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By *imi_Rouge OP Woman
40 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Like to announce when they're going to cum?

I've noticed this with a lot of partners, only a couple of exceptions.

But why? Do you think we won't know? To signal the fun is nearly over? To hurry us up with our own orgasm?

Is it something women also do?

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By *illy IdolMan
40 weeks ago

Midlands

Politeness. It's a bit like the pub ringing the bell for last orders

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By *inx000Couple
40 weeks ago

Manchester

I asked my partner the same question the other day and his response was " I didn't want you to miss the moment that's all " lol xx

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By *imi_Rouge OP Woman
40 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"I asked my partner the same question the other day and his response was " I didn't want you to miss the moment that's all " lol xx"

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By *ad NannaWoman
40 weeks ago

East London

So I know to close my eyes.

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
40 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Like to announce when they're going to cum?

I've noticed this with a lot of partners, only a couple of exceptions.

But why? Do you think we won't know? To signal the fun is nearly over? To hurry us up with our own orgasm?

Is it something women also do? "

Would you rather not know then?

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By *hil most chillMan
40 weeks ago

South East & Europe

I believe some women love to hear it.

Also many women like to let you know when they're close, so you don't switch up and do something else, like start dinner or something

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

To stop her saying "oh God, please don't stop! Don't stop! Keep going!"

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I also announce it, but I don't know why

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Great question….

1 reason is maybe a guy likes to be told where to cum, very hot when a lady asks for it in a certain place. Or says don’t you dare

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
40 weeks ago

chichester

"Like to announce when they're going to cum?

I've noticed this with a lot of partners, only a couple of exceptions.

But why? Do you think we won't know? To signal the fun is nearly over? To hurry us up with our own orgasm?

Is it something women also do? "

Women do this though sometimes when you are eating them out real good. I notice some like to repeatedly like to tell you they are cumming. No shit love I know from the physical reactions

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By *onnynclaireCouple
40 weeks ago

Reading

Would you rather “Get off a for a minutes so I don’t blow my load!” Instead?

Claire likes to know so she can tell me where she’d like me to cum. Usually on her face lol

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I Only say when iam cumming when it’s in her mouth. She has the option to swallow or withdraw.

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By *iMale4U66Man
40 weeks ago

Near

"So I know to close my eyes."

Perfect answer

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
40 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Is it something women also do? "

Some women do, sometimes, yes.

But when women do it, it’s hot. So that’s a key difference!

Sometimes it’s a way of saying ‘fuck yes, keep doing what you’re doing, don’t stop now.’ Sometimes it’s a way of saying ‘oh my god, well done you.’ Sometimes it’s completely involuntary and just pours out of her pretty mouth in a torrent of pure filth because she’s lost in the moment and wants to sound like a sex-mad slut who only exists for orgasms …

*ahem*

Sorry. Got a bit carried away there.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

It’s better to ask them

I often declare I’m cumming

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
40 weeks ago

St Leonards

I find it acts as self-talk.

Takes it away from the imagined further into the physical, reflects the building intensity back to all my senses, heightens all the sensations.

Like the crescendo at the end of a musical piece - the extra "noise" adds a lot more to the physical and emotional feelings.

So that's what it does for my part of the thing, and it's tended to elicit heightened pleasure for the others involved in the process too.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
40 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I like to share said information based upon the intimacy factor; to let her know how the amazing sensation of being inside her is about to produce this result.

It also serves as an exciting countdown, a bit like the intro to Thunderbirds

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
40 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

I'm going to cum

Quick, get the kettle on

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By *imi_Rouge OP Woman
40 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"Like to announce when they're going to cum?

I've noticed this with a lot of partners, only a couple of exceptions.

But why? Do you think we won't know? To signal the fun is nearly over? To hurry us up with our own orgasm?

Is it something women also do?

Would you rather not know then?"

Usually it's pretty obvious... Without having to actually say it

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By *eyond PurityCouple
40 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

C loves to hear it. She is multi-orgasmic and so knowing I’m close will send her over the edge with me following…

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By *imi_Rouge OP Woman
40 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"So I know to close my eyes."

