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By *anzer Fernando OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Over the seas and far away

All I ever see in my views list are blokes. As nice as I'm sure they all are, that's not the sort of attention that does it for me. "Where are the women?" I've been wondering. "Surely they like a browse/perve as well?" My theory is that most have the show who I viewed feature turned off beacause a view is interpreted by many as "come tear my knickers off right now". On the money you reckon?

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By *ayHaychMan
40 weeks ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

Yes. The same for bi or gay men too. Hence I operate in ninja mode.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

You're quite correct OP. When I first joined many years ago, I didn't realise about the incognito mode and was inundated with 'saw you looking FAF' messages. Learnt my lesson very quickly

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By *TG3Man
40 weeks ago

Dorchester

Most if not all women look in ninja mode

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

ninja mode

nothing worse then getting a hi a seen you looked at my profile message

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By *anzer Fernando OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Over the seas and far away


"You're quite correct OP. When I first joined many years ago, I didn't realise about the incognito mode and was inundated with 'saw you looking FAF' messages. Learnt my lesson very quickly "

Theory confimred then. Thanks all.

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By *anzer Fernando OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Over the seas and far away

'Ninja Mode' - I like that.

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By *anzer Fernando OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Over the seas and far away


"You're quite correct OP. When I first joined many years ago, I didn't realise about the incognito mode and was inundated with 'saw you looking FAF' messages. Learnt my lesson very quickly "

I saw you replying to my forum post... So I just thought I'd say lovely legs Legs!.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
40 weeks ago

Beverley

So women are getting messages after merely looking, assuming it means 'interested?'

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By *onnynclaireCouple
40 weeks ago

Reading

Thanks for this post.

I’ve literally just found the setting as we get fed up of what you’ve all mentioned.

We don’t get shop assistants running up to us in the street just because we looked at the display window lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"You're quite correct OP. When I first joined many years ago, I didn't realise about the incognito mode and was inundated with 'saw you looking FAF' messages. Learnt my lesson very quickly

I saw you replying to my forum post... So I just thought I'd say lovely legs Legs!. "

Thank you kindly

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Yes. I personally think that Last Time Online should also be an option, not a default, much like Telegram.

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By *TG3Man
40 weeks ago

Dorchester


"You're quite correct OP. When I first joined many years ago, I didn't realise about the incognito mode and was inundated with 'saw you looking FAF' messages. Learnt my lesson very quickly

I saw you replying to my forum post... So I just thought I'd say lovely legs Legs!.

Thank you kindly "
my pleasure

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
40 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Personally I think ninja mode should be the default for everyone.

Way more sensible.

A look means nothing. You never know if someone will interest you until you look and if they see you viewing them it can give them the impression you're interested when the reality is that you'd rather join a convent or slam your dick in your fridge door instead.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
40 weeks ago

London

Mines like

90% men

5% trans/cd

3% couples

2% women

I assume women mostly use incognito so they don't get a message every time they look at a profile. Or women just don't look at my profile.

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By *issmorganWoman
40 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Yep I look in stealth mode.

I forget who I look at and as others said I wouldn't want a message because I'd looked at a profile and wasn't interested.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I use stealth mode these days, for exactly the reason that some guys think you're more than just casually interested if you look at their profile. I especially find this if you view a profile on your own "viewed by" list. It's definitely cut down on the propositions.

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By *alico_KittyWoman
40 weeks ago

Kittys Lane

Yes I realised its much better to use the stealth mode as it saves getting too many messages x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
40 weeks ago

Leeds

Most women and couples look in stealth mode - saves all the "did you like what you saw?" Messages - no dick head id have messaged if I did.

Perving in peace is much better.

Mrs

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
40 weeks ago

North West


"All I ever see in my views list are blokes. As nice as I'm sure they all are, that's not the sort of attention that does it for me. "Where are the women?" I've been wondering. "Surely they like a browse/perve as well?" My theory is that most have the show who I viewed feature turned off beacause a view is interpreted by many as "come tear my knickers off right now". On the money you reckon?"

Women are just a figment of your imagination

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
40 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Most women and couples look in stealth mode - saves all the "did you like what you saw?" Messages - no dick head id have messaged if I did.

Perving in peace is much better.

Mrs "

I'll flip that. Most of my clearly overt viewings have been from couples. Helpfully from the West Midlands. They must operate differently in the Black Country .

Very few single curvy hotties who look like Nigella Lawson from Aberdeen whatsoever!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
40 weeks ago

Reading

I rarely browse or perv and most women who do do it in ninja mode so you would never know.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
40 weeks ago

Worcester

Yeah it's true. You'd nosey at someone's profile and then inevitably a mail would land in your inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I perving without being seen

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
40 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Absolutely ninja mode. Im not sure why you would open yourself up for messages. Plus I would hate the same 3 women knowing I am perving over them twice in the morning and once in the afternoon

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By *onnynclaireCouple
40 weeks ago

Reading

Since changing to ninja mode a few days back, our “hey, I saw you looking” messages have stopped. Well most of those type of messages have stopped.

Now perving in peace lol

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
40 weeks ago

London (She/Her)


"Yes. I personally think that Last Time Online should also be an option, not a default, much like Telegram."

I’d love to turn this off, being online is like ringing a bell and shouting “mob me for a bj!”

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

…. I have mine turned off. I rarely look at people anyway, but if I do, I like a profile to know they caught my attention.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
40 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

You are right, but I'm sure men don't as well. I've turned mine off because I'll look a profile to check something, get distracted, go off it, remember and view it again and I don't want them thinking I'm a pervy creep

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By *ixenitedWoman
40 weeks ago

Here or There abouts


"All I ever see in my views list are blokes. As nice as I'm sure they all are, that's not the sort of attention that does it for me. "Where are the women?" I've been wondering. "Surely they like a browse/perve as well?" My theory is that most have the show who I viewed feature turned off beacause a view is interpreted by many as "come tear my knickers off right now". On the money you reckon?

Like many other ladies on this thread i also opererate in silent ninja mode, i enjoy a good old perv but dont want the owner of the profile to know lol "

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