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"Why do people respond to a polite message with rudness Do people on this site, hate being on here lol" A lot of people get rude messages it makes them resent everyone Maybe they are stressed Or maybe they are constantly pestered after saying no Or may they are being dicks | |||
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"May we see an example? " I said - 'hey guys, lovely profile, what brings you to the site?' AS an ice breaker They replied - reading isnt your strong suit is it' What didn't I read correctly??? | |||
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"Define rudeness though. I'm often told I'm rude for literally saying "No thanks."" Yeh but it's when you finish "No thanks" with "the audacity"  | |||
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"May we see an example? I said - 'hey guys, lovely profile, what brings you to the site?' AS an ice breaker They replied - reading isnt your strong suit is it' What didn't I read correctly???" Their profile? | |||
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"Why do people respond to a polite message with rudness Do people on this site, hate being on here lol" Some people perceive a simple not interested as being rude i guess or maybe a sexual message was sent and even though you were polite they've just had too many of those, difficult to say without seeing the messages  | |||
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"Define rudeness though. I'm often told I'm rude for literally saying "No thanks."" Insulting me for no reason after I said nothing rude to them lol | |||
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"May we see an example? I said - 'hey guys, lovely profile, what brings you to the site?' AS an ice breaker They replied - reading isnt your strong suit is it' What didn't I read correctly???" There profile. There would have been something in there that you didnt pick up on or something | |||
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"May we see an example? I said - 'hey guys, lovely profile, what brings you to the site?' AS an ice breaker They replied - reading isnt your strong suit is it' What didn't I read correctly???" Probably their profile. Thats kinda disrespectful. | |||
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"Define rudeness though. I'm often told I'm rude for literally saying "No thanks." Insulting me for no reason after I said nothing rude to them lol" But did their profile answer the question you asked them? If so it's more of a simple statement of fact rather than an insult? | |||
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"As of right now I got blocked and they keep unblocking and massaging more and then blocking again so i cant reply??? "Just block them back. | |||
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"As of right now I got blocked and they keep unblocking and massaging more and then blocking again so i cant reply??? "You can block them also..  | |||
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"As of right now I got blocked and they keep unblocking and massaging more and then blocking again so i cant reply??? "Block them? | |||
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"As of right now I got blocked and they keep unblocking and massaging more and then blocking again so i cant reply??? "Block them back? | |||
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"Define rudeness though. I'm often told I'm rude for literally saying "No thanks." Insulting me for no reason after I said nothing rude to them lol But did their profile answer the question you asked them? If so it's more of a simple statement of fact rather than an insult?" There was not 1 thing indicating why they were on here, I was just trying to chat | |||
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"As of right now I got blocked and they keep unblocking and massaging more and then blocking again so i cant reply???
Block them back?"I didnt realise you could after they did it first - they're now blocked | |||
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"May we see an example? I said - 'hey guys, lovely profile, what brings you to the site?' AS an ice breaker They replied - reading isnt your strong suit is it' What didn't I read correctly???" Maybe they had on their profile why they are here / or no single guys etc. Either way there is no need to be rude. I either use my filters to stop unsolicited messages, leave unread or reply no thanks. | |||
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"Define rudeness though. I'm often told I'm rude for literally saying "No thanks." Insulting me for no reason after I said nothing rude to them lol" You were rude enough to have not read their profile before deciding to message, by the sound of it | |||
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"Define rudeness though. I'm often told I'm rude for literally saying "No thanks." Insulting me for no reason after I said nothing rude to them lol But did their profile answer the question you asked them? If so it's more of a simple statement of fact rather than an insult? There was not 1 thing indicating why they were on here, I was just trying to chat " So I once asked someone "what they were looking for" after they messaged me first, added me as a friend and we were having polite back and forths for a bit. They blocked me. I've been told by somebody else that fellas ask that to try and work out what somebody else wants to then try to be that guy to get into their bloomers, so that's a question I'd be carful with straight out the gate. | |||
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"Define rudeness though. I'm often told I'm rude for literally saying "No thanks." Insulting me for no reason after I said nothing rude to them lol You were rude enough to have not read their profile before deciding to message, by the sound of it" Nope, I read the profile | |||
