FabSwingers.com forum: What advice would you give your younger self.....

By *aptain V OP Man
40 weeks ago

Birstall, Leicester

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By *hrowawaydevice1987Man
40 weeks ago

SW London/Surrey

Don't do it

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By *alandNitaCouple
40 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Do it...

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
40 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Stop trying to be normal

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
40 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Don't unzip that bag in '95

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By *aptain V OP Man
40 weeks ago

Birstall, Leicester

"Stop trying to be normal

Whats normal ?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
40 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Stop trying to be normal

Whats normal ?"

Heteronormative. Masking the neurospicy. All the things that felt obligatory back then.

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By *olfandtazCouple
40 weeks ago

Bristol

Don't let others impact on you

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By *iasubTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Stop listening to everyone and be your self. No matter what anyone else thinks your happiness is far more important. Although the hate is hard to deal with now those people wont be in your life forever. Plus the older you get the harder it is to hide and will make you miserable. You will find your people in the place you least expect it

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By *arry monk40Man
40 weeks ago

Telford

Dig the hole deeper

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Don’t be a little shit and spend more time with your mum.

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By *electableicecreamMan
40 weeks ago

The West

Most of the stuff that is weird about you now is what's going to be cool about you in twenty years.

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By *naswingdressWoman
40 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Believe in yourself

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By *elvet RopeMan
40 weeks ago

by the big field

Buy houses while you have more money than sense, then you can be a lazy fucker in 25 years

Fuck off the Australia, it’s way nicer than the UK

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By *agnar73Man
40 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Go and join the French foreign legion if you’re not married at 25

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By *elix SightedMan
40 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Women are almost normal human beans so just talk to them.

Look after your money.

Think before speaking.

Follow your brain, not your heart.

Do more fun things.

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By *het 345Man
40 weeks ago

Preston

Worry less and be braver

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By *ascaIMan
40 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

Buy Bitcoin

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By *ubbie300Couple
40 weeks ago

Bawtry

Don’t settle!!!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Stay on at school and do A levels, then go to uni.

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By *reative-mindMan
40 weeks ago

Exeter

It'll be OK eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Just, know that you’re always enough. No matter how they make you feel

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
40 weeks ago

Durham

Be kind and smile a bit more.

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By *obilebottomMan
40 weeks ago

All over

Run

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By *ohnSwingsSurreyMan
40 weeks ago

Horley

Have a go at more things. Don’t be afraid to fail

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
40 weeks ago

North West

I'd tell myself.

Finish your education.

Go to uni.

Don't get married.

You are enough.

However my life would be completely different and after everything that's happened. I'm all good where I am.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
40 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Buy as many second hand mk1 and mk2 Esc0rts as you have the funds for.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

laugh,don't worry,remember its only a job,

and dare to try

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
40 weeks ago

Reading

To have a lot more sex.

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By *ynecplCouple
40 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Don't change anything until that successful career came to and end and then just do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Take every opportunity

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"It is impossible to sleep with every woman in the world, but knowing that should not stop you from trying" -- A Russian proverb

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By *ake_or_deathMan
40 weeks ago

Manchester

1. Whenever you have a choice, choose the opposite to what your first instinct suggests.

2. Don't be so lazy - do the fucking work.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
40 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Don't use Smack it will be carnage for 20 years, but hold in there it'll all turn out alright....

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By *weetiepie99Woman
40 weeks ago

cardiff

Don't marry a 'bad boy'

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By *eronikapaulCouple
40 weeks ago

Reading

Don't listen to anyone who tries to tell you what to do...no matter who they say they are........

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By *sirapMan
40 weeks ago

Manchester

Don’t say no to anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

She’s northern. She’s tall. She’s feisty. And she’s the one. Wait for her.

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By *andE2000Man
40 weeks ago

Bathgate

"Women are almost normal human beans so just talk to them.

Look after your money.

Think before speaking.

Follow your brain, not your heart.

Do more fun things."

Beans, you eat them. Yiu don't takk to then

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Be more confident in everything

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Get therapy - you have a bunch of trauma making you your own saboteur

Don't drink so much

Stay in touch with your friends

Don't quit your job for love

I could go on...

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

She won't change for you give up now and enjoy your youth.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Don’t drink coffee, you’ll be addicted

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