FabSwingers.com forum: Should I move on

By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

Should I move on from my best female friend what she been treating me but it be hard when you been firends with her for 2 and half years I don't want to move om but I feel she pushing me out

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By *luttTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Duns

"Should I move on from my best female friend what she been treating me but it be hard when you been firends with her for 2 and half years I don't want to move om but I feel she pushing me out "

Yes.

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By *iasubTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Ilkeston

I would if it was me

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By *andynecklaceWoman
40 weeks ago

West Brom

Yeah you should

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By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

Not easy when you been friends with some one for 2 and half years she prowrpely don't realieased she been pushing me out

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By *layfullsamMan
40 weeks ago

Solihull

"Not easy when you been friends with some one for 2 and half years she prowrpely don't realieased she been pushing me out "

Talk to her and be honest about how she’s making you feel and then decide

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By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

"Not easy when you been friends with some one for 2 and half years she prowrpely don't realieased she been pushing me out

Talk to her and be honest about how she’s making you feel and then decide "
she not amsweringnshe said her phone doesn't resve cqll she may jqve flight mode on not noticed

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By *layfullsamMan
40 weeks ago

Solihull

"Not easy when you been friends with some one for 2 and half years she prowrpely don't realieased she been pushing me out

Talk to her and be honest about how she’s making you feel and then decide she not amsweringnshe said her phone doesn't resve cqll she may jqve flight mode on not noticed"

Move on, she knows where you are if she wants to be in touch

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By *oo..Woman
40 weeks ago

Boo's World

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"Not easy when you been friends with some one for 2 and half years she prowrpely don't realieased she been pushing me out

Talk to her and be honest about how she’s making you feel and then decide she not amsweringnshe said her phone doesn't resve cqll she may jqve flight mode on not noticed"

Derek, you've had a lot if advice, but you seem to not want to let go. Your also making excuses for her.

Either let her go or put up with it and not mean

Sorry to be harsh but it's actually a simple choice.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
40 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Yup.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"Not easy when you been friends with some one for 2 and half years she prowrpely don't realieased she been pushing me out

Talk to her and be honest about how she’s making you feel and then decide she not amsweringnshe said her phone doesn't resve cqll she may jqve flight mode on not noticed"
has she blocked you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

"Not easy when you been friends with some one for 2 and half years she prowrpely don't realieased she been pushing me out

Talk to her and be honest about how she’s making you feel and then decide she not amsweringnshe said her phone doesn't resve cqll she may jqve flight mode on not noticed

Derek, you've had a lot if advice, but you seem to not want to let go. Your also making excuses for her.

Either let her go or put up with it and not mean

Sorry to be harsh but it's actually a simple choice."
nit making ensures for her thwt is whqt she will swy

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"Not easy when you been friends with some one for 2 and half years she prowrpely don't realieased she been pushing me out

Talk to her and be honest about how she’s making you feel and then decide she not amsweringnshe said her phone doesn't resve cqll she may jqve flight mode on not noticed

Derek, you've had a lot if advice, but you seem to not want to let go. Your also making excuses for her.

Either let her go or put up with it and not mean

Sorry to be harsh but it's actually a simple choice. nit making ensures for her thwt is whqt she will swy"

Sorry but if you can't see that it's all excuses I wish you good luck but I'm out. Your making it harder for yourself, to stay friends with someone that from what you wrote doesn't care about you, your choosing to stay

So good luck

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By *layfullsamMan
40 weeks ago

Solihull

"Not easy when you been friends with some one for 2 and half years she prowrpely don't realieased she been pushing me out

Talk to her and be honest about how she’s making you feel and then decide she not amsweringnshe said her phone doesn't resve cqll she may jqve flight mode on not noticed

Derek, you've had a lot if advice, but you seem to not want to let go. Your also making excuses for her.

Either let her go or put up with it and not mean

Sorry to be harsh but it's actually a simple choice. nit making ensures for her thwt is whqt she will swy"

Move on my friend, you don’t have to lose her but don’t chase just let her find you again if she wants

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I think that might be a good idea, yes.

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By *hrimper36Couple
40 weeks ago

Central France dept 36

Move on.

Definitely.

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By *illy IdolMan
40 weeks ago

Midlands

If she's a good friend I don't think you should move on. Just take a step back and give her some breathing space.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

"Not easy when you been friends with some one for 2 and half years she prowrpely don't realieased she been pushing me out

Talk to her and be honest about how she’s making you feel and then decide she not amsweringnshe said her phone doesn't resve cqll she may jqve flight mode on not noticed

Derek, you've had a lot if advice, but you seem to not want to let go. Your also making excuses for her.

Either let her go or put up with it and not mean

Sorry to be harsh but it's actually a simple choice. nit making ensures for her thwt is whqt she will swy

So good luck"
I just re reqd your message thanks for advice but I'm not going stay I'm gonna move on

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By *rBeejayMan
40 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Your choice, but I think you'd be better off finding friends who treat you with more respect.