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"I got blocked earlier for calling someone a pillow muncher the nerve."Ha! I don’t think I’ve thrown that insult since my school days! | |||
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"Are you 100 per cent sure they were looking for single guys? A lot of couples aren't, and they can get really annoyed when single guys message them regardless." They had a meet up for single guys etc. If nobody wanted a message from men, filter on! | |||
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"It is no different to the world out there. Some people are definately and needlessly rude but lots of very nice people too. If someone is not inteterested but intentionally reply to be rude then are not the sort of people you want anyway. However, not replying or blocking or whatever is of course their perrogative. I used to find strange, perhaps still do, that people kept messages unread but does not bother me know. I also find strange when someone messages and you look and is a hidden profile. Lots of people, lots of different ways managing their accounts. Just don't let it bother you. Have some cake "Could not stand all the typos I made | |||
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"Define rudeness though. I'm often told I'm rude for literally saying "No thanks." Insulting me for no reason after I said nothing rude to them lol You were rude enough to have not read their profile before deciding to message, by the sound of it Nope, I read the profile" If you read their profile and you think you fitted what they are looking. You sent them a polite message you got no responce or a polite no thanks- no need to be rude back unless you responded to the no reply or reply . More often than not people, (guys) may read the profile but still not a fit for what they are looking for and still approach (chancers) gets people's back up | |||
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"Define rudeness though. I'm often told I'm rude for literally saying "No thanks." Insulting me for no reason after I said nothing rude to them lol You were rude enough to have not read their profile before deciding to message, by the sound of it Nope, I read the profile If you read their profile and you think you fitted what they are looking. You sent them a polite message you got no responce or a polite no thanks- no need to be rude back unless you responded to the no reply or reply . More often than not people, (guys) may read the profile but still not a fit for what they are looking for and still approach (chancers) gets people's back up" It was their first message to me only 2 mins after I sent my initial message | |||
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"Define rudeness though. I'm often told I'm rude for literally saying "No thanks."" Or. Time waster | |||
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"May we see an example? I said - 'hey guys, lovely profile, what brings you to the site?' AS an ice breaker They replied - reading isnt your strong suit is it' What didn't I read correctly???" Did they actually meet men? Mrs | |||
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"May we see an example? I said - 'hey guys, lovely profile, what brings you to the site?' AS an ice breaker They replied - reading isnt your strong suit is it' What didn't I read correctly??? Did they actually meet men? Mrs " They had a 'meet today' for single guys/women and couples so I would assume so, if they haven't met men before they certainly were looking for one | |||
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"May we see an example? I said - 'hey guys, lovely profile, what brings you to the site?' AS an ice breaker They replied - reading isnt your strong suit is it' What didn't I read correctly??? Did they actually meet men? Mrs They had a 'meet today' for single guys/women and couples so I would assume so, if they haven't met men before they certainly were looking for one " Ah fair enough - we get tons of messages from single blokes complimenting the profile & wanting to meet, they clearly haven't read the profile or the huge warning that came up when they went to message saying "this couple isn't looking for single men" it's really annoying after many messages. Hence checking as I'd have replied the same, it gets tedious after the 1st 50 blokes. Mrs | |||
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"May we see an example? I said - 'hey guys, lovely profile, what brings you to the site?' AS an ice breaker They replied - reading isnt your strong suit is it' What didn't I read correctly???" One of the reasons for messaging is to get to know someone. He has done you a massive favour by hastening the process and saving you time and money (if you decided to meetup). You just dodged a bullet. You are wiser now and learnt to block. | |||
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"May we see an example? I said - 'hey guys, lovely profile, what brings you to the site?' AS an ice breaker They replied - reading isnt your strong suit is it' What didn't I read correctly??? Did they actually meet men? Mrs They had a 'meet today' for single guys/women and couples so I would assume so, if they haven't met men before they certainly were looking for one Ah fair enough - we get tons of messages from single blokes complimenting the profile & wanting to meet, they clearly haven't read the profile or the huge warning that came up when they went to message saying "this couple isn't looking for single men" it's really annoying after many messages. Hence checking as I'd have replied the same, it gets tedious after the 1st 50 blokes. Mrs " I keep having to refrain myself from messaging you to let you know the word coffee spelt backwards is an electronic shag.
