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"No photos. Profile bio says....been here before, know the score, if anybody remembers me, come say hi and verify me. How the fook would someone recognize a person with no photo "Fair point | |||
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"Something that shows personality and that the person has put thought into how they want to present themselves " Noted, thank you | |||
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"At least one photo in Sepia." Noted thank you | |||
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"I was going to be facetious but have had a change of heart. In all sincerity just be yourself. Couple of pictures of you normally, maybe in a social setting, relaxed. Like you would on a dating site. Then converse. The forums are a great start. But if you do send a message don’t have a monk on if it gets deleted. Women get on average 5 messages a minute with 3 of those having a cock pic attached and all saying “FAF!?” in some guise. That said if she’s got good chebs then she must be told. "Good advice | |||
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"What sort of things should men have in their profiles to make them more appealing. Ladies what's you likes and dislikes when viewing profiles Also message you receive. What is a good message to you. And what give you the ick" Well, this covers ALL the bases. | |||
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""Looking for a nice girl".. well you're hardly looking for a complete minger!! Unless you are, I suppose.." I'm looking for a complete minger. Any proper uggers on here, feel free to message me  | |||
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"Tidy your room before you take a pic, ffs so many guys are just slobs. " Woah woah woah, Sweet baby Jesus and the orphans. I have seen some truly horrific pictures of ladies with a shit tip of a bedroom. Peer closely enough at one of them and even the dead rat in the corner was wearing overalls! | |||
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"Tidy your room before you take a pic, ffs so many guys are just slobs. Woah woah woah, Sweet baby Jesus and the orphans. I have seen some truly horrific pictures of ladies with a shit tip of a bedroom. Peer closely enough at one of them and even the dead rat in the corner was wearing overalls!" Well OP was asking about males profiles. | |||
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"Tidy your room before you take a pic, ffs so many guys are just slobs. Woah woah woah, Sweet baby Jesus and the orphans. I have seen some truly horrific pictures of ladies with a shit tip of a bedroom. Peer closely enough at one of them and even the dead rat in the corner was wearing overalls! Well OP was asking about males profiles." Yeah I guess so
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"I'm very curious... from what I'm seeing here, my profile seems to fit the bill of 'acceptable' so clearly there's something else I'm doing wrong! Any suggestions?" youre a guy amongst 100,000 guys what makes you special? Its a question not a criticism | |||
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"I'm very curious... from what I'm seeing here, my profile seems to fit the bill of 'acceptable' so clearly there's something else I'm doing wrong! Any suggestions?youre a guy amongst 100,000 guys what makes you special? Its a question not a criticism "Don't worry, I didn't take it as criticism. What makes me special? I guess unfortunately, the things I feel set me apart aren't going to do me much good here! I'm an actor and musician with a strong talent for accents. I'm not interested in "destorying" anyone's pussy, and I'm not just looking to "fuck and go" I prefer to hang out, like a friend. I dunno... | |||
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"I'm very curious... from what I'm seeing here, my profile seems to fit the bill of 'acceptable' so clearly there's something else I'm doing wrong! Any suggestions?" You have 1 pic of your face, 5 of your dick and 1 of your dinner. Try swapping the ratio of face/dick pics. You may be proud of it, but it isn't that different from the thousands of other dick pics on here. Try a little more creativity perhaps? | |||
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"I'm very curious... from what I'm seeing here, my profile seems to fit the bill of 'acceptable' so clearly there's something else I'm doing wrong! Any suggestions? You have 1 pic of your face, 5 of your dick and 1 of your dinner. Try swapping the ratio of face/dick pics. You may be proud of it, but it isn't that different from the thousands of other dick pics on here. Try a little more creativity perhaps? " That is true of my public pics but, that's partly because I figure my dick looks better than my face! Haha I also probably shouldn't have used other guys profiles as a guide! As for "more creativity"... do you mean in my pics or my profile in general? For my text, I figured I'd go for honesty over creativity. | |||
