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By *_V_1 OP   Man
40 weeks ago

North Tyneside

If I'm chatting on here about meeting in a few days, and I want to wait to give my number until closer to the time, am I being a dick? Just got blocked for not giving it out immediately.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

You're not being a dick. You shouldn't feel pressured into giving contact details.

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By *host63Man
40 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Sounds sensible.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
40 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We’d never give our number out anyway.

Telegram or here.

If you don’t feel comfortable giving your number - don’t do it.

Do FAB your way - not anyone else’s

K

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By *acDreamyMan
40 weeks ago

Wirral

A meet! Now we know you are taking the piss! ()

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By *oodmessMan
40 weeks ago

yumsville

Dont know why you wouldn't give your number out, you're going to meet them, its easier texting than them missing a mail in the numbers people get. If they say anything you don't like you can block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"Dont know why you wouldn't give your number out, you're going to meet them, its easier texting than them missing a mail in the numbers people get. If they say anything you don't like you can block them. "

It’s not necessarily that simple. Some people have numbers connected with social media, work, whatever. They may not want that connection being available.

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By *ackformore100Man
40 weeks ago

Tin town


"If I'm chatting on here about meeting in a few days, and I want to wait to give my number until closer to the time, am I being a dick? Just got blocked for not giving it out immediately. "

Never trust Internet strangers.

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By *ellhungvweMan
40 weeks ago

Cheltenham

If I ask for a phone chat it is probably because there is something about the chat or profile that is making me wary and I want to check the other person is who they say they are. If they were wary about the phone chat or prevaricated then I would back away from the conversation. I would probably block and move on.

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By *oodmessMan
40 weeks ago

yumsville


"Dont know why you wouldn't give your number out, you're going to meet them, its easier texting than them missing a mail in the numbers people get. If they say anything you don't like you can block them.

It’s not necessarily that simple. Some people have numbers connected with social media, work, whatever. They may not want that connection being available. "

Seems an odd way to meet... I'll be the guy in the yellow jacket next to the post box at 1pm. We can take it from there?

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"Dont know why you wouldn't give your number out, you're going to meet them, its easier texting than them missing a mail in the numbers people get. If they say anything you don't like you can block them.

It’s not necessarily that simple. Some people have numbers connected with social media, work, whatever. They may not want that connection being available.

Seems an odd way to meet... I'll be the guy in the yellow jacket next to the post box at 1pm. We can take it from there?"

Can use messaging apps, Skype etc. but yes would make it more difficult.

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By *ris GrayMan
40 weeks ago

Dorchester


"If I'm chatting on here about meeting in a few days, and I want to wait to give my number until closer to the time, am I being a dick? Just got blocked for not giving it out immediately. "
why closer to the time if you've agreed to meet?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Central

Most people don't get told why they're being blocked, they just get done.

There are hundreds of reasons why you'll get blocked but it's better than being stood up. You need realistic expectations, including that most people are not mutually compatible with most other people, so the majority of chats won't lead to meeting.

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By *ickD80Man
40 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

It depends really on how long you’ve been chatting with the other person for. If you’ve been chatting for a while, like a week or 2 weeks, then it seems a bit strange that you won’t share your number as that should be enough time to suss someone out properly and get a feel for how genuine they are, if it’s only been a few hours or just a few messages then it’s completely understandable that you’re wary still.

In my experience no one who’s asked me for my number straight away has been genuine, I have a second number that I use just for chatting with people I meet online, it’s not connected to any social media so no one can use it to trace me, so I’m happy to give that number out to anyone. As soon as someone asks me for my number straight away I know they’re fake but I give it to them anyway to see what they’re up to. Most of the time they will send me some pictures and then ask me to send them some in return or they will ask me if I want to buy any videos of them having sex….

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By *ools and the brainCouple
40 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Isn't this the point of having verifications to prove you are real?

Besides this is another reason why we always have a social first.

We don't give numbers.

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By *ickD80Man
40 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"Isn't this the point of having verifications to prove you are real?

Besides this is another reason why we always have a social first.

We don't give numbers."

Verifications can be faked very easily though so they don’t prove anything

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"…..

If you don’t feel comfortable giving your number - don’t do it.

Do FAB your way - not anyone else’s

K"

if they don’t fit into what you are about and how you do things, remember that you don’t fit into theirs too. You just don’t match up.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
40 weeks ago

Reading

I think its reasonable at the time of arranging a meet to swap numbers. You don't she didn't agree with you.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
40 weeks ago

Leeds

If I am going to trust someone with my body I'm more than happy to trust them with my phone number.

If I was planning to meet soon & someone didn't want to give it I'd find it strange to be honest.

Mrs

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By *omblingFreeCouple
40 weeks ago

The Village

the other day we got blocked just for agreeing with someone. there's no point trying to figure people out. just file under 'L' for Lucky escape and move on

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By *ickD80Man
40 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Although I wouldn’t give my real number to someone I’ve only just started talking to, what harm can actually come from telling someone my number? I don’t really know why I am so wary about sharing it. I’ve tried googling my number and nothing comes up about me, I’ve even tried googling my number with my name and there’s still isn’t anything. They can’t steal my identity just from knowing my number either. The worst thing that I can think of is continuously calling my number and using different numbers when I block them but why would anyone do that? And im sure it’s possible to block calls from anyone who isn’t in my contacts to stop that happening.

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By *oxy jWoman
40 weeks ago

somerset

op you do you ...

on this profile and our couples profile we only use fab ..we never give our phone number out we dont do other apps we dont do cams or emails and we play often very very few ask to take thing elsewhere and they are told bluntly no if that upsets them then block .... fab works very well time wasters/messer can be easy to spot ...so you do you and stick to your way

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Don’t ever be pressured into doing anything you don’t want to do mate.

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By *AYENCouple
40 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"If I'm chatting on here about meeting in a few days, and I want to wait to give my number until closer to the time, am I being a dick? Just got blocked for not giving it out immediately. "

What does waiting until closer to the time actually achieve? You clearly weren't comfortable with exchanging numbers so they moved on, which seems understandable. K.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"We’d never give our number out anyway.

Telegram or here.

If you don’t feel comfortable giving your number - don’t do it.

Do FAB your way - not anyone else’s

K"

Exactly this

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By *hirleyMan
40 weeks ago

somewhere

I'd block someone too if they didn't give me a phone number in that case.

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By *_V_1 OP   Man
40 weeks ago

North Tyneside


"the other day we got blocked just for agreeing with someone. there's no point trying to figure people out. just file under 'L' for Lucky escape and move on"

You're right, thanks

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
40 weeks ago

ashford

Rarely give number out! Kik is ok x

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By *ris GrayMan
40 weeks ago

Dorchester

The fact that youve agreed to meet and agreed to give number but not until closer to meet time would actually make me think you weren't serious about meeting, that you were looking for better options

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