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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does the attractiveness of the face matter the most ultimately? If the face isn’t the most attractive, does it bother you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Inspired by someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheers Steve…

Subtle dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhat, nice body and arse can make up for it. Oh yeah... and personality...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope they personalty is the most important thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cheers Steve…

Subtle dude "

Another time I’ve been extremely rude I guess x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. All about the todger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Somewhat, nice body and arse can make up for it. Oh yeah... and personality..."

Interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope they personalty is the most important thing "
so looks aren’t important

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Attraction goes beyond physical appearance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope. All about the todger. "
I believe you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Attraction goes beyond physical appearance. "

Of course. But if there’s no physical attraction, or little physical attraction, does that matter?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Yes. All about the face.

J

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. All about the face.

J"

Interesting

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By *ippingDeeplyMan
over a year ago

Bath / Reading / Yeovil

Yep agree. Good looks count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. All about the todger. I believe you. "

Thousands wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep agree. Good looks count"
I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope they personalty is the most important thing so looks aren’t important"

Yes and no but ultimately in the grand scheme of things no

I no plenty off 10s that wouldn’t see meet or date for the simple fact they not nice people at all

Or they shown me something I don’t like like lie to me when I know the truth

The minute a flag is rased they hit the no box and never come out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope. All about the todger. I believe you.

Thousands wouldn't "

Ok

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I start at the minge internals and work backwards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope they personalty is the most important thing so looks aren’t important

Yes and no but ultimately in the grand scheme of things no

I no plenty off 10s that wouldn’t see meet or date for the simple fact they not nice people at all

Or they shown me something I don’t like like lie to me when I know the truth

The minute a flag is rased they hit the no box and never come out "

I get you. But I think there has to be a physical attraction of some sort

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Yes. All about the face.

J

Interesting"

My idea of a good face isn't necessarily someone else's. Just that for me facial attraction is huge.

J

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I start at the minge internals and work backwards."

Fair play man. Genitals need loving too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In terms of on here, initial physical attraction is what’s going to start any conversation so I’d say it’s pretty important

When in person it’s a different story, a conversation will happen regardless of appearance, and a persons personality can bring them from a 5 to 10 (imo)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. All about the face.

J

Interesting

My idea of a good face isn't necessarily someone else's. Just that for me facial attraction is huge.

J"

Yeah I get you

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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The attractiveness of the face isn't the most important thing to me but I like faces that I find desirable.

Fuck that's such crap even for me.

Look, I like looking at the face of someone I want to kiss. I like thinking yeah, sure, I wouldn't mind watching that face in the mirror as they fuck me. I want a face that makes me want to kiss it and taste myself off of it.

They might not be the most conventionally attractive (I love a good seat of a nose) but I have to want it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In terms of on here, initial physical attraction is what’s going to start any conversation so I’d say it’s pretty important

When in person it’s a different story, a conversation will happen regardless of appearance, and a persons personality can bring them from a 5 to 10 (imo)"

From a 5 to a 10? Personality doing a lot of lifting there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope they personalty is the most important thing so looks aren’t important

Yes and no but ultimately in the grand scheme of things no

I no plenty off 10s that wouldn’t see meet or date for the simple fact they not nice people at all

Or they shown me something I don’t like like lie to me when I know the truth

The minute a flag is rased they hit the no box and never come out

I get you. But I think there has to be a physical attraction of some sort"

Yes but it’s not the be all and end all personalty can make a 5-6 a 10

And it can make a 10 a 2-3 ultimately personalty is everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exaggerated slightly for emphasis but I think you get what I mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The attractiveness of the face isn't the most important thing to me but I like faces that I find desirable.

Fuck that's such crap even for me.

Look, I like looking at the face of someone I want to kiss. I like thinking yeah, sure, I wouldn't mind watching that face in the mirror as they fuck me. I want a face that makes me want to kiss it and taste myself off of it.

They might not be the most conventionally attractive (I love a good seat of a nose) but I have to want it."

