FabSwingers.com forum: What am i doing wrong

By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

Can anyone help me? What am i doing wrong. Is my profile not good does it need work. I know im probally not everyone cup of tea but im a genuine gentleman. Any advice

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

You want sugar coated or honest?

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By *hrowawaydevice1987Man
41 weeks ago

SW London/Surrey

"You want sugar coated or honest?"

I sent him a pm with the rules of fight club

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"You want sugar coated or honest?"

Anyone asking for advice should get the honest version.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"You want sugar coated or honest?"

Honesty is always the best policy

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
41 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Sometimes it's worth asking yourself what you think you're doing right

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By *gent CoulsonMan
41 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"Can anyone help me? What am i doing wrong. Is my profile not good does it need work. I know im probally not everyone cup of tea but im a genuine gentleman. Any advice "
You are one in several thousand single guys, need I say more

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By *rHotNottsMan
41 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Can anyone help me? What am i doing wrong. Is my profile not good does it need work. I know im probally not everyone cup of tea but im a genuine gentleman. Any advice "

As an advertisement for block paving I think it’s really good. Did you mean to post it on FAB though ? Maybe gumtree would be better

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By *electableicecreamMan
41 weeks ago

The West

I don't think you are doing anything wrong OP.

Maybe think about it this way. Have you spent any time looking at your options for penetrating the scene are. Pun intended.

For example.

You can:

have a great bio and gallery

send messages

join the chat rooms

join the forum discussions

use forum search function to look for advice

attend social events.

attend club's.

If you haven't tried all of those things then you haven't yet exhausted all of the sites options for creating opportunities to make connections.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I'll wait for the op to return to answer before I post my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"I'll wait for the op to return to answer before I post my thoughts"

Tell it straight

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I'll wait for the op to return to answer before I post my thoughts

Tell it straight "

My opinion only is...

Your status is off-putting

You write what you want not what you offer, but what you do offer is pleasure, how do you know your good, each person is different and what worked for one might not for the next.

There's only one pic I personally like

I'm sorry to be blunt, but there's more people joining, more people to stand out from and I think profiles have to really reeeeeaaaaalllly stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Can anyone help me? ….,. Any advice "

No, you can only help yourself!

People can give you their advice which is actually just an strangers opinion

What you do with that, is up to you, and that’s where you probably help yourself.

My oppinion ( and I’m doing this because I pulled one of these threads, not long ago, and people actually gave some criticism, which helped)

Your profile text looks okay, it says reasons why are you here and what you’re looking for.

What if I was a woman (couple ) looking for a man? Your photos look a poor selection of possible photos you could probably put on there.

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By *TG3Man
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Can anyone help me? What am i doing wrong. Is my profile not good does it need work. I know im probally not everyone cup of tea but im a genuine gentleman. Any advice "
absolutely not sure, nice profile, one nice pic, one veri ticks all the boxes, keep plugging away

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By *izzy.Woman
41 weeks ago

Stoke area

Your comment on your profile expecting people to reply , as its good manners shows you haven't read the guidelines on fab and you haven't grasped the reality of ladies and couples often getting loads of messages and the issue with people becoming abusive sometimes when turned down.

You describe yourself as curvy and chunky. That won't appeal to everyone, maybe some photos with you closer to the camera might show how big , curvy is, as you don't appear overweight in the one photo you display.

Finally , check you message people that you fit the criteria for re age, location and who they are looking for. Be polite; friendly and interesting and write a message after reading their profiles.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
41 weeks ago

Chatham

Your status is a big big ick. Moaning on the site is a instant no for me.

Your first paragraph on your profile is a snipe at other men.

Your profile doesn't have a profile picture which means I'd be more likely to ignore the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I'll wait for the op to return to answer before I post my thoughts"

Hey can I just say I’ve looked at your profile and your a very beautiful women. Just thought I’ll say this here as on your profile yiu delete all messages

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Your status would put me off for a start, I don't wanna meet a sulky adult doesn't sound hot does it.

Your messaging the wrong people - check they are compatible before sending messages out you may get a better success rate.

You've only 1 photo.

Mrs

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