FabSwingers.com forum: unsolicited blowjob offerings

By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

any other men have problems with random guys asking to suck there cocks even though it states not looking for men and listed as straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Nope not at all there are filters to stop men from messaging you completely turn them on

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By *obilebottomMan
41 weeks ago

All over

They can't message you if you have the not looking for men filter on. Are they breaking the enigma code?

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By *elix SightedMan
41 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"any other men have problems with random guys asking to suck there cocks even though it states not looking for men and listed as straight?"

Go for it - a mouth is a mouth

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By *arry monk40Man
41 weeks ago

Telford

I'll take anything cum and get it

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I'll take anything cum and get it"

Stop it Harry

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By *amie HantsWoman
41 weeks ago

Atlantis

If you go to account and find message filters you can tweak who can contact you.

Took me ages to realise it was an option when I joined up!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
41 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

It’s the sentiment that counts

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By *tephanjMan
41 weeks ago

Kettering

Yes already deleted one today it's getting very annoying

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
41 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I’m not interested in having a guy suck me off, but I just take it as a compliment and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I think it's nice that men don't discriminate with their revolting messages

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By *obilebottomMan
41 weeks ago

All over

It does look like that everybody has their cross to bear on this site.

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By *ros40Man
41 weeks ago

Bedford

Just a polite thanks but no thanks

Then block and or turn off men being able to message you

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I've been contacted by a few guys wanting to suck my cock who, according to their profile, are straight and looking for FF/MF couples and single women.

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By *apiomanMan
41 weeks ago

Shipley

I take it as a win that anyone wants to suck my cock. I still say no thanks or delete, but a win is a win, even if not the one I'm looking for!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"If you go to account and find message filters you can tweak who can contact you.

Took me ages to realise it was an option when I joined up! "

all sorted now didn’t even know how to do that thanks x

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By *obilebottomMan
41 weeks ago

All over

Glad I could help OP. I can see you managed it now to block guys and not ha e that worry. Enjoy your time om fab

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By *eroLondonMan
41 weeks ago

Covent Garden

I've never experienced this, thankfully, despite all my filters being open.

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By *ycanNightsMan
41 weeks ago

Workington

Nope. But I've got my filters set so this cannot happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I've never experienced this, thankfully, despite all my filters being open."

Message in bound!!

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By *heGateKeeperMan
41 weeks ago

Stratford

Huge problem. I find it’s easier to just stop saying no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"Glad I could help OP. I can see you managed it now to block guys and not ha e that worry. Enjoy your time om fab "

cheers

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Central

People are mostly not mutually compatible with most other people, whatever the gender. You get messages from people who you're not interested in - this is the same as most of us here.

Straight men also have sexual interaction with the same gender, so the only way to stop/do it is 100% in your hands. It's pointed out that you simply use your message filters to stop selected genders from contact with you.

It takes less time than it did to write the OP. Or have a different profile, if you still need engagement with men.

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By *erkshire8299Man
41 weeks ago

slough

I get more replies and views from men than females or m/f couples.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
41 weeks ago

Lingfield

Occasionally, a polite no usually suffices, if not a block. I keep my filters open though as there are a few male friends who I enjoy a chat with.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"any other men have problems with random guys asking to suck there cocks even though it states not looking for men and listed as straight?"

You can filter out guys to stop them doing that.

PS I know you don’t like guys but just wanted to say - hot profile photo

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
41 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"any other men have problems with random guys asking to suck there cocks even though it states not looking for men and listed as straight?"

No.

Just hundreds of single women' daily.

Bloody sex pests.........

rodl

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I get more replies and views from men than females or m/f couples."

Women and couples tend to use the setting that hides them from showing when they’ve viewed you.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
41 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m gonna stop offering unsolicited blowjobs if people don’t like it

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
41 weeks ago

London

It's the lack of women here

This site is

turning guys Bi.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
41 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I’m gonna stop offering unsolicited blowjobs if people don’t like it

What if I solicit one?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

"They can't message you if you have the not looking for men filter on. Are they breaking the enigma code?

They can unless you select blocking them from messaging - plenty of message us.

Mrs

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By *agnar73Man
41 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"It's the lack of women here

This site is

turning guys Bi.

Like a men’s prison

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Now and again. Not as many as the random women though.

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By *hunky GentMan
41 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I get a few men asking to suck my cock, even though my profile says I'm not Fab straight

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Trouble with turning that filter on is that other blokes who want to contact your for non BJ reasons can't

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By *ongandharderMan
41 weeks ago

Rotherham

Get tons on guys wanting my cock and I just say thanks and move on

I wish more women and couples wanted it instead

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By *heGateKeeperMan
41 weeks ago

Stratford

"Trouble with turning that filter on is that other blokes who want to contact your for non BJ reasons can't "

Like handies?

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By *eviant TogMan
41 weeks ago

Motherwell

"I think it's nice that men don't discriminate with their revolting messages

Is it really 'revolting' to offer someone oral sex or a sex site?

You might not want it, but I would say it wasto be pretty expected!

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Trouble with turning that filter on is that other blokes who want to contact your for non BJ reasons can't

Like handies?

