FabSwingers.com forum: Do you usually meet in hotels?

By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

Where do you usually meet people from fab?

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
47 weeks ago

sw London

Clubs with a follow-up at a hotel

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By *urvytreatWoman
47 weeks ago

somewhere nice

Usually club, it’s a lot easier and if they don’t turn up at least you can still have a good night

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

My place or theirs. I’ve never been attracted to the whole hotel thing, so I’ve yet to experience it.

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By *eroLondonMan
47 weeks ago

Mayfair

Hotels. Always.

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By *ellhungvweMan
47 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Their place or a hotel. Clubs are next on the list.

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By *naswingdressWoman
47 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Usually hotel or similar.

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
47 weeks ago

peterborough

Hotels usually, but I’ve been to a couple of guys houses too. We don’t have people back to ours.

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By *emidemiWoman
47 weeks ago

basingstoke

People on fab meet each other?

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By *naswingdressWoman
47 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"People on fab meet each other?

sshh. We don't talk about it out loud

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
47 weeks ago

Wherever

Hotels, only.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Their place

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Somewhere local and public, generally a coffee date and a walk. Never a hotel. Guesthouse Paracheato.

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By *orphia2003Woman
47 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Pubs, coffee shops, organised events for socials.

Hotels, clubs, Thier place for play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I don't get meets so can't comment

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Where do you usually meet people from fab? "

In my dreams

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"I don't get meets so can't comment "

Do you fancy a coffee next week?

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Coffee or a beer (social)

If good then we discuss further options x

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
47 weeks ago

Sheffield

Clubs for me. Then if that vibe is there after sometimes a hotel meet, but not often I do that. X

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Pubs, bars, cocktail places and coffee shops. Then hotels, soon after.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Yeah usually hotels. That can either be following a social or as a first meet

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By *inkylipsWoman
47 weeks ago

Debauchery

Hotel meets but if I’ve met them previously I don’t mind meeting for some out door fun

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By *orny PTMan
47 weeks ago

Peterborough

Clubs and the odd organised social/house party, only done a hotel meet once or twice.

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By *electableicecreamMan
47 weeks ago

The West

My place. Their place.

Hotel prices in Ireland aren't really sustainable for regular meets.

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By *alandNitaCouple
47 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Where do you usually meet people from fab? "

Usually clubs, but sometimes hotels.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Clubs and hotels.

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By *affron40Woman
47 weeks ago

manchester

I meet people for coffee and knob in my own home

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
47 weeks ago

Manchester

Sometimes hotels, sometimes my flat, sometimes clubs. Depends on the person and the vibe.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Hotels -mostly his prem inn

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

My personal preference is to meet at a hotel bar , I prefer meeting with an option to play. Clubs bore me now, I prefer more intimate settings now

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
47 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Behind the bins at the back of Aldi

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By *estarossa.Woman
47 weeks ago

Flagrante

Socials, somewhere low key, cafe or a pub.

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By *entleman JayMan
47 weeks ago

Wakefield

They mostly come to my house.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I meet people for coffee and knob in my own home

I think I’m heading to Manchester sometime soon …

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By *educing_EmCouple
47 weeks ago

Tipperary

"My place. Their place.

Hotel prices in Ireland aren't really sustainable for regular meets."

This! Most of the reason I don't meet people as much as I'd like to. It's daylight robbery over here.

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By *educing_EmCouple
47 weeks ago

Tipperary

Not my place though with the kids

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Hotels -mostly his prem inn"

Seems that's a popular choice looking at the carpets and beds in most photos on here

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By *eroLondonMan
47 weeks ago

Mayfair

"My place. Their place.

Hotel prices in Ireland aren't really sustainable for regular meets."

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They're not sustainable in London either, but I always seem succumb to the needs of my phallus whist ignoring the wisdom of my wallet.

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By *illy IdolMan
47 weeks ago

Midlands

"Hotels -mostly his prem inn

Seems that's a popular choice looking at the carpets and beds in most photos on here

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By *heGigglersCouple
47 weeks ago

Stourbridge (West-Mids)

Usually at a club, we find theres less pressure than a hotel and if we dont click then we can all just go our seperate ways and still have a good night!

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Hotels -mostly his prem inn

Seems that's a popular choice looking at the carpets and beds in most photos on here

Also the beds are bloody amazing

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By *illy IdolMan
47 weeks ago

Midlands

"They mostly cum in my house. "

Showoff

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By *sWyldWoman
47 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Bars, coffee shops for a social first then hotels.

