FabSwingers.com forum: How different has oral ability been for you before?

By *ruceyy OP Man
40 weeks ago

London

How much of a contrast have you felt oral sex in your life?

Ever had the worst of the worst to the best of the best? What are those for you?

I've had a really weak blowjob just the tip and not taking it any further and not even in a tease way, it wasn't going any further.

I've also had the sloppiest, dirtiest, spit, tongue tease, deep suck for about 20 minutes non stop...

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By *archelCouple
40 weeks ago

A field somewhere

I've had the absolute dogs areshole of oral...like dude, do you even know where the clitoris is. That bad they've made me go dry lol

Mrs

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By *iasubTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Yeah ive had some pretty bad to the point it would have been better doing it myself

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By *ovetoedgeMan
40 weeks ago

Dunstable

Makes me laugh when I hear, no such thing as a bad bj, there certainly is. I've had a few very poor ones, zero effort, one that was just kissing the tip lol

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
40 weeks ago

Worcester

Despite most men claiming that they are absolutely amazing at oral sex and will have me in raptures within minutes, I think I've only orgasmed once from oral sex, and the vast majority of it has been average to poor. And I've had a lot of oral sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

All bar a couple of guys were shite at oral. I despair.

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By *stellaWoman
40 weeks ago

London

I’m shit at blowjobs, and pretty bad at the sex generally. This is why I am single, well one of the reasons.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
40 weeks ago

Leeds

I've had my fair share of shit oral I even had blokes do the fucking A,B,C's with their tongue

The worst are the ones that proceed to stick their tounge in and out the vulva with zero idea where the clit is.

I've had the best which is my man he's learned what I like & is amazing at what he does.

I've given some shit blow jobs because I couldn't be arsed and it was just a chore the sex life was repetitive and very one sided.

I've given some amazing ones because I genuinely love giving them and take my time just cock worshiping, this isn't a one sided sexual relationship which makes me want to please much more.

Mrs

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By *ruceyy OP Man
40 weeks ago

London

"I've had my fair share of shit oral I even had blokes do the fucking A,B,C's with their tongue

The worst are the ones that proceed to stick their tounge in and out the vulva with zero idea where the clit is.

I've had the best which is my man he's learned what I like & is amazing at what he does.

I've given some shit blow jobs because I couldn't be arsed and it was just a chore the sex life was repetitive and very one sided.

I've given some amazing ones because I genuinely love giving them and take my time just cock worshiping, this isn't a one sided sexual relationship which makes me want to please much more.

Mrs "

The positives sound really fucking positive

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

It's all been pretty consistent for me.

I've only had one partner who made me arrive, and that was only twice.

I think its more a me thing.

Someone can reply to this with the university in Australia thing that I don't quite get now

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By *imply DeeWoman
40 weeks ago

Wherever

The only time I have ever come from oral was with someone I was shortly seeing a couple years ago, and it was mind blowing. I’m honestly still not sure what exactly happened.

Nothing (or no one) has ever come close and I don’t think it will.

I found the worst are those asking “Are you close?” when I’m nowhere near

In terms of giving I’m rather keen and enthusiastic and I just love it but I don’t have too much of an experience.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
40 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Sometimes even the best little oral-loving, cock-obsessed, cum-worshipping slut can have an off day. Of course there’s such a thing as a bad blow job. Or one that doesn’t match your mood/energy at that moment.

My ex-wife gave crap blow jobs. Luckily she had other talents. And I’ll never forget the girl who was so over-enthusiastic that she left my cock bleeding and skin torn (as much as I might wish I could forget, I can’t).

But the bad has been so, so outweighed by the good, the great, and downright life-changing. God, I love a good blow job.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I’ve had plenty of terrible blowjobs. But I’m sure some people don’t rate my oral skills. I doubt it based on feedback but it’s possible. I’ve had:

Too much teeth

Not doing anything except leaving it their mouth

Not enough actual penis time etc.

sad days.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I do not go on repeat dates with women who do not give a good bj.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"Sometimes even the best little oral-loving, cock-obsessed, cum-worshipping slut can have an off day. Of course there’s such a thing as a bad blow job. Or one that doesn’t match your mood/energy at that moment.

But the bad has been so, so outweighed by the good, the great, and downright life-changing. God, I love a good blow job."

OMG bleeding and torn? What the hell did she do?!

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By *ovetoedgeMan
40 weeks ago

Dunstable

"I’m shit at blowjobs, and pretty bad at the sex generally. This is why I am single, well one of the reasons."

Cute though lol

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By *westUKguyMan
40 weeks ago

Southport

I think im pretty damn good at giving oral, never any complaints always praises, i use this because im not 100 % confident of my other sexual abilities so i find i can give oral pleasure my 100% focus

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By *rMonkeyMan
40 weeks ago

Somewhere

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By *rMonkeyMan
40 weeks ago

Somewhere

I've only ever had one really terrible blow job, she nearly ripped the damn thing off with some over vigorous arm action and a kung-fu death grip

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

It certainly has its uses at times, especially when out and about, but I usually prefer to just get on with things and get impatient.

Only once I have ever orgasmed orally, that was his mission. He literally held me firmly in place above him and I could barely move. I thought I was going to drown the poor guy but he absolutely loved it! We both did!

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
40 weeks ago

My Own Little World

Won’t let any woman near my cock for a bj again or any time soon

Let’s just say a painful experience a trip to hospital and stitches

Very ooooccchhhhh

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
40 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"OMG bleeding and torn? What the hell did she do?! "

She just tried too hard, bless her. Sucking too hard (‘like a Dyson’ is not a good thing, it turns out!), gripping too tight, pounding away too fast … she was *determined* to show how good she was and just went too far.