Of course

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Maidstone

"I'll take anything cum and get it"

With that open attitude, my dear, surely the spelling should be "cum-n-gerrid" ?

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By *tylebender03Man
41 weeks ago

Manchester

It’s one thing on here , but blokes have come up to me at a bus stop lol

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By *obilebottomMan
41 weeks ago

All over

"It’s one thing on here , but blokes have come up to me at a bus stop lol"

Hahahahahahaha

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By *egoMan
41 weeks ago

Preston

I have, then blocked men.

Im a big hit with the TV/TS’s though, which i dont mind. They know how to talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I think it's nice that men don't discriminate with their revolting messages

Is it really 'revolting' to offer someone oral sex or a sex site?

You might not want it, but I would say it wasto be pretty expected!"

To offer it to men who've specified they're not wanting oral sex from a man? Uh, yeah. And I know what the messages are like from the kind of men who send sexualised messages. They're revolting.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Nope. Never received one

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By *uckypuppy007Woman
41 weeks ago

dublin

"I think it's nice that men don't discriminate with their revolting messages

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I think it's nice that men don't discriminate with their revolting messages

Is it really 'revolting' to offer someone oral sex or a sex site?

You might not want it, but I would say it wasto be pretty expected!

To offer it to men who've specified they're not wanting oral sex from a man? Uh, yeah. And I know what the messages are like from the kind of men who send sexualised messages. They're revolting.

Also. It's not a sex site. It's a swinger site. Clue in the name.

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By *irtydaddyreturnsMan
41 weeks ago

corby

Welcum here

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By *eviant TogMan
41 weeks ago

Motherwell

"I think it's nice that men don't discriminate with their revolting messages

Is it really 'revolting' to offer someone oral sex or a sex site?

You might not want it, but I would say it wasto be pretty expected!

To offer it to men who've specified they're not wanting oral sex from a man? Uh, yeah. And I know what the messages are like from the kind of men who send sexualised messages. They're revolting.

Personally I think that sounds bizarrely prudish to not expect sexualised messages on this site.

It's a swingers site. Sex defines Swinging.

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By *ip...Man
41 weeks ago

Wrexham

"any other men have problems with random guys asking to suck there cocks even though it states not looking for men and listed as straight?"

You can block single men from winking and messaging you.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
41 weeks ago

Reading

"any other men have problems with random guys asking to suck there cocks even though it states not looking for men and listed as straight?

No.

Just hundreds of single women' daily.

Bloody sex pests.........

rodl"

Sorry

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By *arcosaMan
41 weeks ago

London

Doesn't worry me in the slightest. I've had a few offers but I like to think of them as untaken opportunities.

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By *9XAYNOR69Man
41 weeks ago

Centralised he/him/his From the land of haribos

A balanced approach

In my experience It works the other way to.

Straight guys asking to meet for oral

The response I give is as long as you are comfortable with me being an older gay guy

No expectations no compromise no pressure strings nothing expected in return Genuine honest discreet respectful non judgemental.

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By *onny boy cMan
41 weeks ago

chorlton

I get it all the time, doesn't bother me at all, a quick text back saying no thanks seems to work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I just bloke men from messaging me good old filters

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
41 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Go to message settings and turn off men etc then you won't get messages

Why so many men don't know how to use this function is beyond me

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By *entBarryUKMan
41 weeks ago

Ashford

I have no problem with this at all

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By *orny-DJMan
41 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

No, because I have filters in place that prevent such messages

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Never sent an unsolicited blow job offer.

#standards

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By *owestoft ManMan
41 weeks ago

Lowestoft

lol

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By *onameyet2Man
41 weeks ago

chorley

"I've never experienced this, thankfully, despite all my filters being open."

I suspect it’s because you have no cock pics?

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By *heonlycunnilinguyMan
41 weeks ago

Yeovil

Didn't Richard Burton once say in a film, to Clint Eastwood, a hole, is a hole, is a hole

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By *andadbodMan
41 weeks ago

Liverpool

i get the odd one now and again but i just politely say no thanks, i don’t mind chatting with other guys as long as they’re not trying to initiate cyber sex, bores the tits off me that

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Go to message settings and turn off men etc then you won't get messages

Why so many men don't know how to use this function is beyond me "

But many men tell women to stop complaining about crappy messages and turn off our filters. It's ironic.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
41 weeks ago

Herts

"any other men have problems with random guys asking to suck there cocks even though it states not looking for men and listed as straight?"

The amount of sex I could get if I took up their offers would be insane. But yeah gets annoying but either ignore or polite thanks etc

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By *pdudeMan
41 weeks ago

newtown

All the time wouldn't be bad if they were women lol

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By *onny boy cMan
41 weeks ago

chorlton

"Didn't Richard Burton once say in a film, to Clint Eastwood, a hole, is a hole, is a hole

Haha funny I like that

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By *obajxMan
41 weeks ago

Cheshire

"They can't message you if you have the not looking for men filter on. Are they breaking the enigma code?

They can

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By *ink vixenCouple
41 weeks ago

Medway

Me thinks the lady doth protest too much.

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