I think it’s important to find the face attractive.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

Face and personality for me..but yes, face first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope they personalty is the most important thing so looks aren’t important

Yes and no but ultimately in the grand scheme of things no

I no plenty off 10s that wouldn’t see meet or date for the simple fact they not nice people at all

Or they shown me something I don’t like like lie to me when I know the truth

The minute a flag is rased they hit the no box and never come out

I get you. But I think there has to be a physical attraction of some sort

Yes but it’s not the be all and end all personalty can make a 5-6 a 10

And it can make a 10 a 2-3 ultimately personalty is everything "

I think an ugly personality makes someone undesirable. It doesn’t make them ugly. If they’re a 10 in looks, they’re always gonna be a 10 in looks whether I like their personality or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Exaggerated slightly for emphasis but I think you get what I mean "

I did get you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Face and personality for me..but yes, face first"
face first.

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

No facial attraction, no fuckery.

It also has to come with personality.

Personality alone will not make up for lack of attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s are physical stunning people with shit personalities that will not seem physically stunning after they show their shit personality.

There are also attractive people with beautiful insides who become aesthetically more beautiful because they have beautiful insides.

Physical appearance alone isn’t everything for me. For example, one of my partners has a beard. Any other man with a beard isn’t attractive to me. He, to me, is very sexy! It was because of his personality that I feel for him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No facial attraction, no fuckery.

It also has to come with personality.

Personality alone will not make up for lack of attraction."

Agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There’s are physical stunning people with shit personalities that will not seem physically stunning after they show their shit personality.

There are also attractive people with beautiful insides who become aesthetically more beautiful because they have beautiful insides.

Physical appearance alone isn’t everything for me. For example, one of my partners has a beard. Any other man with a beard isn’t attractive to me. He, to me, is very sexy! It was because of his personality that I feel for him. "

So not any other man with a beard isn’t attractive because technically, you could fall for someone else with a beard.

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By *igguy669Man
over a year ago

north west

For me it’s about the personality the connection that’s what makes for great sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facial attraction is very important. I’m attracted to people with all different body types without really having a preference but facial attraction is the one thing I can’t overlook if it’s not there (in terms of physical appearance. I know I know personality is key but I just assume that’s a given)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me it’s about the personality the connection that’s what makes for great sex"

Interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Facial attraction is very important. I’m attracted to people with all different body types without really having a preference but facial attraction is the one thing I can’t overlook if it’s not there (in terms of physical appearance. I know I know personality is key but I just assume that’s a given)"

Interesting thank you

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Facial attraction is very important. I’m attracted to people with all different body types without really having a preference but facial attraction is the one thing I can’t overlook if it’s not there (in terms of physical appearance. I know I know personality is key but I just assume that’s a given)"

Or a mirror in the right position

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, it does although I can't point out the exact facial features I go for. I just know when I see them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, it does although I can't point out the exact facial features I go for. I just know when I see them"

I get you

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By *ougarsilkWoman
over a year ago

Pleasure heaven

There has to be some aesthetic attraction. You could just be drawn to the eyes, teeth, mouth and find them attractive.

However there is more to a person than a face and that's where intrigue and connection kick in and the desire to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Facial attraction is very important. I’m attracted to people with all different body types without really having a preference but facial attraction is the one thing I can’t overlook if it’s not there (in terms of physical appearance. I know I know personality is key but I just assume that’s a given)

Or a mirror in the right position

J"

Ah yes but that’s so I can watch myself

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I may not find someone attractive at first glance but they become more attractive to me the more I interact and feel a connection.

If there's no connection, there's no real attraction

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Facial attraction is very important. I’m attracted to people with all different body types without really having a preference but facial attraction is the one thing I can’t overlook if it’s not there (in terms of physical appearance. I know I know personality is key but I just assume that’s a given)

Or a mirror in the right position

J

Ah yes but that’s so I can watch myself "

Exactly. That was my point. Who cares about their face with a correctly positioned mirror?

J

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There has to be some aesthetic attraction. You could just be drawn to the eyes, teeth, mouth and find them attractive.

However there is more to a person than a face and that's where intrigue and connection kick in and the desire to find out "

I get you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I may not find someone attractive at first glance but they become more attractive to me the more I interact and feel a connection.

If there's no connection, there's no real attraction "
so does physical attraction not really matter to you then? I know it doesn’t for some people

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

A face that might be considered unfortunate can be very attractive in the right light and with the right person behind it

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Total package.

Face, body, personality.

