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By *undance_Kid OP   Man
46 weeks ago

London

Without clitoral stimulation.

Is that true for you ladies ?

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I think that should read 80% of men can't get women to orgasm.

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By *undance_Kid OP   Man
46 weeks ago

London


"I think that should read 80% of men can't get women to orgasm.

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That’s a bit low don’t you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

What the 80%... You might be right

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Sounds like a challenge. …

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By *ee VianteWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Without clitoral stimulation.

Is that true for you ladies ? "

Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue.

How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)?

Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms?

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By *ez669Man
46 weeks ago

East Kilbride

Honestly never has that issue i alwaya make them come first either tounge fingers or most woman orgasm fairy quick when on top

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By *ee VianteWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Oh and studies vary but the most recent stats I saw said about 1/3 women need direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm.

That's kinda misleading though because most of the clit is internal and it is possible to stimulate it from the inside.

I'd guess at least some of the women who orgasm "from penetration alone" are still experiencing clitoral stimulation, just not directly on the external part of their clitorises.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
46 weeks ago

London or Bedford

That’s coz those ladies ain’t had a dose of Vitamin J yet

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By *archelCouple
46 weeks ago

A field somewhere

Not sure about them figures, but for me personally yes that is the case. If/when I do cum through penetration it's always been with me on top 'getting my own' lol

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
46 weeks ago

Leeds


"I think that should read 80% of men can't get women to orgasm.

That’s a bit low don’t you think?"

True though..

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"I think that should read 80% of men can't get women to orgasm.

That’s a bit low don’t you think?

True though..

Mrs "

I’ve met wanted to be seen in a minority so much in my life.

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
46 weeks ago

Wales


"Without clitoral stimulation.

Is that true for you ladies ?

Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue.

How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)?

Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms?

"

Funny isn't it, like people still don't know what a clitorise is.

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
46 weeks ago

Wales

*Clitoris.

It's not even in predictive text!

Penis is.

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By *TG3Man
46 weeks ago

Dorchester

Oh my word in my life only one woman never orgasmed so i would say that is an incorrect statement

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By *aomilatteCouple
46 weeks ago

Midlands

According to Sydney University stats;

20% of Women can orgasm from anal sex

25% of Women can orgasm from nipple play

80% of Women have seen the movie "When Harry met Sally"

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By *ee VianteWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Without clitoral stimulation.

Is that true for you ladies ?

Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue.

How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)?

Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms?

Funny isn't it, like people still don't know what a clitorise is. "

I think some guys honestly believe that our vaginas are sensitive like the head of their penis, just turned inwards. Like they expect PIV sex for us to feel kinda like stroking their glans feels to them, but inside us rather than outside.

So few seem to realise the clitoris is the part with most of the nerve endings and a lot of us (but definitely not all of us) don't have that much sensation inside our vaginas.

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By *ee VianteWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Oh my word in my life only one woman never orgasmed so i would say that is an incorrect statement "

Sure, and women never, ever fake them and men can always tell.

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By *ittle miss sunshineWoman
46 weeks ago

south sheilds

I can make myself orgasm every single time, not so much on the coming/squirting. I’ve never met a guy who can’t make me squirt.

I think I’d be disappointed if some one didn’t make me squirt

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
46 weeks ago

Wales


"Honestly never has that issue i alwaya make them come first either tounge fingers or most woman orgasm fairy quick when on top "

These guys

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By *ittle miss sunshineWoman
46 weeks ago

south sheilds

I’ve faked a fair few. Usually with my ex husband just so it won’t be over and done with . Then I’d usually play with my wand after he fell asleep

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By *entBarryUKMan
46 weeks ago

Ashford


"Without clitoral stimulation.

Is that true for you ladies ? "

I'm sure this is true. Everyone woman I have been with has said the same. Only one orgasmed by skin touch and talking dirty.

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
46 weeks ago

Wales

Stats say 80% of women fake their orgasm.

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By *entBarryUKMan
46 weeks ago

Ashford


"Without clitoral stimulation.

Is that true for you ladies ?

Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue.

How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)?

Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms?

Funny isn't it, like people still don't know what a clitorise is. "

Or where it is, lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I can make myself orgasm every single time, not so much on the coming/squirting. I’ve never met a guy who can’t make me squirt.

I think I’d be disappointed if some one didn’t make me squirt "

I'm the opposite. I don't like to squirt and will usually try (mostly successfully) not to.

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By *luebell888Woman
46 weeks ago

Glasgowish


"Without clitoral stimulation.

Is that true for you ladies ? "

Correct for me.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
46 weeks ago

Wherever

An orgasm is an orgasm.

Pretty normal and remember it’s all about the clitoris! The majority of female orgasm happen due to clitoral stimulation. Porn made by dudes for dudes and ridiculous societal “norms” have done a great disservice here making women feel somehow less of a woman because she doesn’t climax from penetration.

I personally think we are very lucky as women to have a lot more varied orgasms than men and mostly mind blowing, especially as we get older and stop pretending and worrying about breaking some fragile male egos.

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By *onameyet2Man
46 weeks ago

chorley


"Without clitoral stimulation.

Is that true for you ladies ?

Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue.

How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)?

Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms?

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Is it clitorises or clitori ?

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

It’s very very basic,if your not playing with my clit and think your going to fuck me im going to be bored

Lick me, rub ,suck , toy and slap lightly and I will respond with a beautiful wet pussy you can slide straight up

I will of course take over the rubbing or using one of my toys as you fuck mr at the same time

I WANT an orgasm to you know

Well maybe more then ONE !

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By *onameyet2Man
46 weeks ago

chorley

Ok, just for clarification, women don’t orgasm from being gently held by the hair and a massive cock repeatedly rammed down their throats as they drool and make gurgling noises before taking a load to the face?

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
46 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

You do know the only reason women have an orgasm is it gives them another excuse to have a moan.

