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By *oberto7 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Greenock

Hi was just wondering if there is some sort of code or words !to use If you bumped into someone you know is on fab ! Instead of just blurting it out...Asking for a friend lol

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By *ensuallover1000Man
41 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Like a Masonic handshake sort of thing?

I think the code is the acronym, ‘FAF?’

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By *oberto7 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Greenock

Aye lol or a nod & a wink lol

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
41 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

If I'm just going about my daily business then the code is shut the fuck up.

J

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

41 weeks ago

East Sussex

We bumped in to a guy we used to meet recently. He'd previously told us that he'd be ok with us acknowledging him so we stopped to chat.

As far as we know there isn't a code word.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Fab and real life are two different life’s

They don’t mix or cross at all

Could think off nothing worse than someone comeing up to me in public when in daly life and saying hello stop for a chat or anything

If we meet before and you see me in normal day life a wink and a smile is all that’s need

I would suspect most will be the same

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
41 weeks ago

Manchester-ish


"We bumped in to a guy we used to meet recently. He'd previously told us that he'd be ok with us acknowledging him so we stopped to chat.

As far as we know there isn't a code word. "

That would be ok. I wouldn't ignore someone I actually know as long as the conversation was appropriate to the situation. It's very different to someone you don't know mentioning that they recognise you from fab though.

J

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By *aizyWoman
41 weeks ago

west midlands

Nudge nudge wink wink, should do the trick!

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I doubt anyone would recognise me solely by my headless profile pics randomly on the streets of London. If it’s someone that I’ve met a quick chat wouldn’t be frowned upon depending on the circumstances. If I’m out and it’s evident it’s a colleagues outing it would be weird for them to come over and start chatting, so context matters.

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By *ifemale32GGWoman
41 weeks ago

Telford


"We bumped in to a guy we used to meet recently. He'd previously told us that he'd be ok with us acknowledging him so we stopped to chat.

As far as we know there isn't a code word.

That would be ok. I wouldn't ignore someone I actually know as long as the conversation was appropriate to the situation. It's very different to someone you don't know mentioning that they recognise you from fab though.

J"

Absolutely! There’s someone I chat to at Chams that’s I know does the same parkrun as me and I’d happily run with them if the occasion arose. I don’t think they feel the same though.

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By *elix SightedMan
41 weeks ago

Cloud 8


"Hi was just wondering if there is some sort of code or words !to use If you bumped into someone you know is on fab ! Instead of just blurting it out...Asking for a friend lol"

Of course there is! You have to shout pineapple three times.

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By *lym4realCouple
41 weeks ago

plymouth

We've bumped into afew over the years from Fab whilst wondering around the metropolis where we live and used the no " Code" just a cheery hello and maybe a brief chat just like bumping into any other kind of associate ! so prefer not to though ...

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

41 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"If I'm just going about my daily business then the code is shut the fuck up.

J"

This 10000000000%

Unless I've arranged to meet someone if I'm spotted out then I'd expect to be ignored totally.

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By *ad NannaWoman
41 weeks ago

East London

You shout very loudly "ARE YOU ON THAT FABSWINGERS SEX SITE, I'M SURE I'VE SEEN YOU WITH YOUR TITS/COCK OUT?!!"

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By *ensuallover1000Man
41 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"Hi was just wondering if there is some sort of code or words !to use If you bumped into someone you know is on fab ! Instead of just blurting it out...Asking for a friend lol

Of course there is! You have to shout pineapple three times."

I’ve heard that if one stands in front of a mirror and says, ‘Pineapple Man’ five times, a fabber will appear (with a dildo in place of one of their hands)

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

You have to kick their left calf. If they respond by producing a boiled egg from their RIGHT pocket then you know they're legit.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

On here. Deleted messages, lay-by- cock out tits out,

Toilet - wanking. Club - everything out.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Be sure to stare at them from a distance for a while before approaching them, especially if they are with friends/family. Say “I know you” but don’t let them know where from straight away, let them stew a little before shouting as loud as you can “ah ha! Fabswingers! I’d recognise those tits from a mile away” then leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"You have to kick their left calf. If they respond by producing a boiled egg from their RIGHT pocket then you know they're legit."

I thought it was tea they were meant to produce.

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By *ellhungvweMan
41 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"If I'm just going about my daily business then the code is shut the fuck up.

J"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"If I'm just going about my daily business then the code is shut the fuck up.

J"

This! Last thing I need is for someone to see me and then ask "so how do you know him?" Erm

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"You have to kick their left calf. If they respond by producing a boiled egg from their RIGHT pocket then you know they're legit.

I thought it was tea they were meant to produce. "

Don't you dare

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By *oberto7 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Greenock

Few smart arses on here today ! Obviously if you where with someone else is No No

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

41 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Few smart arses on here today ! Obviously if you where with someone else is No No "

No.