What was that Meatloaf?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A face that might be considered unfortunate can be very attractive in the right light and with the right person behind it "
everyone is attractive to someone. But does a face matter to YOU. If you don’t find their face attractive when you meet or in a first message. Does that matter?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"A face that might be considered unfortunate can be very attractive in the right light and with the right person behind it "

Yes. Costs me a fortune paying this lighting crew to come with me everywhere but well worth it.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Face and intelligence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Total package.

Face, body, personality.

What was that Meatloaf? "

What did you just call me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Face and intelligence."

Which one is more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be a facial attraction for me in the first place, then personality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There has to be a facial attraction for me in the first place, then personality. "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality, face then body (in that order)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sorry for all the dicks I wilted

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"A face that might be considered unfortunate can be very attractive in the right light and with the right person behind it everyone is attractive to someone. But does a face matter to YOU. If you don’t find their face attractive when you meet or in a first message. Does that matter?"

Sometimes I meet someone in person and there's something about them that makes it an absolute no. But if I'm just not immediately attracted to the aesthetics of a face it doesn't mean I'm not open to seeing if that changes when I know a little more of them

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personality, face then body (in that order)"

Nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry for all the dicks I wilted"

Forgiven

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A face that might be considered unfortunate can be very attractive in the right light and with the right person behind it everyone is attractive to someone. But does a face matter to YOU. If you don’t find their face attractive when you meet or in a first message. Does that matter?

Sometimes I meet someone in person and there's something about them that makes it an absolute no. But if I'm just not immediately attracted to the aesthetics of a face it doesn't mean I'm not open to seeing if that changes when I know a little more of them "

I see what you mean. Nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't need to be the most beautiful person but I do need to be attracted to them as a whole.

Em x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They don't need to be the most beautiful person but I do need to be attracted to them as a whole.

Em x"
yeah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty, yes there has to be an attraction, but personality is equally important.

On the flip side, I know and expect that I won't be for everyone based on the same standard. How boring would it be otherwise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In all honesty, yes there has to be an attraction, but personality is equally important.

On the flip side, I know and expect that I won't be for everyone based on the same standard. How boring would it be otherwise "

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Face important.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

It's important but so are other things. People are more than just one feature.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Face important. "
truss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's important but so are other things. People are more than just one feature. "

Of course.

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
over a year ago

Someplace

Yes

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By *ippingDeeplyMan
over a year ago

Bath / Reading / Yeovil


"Yes"

Yep. Superb profile

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Lightning in a bottle is a rare sight thats the only thing that can wake me from my slumber

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

ilkley and Stockport

Hotties. In the middle of winter you need something to keep you warm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it does

Having a great personality is amazing but it’s not going to make me anymore attracted to them if I don’t like their face.

That came out more aggressive than it was meant but I don’t know how to word it any better

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

For me it's the person as a whole. People are more than the sum of their parts and attraction, in my case, is something that grows as I get to know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it’s important that I find the face attractive, but it’s more of a whole package thing. If they have a shit personality I will quickly find them unattractive, and if they have a lovely personality then attraction can grow for me

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Does the attractiveness of the face matter the most ultimately? If the face isn’t the most attractive, does it bother you? "

You don’t look at the mantlepiece when your poking the fire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it’s important that I find the face attractive, but it’s more of a whole package thing. If they have a shit personality I will quickly find them unattractive, and if they have a lovely personality then attraction can grow for me"
yourself for example, are immediately attractive to me solely by your face pic so there's my 2 cents.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Both please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I may not find someone attractive at first glance but they become more attractive to me the more I interact and feel a connection.

If there's no connection, there's no real attraction "

When I read the first line, I thought it would go as follows:

I may not find someone attractive at first glance, but they become more attractive as I drink more wine.

There is a reason why guys like me take a lady out for dinner dates in a fancy restaurant. Low light and wine work in a man’s favour.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

The face is very important to me but only if I have a connection with their personality - a pretty face alone does nothing.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The face has to be attractive, and I have to be attracted to everything about them too though.

But the face isn’t everything or I’d be running after everyone I think is gorgeous wouldnt I?

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire


"Does the attractiveness of the face matter the most ultimately? If the face isn’t the most attractive, does it bother you? "

Not really, going to sound like a shallow person here but if she's got "junk" in the trunk, exceptions can be made

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