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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago

If not have you ever considered that it’s because you’re boring? Or not creative?

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Cute.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"Cute. "

Thinking out loud init

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By *amie HantsWoman
40 weeks ago

Atlantis

Hi Stephen, thanks for the thread.

Yes. I often consider if that’s the reason as only this morning my mum left me on read.

I also have a lot of unanswered work emails I am chasing for a response. I might ask my colleagues if it’s because I’m boring and lack creativity.

I’ll follow it with ‘not to sound needy’ though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"Hi Stephen, thanks for the thread.

Yes. I often consider if that’s the reason as only this morning my mum left me on read.

I also have a lot of unanswered work emails I am chasing for a response. I might ask my colleagues if it’s because I’m boring and lack creativity.

I’ll follow it with ‘not to sound needy’ though "

I always reply to my fun and interesting colleagues and my mum always answers my messages. So at least I’m not you I guess

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
40 weeks ago

Aberdeen

One would have to send messages first to get a reply.

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"Yes "

My man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"One would have to send messages first to get a reply.

MrsAbz"

I’ll send you one and you can send one back

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By *aizyWoman
40 weeks ago

west midlands

Msgs are meant to be creative?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Yes

That’s why I don’t message anyone.

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By *krobsonMan
40 weeks ago

Liverpool

No very rare or just a block

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"Msgs are meant to be creative?!?"

And personalised.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"Msgs are meant to be creative?!?"
I dunno I’m just trying to understand why nobody in my phone is replying rn

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By *aizyWoman
40 weeks ago

west midlands


"Msgs are meant to be creative?!?

And personalised. "

Ok, creative and personalised, anymore Woody? I'm taking notes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"Yes

That’s why I don’t message anyone. "

Word

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
40 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"If not have you ever considered that it’s because you’re boring? Or not creative?

"

Yes.

I have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"No very rare or just a block "

I got blocked by my ex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"If not have you ever considered that it’s because you’re boring? Or not creative?

Yes.

I have.

"

Snap out of it- Arctic monkeys

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I get replies yeah. Not always, but that’s cool. Taste is subjective after all.

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By *oodmessMan
40 weeks ago

yumsville

No its definitely them

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"Msgs are meant to be creative?!?

And personalised.

Ok, creative and personalised, anymore Woody? I'm taking notes!"

And containing the secret words. Probably.

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By *edeWoman
40 weeks ago

the abyss

Or because I don't message in the first place for fear of exactly this

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By *gent CoulsonMan
40 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Sometimes

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
40 weeks ago

your head

Don't message, solves all the problems.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
40 weeks ago

Worcester

Not as often as I feel like I deserve.

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By *olden RatioWoman
40 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

I think it's mainly because I'm an arse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"Not as often as I feel like I deserve. "

Message me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"I get replies yeah. Not always, but that’s cool. Taste is subjective after all.

"

They have bad taste bro

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"No its definitely them"

I agree with you actually.

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By *naswingdressWoman
40 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

No.

It's shocking given I never message anyone new, that they don't respond

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"Or because I don't message in the first place for fear of exactly this "

When are you going to message me back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"No.

It's shocking given I never message anyone new, that they don't respond "

You message me. And I always get round to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"Sometimes "

Don’t think about it. It’s a slippery slope. I hurt my hip.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"Don't message, solves all the problems. "

Except 9+10.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"I think it's mainly because I'm an arse."

Could be could be

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
40 weeks ago

London (She/Her)


"If not have you ever considered that it’s because you’re boring? Or not creative?

"

I am boring and not creative but I still generally get replies. I guess cos I have that magic quality, owning a fanny

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"If not have you ever considered that it’s because you’re boring? Or not creative?

I am boring and not creative but I still generally get replies. I guess cos I have that magic quality, owning a fanny "

I reckon it’s your face. It’s pretty ain’t it?

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
40 weeks ago

West Devon

We try to be polite and reply to all messages but sometimes people make it difficult to give very much to reply to.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I never instigate messages, so I wouldn't know.