Or take your glasses off...

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
40 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
40 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

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"Or take your glasses off..."

Not to put the safety goggles *on*?

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

So you can grab the medal

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By *LiamMan
40 weeks ago

Midlands

Most the time women want the cum in certain places.. imagine just cumming in a womans mouth if she don't want that.

Kind of like being polite

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By *oupleus30Couple
40 weeks ago

Minster

"So I know to close my eyes."

This has to win the best comment award

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
40 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"This has to win the best comment award"

Nanna’s won that so many times her shelves are groaning under the weight of all the trophies.

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By *verage JosephMan
40 weeks ago

Grays & London

As someone previously said only say it when receiving oral… preparing them before they ch0ke ha ha

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
40 weeks ago

Beverley

If someone's sucking my cock and I don't know their preference, it's just polite

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I kinda like hearing it

It’s exciting knowing that you’ve got your partner to the brink of orgasm and depending on the person you can have a little fun with it too

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"To stop her saying "oh God, please don't stop! Don't stop! Keep going!"

Yeah, it’s not so hot when “I can’t I’m going to cum” is being screamed at you

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

We're polite.

Most of the partner's I've been with have told me when they are going to also.

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By *olfandtazCouple
40 weeks ago

Bristol

I only do this when I'm cumming from a blow job, that way taz knows its coming and she can get ready to swallow it or pull away and let it go over her face

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Because they want to maybe

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By *ealitybitesMan
40 weeks ago

Belfast

It depends.

Over the phone there aren't many options.

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
40 weeks ago

Carmarthen

I did with one partner but then before I came she grabbed a handful of tissues and was a bit off putting so stopped announcing.

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By *agerMorganMan
40 weeks ago

Canvey Island

I thought it was custom that all British men, in their poshest Victorian voice, shout “Good heavens, I’m about to arrive!”

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By *entlemanrogueMan
40 weeks ago

Motherwell

"Like to announce when they're going to cum?

I've noticed this with a lot of partners, only a couple of exceptions.

But why? Do you think we won't know? To signal the fun is nearly over? To hurry us up with our own orgasm?

Is it something women also do? "

women also do it.

we let women know so they can get in their desired position to take the load i.e on their boobs, bum or whatever also. it can help push a woman over the edge and (Hopefully) we both cum in unison.

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By *ddie1966Man
40 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Why?

Because it better than what the American men do.

Throw arms in the air and declaring, "And The Eagle Has Landed"

I suppose I'm one of the few who don't declare it though.

My ex used to actually say "have you cum yet" and it was very off putting for me, so I imagine similar for the ladies too.

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By *a1970Man
40 weeks ago

East cork

Maybe it's a military thing.... Fire in the hole

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By *ruceyyMan
40 weeks ago

London

Only ever used it when women have said cum for me

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I do it with some partners because they want me to cum in particular places. They might say - cum on my face

- cum on my

Etc.

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By *rouble81Couple
40 weeks ago

Bolton

I really like to hear it!

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
40 weeks ago

Southampton

"Most the time women want the cum in certain places.. imagine just cumming in a womans mouth if she don't want that.

Kind of like being polite

I like this .

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By *allandathleticMan
40 weeks ago

Asgard

I usually just say "oh fuck" repeatedly, getting louder as I get closer. Finishing with a "fuck yes babes" and a big grin when I've finished.

That kind of signals I'm going to cum. I don't say "I'm about to cum"

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"To stop her saying "oh God, please don't stop! Don't stop! Keep going!"

Yeah, it’s not so hot when “I can’t I’m going to cum” is being screamed at you

Followed be a meek "sorry" with a "you were just so good" to save face

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
40 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Like to announce when they're going to cum?

So it encourages you to help them get their jeans off faster?

*not me obvs.......

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By *ea monkeyMan
40 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

Usually because a partner likes to know and savour the moment or because they want you to cum somewhere. I’m in receiving a blow job then I think it’s a good idea to let them know incase they don’t want my cum in their mouth

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By *entBarryUKMan
40 weeks ago

Ashford

"Like to announce when they're going to cum?