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By *entBarryUKMan
46 weeks ago

Ashford


"It’s very very basic,if your not playing with my clit and think your going to fuck me im going to be bored

Lick me, rub ,suck , toy and slap lightly and I will respond with a beautiful wet pussy you can slide straight up

I will of course take over the rubbing or using one of my toys as you fuck mr at the same time

I WANT an orgasm to you know

Well maybe more then ONE ! "

this got me to attention, ahem, i mean, my attention.

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By *lirtyfun123Woman
46 weeks ago

essex

I’ve faked a fair few orgasms tbh, I’ve never been caught out, not ideal but sometimes I just don’t want the guy to feel he’s not doing it for me.

I orgasm so much easier on my own with just clit stimulation.

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By *ee VianteWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

Is it clitorises or clitori ?"

Clitorises, which is why that's the word I used.

The Greek plural would be clitorides.

Clitori is just incorrect.

Is your Google broken?

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By *usie pTV/TS
46 weeks ago

taunton

Took me years to find out my wife's clit is in her bum hole, well a lot of it was her own fault she was reluctant to let me touch it.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"

Is it clitorises or clitori ?

Clitorises, which is why that's the word I used.

The Greek plural would be clitorides.

Clitori is just incorrect.

Is your Google broken?

"

Google? That would mean ‘searching for something’ wouldn’t it

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By *ools and the brainCouple
46 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Crack's me up when a question directed at women is used by guy's to brag and bravado "I ain't never had any problems making them cum"

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By *tlanshiaWoman
46 weeks ago

Chatham

I can reach orgasm perfectly fine, by myself.

It is when I introduce a man in becomes problematic

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Not true for me personally

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"I can reach orgasm perfectly fine, by myself.

It is when I introduce a man in becomes problematic "

There’s only one solution

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"I’ve faked a fair few orgasms tbh, I’ve never been caught out, not ideal but sometimes I just don’t want the guy to feel he’s not doing it for me.

I orgasm so much easier on my own with just clit stimulation. "

Yeah, esp if i like a guy... He's happy, i had a good time and have an even better time later replaying with my toys

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By *pandjMan
46 weeks ago

Sparkford


"I can make myself orgasm every single time, not so much on the coming/squirting. I’ve never met a guy who can’t make me squirt.

I think I’d be disappointed if some one didn’t make me squirt "

Is there a difference in feeling between orgasms when you squirt or ones where you don't?

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By *ee VianteWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

Is it clitorises or clitori ?

Clitorises, which is why that's the word I used.

The Greek plural would be clitorides.

Clitori is just incorrect.

Is your Google broken?

Google? That would mean ‘searching for something’ wouldn’t it

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Do you think Google might not be able to find the clitoris either?

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By *ee VianteWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I can reach orgasm perfectly fine, by myself.

It is when I introduce a man in becomes problematic "

Yes! Same here.

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By *RWoodyCouple
46 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"

Is it clitorises or clitori ?

Clitorises, which is why that's the word I used.

The Greek plural would be clitorides.

Clitori is just incorrect.

Is your Google broken?

Google? That would mean ‘searching for something’ wouldn’t it

Do you think Google might not be able to find the clitoris either? "

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Without clitoral stimulation.

Is that true for you ladies ? "

Accurate for me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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46 weeks ago

East Sussex

If it is true or not does it matter?

Sex isn't about who can do what faster, longer, more times, in a certain way etc.

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By *lirtyfun123Woman
46 weeks ago

essex


"I’ve faked a fair few orgasms tbh, I’ve never been caught out, not ideal but sometimes I just don’t want the guy to feel he’s not doing it for me.

I orgasm so much easier on my own with just clit stimulation.

Yeah, esp if i like a guy... He's happy, i had a good time and have an even better time later replaying with my toys "

Exactly this. I don’t have sex with a bloke just for an orgasm I enjoy the whole thing if it happens it happens it really doesn’t bother me but some guys feel like they’ve failed. I do get it as I was with a guy that struggled to cum and it made me feel I’d failed as you just assume it’s so much easier for a guy but he also said he just enjoyed the whole experience regardless.

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By *oupleus30Couple
46 weeks ago

Minster

I can have multiple orgasms without my pussy even being touched if done correctly and if you find all thr right turn on parts on My body.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
46 weeks ago

Leeds


"Without clitoral stimulation.

Is that true for you ladies ? "

Yes it accurate since that's where we get most our arousal - could you cum without your penis being touched?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Yes.

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By *hrimper36Couple
46 weeks ago

Central France dept 36


"I think that should read 80% of men can't get women to orgasm.

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I agree completely.

For over 40 years Eve would achieve one or two orgasms a year because her husband was just a boom boom quick kinda guy but now she has ten or more each day because I’m not a boom boom quick kinda guy.

If you treat a woman right then life is or can be good for both of you.

T

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
46 weeks ago

peterborough


"Without clitoral stimulation.

Is that true for you ladies ?

Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue.

How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)?

Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms?

"

This

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By *icecouple561Couple
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46 weeks ago

East Sussex

If this is true, why is anyone surprised?

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By *ad NannaWoman
46 weeks ago

East London

Not me. I don't particularly like clitoral stimulation unless it's from a gentle tongue, as I find the stimulus too much. I'm extra sensitive to touch, probably from having fibromyalgia.

I have cervical/penetration orgasms, that stimulate the clitoral area from inside.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Just send them my way and we'll see

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By *rincess1988Woman
46 weeks ago

South Oxfordshire


"Crack's me up when a question directed at women is used by guy's to brag and bravado "I ain't never had any problems making them cum"

"

Omg this!

When I was younger I often faked an orgasm to either not to hurt that fragile ego of the guy or just to get it over and done with (when it was bad).

These days I’m just honest. And the amount of men that just cannot comprehend that every woman is different/cums different is mad! And think just a simple “in and out” will do as it made all their previous partners cum…oh sweet summerchild.

