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"Are these chapter titles for a book you're writing OP?" You have a thread idea there Meli! | |||
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"Are these chapter titles for a book you're writing OP?" I was wondering the same  | |||
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"Are these chapter titles for a book you're writing OP? You have a thread idea there Meli!" Ooo good point! | |||
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"The only challenges my husband and I find in swinging is finding the free time and then finding compatible people. The rewards are the immense pleasure we receive from sharing the sexual experience together, seeing each other enjoy sex freely with other people. The turn on is absolutely wonderful and hugely sexy. The amazing closeness between us is unexplainable. We are very lucky to have each other and to enjoy this lifestyle together." I really like this. Fingers crossed that I may emulate this one day! | |||
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"- Balancing Swinging with a Committed Relationship: Challenges and Rewards - Single Swingers: How Do You Navigate the Scene? - How to Talk to Your Partner About Trying Swinging " When I became single again last year I already knew that any future relationship would likely be sourced from here, much like the last. And that happened. So no need to have any discussion about swinging with them at all. These days I suspect that it would be easier for someone to have an open discussion about swinging if outside the scene or with a new partner with no experience of it, given it's prominence in the media, online and the huge number of shite TV programs about it. There are no end of conversation starter opportunities. | |||
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"Enriching forum discussion in full swing (ahem) OP, I see? "Yes but it is a lost battle unfortunately | |||
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"Enriching forum discussion in full swing (ahem) OP, I see?
Yes but it is a lost battle unfortunately "Is it though? I see very valid points in this conversation, even though is a topic that has already been discussed before. Unsure what you mean by “enriching” then  | |||
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"Enriching forum discussion in full swing (ahem) OP, I see?
Yes but it is a lost battle unfortunately "Not at all, I can see some good discussion going. I’m enjoying the read. but I haven’t got too much to add from my very limited experience. My comment wasn’t meant to be sarcastic, I hope it didn’t come across that way, I apologise if it did. | |||
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"Enriching forum discussion in full swing (ahem) OP, I see?
Yes but it is a lost battle unfortunately
Not at all, I can see some good discussion going. I’m enjoying the read. but I haven’t got too much to add from my very limited experience.
My comment wasn’t meant to be sarcastic, I hope it didn’t come across that way, I apologise if it did. "Not at all | |||
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"must be from Sidney University based on all his recent question posts "Instead of taking the piss maybe you could write your answer to the thread topic | |||
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"must be from Sidney University based on all his recent question posts
Instead of taking the piss maybe you could write your answer to the thread topic"Given you've made about 14 consecutive new threads with three topics in each I'm sure you can understand that maybe not everyone is inclined to take every one of them seriously as it doesn't seem likely that you could be serious about each and every one of them Also this is the lounge. No one takes anything seriously... | |||
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"must be from Sidney University based on all his recent question posts
Instead of taking the piss maybe you could write your answer to the thread topic
Given you've made about 14 consecutive new threads with three topics in each I'm sure you can understand that maybe not everyone is inclined to take every one of them seriously as it doesn't seem likely that you could be serious about each and every one of them
Also this is the lounge. No one takes anything seriously..."And your answer prove my point. Thanks a lot
I rest my case | |||
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"must be from Sidney University based on all his recent question posts
Instead of taking the piss maybe you could write your answer to the thread topic
Given you've made about 14 consecutive new threads with three topics in each I'm sure you can understand that maybe not everyone is inclined to take every one of them seriously as it doesn't seem likely that you could be serious about each and every one of them
Also this is the lounge. No one takes anything seriously...
And your answer prove my point. Thanks a lot
I rest my case"What is your point? | |||
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"must be from Sidney University based on all his recent question posts
Instead of taking the piss maybe you could write your answer to the thread topic
Given you've made about 14 consecutive new threads with three topics in each I'm sure you can understand that maybe not everyone is inclined to take every one of them seriously as it doesn't seem likely that you could be serious about each and every one of them
Also this is the lounge. No one takes anything seriously...