If I'm alone I'd expect the same. Why do people think they have the right to approach someone in public?

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By *oberto7 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Greenock

Why do people want to shag strangers!!!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

41 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Why do people want to shag strangers!!!"

Engaging with someone online, and then potentially at an agreed time and place is completely different to randomly approaching someone going about their normal life.

If you don't understand that then it says a lot.

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By *oberto7 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Greenock

OK Boss

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By *oberto7 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Greenock

A few folk jumping to the wrong conclusion, I picked her up in my taxi & we where both being flirtatious, Instead of just coming out with..You on fab,That's why I was asking about code etc..Would never just approach someone on the street

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By *revaunanceCouple
41 weeks ago

Exeter

Not everyone wants to be recognised and have Fab and RL crossover. It could cause embarrassment and unecesary anxiety, not to mention it could backfire and end up with you being told to mind your own business in no uncertain terms.

You did the right thing by not saying anything.

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By *layfullsamMan
41 weeks ago

Solihull

You say “the quick brown fox jumps over the lazy dog”

Swingers reply the pineapple is behind the pampas grass

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By *batMan
41 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

If the flirting gets as far as oral sex, you’re good to mention Fab. If the other person is just in the same aisle at Tesco, probably best to wait.*

Gbat

*Unless they are naked and buying aubergines.

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By *oberto7 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Greenock


"Not everyone wants to be recognised and have Fab and RL crossover. It could cause embarrassment and unecesary anxiety, not to mention it could backfire and end up with you being told to mind your own business in no uncertain terms.

Yes I would never mention it

You did the right thing by not saying anything. "

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By *oberto7 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Greenock

Would never mention it

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By *oberto7 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Greenock

Some lady messaging me & abusing because of this post WTF lol & then blocks you ....

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
41 weeks ago

Coventry

Don't you know the secret hand shake?

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By *oberto7 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Greenock

Is it called the Hamshank....lol

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By *ellhungvweMan
41 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"A few folk jumping to the wrong conclusion, I picked her up in my taxi & we where both being flirtatious, Instead of just coming out with..You on fab,That's why I was asking about code etc..Would never just approach someone on the street "

You are driving a taxi and you think it might even be appropriate to mention fab to a single lady? Seriously???

Of all the places to be careful I would have thought that was very high up the list.

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By *ee VianteWoman
41 weeks ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Pampas grass pinned to your lapel.

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By *ee VianteWoman
41 weeks ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"A few folk jumping to the wrong conclusion, I picked her up in my taxi & we where both being flirtatious, Instead of just coming out with..You on fab,That's why I was asking about code etc..Would never just approach someone on the street "

What on Earth?

I'd strongly advise against asking random women going about their daily lives if they're on Fab, even if you think they're flirting with you.

(And btw, men are notorious for seeing flirting when women are just being polite, or even sometimes when we're actively uncomfortable or scared.)

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By *orny-DJMan
41 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea


"If I'm just going about my daily business then the code is shut the fuck up.

J"

Exactly this. You'll find the majority of people on here don't want to be approached when going about their daily lives.

It's called discretion.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
41 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"Few smart arses on here today ! Obviously if you where with someone else is No No "

It's a no regardless of whether they are with someone or not. I certainly wouldn't appreciate it

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By *ir SupremacyMan
41 weeks ago

Bolton

Bit of an enigma this one .

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By *heonlycunnilinguyMan
41 weeks ago

Yeovil


"Aye lol or a nod & a wink lol"

You forgot the nudge

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By *heonlycunnilinguyMan
41 weeks ago

Yeovil


"You shout very loudly "ARE YOU ON THAT FABSWINGERS SEX SITE, I'M SURE I'VE SEEN YOU WITH YOUR TITS/COCK OUT?!!""

Yep, this is the one. Go, Bad Nanna

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By *pdudeMan
41 weeks ago

newtown


"You shout very loudly "ARE YOU ON THAT FABSWINGERS SEX SITE, I'M SURE I'VE SEEN YOU WITH YOUR TITS/COCK OUT?!!"

Yep, this is the one. Go, Bad Nanna "

Not had much luck yet in the local morrisons yet with this yet

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By *oberto7 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Greenock

Doubt you'll have any luck mate !!!Weirdo

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By *batMan
41 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

It’s spelled “H U M O U R” in case you wanted to look it up.

Gbat

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

No, I don't think there is. I think if you want to hook up with someone, there's no need to know if they're on Fab or not while you're in public. If in private, ask.

If you meet in public and there are people who want to know how you know each other, this is why God invented lying. Friend of a friend, that sort of thing.

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