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By *ad NannaWoman
46 weeks ago

East London


"I’ve faked a fair few orgasms tbh, I’ve never been caught out, not ideal but sometimes I just don’t want the guy to feel he’s not doing it for me.

I orgasm so much easier on my own with just clit stimulation.

Yeah, esp if i like a guy... He's happy, i had a good time and have an even better time later replaying with my toys

Exactly this. I don’t have sex with a bloke just for an orgasm I enjoy the whole thing if it happens it happens it really doesn’t bother me but some guys feel like they’ve failed. I do get it as I was with a guy that struggled to cum and it made me feel I’d failed as you just assume it’s so much easier for a guy but he also said he just enjoyed the whole experience regardless. "

Orgasms are the least important part of sex for me.

I find the sensations from kissing and touching, and watching a man's mouth or hands on my breasts more arousing.

I prefer arousal over orgasmic.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
46 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes it's true for me.

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By *stwo2023Couple
46 weeks ago

Worcester

No. I find it very easy to orgasm through penetration alone and it's always a better orgasm that way for me.

Evie

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By *obajxMan
46 weeks ago

Cheshire

They've never had sex with me

That's just a statement of fact and has nothing to do with the thread topic

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By *icecouple561Couple
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46 weeks ago

East Sussex


"They've never had sex with me

That's just a statement of fact and has nothing to do with the thread topic"

so 20% of women have. You've been busy

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

There was a fab chap who felt quite ridiculous

As he could never find the elusive clitoris

Despite searching far and wide

And no matter how hard he tried

The bingo button remained inconspicuous

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By *obajxMan
46 weeks ago

Cheshire


"They've never had sex with me

That's just a statement of fact and has nothing to do with the thread topic

so 20% of women have. You've been busy "

Just to confirm, the remaining 20% haven't either

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By *naswingdressWoman
46 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

80% of women say that 75% of men will make 99% of surveys about the clitoris, about the men.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
46 weeks ago

North West


"There was a fab chap who felt quite ridiculous

As he could never find the elusive clitoris

Despite searching far and wide

And no matter how hard he tried

The bingo button remained inconspicuous "

Winner!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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46 weeks ago

East Sussex


"80% of women say that 75% of men will make 99% of surveys about the clitoris, about the men."

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By *lirtyfun123Woman
46 weeks ago

essex


"I’ve faked a fair few orgasms tbh, I’ve never been caught out, not ideal but sometimes I just don’t want the guy to feel he’s not doing it for me.

I orgasm so much easier on my own with just clit stimulation.

Yeah, esp if i like a guy... He's happy, i had a good time and have an even better time later replaying with my toys

Exactly this. I don’t have sex with a bloke just for an orgasm I enjoy the whole thing if it happens it happens it really doesn’t bother me but some guys feel like they’ve failed. I do get it as I was with a guy that struggled to cum and it made me feel I’d failed as you just assume it’s so much easier for a guy but he also said he just enjoyed the whole experience regardless.

Orgasms are the least important part of sex for me.

I find the sensations from kissing and touching, and watching a man's mouth or hands on my breasts more arousing.

I prefer arousal over orgasmic."

Exactly this x

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By *educing_EmCouple
46 weeks ago

Tipperary

It's true for me too.

Em x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
46 weeks ago

North West

True for me. Even clitoral stimulation for me doesn't guarantee anything. My bits are broken *shrug*

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By *ecretsinnersCouple
46 weeks ago

Yorkshire

I’m mainly a combo of g spot and clit stimulation but have had quite a few orgasms from g spot stimulation alone.

Mrs

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
46 weeks ago

Ryde

I find it needs a bit of both, proven during the week whilst having a massage. I had a remote-control vibrating egg-thingy in me throughout the massage, but this wasn't enough to pop my cookies.

It seems (for me, anyway) that as long as there is something at least brushing against the clitoris every now and again during sex, it's enough to guarantee an orgasm.

Although I'm pretty sexually-responsive in the first place, so it might not be an objective conclusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

It’s one of the great mysteries of life as to what is the difference between a clitoris and a golf ball?

A chap will happily spend 20 minutes looking for a golf ball?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
46 weeks ago

North West


"I find it needs a bit of both, proven during the week whilst having a massage. I had a remote-control vibrating egg-thingy in me throughout the massage, but this wasn't enough to pop my cookies.

It seems (for me, anyway) that as long as there is something at least brushing against the clitoris every now and again during sex, it's enough to guarantee an orgasm.

Although I'm pretty sexually-responsive in the first place, so it might not be an objective conclusion."

Vibrating things do absolutely nothing for me at all. A wand on my clit just makes it go numb.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
46 weeks ago

cardiff

Who cares really. Some will, some won't. Some can, some can't. Men seem to sometimes obsess over this a little. As long as everyone is enjoying themselves thats all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"I’m mainly a combo of g spot and clit stimulation but have had quite a few orgasms from g spot stimulation alone.

Mrs"

Good Heavens we chaps are just coming to terms that a clitoris is not a medium sized family car manufactured by Renault and you now introduce the G spot?

I need to lie down.

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By *ixie and dixie2022Couple
46 weeks ago

villiage


"It’s one of the great mysteries of life as to what is the difference between a clitoris and a golf ball?

A chap will happily spend 20 minutes looking for a golf ball?

Mr doesn’t play golf and never took him 20 minutes to find my spot but has spent 20 minutes teasing it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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46 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I find it needs a bit of both, proven during the week whilst having a massage. I had a remote-control vibrating egg-thingy in me throughout the massage, but this wasn't enough to pop my cookies.

It seems (for me, anyway) that as long as there is something at least brushing against the clitoris every now and again during sex, it's enough to guarantee an orgasm.

Although I'm pretty sexually-responsive in the first place, so it might not be an objective conclusion.