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By *annessaTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Denham

Never, in a hotel. Had a really bad experience. Never again

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By *eroLondonMan
47 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Never, in a hotel. Had a really bad experience. Never again"

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Were there things missing from the hospitality tray? It's the KitKat™ wasn't it? She ate both bars and left me none, despoiling our pillow talk. The cow.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Hotels, at my house, at their house, or clubs .. I have no real preference, I usally let the person I'm meeting decide

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Stockport

Tesco. Freezer aisle, by the Magnums.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Central

Mostly hotels

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Hotels or his place.

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By *mf123Man
47 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

I no longer meet anyone anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Redemption Roasters

If it goes beyond a coffee, a hotel or a club.

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By *ez669Man
47 weeks ago

East Kilbride

IHG rewards are needing used up

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I can accom and travel, which is a big help for hook-up. However, I love meeting in a hotel room... Just seems sexy and erotic.

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By *hristopherd999Man
47 weeks ago

Brentwood

"My place or theirs. I’ve never been attracted to the whole hotel thing, so I’ve yet to experience it. "

Same

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By *asycouple777Couple
47 weeks ago

bristol

Usually clubs but have done bars and hotels and a lodge

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By *olvespairCouple
47 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

We meet at clubs, if it's someone we've met/ played with before then Happy to meet at hotel or theirs - we can't accommodate due to little people

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
47 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Local tea rooms, restaurant, hotel, my place, biscuit aisle of Waitrose

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
47 weeks ago

Liverpool

I prefer hotels

They’re the safest option for both parties

And you don’t have to clean the sheets

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By *andydan69Man
47 weeks ago

south west nr you mmm

Love hotel meets mmmm filthy

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
47 weeks ago

Reading

Dayuse hotels clubs or their house.

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By *reen as JadeCouple
47 weeks ago

Cheshire

Hotels x

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
47 weeks ago

Worcester

First meet at a coffee shop.

Second meet at their place.

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By *adgerMan
47 weeks ago

york

Dayrooms hotels…. Great invention

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By *asques and boxersCouple
47 weeks ago

Ashford and dept16

We like Hotels lobbies bars for socials.

After that play meets its Hotels for single guys.

For new couples hotels or clubs after we played once clubs ours theirs or Hotels.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Clubs, hotels.

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By *uckypuppy007Woman
47 weeks ago

dublin

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By *uckypuppy007Woman
47 weeks ago

dublin

hotels but often after meeting socially first

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By *igs72Man
47 weeks ago

motherwell

Hotels are best. Neutral ground.

If travelling alone always good to find others looking for fun in same hotel

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
47 weeks ago

Merseyside

For two solo meets I have had yes we did

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Always I work away a lot

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By *owestoft ManMan
47 weeks ago

Lowestoft

The Ex and I started with Clubs etc but very quickly found it better looking on Adult Sites for men. After chatting and vetting we would meet at either a hotel of their choice or for a coffee and go back to their place.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

"Tesco. Freezer aisle, by the Magnums."

I thought magnum was kept with the alcohol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

"My place. Their place.

Hotel prices in Ireland aren't really sustainable for regular meets.

This! Most of the reason I don't meet people as much as I'd like to. It's daylight robbery over here. "

In London too.

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By *eet The FlintstonesCouple
47 weeks ago

Southampton

Think we have done the lot,hotels, home,there house, parties, clubs ,pubs ,even flown abroad but not back of bins xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

My only question about hotel people, especially the safety thing, if you meet someone on a dating app, and after one or two dates you wanted to invite them back to yours or they wanted to go back to yours, does that mean like… you’d say we have to book a hotel?

(This only applies to poly people or single people so monogamish couples I don’t need your answers. Noah Fence.)

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By *eyond PurityCouple
47 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Sometime a first time at a hotel or social first then back to our house.

Much sexier environments than clubs.

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By *naswingdressWoman
47 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"My only question about hotel people, especially the safety thing, if you meet someone on a dating app, and after one or two dates you wanted to invite them back to yours or they wanted to go back to yours, does that mean like… you’d say we have to book a hotel?

(This only applies to poly people or single people so monogamish couples I don’t need your answers. Noah Fence.) "

Yeah, that's what it would mean in my case.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
47 weeks ago

Worcester

(This only applies to poly people or single people so monogamish couples I don’t need your answers. Noah Fence.) "

I don't think it's more safe to meet in a hotel.

When I get the other person's address I set up an email to send it to a close friend a day later. When I get home I cancel it before it sends.

