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By *ccoy22 OP   Man
46 weeks ago

kilkenny

Genuine nice guy not havin much luck , any tips

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By *eviant KnightMan
46 weeks ago

Norton

Attend socials and clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Genuine nice guy not havin much luck , any tips "

“Will fill in later” and looking for 18 to 99 - you’re providing no information?

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By *ccoy22 OP   Man
46 weeks ago

kilkenny

That’s a fair point, thanks

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By *ohntall123Man
46 weeks ago

Biggleswade


"Genuine nice guy not havin much luck , any tips "

It’s never easy mate it just takes time , hope you have fun in the end

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By *eyond PurityCouple
46 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

One pic and full in later - shows you’ve made no effort.

If you can’t sell yourself then you will get no interactions as people will just go straight on to the next profile…

K

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By *ccoy22 OP   Man
46 weeks ago

kilkenny

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I’d give up mate.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
46 weeks ago

Bradford


"Genuine nice guy not havin much luck , any tips "

Stay here ten years and wonders

Can happen lol

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By *ccoy22 OP   Man
46 weeks ago

kilkenny

That’s fair , I’ll get to work on that , thanks

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By *eroLondonMan
46 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Genuine nice guy not havin much luck , any tips

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“Will fill in later” and looking for 18 to 99 - you’re providing no information?"

She's ^ right. Fix this before all else. Good luck OP.

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By *eroLondonMan
46 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I’d give up mate. "

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I would never give up on ewe, my lamb.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
46 weeks ago

Portstewart

Honestly the site takes effort and the more effort you put in the more you get out of the site. Also having you bio as will fill in later just screams can't be bothered so why should we bother kinda thing

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By *ohntall123Man
46 weeks ago

Biggleswade


"I’d give up mate. "

Why ?

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
46 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Genuine nice guy not havin much luck , any tips

“Will fill in later” and looking for 18 to 99 - you’re providing no information?"

Don't forget "fancy a fuck?"

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
46 weeks ago

lewisham

Read your profile, then read the profiles of 20 other blokes. What have they got that you haven't? What are they saying that you aren't? Why are they getting meets and you're not..?

As with all of these posts, you're the problem I'm afraid. A lazy, dull profile is never going to interest anyone. You won't appeal to everyone, that's impossible, but at the moment you probably don't appeal to anyone.

Effort gets rewarded.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Treat your profile like a shop window. If there's nothing in the window to make people curious enough to walk in, then they'll just pass by

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1573139

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1568244

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1572120

Use the search function for profile advice

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By *electableicecreamMan
46 weeks ago

The West


"Genuine nice guy not havin much luck , any tips "

There's no way for anyone to know anything about you.

You might not realise that people will look at your profile before they read your message. Right now your profile looks just like a few thousand others with no pics and no info.

Messaging is the least efficient way to make connections. You are basically howling through a storm of rabid penis's.

The scene in Ireland is very relaxed and very welcoming. If you make the effort and travel to organised social events then you will vastly increase your chances of making a good connection.

Have a look at the profiles of guys who verified the people you fancy. Those will be good examples of how to attract attention from the people you are interested in.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
46 weeks ago

Central

Single men must use the site wisely, invest heavily their time and effort and have realistic expectations. No 1 priority is always to have a profile that sells you. It's the only way anyone could possibly be able to pick you, instead of 1 of the many other single men. If they look and are left with no clue if they'd be able to stomach even 1 second of your body and mind around them, they move on. It's mostly only 1 chance each bloke gets with each woman. They need to make it count.

2. Give good message. Communicate well.

3. Use socials and clubs to increase your circle. It's a swinging site, so engage in the lifestyle.

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By *illy IdolMan
46 weeks ago

Midlands

Have a little browse at other profiles. Take inspiration from them and sell yourself

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
46 weeks ago

Central


"That’s a fair point, thanks "

Tip -

If you use the Reply + Quote

People will know who you are responding to

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By *ccoy22 OP   Man
46 weeks ago

kilkenny

Thanks for all the advice, I’ve updated my profile , noting special but hopefully it helps

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By *TG3Man
46 weeks ago

Dorchester

Your profile is your advert here, create a profile worth reading with pics worth looking at, good luck

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By *reative-mindMan
46 weeks ago

Exeter

No one reads them so you can pretty much put what you like mate.

Personally making my profile what it is was a huge waste of my time.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
46 weeks ago

Leeds

If you read your profile/looked at pics would you meet you?

Your profile is your shop window I can't advise because you haven't asked but if someone winks/messages us & haven't put any effort into their profile I won't reply.

Lazy profile = lazy meet.

Mrs

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By *rispyDuckMan
46 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"Genuine nice guy not havin much luck , any tips "

Being a nice guy doesn’t mean fudge all when trying to meet & get laid my good fella

Good well composed profile, good variety of pics, charm & charisma in your chat & bit of assertiveness gets you keys to the castle

Just a few hints

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I would say reads ok but maybe elaborate on some of the things you enjoy. A few more pics wouldn't go amiss. Main thing is to be patient, start chatting to people via the forums, pay compliments to pictures and even respond to people's statuses that aren't necessarily about fun

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