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By (user no longer on site) OP   
45 weeks ago

How can you get people to open your message fully rather than just reading what's in preview. There only so much you can say in preview so if they think they know what it says they don't open.

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By *illynillyCouple
45 weeks ago

Wiltshire

You can't....

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By *hrimper36Couple
45 weeks ago

Central France dept 36

You’ve been on here a long time op so think out of the box and use catchy headers like “I agree” or “thank you for” which could peak their interest slightly enough to open your “hi” “ faf” message.

This has been an old person helping a young person reply.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"How can you get people to open your message fully rather than just reading what's in preview. There only so much you can say in preview so if they think they know what it says they don't open. "

ALWAYS Assume they’ve opened it. This will help you. -top tip.

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By *TG3Man
45 weeks ago

Dorchester


"How can you get people to open your message fully rather than just reading what's in preview. There only so much you can say in preview so if they think they know what it says they don't open. "
Do the header in capital letters so it stands out

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By *illynillyCouple
45 weeks ago

Wiltshire


"How can you get people to open your message fully rather than just reading what's in preview. There only so much you can say in preview so if they think they know what it says they don't open. "

Also as a side note, I, Nilly will often look at the profile prior to opening a message. If we are clearly not a match I ll just delete the message as our profile has clearly not been read

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

There was a young lady called Daff etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
45 weeks ago


"You’ve been on here a long time op so think out of the box and use catchy headers like “I agree” or “thank you for” which could peak their interest slightly enough to open your “hi” “ faf” message.

This has been an old person helping a young person reply.

T"

You are everywhere aren't you

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

45 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"How can you get people to open your message fully rather than just reading what's in preview. There only so much you can say in preview so if they think they know what it says they don't open.

Also as a side note, I, Nilly will often look at the profile prior to opening a message. If we are clearly not a match I ll just delete the message as our profile has clearly not been read "

This!

The preview makes no difference. Nor does the message.

It's what's in your profile and photos that counts. Get that right and you've a fighting chance of messages being read at least.

But generally you'll never even know if they've looked at that either because 'ninja mode'.

That's life!

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By *hrimper36Couple
45 weeks ago

Central France dept 36


"You’ve been on here a long time op so think out of the box and use catchy headers like “I agree” or “thank you for” which could peak their interest slightly enough to open your “hi” “ faf” message.

This has been an old person helping a young person reply.

TYou are everywhere aren't you "

I’m just a person that likes to offer help when needed.

T

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
45 weeks ago


"You’ve been on here a long time op so think out of the box and use catchy headers like “I agree” or “thank you for” which could peak their interest slightly enough to open your “hi” “ faf” message.

This has been an old person helping a young person reply.

TYou are everywhere aren't you

I’m just a person that likes to offer help when needed.

T"

well thank you! I must admit I never do the hi or faf message I normally comment on the profile itself or if I spot a common interest

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By *eroLondonMan
45 weeks ago

Mayfair

As others have already intimated above, most people will glance at your profile before opening your message, if at all.

The odds are stacked against you because your message is one of hundreds languishing in their ever-increasing Inbøx.

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By *issmorganWoman
45 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Unfortunately you can't op

Most will look at a profile first and if it doesn't appeal to them, they won't read your message.

I use several filters to reduce mail and even then, I must delete most of my messages because I don't like their profile or the sender hasn't read my profile.

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By *hrimper36Couple
45 weeks ago

Central France dept 36


"You’ve been on here a long time op so think out of the box and use catchy headers like “I agree” or “thank you for” which could peak their interest slightly enough to open your “hi” “ faf” message.

This has been an old person helping a young person reply.

TYou are everywhere aren't you

I’m just a person that likes to offer help when needed.

Twell thank you! I must admit I never do the hi or faf message I normally comment on the profile itself or if I spot a common interest "

And yet your thread question and the window into your sexual soul tells the reader that whatever you are doing is not bearing many rewards op so maybe just maybe take heed of the good advice offered.

Best of luck.

T

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By *elix SightedMan
45 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Put the subject title in capitals:

“URGENT!! YOUR SEXY PACKAGE IS ABOUT TO EXPIRE!!”

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
45 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Have an interesting and complete profile that demonstrates compatibility between you and the receiver

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
45 weeks ago

Leeds

The 1st thing I do when someone messages is look at their profile, if the pics and bio don't peak my interest I won't bother reading it/responding.

Mrs

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By *allandathleticMan
45 weeks ago

Asgard

Your going to need to use your imagination with her here.