It’s not a race, ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I've no interest in blow jobs so none of them have ever really done anything for me except one woman who was able to go quite deep. That was an experience

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I don’t think I’ve ever thought this is the worst. I think it’s more, they weren’t enthusiastic about it, which makes it a bit shit. If you’re only doing it to “repay the favour” and get it over and done with, just leave it. No one wants that.

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By *ovetoedgeMan
40 weeks ago

Dunstable

"I don’t think I’ve ever thought this is the worst. I think it’s more, they weren’t enthusiastic about it, which makes it a bit shit. If you’re only doing it to “repay the favour” and get it over and done with, just leave it. No one wants that. "

Spot on.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

My X WIFE I only ever got 1 blow job .

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

X gf was shit at bj had to wank at the same time to cum where my wife is absolutely amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"I've had the absolute dogs areshole of oral...like dude, do you even know where the clitoris is. That bad they've made me go dry lol

Mrs"

That is a crime

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"I've had my fair share of shit oral I even had blokes do the fucking A,B,C's with their tongue

The worst are the ones that proceed to stick their tounge in and out the vulva with zero idea where the clit is.

I've had the best which is my man he's learned what I like & is amazing at what he does.

I've given some shit blow jobs because I couldn't be arsed and it was just a chore the sex life was repetitive and very one sided.

I've given some amazing ones because I genuinely love giving them and take my time just cock worshiping, this isn't a one sided sexual relationship which makes me want to please much more.

Mrs "

I was taught the dark art of ORAL. by a x Lesbian, well she gave a A,*

I live by that

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By *elix SightedMan
40 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I’ve had some distinctly average blowjobs from people who were happy doing it but not endowed of good technique. I’ve also had the “Well I suppose I should return the favour.” Nope!

Despite all this, I believe it’s all about chemistry. Of course technique matters, and even if you’re really into someone - if they’re crap, they’re not likely to get you off. But they stand a better chance than someone with better technique who you just don’t fancy.

Sex starts in our minds and if I’m really into someone, they’ll have me super-aroused with foreplay to the point where less stimulation is required than others.

Obviously I’m fucking spectacular at giving.

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By *hriscooperMan
40 weeks ago

Warrington

Abso fucking lutley.

I've had quite a few very mediocre ones when I just lose interest, literally just softly going up and down with no effort.

But I've also had possible the worst experience of my sexual life.. She literally had no clue what she was doing and kissed the end of my cock, 0ut the tip in her mouth, and blew as hard as she possibly could! I can't tell you the pain I had for about a week afterwards.

Thankfully it was when we were both teens and nothing like that since..

On the other side, I've had many that have been literally out of this world! Felt every bit of her mouth, from every angle, lots of eye contact and always keeping it extremely sexual. Finishing with the most intense orgasms I ever had.

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By *essaMayWoman
40 weeks ago

Fairytale Wood

Sadly pretty much every guy i have been with is shit at oral, with one or two exceptions. Me i dont like giving BJs and no good at it. Don't even like seeing it unless its guys, even then it doesn't really do much for me.

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By *londebiguyMan
40 weeks ago

Southport

I've only had one amazing BJ thst was from a woman ever in my life.

I'd love my theory to be proved wrong.

I dud not think I was anything special at oral but I do always try my very best at everything and I've had some excellent responses in the moment and glowing reviews so maybe I'm not all that bad.

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By *amie HantsWoman
40 weeks ago

Atlantis

Yes I’ve had some pretty bad oral. The times it’s been bad have been when they’ve tried to make me squirt or recreate some fantasy they've seen in porn. I don’t squirt, I’m ok with that. Punching fingers up me whilst giving my clitoris a courtesy lick isn’t going to change that.

Other times when it’s not been great but just because they’re slightly off where they’ve needed to be, I can usually just shuffle my hips until it’s the right spot. I’ve had way more good oral than bad which is

as oral is my favourite

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"OMG bleeding and torn? What the hell did she do?!

It’s not a race, ladies.

I find I just get told off if I'm "trying to hard". But ouch!

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By *ellinever70Woman
40 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I really don't get the concept of a person being good or bad at a sexual act, given there's usually another person involved.

What about all this awesome communication that fabbers are so big on?

Or, just like the sexual organs, does that dry up when it comes to being sexed up in a way that's not enjoyable?

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By *hil most chillMan
40 weeks ago

South East & Europe

Like you Brucey, I've had terrible oral. She just kind of held the tip in her mouth and barely moved. It was weird, especially after I'd gone down on her and delivered so enthusiastically beforehand (if she didn't enjoy it then her acting was incredible). I've also had the worst toothy blowjon where I thought she was going to draw blood

But at the other end of the spectrum I used to have a fwb who had no gag reflex and could always make me cum in her mouth if she wanted to. Never had it since, but I have had some incredible ones regardless.

Oral ability definitely varies from "this is absolute heaven" to "I'm in physical danger", and the thrill is in finding the former I guess

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By *iHungMikeMan
40 weeks ago

Shaw

Been told that I give great oral skills and can go for ages with a lady or a guy and can deep throat no problem and make people cum no problem

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By *oiluvfunMan
40 weeks ago

Penrith

I type this with the smell of, well you know what, up my nostrils, from the woman I made gush in my face this afternoon, and not for the first time lol.....

It's rare for me to cum from receiving a blowjob (2017 was the last time I did), as I don't have the 'hair trigger' most guys seem to be equipped with, and women generally give up before I get anywhere close

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
40 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"What about all this awesome communication that fabbers are so big on?"

All the communication in the world can’t help sometimes. Not if there’s no will to listen to each other, or to act on what you discuss, or if the two of you just aren’t a good fit at all.

That’s when it’s time to cut your losses and admit it wasn’t working.

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