Vibrating things do absolutely nothing for me at all. A wand on my clit just makes it go numb. "

Same with the wand. Too long and I lose all sensation which is counter productive to say the least. Vibrations internally are just annoying to me

Blimey it's almost as if women are indivuals who respond in varying ways to different stimuli.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
46 weeks ago

Manchester

I am super awkward and sometimes need a combination of clitoral, internal and nipple stimulation to orgasm or clitoral and nipple when I masturbate. Toys help me to cum massively. I have the best orgasms on my own I usually explain to men what I need to make me cum and they think they know better and do what they like

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By *electableicecreamMan
46 weeks ago

The West

Spare a moment for the ladies for whom the orgasm is more elusive.

Other things I've learned (over a lifetime) about women's orgasms include:

That they are sometimes inextricably tied to the male ego (this is a freaking tragedy of Shakespearean proportions).

That there are different types (clitoral, vaginal, squirting/gushing)

That some women are not concerned with orgasm as much as they are about the experience as a whole.

That some men are intimidated by toys or that a woman may like to masturbate while screwing.

That some men don't take the time to figure what what gets their playmate off.

I have a natural curiosity about sex and love a bit of pillow talk about pleasure and the mutual application thereof so some of the points above baffle me.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
46 weeks ago

Manchester


"Spare a moment for the ladies for whom the orgasm is more elusive.

Other things I've learned (over a lifetime) about women's orgasms include:

That they are sometimes inextricably tied to the male ego (this is a freaking tragedy of Shakespearean proportions).

That there are different types (clitoral, vaginal, squirting/gushing)

That some women are not concerned with orgasm as much as they are about the experience as a whole.

That some men are intimidated by toys or that a woman may like to masturbate while screwing.

That some men don't take the time to figure what what gets their playmate off.

I have a natural curiosity about sex and love a bit of pillow talk about pleasure and the mutual application thereof so some of the points above baffle me.

"

OMG agree with this 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"I find it needs a bit of both, proven during the week whilst having a massage. I had a remote-control vibrating egg-thingy in me throughout the massage, but this wasn't enough to pop my cookies.

It seems (for me, anyway) that as long as there is something at least brushing against the clitoris every now and again during sex, it's enough to guarantee an orgasm.

Although I'm pretty sexually-responsive in the first place, so it might not be an objective conclusion.

Vibrating things do absolutely nothing for me at all. A wand on my clit just makes it go numb.

Same with the wand. Too long and I lose all sensation which is counter productive to say the least. Vibrations internally are just annoying to me

Blimey it's almost as if women are indivuals who respond in varying ways to different stimuli. "

Women, individuals with defined and eclectic sexual desires? They will be getting the vote next!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
46 weeks ago

North West


"I find it needs a bit of both, proven during the week whilst having a massage. I had a remote-control vibrating egg-thingy in me throughout the massage, but this wasn't enough to pop my cookies.

It seems (for me, anyway) that as long as there is something at least brushing against the clitoris every now and again during sex, it's enough to guarantee an orgasm.

Although I'm pretty sexually-responsive in the first place, so it might not be an objective conclusion.

Vibrating things do absolutely nothing for me at all. A wand on my clit just makes it go numb.

Same with the wand. Too long and I lose all sensation which is counter productive to say the least. Vibrations internally are just annoying to me

Blimey it's almost as if women are indivuals who respond in varying ways to different stimuli.

Women, individuals with defined and eclectic sexual desires? They will be getting the vote next! "

The vote? Nah, that'll never catch on

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"I find it needs a bit of both, proven during the week whilst having a massage. I had a remote-control vibrating egg-thingy in me throughout the massage, but this wasn't enough to pop my cookies.

It seems (for me, anyway) that as long as there is something at least brushing against the clitoris every now and again during sex, it's enough to guarantee an orgasm.

Although I'm pretty sexually-responsive in the first place, so it might not be an objective conclusion.

Vibrating things do absolutely nothing for me at all. A wand on my clit just makes it go numb.

Same with the wand. Too long and I lose all sensation which is counter productive to say the least. Vibrations internally are just annoying to me

Blimey it's almost as if women are indivuals who respond in varying ways to different stimuli.

Women, individuals with defined and eclectic sexual desires? They will be getting the vote next!

The vote? Nah, that'll never catch on "

And be allowed to drive ............in a Clio 5 no less

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By *illan-KillashMan
46 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

There's a documentary about the Cltoris on Sky tonight.

It's on the red button if you can find it.

Fun fact, *the clitoris is 10cm long.

*thanks to Rachel Riley

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By *abrina59TV/TS
46 weeks ago

moved to cuckold land

True of my wife with me, I only make her cum with clitoral stimulation using my tongue or her toys.

Still don't know if others could make her cum any other way unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"There's a documentary about the Cltoris on Sky tonight.

It's on the red button if you can find it.

Fun fact, *the clitoris is 10cm long.

*thanks to Rachel Riley"

I have never seen a clitoris that size?

Are you sure it wasn’t an errant haemorrhoid?

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By *essaMayWoman
46 weeks ago

Fairytale Wood

I agree with some of the comments, the number of guys have brought me to orgasm i can count on one finger.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"I agree with some of the comments, the number of guys have brought me to orgasm i can count on one finger.

"

Brilliant..........!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

46 weeks ago

East Sussex


"There's a documentary about the Cltoris on Sky tonight.

It's on the red button if you can find it.

Fun fact, *the clitoris is 10cm long.

*thanks to Rachel Riley

I have never seen a clitoris that size?

Are you sure it wasn’t an errant haemorrhoid? "

That's because it's like an iceberg, most of it is internal

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Oh my word in my life only one woman never orgasmed so i would say that is an incorrect statement

Sure, and women never, ever fake them and men can always tell.

"

Exactly this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"There's a documentary about the Cltoris on Sky tonight.