Imagine I'm a salacious, stunning, sexually charged woman (I know, I look amazing. Right?)

And you message me your usual "hey good looking. What you up to?"

I'll look straight at your profile, notice you cannot accommodate. Notice you have 2 meets scheduled for MY PLACE (cheeky fucker! At least ask before inviting yourself) and then I'd delete your message.

The reason being. Is as genuine as you may actually be. Your profile doesn't scream genuine. And that my friend will be 99.9% of the reason the actual ladies, men, (whomever is your preference) are deleting your sent mail, unread.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Can I ask you a question?….

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By *allandathleticMan
45 weeks ago

Asgard

Who me?

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Who me?"

No

That was my suggestion

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By *allandathleticMan
45 weeks ago

Asgard

Well you've managed to get a reply from a gorgeously, stunning, sexually charged lady

What is your question handsome? xx

(mao)

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By *ickthehallsMan
45 weeks ago

Peterborough

Join support groups for marketing people who write email copy and steal their ideas

Subject: you won’t believe what happened when she did this one thing

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Join support groups for marketing people who write email copy and steal their ideas

Subject: you won’t believe what happened when she did this one thing "

NOOOOOOO! I see this stuff all day long. I don't want to be marketed to by men!

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Well you've managed to get a reply from a gorgeously, stunning, sexually charged lady

What is your question handsome? xx

(mao)"

Right, now I’m just confused and blushing because did you just call me handsome

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By *allandathleticMan
45 weeks ago

Asgard


"Well you've managed to get a reply from a gorgeously, stunning, sexually charged lady

What is your question handsome? xx

(mao)

Right, now I’m just confused and blushing because did you just call me handsome "

I wasn't out of character ()

Don't worry im back now

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By *aizyWoman
45 weeks ago

west midlands


"Well you've managed to get a reply from a gorgeously, stunning, sexually charged lady

What is your question handsome? xx

(mao)

Right, now I’m just confused and blushing because did you just call me handsome "

Maybe thats what the OP could do, start calling women handsome, might work

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Well you've managed to get a reply from a gorgeously, stunning, sexually charged lady

What is your question handsome? xx

(mao)

Right, now I’m just confused and blushing because did you just call me handsome

Maybe thats what the OP could do, start calling women handsome, might work "

I think you’ve just cracked it!

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
45 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"How can you get people to open your message fully rather than just reading what's in preview. "

Waterboarding. But don't tell anyone.

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By *ongandharderMan
45 weeks ago

Rotherham

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By *allandathleticMan
45 weeks ago

Asgard

"Hey handsome, I was perusing the local profiles and yours caught Mt attention. I like how rugged your photos are. I love the glimmering light on your hairy thighs and the way you've perfectly managed to capture such a close image of your vulva is just sublime.

Anyways message back if you fancy a chat, truly yours, sweet and petite, TallandAthletic"

Something like that should capture the mind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
45 weeks ago


"You’ve been on here a long time op so think out of the box and use catchy headers like “I agree” or “thank you for” which could peak their interest slightly enough to open your “hi” “ faf” message.

This has been an old person helping a young person reply.

TYou are everywhere aren't you

I’m just a person that likes to offer help when needed.

Twell thank you! I must admit I never do the hi or faf message I normally comment on the profile itself or if I spot a common interest

And yet your thread question and the window into your sexual soul tells the reader that whatever you are doing is not bearing many rewards op so maybe just maybe take heed of the good advice offered.

Best of luck.

T"

Reading too much into it. I don't know why it's not like an email in that you have to open it to read it and not have half the text on display. Also the profile is very rarely looked at when any message is left unopened. So all that stuff about profiles is what can I say...

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By *valanche1001Man
45 weeks ago

Leeds

Start with: “so now I have your credit card details….. “

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"You’ve been on here a long time op so think out of the box and use catchy headers like “I agree” or “thank you for” which could peak their interest slightly enough to open your “hi” “ faf” message.

This has been an old person helping a young person reply.

TYou are everywhere aren't you

I’m just a person that likes to offer help when needed.

Twell thank you! I must admit I never do the hi or faf message I normally comment on the profile itself or if I spot a common interest

And yet your thread question and the window into your sexual soul tells the reader that whatever you are doing is not bearing many rewards op so maybe just maybe take heed of the good advice offered.

Best of luck.

T Reading too much into it. I don't know why it's not like an email in that you have to open it to read it and not have half the text on display. Also the profile is very rarely looked at when any message is left unopened. So all that stuff about profiles is what can I say..."

