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By *amie HantsWoman
44 weeks ago

Atlantis

Absolutely nothing. 18 year old me wouldn’t have been listening anyway

I would go on a night out with me though, just to be a spectator

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By *hrek101Man
44 weeks ago

Herts

Leave all this shit behind and go explore the furthest corners of the world

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By *rHotNottsMan
44 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I would need an A4 pad…..probs something like

Calm down don’t be so hot-headed.

Be patient , the things that are most important take time and investment

Get sine better role models to inspire you

Build everything on solid foundations, relationships, finances, health

Learn to listen, really listen & understand before you speak

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By *reative-mindMan
44 weeks ago

Exeter

Things are gonna get a bit bumpy these next few years, but it'll be worth it and you'll come out the other side of it.

Also don't drink Absinthe because you'll spend the next decade trying to remember who that women was with the purple hair.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
44 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Absolutely nothing. 18 year old me wouldn’t have been listening anyway

Agreed. I knew everything when I was 18. I certainly wouldn't have listened to an old woman like me

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

It all seems so serious and it absolutely shouldn’t be.

Also, you should have way more confidence in yourself.

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By *tylebender03Man
44 weeks ago

Manchester

Save money

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By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

"Absolutely nothing. 18 year old me wouldn’t have been listening anyway

I would go on a night out with me though, just to be a spectator"

Haha im not sure id want to see my old nights out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

"What would you tell your 18 year old self to do and why?

I would tell her she was stunning and to never give in to any thought that says otherwise.

Having self esteem would have made a huge difference in my life

MrsAbz"

Thats sweet i hope you have that self esteem. I wish I had more confidence when I was younger

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
44 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Don't be afraid to be you.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

"Don't be afraid to be you.

Mrs TMN x"

Would be fun to go back to that age for a week. But knowing everything works out. Wed be completely different

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By *ittle miss sunshineWoman
44 weeks ago

south sheilds

I would tell her to leave him . Don’t wait around 17 years for him to change he never does and probably never will

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I'd give myself a big hug. Say believe in yourself. You are worth so much more

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Stop worrying about what other people think

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
44 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Do what makes you happy and not what you think will make everyone else happy.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
44 weeks ago

Beverley

Keep up the good work

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
44 weeks ago

Neath valley.

Don't care what others think as their all twats anyway

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By *elix SightedMan
44 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Stop wasting money on shite and buy houses. There’s a fortune to be made and then you can buy all the shite in the world.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
44 weeks ago

Reading

Don't have sex with that man.

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By *elvet AngelWoman
44 weeks ago

Newton Abbot

Have more confidence and feel worthy.

Cherish the people in my life, they won't always be there.

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By *pthemanorMan
44 weeks ago

ABINGDON

Travel, open your mind and eyes...

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By *batMan
44 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Start skiing now!

Drink less booze, she will shag you.

Gbat

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By *adCherriesCouple
44 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

"Stop wasting money on shite and buy houses. There’s a fortune to be made and then you can buy all the shite in the world."

Exactly what I was just about to write! I would tell 18 year old me to invest all my time, money and effort into buying cheap properties.

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By *oupleus30Couple
44 weeks ago

Minster

If I was going to go back in time then i would go back to age 16 not 18!

And I would be telling myself never doubt your instincts there always right!

(I had moved out in with someone at this age and working full time very grown up and felt this was when my adult life started!)

Although,I don't think I would actually change anything in my past as it has taught me alot! Although it's a shame I didn't learn from it haha

Only thing I wish I could actually go back in time for is to spend more time with my dad before he passed !

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Buy as much bitcoin as possible then sell at 60,000.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
44 weeks ago

Stockport

"You're going to lose everyone you love. You'll never really feel that you fit in. You're going to be worried and anxious and frightened and uncomfortable about sex all your life. You don't know who you want to be, and when you find out it will be too late. But you will be relatively comfortable and things could be worse. Just try to hold together."

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By *ilverfox_UKMan
44 weeks ago

Bristol

"Do what makes you happy and not what you think will make everyone else happy."

You have that so right

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By *naswingdressWoman
44 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

The bad news is that people are every bit as shit as you already believe.

The good news is that you get to choose who you spend time with now, and can slam the door in their faces. And not everyone is that shit - just most of them.

And you are not, and have never been that shit. Be nicer to yourself, for the love of God.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
44 weeks ago

Leeds

Change nothing.

Fuck up.

Learn from it.

Become better by it.

Don’t stress all the shit will be worth it in the end and you’ll appreciate what you have.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

As the scaffolders were about. Normally naked Saturday.

Might get naked later op. For now just casual in case the scaffolders return. I am good with poles

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