FabSwingers.com forum: Glasses....

By *rBandMrsG OP Couple
40 weeks ago

Kilkenny

I've been wearing glasses for years and years but I suppose until recently I never put much thought into wearing them or not, also my wife likes my glasses.

But I was recently at an event and think I must have been the only male wearing them which would suggest either everyone is 20:20 or much more likely a lot more people wearing contacts compared to a non swinging event.

So I've myself booked it to try contacts at the weekend.

Am I imaging things or is it just down to practicality when it comes down to swinging and glasses (having to take them off etc isn't ideal) so more people have contacts.

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By *stellaWoman
40 weeks ago

London

I’ve recently had to start wearing my glasses to use my phone. It’s such a ball ache and onerous. I hate it. But I don’t need glasses all the time so contacts aren’t a possibility.

I dread the day I have to wear them more permanently, as I also don’t think I could use contacts as hate having to put anything into my eyes. Shudders.

Hope you are happy with whatever outcome you go for, OP. I think glasses can look sexy on people so it wouldn’t faze me either way on someone else. Although if they take them off and then turn around groping to try and find me in the bedroom that might be rather amusing!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
40 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I mean, sometimes at clubs a soft blur filter wouldn't be the worst thing

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By *olfandtazCouple
40 weeks ago

Bristol

I've tried contact lenses and it was going well until I lost one in my eye, painful for days! I now stick with my glasses

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By *eliWoman
40 weeks ago

I think it's more a practical thing, contacts mean not having them steam up, not forgetting where you've placed them, having someone break them.

I wear glasses. Find them sexy on others. I don't wear contacts but I do glasses free at socials. Most of the time anyway.

For one I don't recognise people unless they're close so I don't have to deal with awkward hi/byes. Can say I didn't see them.

They also don't get steamed up when it's warm or I blush like a twonk.

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By *rBandMrsG OP Couple
40 weeks ago

Kilkenny

"I mean, sometimes at clubs a soft blur filter wouldn't be the worst thing

Sometimes there's def advantages!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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40 weeks ago

East Sussex

I've got too much scar tissue on my left eye for contacts and the very thought of them gives me the heebie jeebies so I'll be wearing glasses until I'm called to the heavenly opticians

I rather like the look of glasses

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By *rBandMrsG OP Couple
40 weeks ago

Kilkenny

"I've tried contact lenses and it was going well until I lost one in my eye, painful for days! I now stick with my glasses "

Ahhhh! That's an image I don't want

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"I mean, sometimes at clubs a soft blur filter wouldn't be the worst thing

Ha!

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By *issSugarPlumWoman
40 weeks ago

Northamptonshire

I really like wearing glasses but I have an issue with my left eye that can't be corrected with them. So next week I'm at hospital to have a hard contact lens appointment.

If I go with it I will then need a regular contact lens from the optician for my right eye.

I think I will buy some non prescription glasses for decoration as it were, maybe some blue light reducing ones.

At least I'll have options.

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By *aggy dollsCouple
40 weeks ago

Bradford

Tried contact lenses the other week for the first time. Nope nadda not happening ever again.

Mr H

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By *rBandMrsG OP Couple
40 weeks ago

Kilkenny

"Tried contact lenses the other week for the first time. Nope nadda not happening ever again.

Mr H "

What put you off them?

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By *rBandMrsG OP Couple
40 weeks ago

Kilkenny

"I think it's more a practical thing, contacts mean not having them steam up, not forgetting where you've placed them, having someone break them.

I wear glasses. Find them sexy on others. I don't wear contacts but I do glasses free at socials. Most of the time anyway.

For one I don't recognise people unless they're close so I don't have to deal with awkward hi/byes. Can say I didn't see them.

They also don't get steamed up when it's warm or I blush like a twonk.

I'm only planning contacts at socials to be honest, even talking today to Mrs today I said I might wear contacts at the weekends to which she said she liked my glasses and would miss them.

I suppose its odd, seeing me with glasses for over 15 years and then suddenly not (with exception of going to bed of course).

I'm not great without glasses close up and while in some situations there's some advantages to this (don't have to see too much detail on other men), it also has the downside of not seeing as much as I'd like to of women

Consult at weekend is 60 and I get 5 pairs to try so worse come to worse I'm down 60 if I really hate them. Otherwise its 80 for months supply which given how rare I use them could do me the year

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By *and12Couple
40 weeks ago

flint

I tried contacts

But had to return to my best pair of spunk deflectors

After having one stuck in x

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By *aggy dollsCouple
40 weeks ago

Bradford

"Tried contact lenses the other week for the first time. Nope nadda not happening ever again.

Mr H

What put you off them?"

Sticking my finger in my eye, I know where that fingers been

On a serious note I just couldn't get along with poking myself in the eye and my blink reflex is entirely far too strong Vs my patience.

Mr H

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By *obilebottomMan
40 weeks ago

All over

There are lots of great glasses these days that enhance the look and oersonality of the wearer. Good verifocal ones too for those that need both and saves the on and off struggle.

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By *alandNitaCouple
40 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I've worn glasses since I was a child and am quite happy wearing them.

However, I do usually wear contact lenses when I go out and want to wear makeup or for a swinging meet for practical reasons. I am too short sighted to put my makeup on without wearing my lenses.

Cal just takes his glasses off when needed.

Nita

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By *apiomanMan
40 weeks ago

Shipley

It is one thing (OK, one of a number of things) which puts me off clubs. I can manage about an hour without mine on, but the thought of contacts makes me wince.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
40 weeks ago

Lincoln

I've been wearing glasses for most of my life and I prefer my face with them, though I decided to get contact lenses for special occasions like holidays(I had to miss out on snorkelling on our honeymoon because I was blind as a bat), nights out or swinging meets.

It's nice to be able to see and also have your head pressed into pillow

I hate putting them in though and I almost always pinch my eye when I'm taking them out

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By *naswingdressWoman
40 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Contacts are the norm in swinging, I'd say.

I tried contacts. They're not for me. I don't look like me without my glasses on.

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By *alandNitaCouple
40 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Contacts are the norm in swinging, I'd say.

I tried contacts. They're not for me. I don't look like me without my glasses on."

Personally, I've never fancied sticking my finger in my eye...

Cal

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
40 weeks ago

Wales

I like the idea of contacts but the thought of peeling them off my eye ball makes me feel a little queasy

I didn't wear my glasses for two years, now I have no choice but to wear them because I'm blind as a bat. It's a bonus that the bigger frames hide my great big eye bags

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By *ario1972Man
40 weeks ago

Guildford

I wear glasses but I don’t like them. It was ages before I caved and put them on for reading and close up work.

Without them though, currently even Keith Richards ballsack would look as smooth as a baby’s bum to me.

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By *p4Fun7070Man
40 weeks ago

Leven

Been wearing contacts for years. I got used to them pretty much straight away and never really had any bother putting them in or taking them out. What I would recommend is going for daily disposable one's over monthly one's. With the monthlyone's, you have to clean them daily so you don't end up with an eye infection. That can be a chore so for me it's much easier to use daily one's and just chuck them away at the end of each day.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
40 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I always make passes at girls who wear glasses.

Not really. That would be creepy and weird. ‘Always’ would be a bit much. But I do think that specs are a sexy accessory.

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