It's on the red button if you can find it.

Fun fact, *the clitoris is 10cm long.

*thanks to Rachel Riley

I have never seen a clitoris that size?

Are you sure it wasn’t an errant haemorrhoid?

That's because it's like an iceberg, most of it is internal "

Ah like a lettuce? That probably why I am not a hit with the ladies!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

46 weeks ago

East Sussex


"There's a documentary about the Cltoris on Sky tonight.

It's on the red button if you can find it.

Fun fact, *the clitoris is 10cm long.

*thanks to Rachel Riley

I have never seen a clitoris that size?

Are you sure it wasn’t an errant haemorrhoid?

That's because it's like an iceberg, most of it is internal

Ah like a lettuce? That probably why I am not a hit with the ladies!"

Yes. Pity the poor woman who went to the doctor complaining that she had a lettuce sticking out if her vagina. The doctor said "I'm sorry to tell you this is just the tip of the iceberg".

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"There's a documentary about the Cltoris on Sky tonight.

It's on the red button if you can find it.

Fun fact, *the clitoris is 10cm long.

*thanks to Rachel Riley

I have never seen a clitoris that size?

Are you sure it wasn’t an errant haemorrhoid?

That's because it's like an iceberg, most of it is internal

Ah like a lettuce? That probably why I am not a hit with the ladies!

Yes. Pity the poor woman who went to the doctor complaining that she had a lettuce sticking out if her vagina. The doctor said "I'm sorry to tell you this is just the tip of the iceberg". "

I did giggle at that.........cos it very funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"I can make myself orgasm every single time, not so much on the coming/squirting. I’ve never met a guy who can’t make me squirt.

I think I’d be disappointed if some one didn’t make me squirt

Is there a difference in feeling between orgasms when you squirt or ones where you don't? "

Yes, at least for me.

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By *rouble81Couple
46 weeks ago

Bolton

There’s different types of orgasm. Vaginal is more difficult, especially without a bigger than average penis to hit the g spot.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
46 weeks ago

Naughty Lane


"I’ve faked a fair few. Usually with my ex husband just so it won’t be over and done with . Then I’d usually play with my wand after he fell asleep "

That's just so sad

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By *stellaWoman
46 weeks ago

London


"Without clitoral stimulation.

Is that true for you ladies ? "

Not always, but predominantly. It’s my mind that has to be in the right place most of all.

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By *ackformore100Man
46 weeks ago

Tin town


"Without clitoral stimulation.

Is that true for you ladies ? "

What's a clitoris?

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By *ackformore100Man
46 weeks ago

Tin town


"I think that should read 80% of men can't get women to orgasm.

"

What about the bi / gay ones?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
46 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I prefer orgasms that avoid the clit.

Clitoral ones are kind of high pitched and honestly just too easy.

I'm overly sensitive in general though, I'm lucky and can get there in a variety of ways. I can understand people who don't have it so easy will only really get it from that super high concentration of nerve endings

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By *ackformore100Man
46 weeks ago

Tin town


"Crack's me up when a question directed at women is used by guy's to brag and bravado "I ain't never had any problems making them cum"

"

I think some tongues are firmly in cheeks though. If they can talk about football surely it's opened the door to our expertise on orgasm?

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By *rouble81Couple
46 weeks ago

Bolton

If I don’t orgasm it’s usually because my brain hasn’t been stimulated. The brain is the biggest sexual organ and usually overlooked.

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By *dc1Man
46 weeks ago

essex and all over the south

I love to perform clit stimulation. It is what turns me on most as well so no problem here. Ive been with a few women that just dont like there clit licked so some can cum without

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"If I don’t orgasm it’s usually because my brain hasn’t been stimulated. The brain is the biggest sexual organ and usually overlooked. "

Interesting hypothesis.

Can I ask what type of cerebral stimulation puts you on the path to orgasm?

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Crack's me up when a question directed at women is used by guy's to brag and bravado "I ain't never had any problems making them cum"

I think some tongues are firmly in cheeks though. If they can talk about football surely it's opened the door to our expertise on orgasm?"

Tongue in cheek surely defeats the object of the intention?

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"

Is it clitorises or clitori ?

Clitorises, which is why that's the word I used.

The Greek plural would be clitorides.

Clitori is just incorrect.

Is your Google broken?

Google? That would mean ‘searching for something’ wouldn’t it

Do you think Google might not be able to find the clitoris either? "

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

It would be so awesome if I met men who don't think I will orgasm from 30 secs of finger blasting or explode from PIV. Rolling my eyes dries my pussy up. AND squirting does fuck all for me. I just start feeling like I'm awkward and weird and I then don't want them to even try.

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By *naswingdressWoman
46 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

The other thing I'll add is that I (I'm not going to speak for other women) am profoundly unimpressed when guys start talking about how they're the orgasm/ squirt whisperer. What that tells me is that they have found The One True Technique that will work on All Women (except those who are built differently, who should just shut up and be grateful being the recipient of their magnificent prowess).

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
46 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).


"It would be so awesome if I met men who don't think I will orgasm from 30 secs of finger blasting or explode from PIV. Rolling my eyes dries my pussy up. AND squirting does fuck all for me. I just start feeling like I'm awkward and weird and I then don't want them to even try."

100% this.

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By *ackformore100Man
46 weeks ago

Tin town


"It would be so awesome if I met men who don't think I will orgasm from 30 secs of finger blasting or explode from PIV. Rolling my eyes dries my pussy up. AND squirting does fuck all for me. I just start feeling like I'm awkward and weird and I then don't want them to even try."

Sorry to have to ask... What's PIV?

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By *enelope2UWoman
46 weeks ago

Fife


"I think that should read 80% of men can't get women to orgasm.