I've noticed this with a lot of partners, only a couple of exceptions.

But why? Do you think we won't know? To signal the fun is nearly over? To hurry us up with our own orgasm?

Is it something women also do? "

It helps sometimes to syncronise orgasms, like 3.2.1. Go!

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By *estarossa.Woman
40 weeks ago

Flagrante

So I can pop my swim hat on and switch the wipers on my cum goggles on!

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

So I know if I should pull out or not….

I’m not telling you,… I’m telling the neighbours…

Sex reminds me of my childhood days of playing Hide and Seek (I’ve made it weird now havnt I? )

‘I’m coming! Ready or not!!!

^pick one.

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By *enk15Man
40 weeks ago

Evesham

Wait... are we not supposed to do this?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
40 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Not me.

Surprise!!!! (Jazz hands emoji)

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By *lder.Woman
40 weeks ago

Not Local

I find it quite sweet. I normally reply please do.

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By *ristinapinkWoman
40 weeks ago

Staines-upon-Thames

"Is it something women also do?

Some women do, sometimes, yes.

But when women do it, it’s hot. So that’s a key difference!

*ahem*

Sorry. Got a bit carried away there.

Lol

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
40 weeks ago

Cumbria

"I find it acts as self-talk.

Takes it away from the imagined further into the physical, reflects the building intensity back to all my senses, heightens all the sensations.

Like the crescendo at the end of a musical piece - the extra "noise" adds a lot more to the physical and emotional feelings.

So that's what it does for my part of the thing, and it's tended to elicit heightened pleasure for the others involved in the process too. "

PARKLIFE!

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

It has never happened while being fucked, they just seem to let out a kind of sigh of satisfaction, but guys often seem to warn me while I am sucking them, or they are finishing themselves off in my mouth.

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By *ostindreamsMan
40 weeks ago

London

I am guessing it's a hint to the woman that this is the last chance for her to ask if she prefers cum in face/body/mouth?

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By *ife NinjaMan
40 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Personally, if you're comfortable with each other, and not using protection, if it's not wanted inside, it can be directed elsewhere

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By *cLovin2Man
40 weeks ago

Reading

"I also announce it, but I don't know why

Announce it? You put it in the paper with the weddings and obituaries

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"I am guessing it's a hint to the woman that this is the last chance for her to ask if she prefers cum in face/body/mouth? "

Surely then they’d be the question where do you want it?

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By *imply DeeWoman
40 weeks ago

Wherever

I love it when they do.

Whatever the reason.

It turns me on.

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By *cLovin2Man
40 weeks ago

Reading

"I am guessing it's a hint to the woman that this is the last chance for her to ask if she prefers cum in face/body/mouth?

Surely then they’d be the question where do you want it?

That's too complicated for our male brain to process at the point of ejaculation. We're a simple people, feed us, fuck us and leave us alone. All is well with the world

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By *cLovin2Man
40 weeks ago

Reading

"I love it when they do.

Whatever the reason.

It turns me on."

Do you tell your partners it turns you on? How do you communicate with a guy with a face like

That's the first time I've used that emoji, I knew I could do it ??

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By *ostindreamsMan
40 weeks ago

London

"I am guessing it's a hint to the woman that this is the last chance for her to ask if she prefers cum in face/body/mouth?

Surely then they’d be the question where do you want it?

Sophisticated men of culture find it so rude

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By *iaisonseekerMan
40 weeks ago

Liverpool

As others have said, it's really common courtesy to let the person on the other end of your cock know that you're about to fire warm, viscous fluid at them at high speed.

If they're good enough to suck, sit on or otherwise stimulate it, they deserve the opportunity to get out of the way when the shooting starts.

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By *imi_Rouge OP Woman
40 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I was thinking more about having sex, rather than blow jobs. Obviously that's very polite to give someone options.

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By *rispyDuckMan
40 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

So you know why he’s suddenly grunting like a grizzly bear & biting back of your neck like a leopard haha

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
40 weeks ago

Newcastle

"I love it when they do.

Whatever the reason.

It turns me on."

Same! I love to hear it

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