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By *awty_Two OP   Couple
41 weeks ago

Near Maidstone

We as a couple get quite a few winks, from couples in Scotland. The only trouble is, we live in south east England, so we have to ask, why?

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Could be multiple reasons

Maybe they just liked your profile

Maybe they planning a trip down that way sometime

And want to say hello and have a quick chat to see yous are on each others wive Lenth with a little if we ever heading down your way we will give yous the heads up week or two in advance and see we can fit a night together for a social / maybe more if soical gose well

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
41 weeks ago

south coast IOW

Good question. I get the same. Winks from people hundreds of miles away and I often wonder why.

I did ask someone once and they said it was just to say they liked the profile not because they expected it to result in anything from it. A kind of acknowledgment as such. I woumd have preferred a short message as it would have been less ambiguous.

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By *awty_Two OP   Couple
41 weeks ago

Near Maidstone


"Good question. I get the same. Winks from people hundreds of miles away and I often wonder why.

I did ask someone once and they said it was just to say they liked the profile not because they expected it to result in anything from it. A kind of acknowledgment as such. I woumd have preferred a short message as it would have been less ambiguous.

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Exactly this

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By *awty_Two OP   Couple
41 weeks ago

Near Maidstone


"Could be multiple reasons

Maybe they just liked your profile

Maybe they planning a trip down that way sometime

And want to say hello and have a quick chat to see yous are on each others wive Lenth with a little if we ever heading down your way we will give yous the heads up week or two in advance and see we can fit a night together for a social / maybe more if soical gose well

"

If that’s the case they should message us, but seriously, we get loads from Scottish couples, maybe we should move up there?

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"Could be multiple reasons

Maybe they just liked your profile

Maybe they planning a trip down that way sometime

And want to say hello and have a quick chat to see yous are on each others wive Lenth with a little if we ever heading down your way we will give yous the heads up week or two in advance and see we can fit a night together for a social / maybe more if soical gose well

If that’s the case they should message us, but seriously, we get loads from Scottish couples, maybe we should move up there? "

Yes they should they maybe shy also Scotland is a wonderful place

Really not sure it was just a theory

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Same, most of our winks and messages are from people miles away.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"We as a couple get quite a few winks, from couples in Scotland. The only trouble is, we live in south east England, so we have to ask, why? "

Iv had Irish men to

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"Good question. I get the same. Winks from people hundreds of miles away and I often wonder why.

…

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I e winked many profile where I know there no chance of ever nearing, or I just liked their profile or they had nice photos, and other reasons. But I wink and don’t message Because I don’t want to waste their time when I know (or think) we are never going to talk or meet. So a wink is just to say - I saw you and I liked what I saw.

^thats how I use a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"Good question. I get the same. Winks from people hundreds of miles away and I often wonder why.

…

I e winked many profile where I know there no chance of ever nearing, or I just liked their profile or they had nice photos, and other reasons. But I wink and don’t message Because I don’t want to waste their time when I know (or think) we are never going to talk or meet. So a wink is just to say - I saw you and I liked what I saw.

^thats how I use a wink. "

That’s a very fair point actually and a whole new way to look at them

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

We had a couple from Canada wink us, when I asked them they said it was because they liked the profile and we where what they were looking for but because of the distance they left a wink and moved on.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"Good question. I get the same. Winks from people hundreds of miles away and I often wonder why.

…

I e winked many profile where I know there no chance of ever nearing, or I just liked their profile or they had nice photos, and other reasons. But I wink and don’t message Because I don’t want to waste their time when I know (or think) we are never going to talk or meet. So a wink is just to say - I saw you and I liked what I saw.

^thats how I use a wink.

That’s a very fair point actually and a whole new way to look at them "

And also, it makes sense to me. Those that aren’t looking to meet anyone aren’t going to pay attention to the winks, but if they are interested in who they are attracting, they might look at those winks. You don’t know how they are using the site. We all do things differently.

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By *ris GrayMan
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

Exactly a wink a day keeps the Dr away so they say on saturday

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By *oupleus30Couple
41 weeks ago

Minster


"Could be multiple reasons

Maybe they just liked your profile

Maybe they planning a trip down that way sometime

And want to say hello and have a quick chat to see yous are on each others wive Lenth with a little if we ever heading down your way we will give yous the heads up week or two in advance and see we can fit a night together for a social / maybe more if soical gose well

If that’s the case they should message us, but seriously, we get loads from Scottish couples, maybe we should move up there? "

I'm with u on this to and I've also seen loads of profiles who I like which are from Scotland lol so if ur moving so am I haha ??

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By *awty_Two OP   Couple
41 weeks ago

Near Maidstone


"Could be multiple reasons

Maybe they just liked your profile

Maybe they planning a trip down that way sometime

And want to say hello and have a quick chat to see yous are on each others wive Lenth with a little if we ever heading down your way we will give yous the heads up week or two in advance and see we can fit a night together for a social / maybe more if soical gose well

If that’s the case they should message us, but seriously, we get loads from Scottish couples, maybe we should move up there?

I'm with u on this to and I've also seen loads of profiles who I like which are from Scotland lol so if ur moving so am I haha ?? "

Actually, Kent is suddenly feeling quite a sexy place too ??

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
41 weeks ago

south coast IOW

And thats pretty much the explanation i got. I guess we just take it as a compliment and if we want to acknowledge omit just send a thanks for the wink msg or just accept it and move on.

We all use them a little differently so i guess just ask if your not sure why youve been sent one and want to know.


"Good question. I get the same. Winks from people hundreds of miles away and I often wonder why.

…

I e winked many profile where I know there no chance of ever nearing, or I just liked their profile or they had nice photos, and other reasons. But I wink and don’t message Because I don’t want to waste their time when I know (or think) we are never going to talk or meet. So a wink is just to say - I saw you and I liked what I saw.

^thats how I use a wink. "

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
41 weeks ago

Lingfield

Maybe they are winking because they like your profile and are happy to chat. Try winking back and if they know you like their profile then I'm sure they'll send you a nice message. If you aren't interested in chatting then ignore the winks and get on with your life. It's no biggie....

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By *obilebottomMan
41 weeks ago

All over

Winks are just little waves. You make what you want of them. Wave back, send a message, ignore or block. So many choices. I like them, just wish they were more yellow like messages

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By *adyluck..Woman
41 weeks ago

West Yorkshire

I wink to say hi or when shy but a sign of interest

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"We as a couple get quite a few winks, from couples in Scotland. The only trouble is, we live in south east England, so we have to ask, why? "

No clue I'm in Scotland and often get them from England.

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By *ornucopiaMan
41 weeks ago

Bexley

Weelcome to the Global Village!

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By *orny43sumCouple
41 weeks ago

merthyr

Wink away, just saying

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By *ornucopiaMan
41 weeks ago

Bexley

'Welcome'

(that wasn't a feeble attempt to sound Scottish)

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
41 weeks ago

Lingfield

I'd be thrilled to log in and find my account full of winks from Scottish couples and women (I live in Surrey)! Wink away.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Also might have been from one of the forum games? But yes I completely understand. Don’t get many winks or loads of attention, so get quite excited when I do see them appear on my profile. Only for reality to kick in and realise they are no where near

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