And your answer prove my point. Thanks a lot
I rest my case
What is your point?"I wanted to demonstrate that despite the requests to elevate the overall quality of interactions on this forum, it seems that only a few members are genuinely interested in doing so. It's disappointing to see that despite the collective effort to improve, the desired change is not being embraced by the majority. Of course this is my personal opinion and i am free to express it. | |||
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"must be from Sidney University based on all his recent question posts
Instead of taking the piss maybe you could write your answer to the thread topic
Given you've made about 14 consecutive new threads with three topics in each I'm sure you can understand that maybe not everyone is inclined to take every one of them seriously as it doesn't seem likely that you could be serious about each and every one of them
Also this is the lounge. No one takes anything seriously...
And your answer prove my point. Thanks a lot
I rest my case
What is your point?
I wanted to demonstrate that despite the requests to elevate the overall quality of interactions on this forum, it seems that only a few members are genuinely interested in doing so. It's disappointing to see that despite the collective effort to improve, the desired change is not being embraced by the majority. Of course this is my personal opinion and i am free to express it."I'm not sure that generating 30 new topics in as many hours is going to prove the point you think it is. I do see your point. I mostly start threads in the Irish forum and I usually either post a game I know everyone will enjoy or a topic I genuinely want to discuss. Classic games will always fill the thread. A bit of light hearted flattery and tomfoolery is what many people come to a forum like this for. A discussion on a particular topic can be much more hit and miss and it's often the most divisive topics that get the most attention. Cheating, race, politics and train line names are good examples. People do like to talk about themselves though so topics that encourage people to divulge a preference for one thing or another are often popular too. I think if you picked a single topic instead of thirty and posted one every few days you might have more luck. Just my opinion. | |||
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" - Single Swingers: How Do You Navigate the Scene? " With caution, even then it’s not 100% I’m going to get a genuine guy who isn’t going to turn out to be married or a nutter | |||
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" - Single Swingers: How Do You Navigate the Scene? " Differently. When I first joined the site I had a great time enjoying lots of different people and scenarios. But after 12+ years I’ve changed a lot and so now I don’t swing so much. I now have definite “wants” in terms of a partner on fab and would prefer to go on a journey with someone rather than just arrive at a destination. I changed my profile to reflect that and although I’ve not had even a nibble, I’m rather okay about that, as I may find someone that suits me better and who I suit. Till then, I’ll perve. I’m awesome at that | |||
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"I'm not really sure of the question op. Mrs " Doesn't have to be questions. The forums are for all types of discussions Aren't they?? | |||
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"- Balancing Swinging with a Committed Relationship: Challenges and Rewards - Single Swingers: How Do You Navigate the Scene? - How to Talk to Your Partner About Trying Swinging " I applaud you OP for at least trying to improve the quality of discussion, agreed it’s more likely to fail than succeed but you can’t please everyone so no point in trying ultimately! In answer to your postulations….. Balancing a committed relationship whilst swinging outside of that relationship is a disaster waiting to happen; regardless of who knows what or who doesn’t; I’ve always found trying to ‘educate vanilla’ re swinging is almost impossible, akin to ‘it takes a swinger to know one’ and not being honest with a partner always leads to darkness no matter how much one tries to spin. If you’re asking how you balance both people in the committed partnership with swinging then I’d say communication, communication, communication and then communication! Having experience of both swinging as a single and as one half of a committed partnership, they’re both entirely different ends of the swinging continuum and impossible to compare in my opinion. As for discussion with partners, as others have suggested, if your partner if already in the scene then it’s a simple discussion re boundaries and preferences; if not, then it’s back to communication. One thing is for sure, you can’t convince or cajole anyone else to swing, either they want to for themselves and their own gratification or they don’t, pushing the agenda ends in tears, always, simply because it becomes an issue of trust; or lack of! | |||
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"- Balancing Swinging with a Committed Relationship: Challenges and Rewards - Single Swingers: How Do You Navigate the Scene? - How to Talk to Your Partner About Trying Swinging " firstly for most swinging couples their are no Challenges just rewards singles will have it hard always have always will men alot more so how to talk to your partner ?? i struggle with understanding this one because if you dont know your own partner then you have a crap relationship thats built on nothing ... every one should know their partner inside out just my opinion | |||
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"must be from Sidney University based on all his recent question posts
Instead of taking the piss maybe you could write your answer to the thread topic
Given you've made about 14 consecutive new threads with three topics in each I'm sure you can understand that maybe not everyone is inclined to take every one of them seriously as it doesn't seem likely that you could be serious about each and every one of them
Also this is the lounge. No one takes anything seriously...
