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By *ax_glasscot OP   Man
40 weeks ago

glasgow

Anal virgin here. Looking to take for the 1st time. Any advice??

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By *iasubTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Go incredibly slowly. Lots of foreplay and lube.

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By *oupleus30Couple
40 weeks ago

Minster

We moved from finger to toy then a strap on plenty of lube. And directions if your Mrs hasn't pegged before either haha

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By *ambi4uMan
40 weeks ago

Saint Helens

Get a set of butt plugs, start small and work up.

Leave them in for a bit and the sphincter gets used to it.

I'm in same process now

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
40 weeks ago

Durham

Douching & lube

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Plenty of lube and slow deep breathing to relax.

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
40 weeks ago

Plymouth, South west

Butt plugs are a great way to start, but the best advice is to make sure the person receiving is relaxed, lubed and its taken very slowly to start

To coin a phrase, the person receiving should be in the driving seat.... to start with

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Be on top so you can control it.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Build up slowly from fingers to toys to cock maybe , relax and enjoy x

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By *ax_glasscot OP   Man
40 weeks ago

glasgow


"Build up slowly from fingers to toys to cock maybe , relax and enjoy x"

Thanks. Still not 100%

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By *herry delightWoman
40 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"Build up slowly from fingers to toys to cock maybe , relax and enjoy x

Thanks. Still not 100% "

Like people have said try a toy with lots of good quality lube first and see how you feel after a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"Build up slowly from fingers to toys to cock maybe , relax and enjoy x

Thanks. Still not 100%

Like people have said try a toy with lots of good quality lube first and see how you feel after a few times. "

Couldn’t agree more. This is what I did so it wasn’t such a shock for the real thing

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By *herry delightWoman
40 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"Build up slowly from fingers to toys to cock maybe , relax and enjoy x

Thanks. Still not 100%

Like people have said try a toy with lots of good quality lube first and see how you feel after a few times.

Couldn’t agree more. This is what I did so it wasn’t such a shock for the real thing "

The main thing is you have got to learn to relax and enjoy it. Not tense up so it begins painful.

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By *lan4FFUUNNMan
40 weeks ago

Genoa Italy and Liverpool

Use lots of lube and take it slowly x

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

It took me a while to find a lube which worked for me......quite a lot to choose from. As others have said, use plenty of lube and if you are tight ( as I am ) make sure that the person fucking you takes it very gently to begin with....if they try to plunge right in it will hurt you and potentially put you off.

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
40 weeks ago

Wales

Relax and lots of lube. Remember the initial shock and pain (yes it can still hurt at times) doesn't last for very long. If it's too uncomfortable use toys to build up, good luck

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By *ickinNottsMan
40 weeks ago

Hucknall

Use a slim toy to open yourself slightly. Douche, douche again. Use a small syringe and baby oil to get lube inside as well as out. Use a slightly bigger toy, gently.

Whoever is then going to fuck you needs to use more lube and then go slowly. And if it hurts too much, stop. Expect some discomfort at first though.

Even after many years of taking anal I still take time.

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By *elix SightedMan
40 weeks ago

Cloud 8

OP ignore all the nonsense above.

Anal is like going swimming, you gotta just jump in the deep end. You can’t be just dipping a toe in and wincing.

Grab that cock, suit him up and smash him in.

Then do lengths.

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By *obilebottomMan
40 weeks ago

All over


"OP ignore all the nonsense above.

Anal is like going swimming, you gotta just jump in the deep end. You can’t be just dipping a toe in and wincing.

Grab that cock, suit him up and smash him in.

Then do lengths."

End of thread

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By *oveandfilthMan
40 weeks ago

Leicester

Love it with a female now want to take the plunge with a couple m/f and try all ways with the couple!

Cannot wait, just need to find a couple who want the same!

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By *herry delightWoman
40 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Enjoy it

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