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Sick of being a doormat

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
41 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

I'm just sick and tired of being the person that everyone thinks it's ok to talk to like a piece of shit.

Work is ridiculous,due to my mild mannered nature and being a non confrontational person it seems people assume it's fine to treat me like a moron and a piece of crap.

Time for a new job

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By *otuseater11Man
41 weeks ago

IRVINE

Find that new job mate and forget your old co/workers chin up and carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Tell 'em to go fuck themselves before you leave though..you owe it to yourself

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By *apiomanMan
41 weeks ago

Shipley

Sorry to hear that work is being rubbish. It's hard if you are mild mannered and people take the piss. Strength to you!

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
41 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

I just like to be polite and respectful to people it's not much to ask for the same

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By *oo..Woman
41 weeks ago

Boo's World

Some people just don't know when to stop sometimes, unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

You can’t let colleagues tek yuh fi eediat.

Trust me.

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By *stellaWoman
41 weeks ago

London

Sorry to hear this, OP. Toxic work cultures that allow that to happen are rife and it’s simply not ok. Hope something works out for you, solidarity.

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
41 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Thank you all.

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By *hrimper36Couple
41 weeks ago

Central France dept 36


"I'm just sick and tired of being the person that everyone thinks it's ok to talk to like a piece of shit.

Work is ridiculous,due to my mild mannered nature and being a non confrontational person it seems people assume it's fine to treat me like a moron and a piece of crap.

Time for a new job "

Or just change doors!!!!!

T

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By *os19Man
41 weeks ago

Edmonton


"I'm just sick and tired of being the person that everyone thinks it's ok to talk to like a piece of shit.

Work is ridiculous,due to my mild mannered nature and being a non confrontational person it seems people assume it's fine to treat me like a moron and a piece of crap.

Time for a new job "
. There is only so much a worker can take from their manager I know this from personal experiences.Ironically after just over 8 years putting up with her crap she is the one leaving to go to another office

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By *ermite12ukMan
41 weeks ago

Solihull and Brentwood

I was a doormat working for a boss that had zero management skills and turned out it was the worst job ever.

He left. Then about 6 months later redundancies were being talked about. I left before redundancies were finalised. For the best job, I've ever had.

As one door closes another opens. Good look in your job search op.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"I'm just sick and tired of being the person that everyone thinks it's ok to talk to like a piece of shit.

Work is ridiculous,due to my mild mannered nature and being a non confrontational person it seems people assume it's fine to treat me like a moron and a piece of crap.

Time for a new job "

I'm also non confrontational, even when knowing someone is taking the piss in a situation. But a person can't change thier nature. At the same time, it's the qualities of a persons nature non arseholes respect and like/love you for.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

At the moment I'm getting jobs thrown at me that others have known for weeks and the general consensus is "it's OK wonko will fix it"

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
41 weeks ago

Weymouth

Have been here many a time, I'm sorry

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
41 weeks ago

London


"I'm just sick and tired of being the person that everyone thinks it's ok to talk to like a piece of shit.

Work is ridiculous,due to my mild mannered nature and being a non confrontational person it seems people assume it's fine to treat me like a moron and a piece of crap.

Time for a new job "

People treat you how you let them.

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By *ellhungvweMan
41 weeks ago

Cheltenham

OP I am sorry to hear that things are not going well.

I get the desire for new job but my key question would be: what would that change?

Have you always had issues at work because of your easy going personality or is it a recent thing because of new management?

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
41 weeks ago

Wales

Confrontation can be a good thing if handled well...you gotta be OK with disagreement and saying no, or later sometimes, people will respect you more if you do...

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
41 weeks ago

Southampton


"I'm just sick and tired of being the person that everyone thinks it's ok to talk to like a piece of shit.

Work is ridiculous,due to my mild mannered nature and being a non confrontational person it seems people assume it's fine to treat me like a moron and a piece of crap.

Time for a new job "

I'm so sorry your job is making you feel shit, I speak from experience... don't stay in the job any longer than necessary, you deserve to be treated well x hugs

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By *oe n JayCouple
41 weeks ago

Surrey

No job is worth your mental health

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
41 weeks ago

Glasgow

Can’t know for sure if it’s you or them or a bit of both.

Some managers and colleagues can indeed be shit I’ve suffered workplace bullying myself, but in honesty very few actually enjoy confrontation but it’s a part of life.

Would you perhaps benefit from some assertiveness training? Build confidence at least?

Standing up for yourself can indeed be a learned skill.

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By *erkshire8299Man
41 weeks ago

slough

Life's too short to be in a shit job...but sadly some people cannot leave it for various reasons...I have seen managers sacked over bad behaviour when juniors have reported them to senior managers...but depends on how the culture is at your place.

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By *TG3Man
41 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I'm just sick and tired of being the person that everyone thinks it's ok to talk to like a piece of shit.

Work is ridiculous,due to my mild mannered nature and being a non confrontational person it seems people assume it's fine to treat me like a moron and a piece of crap.

Time for a new job "
yes i left mine yesterday because of the lack of respect, it won't phase them though

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By *ip...Man
41 weeks ago

Wrexham


"I'm just sick and tired of being the person that everyone thinks it's ok to talk to like a piece of shit.

Work is ridiculous,due to my mild mannered nature and being a non confrontational person it seems people assume it's fine to treat me like a moron and a piece of crap.

Time for a new job"

Maybe it's not the job; perhaps it's you... You say you have a mild-mannered nature about you. Which is a lovely quality to have but at time you need to be the one who says no and tell people ways they are impacting on you.

Think about this... Would you invite these co-worker for tea? If the answer is no, well, sorry to say this, you are as they are there in your head.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"Thank you all. "

Hi OP ,

Speaking from experience. People who were miserable and now enjoying working at same office as me.

The problem is not you, it’s them.

Being soft spoken is one aspect they are taking advantage of.

These negative co- worker attitudes can stem from jealousy.

Don’t help them out, when they come asking for help.

Work for a good boss. Rot starts at the top. Nasty co- workers means a complicit boss.

You deserve better.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"I'm just sick and tired of being the person that everyone thinks it's ok to talk to like a piece of shit.

Work is ridiculous,due to my mild mannered nature and being a non confrontational person it seems people assume it's fine to treat me like a moron and a piece of crap.

Time for a new job

I'm so sorry your job is making you feel shit, I speak from experience... don't stay in the job any longer than necessary, you deserve to be treated well x hugs"

Good advice.

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By *rHotNottsMan
41 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Stand up for yourself & know your value also tell the owners / CEO they have created a culture where this is allowed.

Don’t underestimate your ability influence& change things , I once called out executives swearing and being sexist in the kitchen , people began to thank me after a while and the environment changed. New people coming in tend to follow others & what see is acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I hear this too often I'm glad I'm not just imaging nice people still exist jools hope new employment and nice environments come your way

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