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"Last DM I sent to a single dude he said he wasn't looking to fuck blimps and we should consider dieting/unaliving ourselves. So it could be worse champ, you are doing alright." I'll never understand why some people choose to use their one life to be vile and cruel. | |||
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"A few days ago, I put my big boy pants on and did the rare thing of sending a DM. It wasn't prize winning literature but it was pleasant. Today I got deleted & blocked. I have no Ill feeling towards them because there is no obligation to engage in conversation but: Confidence knocked. Big boy pants neatly folded & back in the cupboard " Dude, you look hot with kick ass tattoos. Not everyone will fancy you. Some may block. But there will be a reply to your messages out there somewhere | |||
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"I see getting blocked as a small victory, it's my fetish. If I don't get blocked at least 8 times per week......then I've failed. I light a candle each time I'm blocked. It's actually quite therapeutic " Oh, buy cake candles, everytime you get blocked you get to blow out a candle and eat a cupcake! | |||
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"Last DM I sent to a single dude he said he wasn't looking to fuck blimps and we should consider dieting/unaliving ourselves. So it could be worse champ, you are doing alright. I'll never understand why some people choose to use their one life to be vile and cruel. " Still pops up on the "looked at you" page lol | |||
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"I see getting blocked as a small victory, it's my fetish. If I don't get blocked at least 8 times per week......then I've failed. I light a candle each time I'm blocked. It's actually quite therapeutic Oh, buy cake candles, everytime you get blocked you get to blow out a candle and eat a cupcake!" Daizy stop trying to turn me into a melt do you know how many cupcakes I'd have to eat | |||
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"Maybe you just didn't fit what they were looking for. Blocking is just a filter like any other, it's not always as harsh as it comes across. Don't let it put you off OP. " Definitely this. Blocking isn't (always) a hostile act, merely a useful way of trimming down unwanted contact. It probably just means you're not what they're looking for. Unless of course you sent a zoomed in close up photo of your sosig, in which case I fully support blocking action occuring | |||
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"I see getting blocked as a small victory, it's my fetish. If I don't get blocked at least 8 times per week......then I've failed. I light a candle each time I'm blocked. It's actually quite therapeutic Oh, buy cake candles, everytime you get blocked you get to blow out a candle and eat a cupcake!" This is a great idea! But would I go out of my way to get myself blocked? | |||
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"I see getting blocked as a small victory, it's my fetish. If I don't get blocked at least 8 times per week......then I've failed. I light a candle each time I'm blocked. It's actually quite therapeutic Oh, buy cake candles, everytime you get blocked you get to blow out a candle and eat a cupcake! Daizy stop trying to turn me into a melt do you know how many cupcakes I'd have to eat " I'm guessing a great many?! | |||
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"I see getting blocked as a small victory, it's my fetish. If I don't get blocked at least 8 times per week......then I've failed. I light a candle each time I'm blocked. It's actually quite therapeutic Oh, buy cake candles, everytime you get blocked you get to blow out a candle and eat a cupcake! Daizy stop trying to turn me into a melt do you know how many cupcakes I'd have to eat I'm guessing a great many?! " I'd need to go to Costco | |||
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"I see getting blocked as a small victory, it's my fetish. If I don't get blocked at least 8 times per week......then I've failed. I light a candle each time I'm blocked. It's actually quite therapeutic Oh, buy cake candles, everytime you get blocked you get to blow out a candle and eat a cupcake! This is a great idea! But would I go out of my way to get myself blocked? " I would tbh, I'd get myself blocked for a doughnut tho! | |||
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"I see getting blocked as a small victory, it's my fetish. If I don't get blocked at least 8 times per week......then I've failed. I light a candle each time I'm blocked. It's actually quite therapeutic Oh, buy cake candles, everytime you get blocked you get to blow out a candle and eat a cupcake! Daizy stop trying to turn me into a melt do you know how many cupcakes I'd have to eat I'm guessing a great many?! I'd need to go to Costco " Don't forget the birthday candles!! | |||
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"I see getting blocked as a small victory, it's my fetish. If I don't get blocked at least 8 times per week......then I've failed. I light a candle each time I'm blocked. It's actually quite therapeutic Oh, buy cake candles, everytime you get blocked you get to blow out a candle and eat a cupcake! This is a great idea! But would I go out of my way to get myself blocked? I would tbh, I'd get myself blocked for a doughnut tho! " Doughnuts!! I’m so going to bring doughnuts! | |||