"

Exactly

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
46 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"It would be so awesome if I met men who don't think I will orgasm from 30 secs of finger blasting or explode from PIV. Rolling my eyes dries my pussy up. AND squirting does fuck all for me. I just start feeling like I'm awkward and weird and I then don't want them to even try.

Sorry to have to ask... What's PIV? "

Penis in Vag ?

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By *TG3Man
46 weeks ago

Dorchester

Penis inserted vertically

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By *enelope2UWoman
46 weeks ago

Fife


"I prefer orgasms that avoid the clit.

Clitoral ones are kind of high pitched and honestly just too easy.

I'm overly sensitive in general though, I'm lucky and can get there in a variety of ways. I can understand people who don't have it so easy will only really get it from that super high concentration of nerve endings "

Or prefer the super high concentration of nerve endings being circled by a warm wet mouth over a heavy burden of weight thinking he's knocking a nail through plasterboard and I should be so lucky that he's got his sufficient fuck inside me.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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46 weeks ago

O o O oo


"

husband was just a boom boom quick kinda guy but now she has ten or more each day because I’m not a boom boom quick kinda guy.

T"

Bloody hell, I would be knackered

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By *enelope2UWoman
46 weeks ago

Fife


"

husband was just a boom boom quick kinda guy but now she has ten or more each day because I’m not a boom boom quick kinda guy.

T

Bloody hell, I would be knackered "

Well done you!! Keep him close..

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
46 weeks ago

ashford

Prefer a clit orgasam but vaginal ones are nice to! X

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By *agpie and RavenMan
46 weeks ago

Leicester


"I can reach orgasm perfectly fine, by myself.

It is when I introduce a man in becomes problematic

Yes! Same here.

"

Maybe you should try guiding them. Some of us are susceptible to nicely worded instructions. Just a thought...

Frank

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By *agpie and RavenMan
46 weeks ago

Leicester


"I’ve faked a fair few orgasms tbh, I’ve never been caught out, not ideal but sometimes I just don’t want the guy to feel he’s not doing it for me.

I orgasm so much easier on my own with just clit stimulation.

Yeah, esp if i like a guy... He's happy, i had a good time and have an even better time later replaying with my toys

Exactly this. I don’t have sex with a bloke just for an orgasm I enjoy the whole thing if it happens it happens it really doesn’t bother me but some guys feel like they’ve failed. I do get it as I was with a guy that struggled to cum and it made me feel I’d failed as you just assume it’s so much easier for a guy but he also said he just enjoyed the whole experience regardless.

Orgasms are the least important part of sex for me.

I find the sensations from kissing and touching, and watching a man's mouth or hands on my breasts more arousing.

I prefer arousal over orgasmic."

Ahhh, Nanna is a 'it's all about the journey, not the destination' kind of woman, yes?

Frank

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By *naswingdressWoman
46 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I can reach orgasm perfectly fine, by myself.

It is when I introduce a man in becomes problematic

Yes! Same here.

Maybe you should try guiding them. Some of us are susceptible to nicely worded instructions. Just a thought...

Frank"

Quite often those who proclaim the loudest about how amazing they are at giving me orgasms, are also those least inclined to listen to instructions. No matter how diplomatically or kindly I put it. Apparently not following their plan about my body hurts their precious feelings

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By *agpie and RavenMan
46 weeks ago

Leicester


"I can reach orgasm perfectly fine, by myself.

It is when I introduce a man in becomes problematic

Yes! Same here.

Maybe you should try guiding them. Some of us are susceptible to nicely worded instructions. Just a thought...

Frank

Quite often those who proclaim the loudest about how amazing they are at giving me orgasms, are also those least inclined to listen to instructions. No matter how diplomatically or kindly I put it. Apparently not following their plan about my body hurts their precious feelings "

Oh I get that. It's the same for women who claim to give the best blow jobs in the world. FYI, they rarely do.

I hope for the sake of your pleasure you're not inviting those who can't/won't listen to instructions back for second helpings

Frank

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By *ylonseeker2023Man
46 weeks ago

Harwich

All seems a shame.

We are all slightly different, indeed some of us are massively different. As such I don't believe there is a 'one size fits all' solution but in my younger years it soon came apparent girls needed more than 'a good pounding', lol.

The criteria very soon emerged as the nerve centre or the trigger to an orgasm.

Indeed, the breasts come into it with some ladies, with some very much so, some lesser.

My experience has led me to believe that a Al sex, dp, "spit roasting" (what a name!!) are all cool and a turn on for some ladies, however I do believe all these acts, positions or variations probably intensify a womans orgasm, much as they may a man's as this further stimulates the brain, however, the clitoris will undoubtedly bring off or trigger the orgasm and ideally needs stimulating simultaneosly.

I am sure the ladies here on the forum can verify this or indeed dispute this.

I guess we all base our opinions on our experiences so far in life.

Faking orgasms seems a shame. As a man I'd rather be guided as to any magic button than leave the partner dissatisfied.

Over to you ladies..

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By *naswingdressWoman
46 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I can reach orgasm perfectly fine, by myself.

It is when I introduce a man in becomes problematic

Yes! Same here.

Maybe you should try guiding them. Some of us are susceptible to nicely worded instructions. Just a thought...

Frank

Quite often those who proclaim the loudest about how amazing they are at giving me orgasms, are also those least inclined to listen to instructions. No matter how diplomatically or kindly I put it. Apparently not following their plan about my body hurts their precious feelings

Oh I get that. It's the same for women who claim to give the best blow jobs in the world. FYI, they rarely do.

I hope for the sake of your pleasure you're not inviting those who can't/won't listen to instructions back for second helpings

Frank"

No. Unwillingness to communicate and listen is something I give fairly short shrift. Because I hope to both give and receive pleasure, and I don't see why asking for guidance gets in the way. It only helps.