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"I'm very curious... from what I'm seeing here, my profile seems to fit the bill of 'acceptable' so clearly there's something else I'm doing wrong! Any suggestions? You have 1 pic of your face, 5 of your dick and 1 of your dinner. Try swapping the ratio of face/dick pics. You may be proud of it, but it isn't that different from the thousands of other dick pics on here. Try a little more creativity perhaps? That is true of my public pics but, that's partly because I figure my dick looks better than my face! Haha I also probably shouldn't have used other guys profiles as a guide! As for "more creativity"... do you mean in my pics or my profile in general? For my text, I figured I'd go for honesty over creativity." Creativity can work for your pics. You are a creative type, I'm sure you can work with different photos/angles etc. With your profile you can add humour or personality (I'm assuming you are an interesting/multifaceted guy) Your logic isn't great. Your public photos are your shop window that people who look at your profile will connect with, and possibly judge you on before you send a private pic. Having 5 super basic/poor quality pics of your gentleman parts is in dissonance with what your profile is stating. | |||
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"I'm very curious... from what I'm seeing here, my profile seems to fit the bill of 'acceptable' so clearly there's something else I'm doing wrong! Any suggestions? You have 1 pic of your face, 5 of your dick and 1 of your dinner. Try swapping the ratio of face/dick pics. You may be proud of it, but it isn't that different from the thousands of other dick pics on here. Try a little more creativity perhaps? That is true of my public pics but, that's partly because I figure my dick looks better than my face! Haha I also probably shouldn't have used other guys profiles as a guide! As for "more creativity"... do you mean in my pics or my profile in general? For my text, I figured I'd go for honesty over creativity. Creativity can work for your pics. You are a creative type, I'm sure you can work with different photos/angles etc. With your profile you can add humour or personality (I'm assuming you are an interesting/multifaceted guy) Your logic isn't great. Your public photos are your shop window that people who look at your profile will connect with, and possibly judge you on before you send a private pic. Having 5 super basic/poor quality pics of your gentleman parts is in dissonance with what your profile is stating. " Well... I'm not boring but, interesting and multifaceted might be a push! And I hear what you're saying about pics, though I can't do much about the quality! The camera on my phone is what it is! I should update my face pics more regularly though as (because I'm a theatre actor) my facial hair is subject to frequent change! I appreciate the advice. Thank you for not trying to be rude but, also not trying to spare my feelings! That's far more helpful than falling on one side or the other! | |||
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"Rich? Massive dick? Six foot? Six pack? If the answer to any of these is no then it doesn't matter how good your profile is. Whether you are articulate or not. Women will expect a soliloquy of a first message even if their profile has one word on it. Oh and if you expect the common decency of a reply you will be disappointed. Happy fabbing." Jeez! You sound even more bitter and jaded than me! | |||
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"Rich? Massive dick? Six foot? Six pack? If the answer to any of these is no then it doesn't matter how good your profile is. Whether you are articulate or not. Women will expect a soliloquy of a first message even if their profile has one word on it. Oh and if you expect the common decency of a reply you will be disappointed. Happy fabbing." Not all women think the same, act the same, react the same | |||
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"Rich? Massive dick? Six foot? Six pack? If the answer to any of these is no then it doesn't matter how good your profile is. Whether you are articulate or not. Women will expect a soliloquy of a first message even if their profile has one word on it. Oh and if you expect the common decency of a reply you will be disappointed. Happy fabbing." that's not true. I'm skint, have a pathetically tiny willy, 5'8 and have a dad bod. And I'm drowning in pussy. I'm knocking them back dozens at a time. | |||
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"Rich? Massive dick? Six foot? Six pack? If the answer to any of these is no then it doesn't matter how good your profile is. Whether you are articulate or not. Women will expect a soliloquy of a first message even if their profile has one word on it. Oh and if you expect the common decency of a reply you will be disappointed. Happy fabbing." That's funny, I do ok without most of that. It's amazing what a little charm and humour can do. I've had more success laughing women into bed than flashing money and showing them my dick. | |||