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"A few days ago, I put my big boy pants on and did the rare thing of sending a DM. It wasn't prize winning literature but it was pleasant. Today I got deleted & blocked. I have no Ill feeling towards them because there is no obligation to engage in conversation but: Confidence knocked. Big boy pants neatly folded & back in the cupboard " Fully understand op. It happened to me today just talking and then block. | |||
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"Maybe you just didn't fit what they were looking for. Blocking is just a filter like any other, it's not always as harsh as it comes across. Don't let it put you off OP. Definitely this. Blocking isn't (always) a hostile act, merely a useful way of trimming down unwanted contact. It probably just means you're not what they're looking for. Unless of course you sent a zoomed in close up photo of your sosig, in which case I fully support blocking action occuring " Ha! Sosig. | |||
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"I see getting blocked as a small victory, it's my fetish. If I don't get blocked at least 8 times per week......then I've failed. I light a candle each time I'm blocked. It's actually quite therapeutic Oh, buy cake candles, everytime you get blocked you get to blow out a candle and eat a cupcake!" Jesus, I wondered why I was putting on weight | |||
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"Do not give up OP. Walk with your head held high, aloft and with assurity. Think of yourself as the undiscovered country, for your ship will soon come in. Pay no attention to these capricious creatures who delete and block on a whim with no inkling of what they are missing out on. They leave a slipstream of broken hearts in their wake. Wenches." Beautifully said | |||
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"A few days ago, I put my big boy pants on and did the rare thing of sending a DM. It wasn't prize winning literature but it was pleasant. Today I got deleted & blocked. I have no Ill feeling towards them because there is no obligation to engage in conversation but: Confidence knocked. Big boy pants neatly folded & back in the cupboard " You sent one DM and you feel rejected? Try sending a dozen, get rejected by 11 people/couples, get chatting with one, get rejected... rinse, repeat for a couple of months while trying to write a witty profile and message. | |||
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"A few days ago, I put my big boy pants on and did the rare thing of sending a DM. It wasn't prize winning literature but it was pleasant. Today I got deleted & blocked. I have no Ill feeling towards them because there is no obligation to engage in conversation but: Confidence knocked. Big boy pants neatly folded & back in the cupboard · You sent one DM and you feel rejected? Try sending a dozen, get rejected by 11 people/couples, get chatting with one, get rejected... rinse, repeat for a couple of months while trying to write a witty profile and message." • Is this ^ your experience? | |||
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"A few days ago, I put my big boy pants on and did the rare thing of sending a DM. It wasn't prize winning literature but it was pleasant. Today I got deleted & blocked. I have no Ill feeling towards them because there is no obligation to engage in conversation but: Confidence knocked. Big boy pants neatly folded & back in the cupboard · You sent one DM and you feel rejected? Try sending a dozen, get rejected by 11 people/couples, get chatting with one, get rejected... rinse, repeat for a couple of months while trying to write a witty profile and message. • Is this ^ your experience?" I mostly get ignored (message unread), deleted on first message, deleted after sending face pic... it's just what it is. | |||
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"A few days ago, I put my big boy pants on and did the rare thing of sending a DM. It wasn't prize winning literature but it was pleasant. Today I got deleted & blocked. I have no Ill feeling towards them because there is no obligation to engage in conversation but: Confidence knocked. Big boy pants neatly folded & back in the cupboard · You sent one DM and you feel rejected? Try sending a dozen, get rejected by 11 people/couples, get chatting with one, get rejected... rinse, repeat for a couple of months while trying to write a witty profile and message. • Is this ^ your experience? · I mostly get ignored (message unread), deleted on first message, deleted after sending face pic... it's just what it is." • Sorry to hear that. | |||
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"Trust me. An early block with no reply is probably a lot better than a long and in depth message exchange, followed by an instant block the second you send a face pic. *not that that's ever happened to me **much ***no, honestly....... ****#whoamikidding " Recently I got excited by the conversation with someone who not only was serious about meeting, but once she sent me her photo I recognized her and knew from seeing her she is for real (once you see a collared sub shooping you know she is serious). We even occasionally shop at the same Boots. Alas, as soon as she saw my photo it was an instant block. I see it as part of the game. I know women get flooded with messages so it's about efficiently managing the inbox rather than being nasty. | |||
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