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By *inballs99 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

Blackheath

I struggle to cum anyone else get this ?

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By *ohnny_ThunderMan
45 weeks ago

LLandudno

'Kin hell no, I cum at the drop of a hat. If it's a sexy hat.

You struggle to cum, even if you're properly turned on?

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By *inballs99 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

Blackheath


"'Kin hell no, I cum at the drop of a hat. If it's a sexy hat.

You struggle to cum, even if you're properly turned on?"
yes I get worn out before I get to blow my load but even when I do it's very watery

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By *ornycougaWoman
45 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

My ex. I was convinced it was all the jerking off to porn

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45 weeks ago


"'Kin hell no, I cum at the drop of a hat. If it's a sexy hat.

You struggle to cum, even if you're properly turned on? yes I get worn out before I get to blow my load but even when I do it's very watery"

At your age, I’d look into the possibility of low testosterone.

It can present as inability to concentrate, insomnia, weaker errctions, difficulty orgasming, excessive tiredness, changes in metabolism, low libido, and more.

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By *ohnny_ThunderMan
45 weeks ago

LLandudno

I think porn has a lot to answer for. I wonder if the widespread use of porn is desensitising the thrill of real experiences?

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By *inballs99 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

Blackheath


"My ex. I was convinced it was all the jerking off to porn"
oh my gosh I'd love to try it over you !

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By *inballs99 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

Blackheath


"'Kin hell no, I cum at the drop of a hat. If it's a sexy hat.

You struggle to cum, even if you're properly turned on? yes I get worn out before I get to blow my load but even when I do it's very watery

At your age, I’d look into the possibility of low testosterone.

It can present as inability to concentrate, insomnia, weaker errctions, difficulty orgasming, excessive tiredness, changes in metabolism, low libido, and more. "
oh thanks for that,I'm not that old thanks!

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By *oodmessMan
45 weeks ago

yumsville

Plenty of water and eat some pineapple, you'll be dripping like a tap

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By *usanStoHelitWoman
45 weeks ago

liverpool

You might not be old but testosterone levels peak at age 18/19 and decline throughout the rest of adulthood, with a sharp drop in the mid forties. You profile puts you at mid/late 40s so it might be something that's worth looking into

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"'Kin hell no, I cum at the drop of a hat. If it's a sexy hat.

You struggle to cum, even if you're properly turned on? yes I get worn out before I get to blow my load but even when I do it's very watery

At your age, I’d look into the possibility of low testosterone.

It can present as inability to concentrate, insomnia, weaker errctions, difficulty orgasming, excessive tiredness, changes in metabolism, low libido, and more. oh thanks for that,I'm not that old thanks!"

Sorry not calling you old. Testosterone can decrease as early as in the 30s.

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By *hriscooperMan
45 weeks ago

Warrington

If you are staying hard the testosterone probably is the only issue. Maybe it's slightly low, most men have low T when they get past 30.

I started taking things to help a few years ago and the difference it's made to everything is staggering.. Not just sexually either, mentally, physically, emotionally.

Feel fitter stronger, more switched on and focused. I sleep better, feel more confident, and much happier.

Make sure you're properly hydrated but I think it's more to do with you thinking about it too much. I'd say its more phycological than physical.

It happens to me sometimes, if I'm thinking about it too much I just can't cum. Relax, focus on enjoying what you're doing rather than the end result. Tell your partner to do something for you that you really get turned on by.

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By *inchyorksMan
45 weeks ago

huddersfield

It depends, I get to a point where I probs wont cum in the session, unless I do it myself, normally that is when there is lots of stop start for foreplay etc

If it's a quick with little chat then I can cum fairly quick!

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By *usurrusCouple
45 weeks ago

North West.

Some meds can affect you. Especially any anti depressants.

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By *jekimMan
45 weeks ago

Wigan

I do takes me a very long time to pleasure myself an mostly the first time I sleep with a woman I can't finish no matter how long or what we try

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By *orny PTMan
45 weeks ago

Peterborough


"My ex. I was convinced it was all the jerking off to porn"

Yes and no. If he's wanking. What is he using as a lube?

1 nothing

2 water based lube

3 oil based lube

4 a condom

5 pussy juice

6 saliva

I don't think ever women realise how much TOO MUCH lube can reduce the friction, between hand and penis. Penises with foreskins need more friction than vaginas.

I can't vouch for the other type: no thanks.

This lack of basic male biomechanics, is poorly documented.

Let me explain how this feels:

imagine you are on the beach sunbathing, you have an itch, you scratch it and the nerves are satisfied and it goes away. Now slap on some sun tan lotion and try that scratch again. Does it work? No, well there's your answer.

I am speaking from experience. Low T-levels also have a lot to answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Hi OP, if it isn’t related to medication and you fail to ejaculate even solo watching porn etc, maybe get checked over by GP as can be a sign of undiagnosed diabetes in men

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By *orny PTMan
45 weeks ago

Peterborough


"I think porn has a lot to answer for. I wonder if the widespread use of porn is desensitising the thrill of real experiences?"

Men are visual creatures and sex in the sun is a lot more potent for me. In the dark my eyes which are erogenous zones don't get enough visual stimulation and I like to see my partner, all senses working together is much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I’ve been struggling lately but not all the time, but I’ve also noticed one of my balls seems to be sliding up inside me during sex and it kills the sensation pretty much

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By *orny PTMan
45 weeks ago

Peterborough

Performance anxiety is a thing too.

it starts off with premature ejaculation and later on in life itfinishes...with not being able to finish.

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By *orny PTMan
45 weeks ago

Peterborough


"Some meds can affect you. Especially any anti depressants. "

Yellow card system lists this.

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By *oding1Man
45 weeks ago

marlow


"My ex. I was convinced it was all the jerking off to porn"

Horny cougar

Cant message you as I'm to old

But just wanted to let you know your profile write up is a thing of joy to read. Thank you.

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
45 weeks ago

peterborough


"If you are staying hard the testosterone probably is the only issue. Maybe it's slightly low, most men have low T when they get past 30.

I started taking things to help a few years ago and the difference it's made to everything is staggering.. Not just sexually either, mentally, physically, emotionally.

Feel fitter stronger, more switched on and focused. I sleep better, feel more confident, and much happier.

Make sure you're properly hydrated but I think it's more to do with you thinking about it too much. I'd say its more phycological than physical.

It happens to me sometimes, if I'm thinking about it too much I just can't cum. Relax, focus on enjoying what you're doing rather than the end result. Tell your partner to do something for you that you really get turned on by. "

Best answer right here

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By *hil most chillMan
45 weeks ago

South East & Europe

The older I've got, the easier it's gotten. I put it down to increased confidence as I get older, and I'm more able to relax these days

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