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By *lder.Woman
46 weeks ago

Not Local

So, 80% of women orgasm using the specific biology designed to allow them orgasm. Sounds about right, but it will never catch on. Im going to keep rubbing away at my right earlobe and hope for the best.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
46 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Or prefer the super high concentration of nerve endings being circled by a warm wet mouth over a heavy burden of weight thinking he's knocking a nail through plasterboard and I should be so lucky that he's got his sufficient fuck inside me."

Generally if they're that bad at the PiV game then they don't try any harder at the oral one

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
46 weeks ago

North West


"There's a documentary about the Cltoris on Sky tonight.

It's on the red button if you can find it.

Fun fact, *the clitoris is 10cm long.

*thanks to Rachel Riley

I have never seen a clitoris that size?

Are you sure it wasn’t an errant haemorrhoid?

That's because it's like an iceberg, most of it is internal

Ah like a lettuce? That probably why I am not a hit with the ladies!

Yes. Pity the poor woman who went to the doctor complaining that she had a lettuce sticking out if her vagina. The doctor said "I'm sorry to tell you this is just the tip of the iceberg". "

Mine's more of a little gem

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

46 weeks ago

East Sussex


"There's a documentary about the Cltoris on Sky tonight.

It's on the red button if you can find it.

Fun fact, *the clitoris is 10cm long.

*thanks to Rachel Riley

I have never seen a clitoris that size?

Are you sure it wasn’t an errant haemorrhoid?

That's because it's like an iceberg, most of it is internal

Ah like a lettuce? That probably why I am not a hit with the ladies!

Yes. Pity the poor woman who went to the doctor complaining that she had a lettuce sticking out if her vagina. The doctor said "I'm sorry to tell you this is just the tip of the iceberg".

Mine's more of a little gem "

A colleague once gave me some lettuce seeds called 'd*unken woman '. I have no idea what she was trying to tell me...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
46 weeks ago

North West


"There's a documentary about the Cltoris on Sky tonight.

It's on the red button if you can find it.

Fun fact, *the clitoris is 10cm long.

*thanks to Rachel Riley

I have never seen a clitoris that size?

Are you sure it wasn’t an errant haemorrhoid?

That's because it's like an iceberg, most of it is internal

Ah like a lettuce? That probably why I am not a hit with the ladies!

Yes. Pity the poor woman who went to the doctor complaining that she had a lettuce sticking out if her vagina. The doctor said "I'm sorry to tell you this is just the tip of the iceberg".

Mine's more of a little gem

A colleague once gave me some lettuce seeds called 'd*unken woman '. I have no idea what she was trying to tell me..."

You Romaine one of our favourite posters

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Top tip.

80% of women cannot orgasm until they are turned on.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
46 weeks ago

North West


"Top tip.

80% of women cannot orgasm until they are turned on."

The switch is often well hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Only one man has ever made me orgasm from here. It was not by clit stimulation.

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By *ortyairCouple
46 weeks ago

Wallasey

Never cum on a meet, although I have a great time, Mrs x

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
46 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"Never cum on a meet, although I have a great time, Mrs x"

Doea it not frustrate you? I can't stand being wound up but unable to finish

MrsAbz

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By *ortyairCouple
46 weeks ago

Wallasey


"Never cum on a meet, although I have a great time, Mrs x

Doea it not frustrate you? I can't stand being wound up but unable to finish

MrsAbz "

I've only had an orgasm through sex once. I make myself cum all the time, Mrs x

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By *antricSeeker60Man
46 weeks ago

Durham

It’s a total misconception that most women can’t achieve orgasm without her clitoris being stimulated.

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
46 weeks ago

Redditch

Hard for women to stimulate the clit during sex. Only in certain positions and then must be fristrating and hard work to really grind at a satisfying pace. If aroused enough though then becomes easier - just hard to reach that level of horn all the time

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By *ortyairCouple
46 weeks ago

Wallasey


"It’s a total misconception that most women can’t achieve orgasm without her clitoris being stimulated. "
Where do you get that notion from, Mrs x

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By *ornucopiaMan
46 weeks ago

Bexley


"Honestly never has that issue i alwaya make them come first either tounge fingers or most woman orgasm fairy quick when on top

These guys

"

You mean the 'tounge lizards'?

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By *igboobstCouple
46 weeks ago

barrow

I can cum from either penetrative fun or clittioral count myself as one of the lucky ones xxx

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
46 weeks ago

Reading

Im moew of the 20%

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By *ornucopiaMan
46 weeks ago

Bexley


"

Is it clitorises or clitori ?"

Do some women have more than one?

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By *antricSeeker60Man
46 weeks ago

Durham


"It’s a total misconception that most women can’t achieve orgasm without her clitoris being stimulated. Where do you get that notion from, Mrs x"

Female orgasm without clitoris stimulation can still occur through other forms of vaginal, G-spot, or mental stimulation opening sensual passageways. We should all pay attention to the intricacies of women's sexual pleasure, shedding light on various factors that contribute to and enhance the experience of orgasm.

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By *ortyairCouple
46 weeks ago

Wallasey


"It’s a total misconception that most women can’t achieve orgasm without her clitoris being stimulated. Where do you get that notion from, Mrs x

Female orgasm without clitoris stimulation can still occur through other forms of vaginal, G-spot, or mental stimulation opening sensual passageways. We should all pay attention to the intricacies of women's sexual pleasure, shedding light on various factors that contribute to and enhance the experience of orgasm."

Sure most woman orgasm more from clitoris stimulation than vaginally, I can only cum through playing with my clit, Mrs x

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
46 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"Never cum on a meet, although I have a great time, Mrs x

Doea it not frustrate you? I can't stand being wound up but unable to finish

MrsAbz I've only had an orgasm through sex once. I make myself cum all the time, Mrs x"

Well I'm glad you get to cum

Think I must be lucky cos I find it really easy to orgasm. I just can't imagine sex without it

MrsAbz

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46 weeks ago


"Top tip.

80% of women cannot orgasm until they are turned on.