And your answer prove my point. Thanks a lot
I rest my case
What is your point?
I wanted to demonstrate that despite the requests to elevate the overall quality of interactions on this forum, it seems that only a few members are genuinely interested in doing so. It's disappointing to see that despite the collective effort to improve, the desired change is not being embraced by the majority. Of course this is my personal opinion and i am free to express it."Oh gosh that’s me told off then! Better go sit on the naughty step! There are different people who use the forums in different ways. Sometimes we post serious comments and sometimes we make a joke. While you might want to ‘elevate the quality of discussion’ some of us are pretty happy with the nutty fun nature of what is here. I for one visit to get away from high quality intellectual discussions which is my day job! | |||
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"must be from Sidney University based on all his recent question posts
Instead of taking the piss maybe you could write your answer to the thread topic
Given you've made about 14 consecutive new threads with three topics in each I'm sure you can understand that maybe not everyone is inclined to take every one of them seriously as it doesn't seem likely that you could be serious about each and every one of them
Also this is the lounge. No one takes anything seriously...
And your answer prove my point. Thanks a lot
I rest my case
What is your point?
I wanted to demonstrate that despite the requests to elevate the overall quality of interactions on this forum, it seems that only a few members are genuinely interested in doing so. It's disappointing to see that despite the collective effort to improve, the desired change is not being embraced by the majority. Of course this is my personal opinion and i am free to express it.
I'm not sure that generating 30 new topics in as many hours is going to prove the point you think it is.
I do see your point. I mostly start threads in the Irish forum and I usually either post a game I know everyone will enjoy or a topic I genuinely want to discuss.
Classic games will always fill the thread. A bit of light hearted flattery and tomfoolery is what many people come to a forum like this for.
A discussion on a particular topic can be much more hit and miss and it's often the most divisive topics that get the most attention. Cheating, race, politics and train line names are good examples.
People do like to talk about themselves though so topics that encourage people to divulge a preference for one thing or another are often popular too.
I think if you picked a single topic instead of thirty and posted one every few days you might have more luck.
Just my opinion."Absolutely agree. One serious topic I’d happily reply to with a well thought out response. 30 makes me feel like I’m being interviewed for a PhD or newspaper article!! | |||
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"must be from Sidney University based on all his recent question posts
Instead of taking the piss maybe you could write your answer to the thread topic
Given you've made about 14 consecutive new threads with three topics in each I'm sure you can understand that maybe not everyone is inclined to take every one of them seriously as it doesn't seem likely that you could be serious about each and every one of them
Also this is the lounge. No one takes anything seriously...
And your answer prove my point. Thanks a lot
I rest my case
What is your point?
I wanted to demonstrate that despite the requests to elevate the overall quality of interactions on this forum, it seems that only a few members are genuinely interested in doing so. It's disappointing to see that despite the collective effort to improve, the desired change is not being embraced by the majority. Of course this is my personal opinion and i am free to express it.
I'm not sure that generating 30 new topics in as many hours is going to prove the point you think it is.
I do see your point. I mostly start threads in the Irish forum and I usually either post a game I know everyone will enjoy or a topic I genuinely want to discuss.
Classic games will always fill the thread. A bit of light hearted flattery and tomfoolery is what many people come to a forum like this for.
A discussion on a particular topic can be much more hit and miss and it's often the most divisive topics that get the most attention. Cheating, race, politics and train line names are good examples.
People do like to talk about themselves though so topics that encourage people to divulge a preference for one thing or another are often popular too.
I think if you picked a single topic instead of thirty and posted one every few days you might have more luck.
Just my opinion.
Absolutely agree. One serious topic I’d happily reply to with a well thought out response. 30 makes me feel like I’m being interviewed for a PhD or newspaper article!!"I agree as well. | |||
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"- Balancing Swinging with a Committed Relationship: Challenges and Rewards - Single Swingers: How Do You Navigate the Scene? - How to Talk to Your Partner About Trying Swinging " So which one is this thread about? 
Do we pick? | |||
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