If I meet in a hotel that person could be anyone. You don't need to give a hotel your actual address. You don't need to give a hotel your card details. You literally have no paper trail to who that person is.

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By *olarbear73Man
47 weeks ago

Glasgow

Majority of my meets are at a hotel, in the bar and then to my room. I’ve had socials in coffee shops, pubs and one in a departure lounge of an airport.

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By *ad NannaWoman
47 weeks ago

East London

I don't like hotels.

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By *ad NannaWoman
47 weeks ago

East London

(This only applies to poly people or single people so monogamish couples I don’t need your answers. Noah Fence.)

I don't think it's more safe to meet in a hotel.

When I get the other person's address I set up an email to send it to a close friend a day later. When I get home I cancel it before it sends.

You have to have photo ID for the hotels I've been to, and they have cctv cameras. Not saying a stupid person still wouldn't try something nefarious, but I think they're more likely to want to meet at the victims home.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

It can complicate things. If arranging a meet becomes complicated it can put me off, meets should feel fun and easy.

In my own experience most people have already booked a hotel before contacting me. “We have a hotel booked, would you like to join us…”

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
47 weeks ago

North West

If we ever get chance to do anything, we'd be most likely to meet in hotels. Unless people have wheelchair accessible alternatives?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
47 weeks ago

Leeds

I prefer hotels no one's coming to my house - my kids live here & come 1st.

I've done at theirs but I feel there's more pressure, hotel bar and back to the room if all goes well works better for me.

Mrs

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By *sWyldWoman
47 weeks ago

Edinburgh

(This only applies to poly people or single people so monogamish couples I don’t need your answers. Noah Fence.) "

I absolutely would suggest a hotel even on dating apps. No one is coming to my house in the early stages of anything and I like hotels. Neutral ground etc. I feel much safer in a hotel to be honest.

When it comes to dating the Ideal is obviously someone with their own place because lots of hotel stays get expensive!

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
47 weeks ago

London

"Behind the the bin at the back of Aldi"

Where are you BIN all my life?

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By *ixiekissesWoman
47 weeks ago

Happy place

"Behind the bins at the back of Aldi"

Classy guy eh

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

My place if they don't turn up I haven't lost anything

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Where do you usually meet people from fab? "

Right here in the forums.

And that’s as far as 99.9% of fabbies/fabbers get too.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

(This only applies to poly people or single people so monogamish couples I don’t need your answers. Noah Fence.) "

Yes, I don’t necessarily expect the other person to book the hotel, but I do let them know it would be a hotel we go back to if that’s the decision we make a few dates in. Even in the moment, it’s easy enough to book a hotel then and there. Rare are the times that I’d go to theirs or have them at mine so early on. I have a nesting partner and we are KTP. If we are more than a few dates in, or are partners coming to mine or going to theirs is an option. Occasionally, we could still do hotels too just for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Clubs with a follow-up at a hotel"

Is there more fun in the after-party hotel?

I’m aware of the party moving on to a nearby hotel, but since I don’t know what to expect, I never took that route.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I would never meet up at a hotel I value my safety to much.

I did go to a club last year didn't enjoy it as it was more social than playing.

I only met at my place.

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By *inkylipsWoman
47 weeks ago

Debauchery

"I would never meet up at a hotel I value my safety to much.

I did go to a club last year didn't enjoy it as it was more social than playing.

I only met at my place. "

I feel that’s more dangerous, not only are you not seen or somewhere public but they will forever know your address. They could be stalkers and you could never get rid of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Hotels or theirs if I feel comfortable enough.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
47 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Jesus where do I start?

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By *izzy.Woman
47 weeks ago

Stoke area

I meet at coffee shops or pubs. If fun is on the cards, I prefer clubs, as there are people nearby if there was a problem. I wouldn't feel safe using a hotel and have to know someone well to invite anyone back to my house.

I had a guy turn up months after meeting me, just as I was serving Sunday lunch to family. He explained he didn't have my number and couldn't find me on Fab anymore !

So club meets are my safe place now.

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By *ewcomers2021Couple
47 weeks ago

Leeds

We meet at a club as it’s great way to meet new potential friends. Never done the hotel or another couples home but certainly wouldn’t say no and seems kinda naughty…I don’t think we would ever entertain in our house unless the other couple became fab friends.

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By *ookie46Woman
47 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Socials usually at a bar or coffee shop. Anything more it’s a hotel although there are one or two friends I’d happily accommodate when possible

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