Most people are in ninja mode so you won't know if they've looked

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Plus remember you can open read and the mark as unread

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Plus remember you can open read and the mark as unread"

People don’t do that do they

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Plus remember you can open read and the mark as unread

People don’t do that do they "

Noooooo of course not

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Plus remember you can open read and the mark as unread

People don’t do that do they

Noooooo of course not "

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
45 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


".... Also the profile is very rarely looked at when any message is left unopened. So all that stuff about profiles is what can I say...

Most people are in ninja mode so you won't know if they've looked"

This one.

I've looked at your profile. I won't be on your who viewed me list.

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By *electableicecreamMan
45 weeks ago

The West

Part of the reason that messages get left on unread is pestering and abuse.

Many men will send multiple messages and if a message is shown as read they will use that as a reason to follow up.

If you are left on unread you can take it that they have looked at your profile are are not interested.

Or

They have read your message and marked it unread again to deal with later.

A lot of people look at profiles in anonymous/ninja mode because again some men will pester if they 'saw you looking'.

It's almost certainly not just the content of your messages.

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By *ickthehallsMan
45 weeks ago

Peterborough


"Join support groups for marketing people who write email copy and steal their ideas

Subject: you won’t believe what happened when she did this one thing

NOOOOOOO! I see this stuff all day long. I don't want to be marketed to by men! "

None of us do

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By *valanche1001Man
45 weeks ago

Leeds


".... Also the profile is very rarely looked at when any message is left unopened. So all that stuff about profiles is what can I say...

Most people are in ninja mode so you won't know if they've looked

This one.

I've looked at your profile. I won't be on your who viewed me list."

Can I just go ahead and assume you check out my profile daily?

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By *eroLondonMan
45 weeks ago

Mayfair

I lôôk at Prêy's profile regularly. Whenever I need a flamingo-pink hit or a subdued immersive experience in red...she delivers for me. Every time.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
45 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


".... Also the profile is very rarely looked at when any message is left unopened. So all that stuff about profiles is what can I say...

Most people are in ninja mode so you won't know if they've looked

This one.

I've looked at your profile. I won't be on your who viewed me list.

Can I just go ahead and assume you check out my profile daily? "

I mean, your username is the blue of the unclicked rather than the purple of already visited over here. But you can tell yourself whatever you like

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Plus remember you can open read and the mark as unread

People don’t do that do they "

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Join support groups for marketing people who write email copy and steal their ideas

Subject: you won’t believe what happened when she did this one thing

NOOOOOOO! I see this stuff all day long. I don't want to be marketed to by men!

None of us do "

Someone might take you seriously though.

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By *valanche1001Man
45 weeks ago

Leeds


".... Also the profile is very rarely looked at when any message is left unopened. So all that stuff about profiles is what can I say...

Most people are in ninja mode so you won't know if they've looked

This one.

I've looked at your profile. I won't be on your who viewed me list.

Can I just go ahead and assume you check out my profile daily?

I mean, your username is the blue of the unclicked rather than the purple of already visited over here. But you can tell yourself whatever you like "

You know I will

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
45 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I lôôk at Prêy's profile regularly. Whenever I need a flamingo-pink hit or a subdued immersive experience in red...she delivers for me. Every time. "

Oh, I was going to ask what about the classless friends only photos. But you're not on my friends list.

That seems a travesty.

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By *eroLondonMan
45 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I lôôk at Prêy's profile regularly. Whenever I need a flamingo-pink hit or a subdued immersive experience in red...she delivers for me. Every time.

·

Oh, I was going to ask what about the classless friends only photos. But you're not on my friends list.

That seems a travesty."

That's because you're my Black American Express™: membership by invitation only. Travesty fixed...

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By *ickthehallsMan
45 weeks ago

Peterborough


"Join support groups for marketing people who write email copy and steal their ideas

Subject: you won’t believe what happened when she did this one thing

NOOOOOOO! I see this stuff all day long. I don't want to be marketed to by men!

None of us do

Someone might take you seriously though. "

Please let me know if they do

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Join support groups for marketing people who write email copy and steal their ideas

Subject: you won’t believe what happened when she did this one thing

NOOOOOOO! I see this stuff all day long. I don't want to be marketed to by men!

None of us do

Someone might take you seriously though.

Please let me know if they do "

I had an absolutely stunning message this morning featuring my creamy kaboobies but it didn't seem inspired by Gary Vee.

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