Good luck Derek

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By *heGateKeeperMan
40 weeks ago

Stratford

Based on this and previous threads on the same subject I’d say it’s best to draw a line in the sand for now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

"Based on this and previous threads on the same subject I’d say it’s best to draw a line in the sand for now

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not sure what you mean

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By *icecouple561Couple
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40 weeks ago

East Sussex

You can only move on when you accept the situation for what it is. You're the only one who can make the decision.

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By *ris GrayMan
40 weeks ago

Dorchester

Yes move on

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By *aizyWoman
40 weeks ago

west midlands

"Based on this and previous threads on the same subject I’d say it’s best to draw a line in the sand for now

I agree with this, based on your posts this friendship isn't making you happy, maybe take a step back form it for a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Friendships end. Keep it stepping.

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By *alandNitaCouple
40 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Should I move on from my best female friend what she been treating me but it be hard when you been firends with her for 2 and half years I don't want to move om but I feel she pushing me out "

I've always found that true friendship is beyond choice, I couldn't "move on" if I tried.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

"Based on this and previous threads on the same subject I’d say it’s best to draw a line in the sand for now

I agree with this, based on your posts this friendship isn't making you happy, maybe take a step back form it for a bit."
thank you

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
40 weeks ago

Reading

Blimey waa consensus actually achieved on a thread? Well done OP you have achieved the impossible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

"Blimey waa consensus actually achieved on a thread? Well done OP you have achieved the impossible."
what you mean

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
40 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes....after all these posts yes! Your upset, she doesn't care much, just give up - the more you message the more it looks like you are harassing her - she doesn't owe you contact or explanations as to where she is or who with.

Yes it would be lovely but you are obsessing over this friend an awful lot and I'm sorry to say it's not healthy.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

"Yes....after all these posts yes! Your upset, she doesn't care much, just give up - the more you message the more it looks like you are harassing her - she doesn't owe you contact or explanations as to where she is or who with.

Yes it would be lovely but you are obsessing over this friend an awful lot and I'm sorry to say it's not healthy.

Mrs "
thanks

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
40 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

After reading all your posts it seems that you are way more invested in this friendship than they are and you are a friend when it suits them.

My advice, walk away, it's not healthy

Tinder

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By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

"After reading all your posts it seems that you are way more invested in this friendship than they are and you are a friend when it suits them.

My advice, walk away, it's not healthy

Thinking of doing thwt

Tinder "

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By *ros40Man
40 weeks ago

Bedford

Leave or get mugged off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

derek,

you my old boy are being mugged off!

now you have two options.

(in my opinion)

first one,

look pathetic and chase and beg....

but honestly thats not a good trait!

that may probably a behaviour that you will fall back into every time she ghosts or argues just to keep a her about.

second one

show some self respect and be kind to yourself in the long run.

dust yourself off and cut her off!

like pulling off a plaster it hurts but soon fades.

remember she made you question yourself on a open forum so it must be playing on your emotional and mental wellbeing!

you dont need people like that in your life.

Chin up old boy.

may you go on from this and find great friends moving

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By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

"derek,

you my old boy are being mugged off!

now you have two options.

(in my opinion)

first one,

look pathetic and chase and beg....

but honestly thats not a good trait!

that may probably a behaviour that you will fall back into every time she ghosts or argues just to keep a her about.

second one

show some self respect and be kind to yourself in the long run.

dust yourself off and cut her off!

like pulling off a plaster it hurts but soon fades.

remember she made you question yourself on a open forum so it must be playing on your emotional and mental wellbeing!

you dont need people like that in your life.

Chin up old boy.

may you go on from this and find great friends moving

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thanks for thqt I hope so

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By *agerMorganMan
40 weeks ago

Canvey Island

Fella,

I had a female friend who I fell for, she treated me well etc etc but eventually she started dating someone else, did it hurt? Yep. But I moved on and done much better for doing so.

It’ll be tough, but time will heal. So absolutely move on

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"Not easy when you been friends with some one for 2 and half years she prowrpely don't realieased she been pushing me out

Talk to her and be honest about how she’s making you feel and then decide she not amsweringnshe said her phone doesn't resve cqll she may jqve flight mode on not noticed

Derek, you've had a lot if advice, but you seem to not want to let go. Your also making excuses for her.

Either let her go or put up with it and not mean

Sorry to be harsh but it's actually a simple choice."

This.

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By *imisugarWoman
40 weeks ago

Rugby

"Should I move on from my best female friend what she been treating me but it be hard when you been firends with her for 2 and half years I don't want to move om but I feel she pushing me out "

Yes.

From your previous posts I do not believe she feels the same about you or considers you a best friend. Stop contacting her, if she genuinely reaches out to you without it being for a favour, see how you feel.

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By *esparate danMan
40 weeks ago

glasgow

Yes Derek. Dont be selfisb

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By *ynecplCouple
40 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Don't know the background but if you have to ask then the answer is yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

"Should I move on from my best female friend what she been treating me but it be hard when you been firends with her for 2 and half years I don't want to move om but I feel she pushing me out

Yes. Thank you

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