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"Rich? Massive dick? Six foot? Six pack? If the answer to any of these is no then it doesn't matter how good your profile is. Whether you are articulate or not. Women will expect a soliloquy of a first message even if their profile has one word on it. Oh and if you expect the common decency of a reply you will be disappointed. Happy fabbing." Rich - Currently dyin' tryin' Massive Dick - I can be, yes Six foot - just Six Pack - One better, party pack. Successful on Fab? I do quite ok thank you. Fight the battles you can win. Don't get upset, don't get miserable and pick your moments to be a cunt. I fucked the last bit up when I was a noob and rose to click bait fromm miserable dickheads (both men and women). It's a numbers game and you need to find your force multiplier. | |||
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"Rich? Massive dick? Six foot? Six pack? If the answer to any of these is no then it doesn't matter how good your profile is. Whether you are articulate or not. Women will expect a soliloquy of a first message even if their profile has one word on it. Oh and if you expect the common decency of a reply you will be disappointed. Happy fabbing." Not true at all. Money, dick size and abs have never been a factor in who I choose to meet. Only one I do like is tall, my partner is 6ft3. The many men who do well have good profiles and pics and make an effort. Many attend socials and get to know people that way. | |||
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"Rich? Massive dick? Six foot? Six pack? If the answer to any of these is no then it doesn't matter how good your profile is. Whether you are articulate or not. Women will expect a soliloquy of a first message even if their profile has one word on it. Oh and if you expect the common decency of a reply you will be disappointed. Happy fabbing." That’s not true. I don’t have any of above. My profile is rubbish too. Hardly any pics but I do okay compared to most guys. | |||
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"Profiles of men who have more women in their pics than them ie just their finger or cock and most of the lady on show. No public pics and they've written can't post pics due to job. 68 cock shots from angles and using props like cans/remotes." What about a pack of rolo's as a prop?  | |||
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"https://youtu.be/KlDCUZYJ7RY?si=wNNOHC4efr6VicJ1" Ahhhhh... you're one of those "red pill alpha male" types. That's a massive part of the issue right there. | |||
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"https://youtu.be/KlDCUZYJ7RY?si=wNNOHC4efr6VicJ1 Ahhhhh... you're one of those "red pill alpha male" types. That's a massive part of the issue right there." I don't even know what that means. | |||
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"https://youtu.be/KlDCUZYJ7RY?si=wNNOHC4efr6VicJ1 Ahhhhh... you're one of those "red pill alpha male" types. That's a massive part of the issue right there." I am not an alpha male either. I am a nothing male. Wife left me after 21 years because I didn't have a job for 8 months. Told me herself. Love didn't keep her with me but greed sure as hell took her from me. | |||
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"https://youtu.be/KlDCUZYJ7RY?si=wNNOHC4efr6VicJ1 Ahhhhh... you're one of those "red pill alpha male" types. That's a massive part of the issue right there. I don't even know what that means." It refers to the content.. mostly deeply misogynistic with a little bit of incel.. males who blame women for their lack of success rather than looking at and working on the common denominator. | |||
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"https://youtu.be/KlDCUZYJ7RY?si=wNNOHC4efr6VicJ1 Ahhhhh... you're one of those "red pill alpha male" types. That's a massive part of the issue right there. I don't even know what that means." You watch these YouTube videos that tell you that only rich, tall gym body guys who see girls as trophies or sex objects can get women. It's bullshit. I'd stop watching material designed to make you bitter. | |||
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"https://youtu.be/KlDCUZYJ7RY?si=wNNOHC4efr6VicJ1 Ahhhhh... you're one of those "red pill alpha male" types. That's a massive part of the issue right there. I don't even know what that means. It refers to the content.. mostly deeply misogynistic with a little bit of incel.. males who blame women for their lack of success rather than looking at and working on the common denominator. " Yeah. That's a better description than mine. | |||
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"https://youtu.be/KlDCUZYJ7RY?si=wNNOHC4efr6VicJ1 Ahhhhh... you're one of those "red pill alpha male" types. That's a massive part of the issue right there. I am not an alpha male either. I am a nothing male. Wife left me after 21 years because I didn't have a job for 8 months. Told me herself. Love didn't keep her with me but greed sure as hell took her from me. " Maybe work on yourself and process and heal from that before bringing that negative attitude to (potential) sexual partners in an online forum? | |||
