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By *stella OP   Woman
40 weeks ago

London

That buzz of oooh we had a moment, did we have a moment that means this is it, is this the conversation that I’ll be telling my grandkids started it all? I love the butterflies, your face lights up when they walk in a room thing and you feel like everyone in the room can see. When you can’t stop looking at them and your face aches from smiling. And the electricity of you accidentally touch.

I love the feels. The rush of a crush.

What else about it do you love?

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By *stella OP   Woman
40 weeks ago

London

Just crushing on my lonesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I haven’t felt those butterflies in a very long time.

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By *ad NannaWoman
40 weeks ago

East London

Knowing someone cares about me for more than my vagina, boobs and blow jobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

About two years back. A women used to work as a support carer and accompany people for social outings. Would come in for coffee sometimes where I worked. Goosebumps, butterflies etc. Tried my best but alas.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I just like feeling happy. Crushes tend to make me happy

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By *edeWoman
40 weeks ago

the abyss

To be honest it makes me more nervous than anything because I assume they don't feel the same way and I'd make a fool out of myself if I say anything

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
40 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Crushes are awful. Terrifying. Actually feel like being crushed.

Being excited to see someone and feeling that happy glow every time you hear from them or are reminded of them? That's glorious

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Crushes are great. Even better when reciprocated. It might not happen often but when it does its the best feeling in the world

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
40 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Butterflies are just well dressed moths.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
40 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"What else about it do you love?"

I like the way it makes even the most serious of people giggle and smile and bite their lip.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
40 weeks ago

Essex

I’m quite guarded. But on occasion I’ll allow myself a little crush. And it is fun to have the twinges, tickles & butterflies. I enjoy them in the moment & suck every last tingle out of them. Then I pull my professional pants back up and carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"To be honest it makes me more nervous than anything because I assume they don't feel the same way and I'd make a fool out of myself if I say anything "

Same

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By *mf123Man
40 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Its the only thing i truly fear

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
40 weeks ago

Usually Dundee and around

I completely get you.

You can get the adrenaline hit in many ways... Danger, sport, public speaking!

But that heady mix of adrenalin and serotonin ! That butterfly effect!

That is gold dust!

Search Wikipedia for stomach butterflies!

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By *offiaCoolWoman
40 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

My initial thought when I saw Butterflies, was the old comedy series.

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By *had_ThunderCockMan
40 weeks ago

a place somewhat adjacent to you…

I don’t think you’re alone Estella.

I’m familiar and comfortable with speaking to large crowds, public speaking, compereing, singing, dancing, leading in my organisation; but when it comes to the point where I realise I’m crushing on someone suddenly my composure and calm disappears. It’s replaced by a washing machine of disconsternation and disquiet.

Suddenly my mind starts to catastrophise outcomes and a sore throat and the sweats starts. Every clear word in a sentence becomes one unintelligible mumble of misery.

That’s when I know I caught a serious case of the crushes.

I have no way to calm the disquiet, other than ignore ‘them’. Literally make an effort to ignore the person I’m crushing on. I hoped that actually being here, meeting people might help me In That sense. Get over it and lean into the flirty charismatic side of me again.

Instead, all it has done has made me feel quite sad about Mandom, and female perspectives on men. I’ve literally met 1 nice female. Most profiles of people I might approach seem to dislike being approached at all.

I cannot get a coffee with anyone I like. Albeit it’s fair to say you dont score from the shots you don’t take. Now if I did I’d probably worry more about if they compered me to other men from here, rather than putting my best self forwards. So now. I don’t even do that. I just loiter here in forums. Like it’s a dentists waiting room, expecting the pain, expecting the negative judgements and then one day just unsubscribe and live in the woods eating flora and fauna.

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By *eliWoman
40 weeks ago

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I love having a crush on someone/two. I adore that butterfly feeling, the way I get a slight giddy rush when I see they've messaged and I think 'yep, I quite like you'. I love seeing how a friend's face softens and yet lights up when they talk about someone they have a crush on.

I love enjoying it for what it is. The effervescent quality that has me happily Tiggering and listening to songs like I'm in some dire indie romcom, walking around with a beatific expression on my face.

I love flirting with those I have a crush on, the delight of that mutual mental masturbation, the gentle teasing, the quick quips, learning them and their humour and delighting in finding a shared rhythm.

I really like kissing those I have a crush on. The way everything fades in the background and after I have a desire to tell the world that yes I kissed them and yes I would very much like to do it again.

It feels like that dance scene in 500 Days of Summer. Everything is a little bit brighter. More enjoyable. I'm definitely a big fan of the crushing stage. The deeper stage is where I'm not comfortable.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
40 weeks ago

BRIDPORT


"My initial thought when I saw Butterflies, was the old comedy series."

You weren’t the only one.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Oh it's the feeling inside, all warm and making me smile even more, and making me quite defenceless too

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By *hrowawaydevice1987Man
40 weeks ago

SW London/Surrey

I love the feeling of infatuation.

There's nothing more exciting than meeting someone new and hitting it off instantly

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

God i love being in a crush - best orgasms ever

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
40 weeks ago

Southampton


"To be honest it makes me more nervous than anything because I assume they don't feel the same way and I'd make a fool out of myself if I say anything "

This !!

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By *heelz69Man
40 weeks ago

Manchester


"I haven’t felt those butterflies in a very long time. "

I would love to give you butterflies

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
40 weeks ago

Southampton


"Its the only thing i truly fear "

Reading that makes me feel quite sad... I had a massive crush on my fwb and he didn't feel the same unfortunately so I wouldn't say I'm truly scared of getting another crush on someone I'm just trying to avoid it

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By *rHotNottsMan
40 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I could happily never have a crush again. It’s draining and makes you things you shouldn’t. I prefer a good adventure.

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