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"May we see an example? I said - 'hey guys, lovely profile, what brings you to the site?' AS an ice breaker They replied - reading isnt your strong suit is it' What didn't I read correctly??? Did they actually meet men? Mrs They had a 'meet today' for single guys/women and couples so I would assume so, if they haven't met men before they certainly were looking for one Ah fair enough - we get tons of messages from single blokes complimenting the profile & wanting to meet, they clearly haven't read the profile or the huge warning that came up when they went to message saying "this couple isn't looking for single men" it's really annoying after many messages. Hence checking as I'd have replied the same, it gets tedious after the 1st 50 blokes. Mrs I keep having to refrain myself from messaging you to let you know the word coffee spelt backwards is an electronic shag.
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"May we see an example? I said - 'hey guys, lovely profile, what brings you to the site?' AS an ice breaker They replied - reading isnt your strong suit is it' What didn't I read correctly??? Did they actually meet men? Mrs They had a 'meet today' for single guys/women and couples so I would assume so, if they haven't met men before they certainly were looking for one Ah fair enough - we get tons of messages from single blokes complimenting the profile & wanting to meet, they clearly haven't read the profile or the huge warning that came up when they went to message saying "this couple isn't looking for single men" it's really annoying after many messages. Hence checking as I'd have replied the same, it gets tedious after the 1st 50 blokes. Mrs I keep having to refrain myself from messaging you to let you know the word coffee spelt backwards is an electronic shag.
you are exempt you don't need to refrain from messaging.
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"Sounds like you’re sharing details of a Direct message op, which I still think is against st the rules on Fab. … * I’m convinced that is still a rule, can anyone confirm that. " It's against forum rules | |||
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"Sounds like you’re sharing details of a Direct message op, which I still think is against st the rules on Fab. … * I’m convinced that is still a rule, can anyone confirm that. It's against forum rules "I agree. I believe it goes under “dirty laundry” rule plus we don’t know the other side of the story. | |||
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"Sounds like you’re sharing details of a Direct message op, which I still think is against st the rules on Fab. … * I’m convinced that is still a rule, can anyone confirm that. It's against forum rules
I agree. I believe it goes under “dirty laundry” rule plus we don’t know the other side of the story. "Yep Dirty Laundry and Private Mail rules both apply. This message will self destruct in... | |||
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"Sounds like you’re sharing details of a Direct message op, which I still think is against st the rules on Fab. … * I’m convinced that is still a rule, can anyone confirm that. It's against forum rules
I agree. I believe it goes under “dirty laundry” rule plus we don’t know the other side of the story. "Thank you. | |||
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"Sounds like you’re sharing details of a Direct message op, which I still think is against st the rules on Fab. … * I’m convinced that is still a rule, can anyone confirm that. It's against forum rules
I agree. I believe it goes under “dirty laundry” rule plus we don’t know the other side of the story.
Yep Dirty Laundry and Private Mail rules both apply.
This message will self destruct in..."Direct mail - NOT private mail. | |||
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"Sounds like you’re sharing details of a Direct message op, which I still think is against st the rules on Fab. … * I’m convinced that is still a rule, can anyone confirm that. It's against forum rules
I agree. I believe it goes under “dirty laundry” rule plus we don’t know the other side of the story.
Yep Dirty Laundry and Private Mail rules both apply.
This message will self destruct in...
Direct mail - NOT private mail.
"The rule refers to Private Mail "Private mail should stay private Please don't post private mail to the forums no matter how idiotic/funny it may be. It is strictly against site rules." Maybe I've misunderstood the rule. | |||
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"Sounds like you’re sharing details of a Direct message op, which I still think is against st the rules on Fab. … * I’m convinced that is still a rule, can anyone confirm that. It's against forum rules
I agree. I believe it goes under “dirty laundry” rule plus we don’t know the other side of the story.
Yep Dirty Laundry and Private Mail rules both apply.
This message will self destruct in...
Direct mail - NOT private mail.
The rule refers to Private Mail
"Private mail should stay private
Please don't post private mail to the forums no matter how idiotic/funny it may be. It is strictly against site rules."
Maybe I've misunderstood the rule."I know exactly what you’re saying, and you are right. | |||
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