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"Rich? Massive dick? Six foot? Six pack? If the answer to any of these is no then it doesn't matter how good your profile is. Whether you are articulate or not. Women will expect a soliloquy of a first message even if their profile has one word on it. Oh and if you expect the common decency of a reply you will be disappointed. Happy fabbing." This is some pretty solid self cock blocking my friend. Also not true. I'm none of the things you list. There's no one reason guys achieve their goals on fab just like there's no one reason they fail to. Getting polite refusals isn't going to get you laid faster. Nor is blaming culture, society or fab for things not working out for you. | |||
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"https://youtu.be/KlDCUZYJ7RY?si=wNNOHC4efr6VicJ1 Ahhhhh... you're one of those "red pill alpha male" types. That's a massive part of the issue right there. I don't even know what that means. You watch these YouTube videos that tell you that only rich, tall gym body guys who see girls as trophies or sex objects can get women. It's bullshit. I'd stop watching material designed to make you bitter." I didn't open the link but sounds from your description that there is a little bit of self fulfilling prophecy going on. Love yourself, get over your hurt and then blast your beans all over the place. | |||
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"Profiles of men who have more women in their pics than them ie just their finger or cock and most of the lady on show. No public pics and they've written can't post pics due to job. 68 cock shots from angles and using props like cans/remotes." I must be a bit niaive...or in the minority then at least...I'm probably too open for my own good...and no cock shots on the public setting | |||
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"I’m starting now to think “will fill in later” is not a great profile bio after all!" It doesn't matter with you... You're gawjuzzzzzz so no one will read your bio and you'll still get to shag them! The double standard of Fab? Lol | |||
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"When they put no effort into their profile. They put even less effort into an opening message. " | |||
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"Hate is a strong word when you read a profile… of someone you don’t know… "I think 'repulsed by' is often a more accurate descriptor. | |||
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"What sort of things should men have in their profiles to make them more appealing. Ladies what's you likes and dislikes when viewing profiles Also message you receive. What is a good message to you. And what give you the ick" We want men to be themselves in their profiles, that way we can decide if we want to fuck them or not. | |||
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"Rich? Massive dick? Six foot? Six pack? If the answer to any of these is no then it doesn't matter how good your profile is. Whether you are articulate or not. Women will expect a soliloquy of a first message even if their profile has one word on it. Oh and if you expect the common decency of a reply you will be disappointed. Happy fabbing." You know you sound like an incel, yeah? | |||
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"No photos. Profile bio says....been here before, know the score, if anybody remembers me, come say hi and verify me. How the fook would someone recognize a person with no photo "Plenty here no show photos each to their own. | |||
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"At least one photo in Sepia. · And don't forget the massive clock "• I never took you for a s¹ze queen!  | |||
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"What sort of things should men have in their profiles to make them more appealing. Ladies what's you likes and dislikes when viewing profiles Also message you receive. What is a good message to you. And what give you the ick" Good question op. I like long messages means you taking time and thought. I like honest profiles. That kind of man who is mysterious and I want to delve into him more. Nothing more appealing for me is to read a honest biopsy but not a life history. | |||
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"What sort of things should men have in their profiles to make them more appealing. Ladies what's you likes and dislikes when viewing profiles Also message you receive. What is a good message to you. And what give you the ick" The one I just had icked no end.. Message that is. No need to be rude either. Why message if you going to be disrespectful and rude. Same as replies on the forums op | |||
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