The switch is often well hidden. "

Close to the input/output sockets. Don't get them confused when plugging her in.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
46 weeks ago

London

True

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
46 weeks ago

North West


"Top tip.

80% of women cannot orgasm until they are turned on.

The switch is often well hidden.

Close to the input/output sockets. Don't get them confused when plugging her in."

Don't overcharge - buggers the batteries

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By *aving_great_funMan
46 weeks ago

London


"*Clitoris.

It's not even in predictive text!

Penis is. "

The word is kunt.

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By *elvet RopeMan
46 weeks ago

by the big field


"I think that should read 80% of men can't get women to orgasm.

"

Must be tough being in that group- hows it going for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Without clitoral stimulation.

Is that true for you ladies ? "

Show me your 80% proof op.

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By *orny PTMan
46 weeks ago

Peterborough


"I think that should read 80% of men can't get women to orgasm.

"

Are lesbians included in this count?

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Without clitoral stimulation.

Is that true for you ladies ?

Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue.

How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)?

Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms?

Funny isn't it, like people still don't know what a clitorise is. "

Let alone how to spell it

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By *orny PTMan
46 weeks ago

Peterborough


"Without clitoral stimulation.

Is that true for you ladies ?

Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue.

How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)?

Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms?

"

Ask this...How many men have come due to either premature ejaculation or via wet dreams, during clothed fore play, typically in our younger years? That will be a better question. One for Masters and Johnson me thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Without clitoral stimulation.

Is that true for you ladies ?

Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue.

How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)?

Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms?

Funny isn't it, like people still don't know what a clitorise is.

Let alone how to spell it"

I've had an anal orgasm but only once by myself.

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By *orny PTMan
46 weeks ago

Peterborough


"Without clitoral stimulation.

Is that true for you ladies ?

Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue.

How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)?

Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms?

Funny isn't it, like people still don't know what a clitoris is.

Or where it is, lol"

I'm gonna need some pics.

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By *asycouple777Couple
46 weeks ago

bristol

She comes all the time through oral and foreplay but never through penetration

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By *enelope2UWoman
46 weeks ago

Fife


"Hard for women to stimulate the clit during sex. Only in certain positions and then must be fristrating and hard work to really grind at a satisfying pace. If aroused enough though then becomes easier - just hard to reach that level of horn all the time "

Lol lol and more lol.....what!!! Um ok

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Top tip.

80% of women cannot orgasm until they are turned on.

The switch is often well hidden.

Close to the input/output sockets. Don't get them confused when plugging her in.

Don't overcharge - buggers the batteries "

Before you rush home with her, remember that batteries not included.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Hard for women to stimulate the clit during sex. Only in certain positions and then must be fristrating and hard work to really grind at a satisfying pace. If aroused enough though then becomes easier - just hard to reach that level of horn all the time

Lol lol and more lol.....what!!! Um ok"

My exact reaction.

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By *ealArtfulDodgerMan
45 weeks ago

Newcastle

That age old question and misconception - Popcorn time guys n gals x

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By *orny PTMan
45 weeks ago

Peterborough


"I’m mainly a combo of g spot and clit stimulation but have had quite a few orgasms from g spot stimulation alone.

Mrs

Good Heavens we chaps are just coming to terms that a clitoris is not a medium sized family car manufactured by Renault and you now introduce the G spot?

I need to lie down."

that'll be this from reddit

"This is the Peel Common (Newgate Lane) roundabout joining Stubbington, Lee, Fareham and Gosport

This photo is old as they have since changed it to read “GOSP’T” after fun was detected in the council."

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I think it’s not about how good a guy is compared with the woman being comfortable in herself

If she’s chill, joins in and enjoys herself she will come

If she’s not chill with herself than it’s highly unlikely she will come

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"I think it’s not about how good a guy is compared with the woman being comfortable in herself

If she’s chill, joins in and enjoys herself she will come

If she’s not chill with herself than it’s highly unlikely she will come "

Did you read any of the thread? Being "chill" isn't how women orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread?"

God no. We are all chill.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread?

God no. We are all chill. "

do you always make them come

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread?

God no. We are all chill. do you always make them come "

You know it, baby

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By *aidForSharingWoman
45 weeks ago

Lancashire

It's a lot to do with technique. A lot of guys haven't got a clue how to arouse and pleasure a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread?

God no. We are all chill. do you always make them come

You know it, baby "

How would you know?

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I’m not insecure I make every woman come every time I have sex with them. Not insecure at all. Very confident

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread?

God no. We are all chill. do you always make them come

You know it, baby

How would you know? "

They squeal

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By *ackformore100Man
45 weeks ago

Tin town


"Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread?

God no. We are all chill. do you always make them come

You know it, baby

How would you know?

They squeal

"

Like in deliverance.?

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread?

God no. We are all chill. do you always make them come

You know it, baby

How would you know?

They squeal

Like in deliverance.? "

Ah wouldn't know. That's a man's movie.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread?

God no. We are all chill. do you always make them come

You know it, baby

How would you know?

They squeal

"

I fuck her. She scrim.

One of the funniest videos ever

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By *ackformore100Man
45 weeks ago

Tin town


"Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread?

God no. We are all chill. do you always make them come

You know it, baby

How would you know?

They squeal

Like in deliverance.?

Ah wouldn't know. That's a man's movie. "

Women are allowed to Watch mens films and men's sports and everything now... Just ask first if you can borrow the remote.... And perhaps explain how it works

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By *riar BelisseWoman
45 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

Surely that should be 100%, the Internal part of the clit is what gets massaged by penetration for orgasm, including that the internal (vag and anal) sensitivity rate is variable between different women, hence the hunt for that perfectly sized and shaped cock

Oh and I'm Including those ladies who have the ability to orgasm from no hands clit stimulation, the power to cum with just thoughts, is impressive and fascinating

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