Do I reply to messages ? Sometimes.

Otherwise I'm just a lurker and chronic faburbator.

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By *hrek101Man
40 weeks ago

Herts

I don't really send anymore for that reason

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
40 weeks ago

Essex

I get replies before I even send the message.

I’m that good

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By *elix SightedMan
40 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I’m mostly dull but, on the odd occasion my sarcastic sense of humour breaks cover, it doesn’t go over well.

Not that it matters because I don’t message people with the intention of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"I get replies before I even send the message.

I’m that good "

I vow to never reply to you again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"We try to be polite and reply to all messages but sometimes people make it difficult to give very much to reply to. "

Hahaha fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"I never instigate messages, so I wouldn't know.

Do I reply to messages ? Sometimes.

Otherwise I'm just a lurker and chronic faburbator."

You faburbate and don’t let anyone tell you shit

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By *ensuallover1000Man
40 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Just to clarify; ‘Piss off!’ still counts as a reply, right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"I don't really send anymore for that reason "

You’d get loads bro. Do it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"I’m mostly dull but, on the odd occasion my sarcastic sense of humour breaks cover, it doesn’t go over well.

Not that it matters because I don’t message people with the intention of meeting."

Would you meet me? I’d like to meet you

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By *naswingdressWoman
40 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No.

It's shocking given I never message anyone new, that they don't respond

You message me. And I always get round to it "

You're not new

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"Just to clarify; ‘Piss off!’ still counts as a reply, right? "

Come on bro…

Of course it fucking does.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"No.

It's shocking given I never message anyone new, that they don't respond

You message me. And I always get round to it

You're not new "

I am when I come back every few months. Like herpes.

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By *naswingdressWoman
40 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No.

It's shocking given I never message anyone new, that they don't respond

You message me. And I always get round to it

You're not new

I am when I come back every few months. Like herpes. "

Christ almighty

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By *elix SightedMan
40 weeks ago

Cloud 8


"I’m mostly dull but, on the odd occasion my sarcastic sense of humour breaks cover, it doesn’t go over well.

Not that it matters because I don’t message people with the intention of meeting.

Would you meet me? I’d like to meet you"

I still do socials so yep

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"I’m mostly dull but, on the odd occasion my sarcastic sense of humour breaks cover, it doesn’t go over well.

Not that it matters because I don’t message people with the intention of meeting.

Would you meet me? I’d like to meet you

I still do socials so yep "

Socials first? Got it

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
40 weeks ago

North West


"If not have you ever considered that it’s because you’re boring? Or not creative?

"

It's because I'm boring AND lacking creativity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"If not have you ever considered that it’s because you’re boring? Or not creative?

It's because I'm boring AND lacking creativity. "

You’re neither but you are a silly sausage

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By *sWyldWoman
40 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm probably both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago

I just got a reply. Sorry losers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago

^ I’m kidding. Sorry.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
40 weeks ago

chichester


"If not have you ever considered that it’s because you’re boring? Or not creative?

"

Most people are boring on here tbh I find

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"If not have you ever considered that it’s because you’re boring? Or not creative?

Most people are boring on here tbh I find "

Give peas a chance

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
40 weeks ago

chichester


"If not have you ever considered that it’s because you’re boring? Or not creative?

Most people are boring on here tbh I find

Give peas a chance"

, what right do peas have if they are boring. Jolly green giant ain’t going to save them here in the vegetable patch

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By *cottish guy 555Man
40 weeks ago

London

I'm well boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I wrote to one of the popular forum girls on the back of a forum thread and they didn't even read it

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By *eliWoman
40 weeks ago

.

No. Well no to the replies, yeah I know it's 'cause I'm boring.

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By *ohnny_ThunderMan
40 weeks ago

LLandudno

Creativity? What a waste of time and effort.

What I do, and listen uo lads, is I send a dick pic of my limp, sweaty cock in the first message with a tantalising three word message, "wanna fuck now?" I can hear them dripping as soon as I've pressed send and ALWAYS get a reply.

You're welcome.

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By *mf123Man
40 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

I get em and im boring now thats if im arsed sending one to begin with which aint very often

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By *stellaWoman
40 weeks ago

London

I match my level of boring and creativity to the person I’m messaging. So if you think I’m boring and uncreative, you should have a good long think.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
40 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"If not have you ever considered that it’s because you’re boring? Or not creative?

Most people are boring on here tbh I find

Give peas a chance"

Pity that's gone now. Replaced by some 'HELCH' pish

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By *ruceyyMan
40 weeks ago

London

Half half. Creative ones can either get a reply or a straight delete.

Some women do just want the basic hi look at pics let me know what you think

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
40 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

I'm far from boring, I'd like to think but I do find that sometimes when you message and receive half arsed replies I tend to lose interest and the messages reflect that ("up to much today?") The conversation perpetually descends into a bit of a bore fest until someone puts it out of its misery.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

It's highly ironic that you'd start this thread Pickle

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

No

Yes

And yes.

I saw one profile that said she's really attracted to 4 qualities, 3 off them you could see on my pics. The other one I also am.

She still didn't respond

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By *illan-KillashMan
40 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"If not have you ever considered that it’s because you’re boring? Or not creative?

"

I feel seen......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"It's highly ironic that you'd start this thread Pickle "

Because I’m boring and not creative? Ouch. But fair.

Luckily I don’t care

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago

Asked my rush hour crush out this morning and she said no. Humbling.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"It's highly ironic that you'd start this thread Pickle

Because I’m boring and not creative? Ouch. But fair.

Luckily I don’t care "

You're the last person I'd describe as boring! But you're shit at replying!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"It's highly ironic that you'd start this thread Pickle

Because I’m boring and not creative? Ouch. But fair.

Luckily I don’t care

You're the last person I'd describe as boring! But you're shit at replying!"

My lack of replies on here could be karma

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"It's highly ironic that you'd start this thread Pickle

Because I’m boring and not creative? Ouch. But fair.

Luckily I don’t care

You're the last person I'd describe as boring! But you're shit at replying!

My lack of replies on here could be karma "

Could be...

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By *imply DeeWoman
40 weeks ago

Wherever

On the rare occasion I sent a message, only got one reply and it was to say “I will get back to you as soon as I can as currently a little busy “. You can guess the rest.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
40 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"On the rare occasion I sent a message, only got one reply and it was to say “I will get back to you as soon as I can as currently a little busy “. You can guess the rest."

Oh, that is actually quite funny and made me laugh. I might use that for the non verified faceless ones that appear.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"On the rare occasion I sent a message, only got one reply and it was to say “I will get back to you as soon as I can as currently a little busy “. You can guess the rest."

Still busy?

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

The only issue giving blowjobs is when there's floss. Interrupts my flow a little

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By *imply DeeWoman
40 weeks ago

Wherever


"On the rare occasion I sent a message, only got one reply and it was to say “I will get back to you as soon as I can as currently a little busy “. You can guess the rest.

Oh, that is actually quite funny and made me laugh. I might use that for the non verified faceless ones that appear."

You’re welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I'm newish here and finding my feet.

I think the best advice to be nice and dont expect replies.

Men massively outnumber the ladies on here and I can imagine ladies get absolutely hounded.

Be creative in your message, remember your trying to stand out against the million messages they receive.

If you get a rejection, be cool about, she may rethink things in future or be a cool person

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By *imply DeeWoman
40 weeks ago

Wherever


"On the rare occasion I sent a message, only got one reply and it was to say “I will get back to you as soon as I can as currently a little busy “. You can guess the rest.

Still busy?"

Haven’t heard from him since so I’m assuming yes. Must be very, very busy.

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By *reative-mindMan
40 weeks ago

Exeter


"If not have you ever considered that it’s because you’re boring? Or not creative?

"

I'm boringly creative.... or I don't "stand out from the crowd" what ever that means (know has actually managed to explain that to me yet).

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