FabSwingers.com forum: The Ideal Date

By *sWyld OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm taking myself to Paris next weekend. I've planned the perfect Saturday evening for me. I've bought a gorgeous outfit (that's very OTT)

I'll take myself for dinner and then I'm going to Hemingways for cocktails before being picked up for a private night tour in a vintage car.

I'm very very excited as I've never done anything for me like this before.

To some it might be a bit sad but to me, it's empowering.

Do you wait for others to make it happen or do you date yourself?

And what does your ideal date night look like?

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By *olfandtazCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't see anything wrong in going away by yourself, it is empowerment at its finest, I've done it myself but I went to Amsterdam and really enjoyed myself

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By *77philMan
over a year ago

Bath

Wow, sounds great...I'm excited for you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this sounds like a brave and inspiring thing to do.

Enjoy what will be an amazing experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I date myself weekly.

Sometimes it's just coffee and a walk. Sometimes it's dinner and a movie.

I have dated myself for years

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By *mmaleiaWoman
over a year ago

Trowbridge

If I’d wait for others, I’d not get anything done, do everything by myself, if somebody wants to join me, great!

Your trip sounds amazing

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

"I'm taking myself to Paris next weekend. I've planned the perfect Saturday evening for me. I've bought a gorgeous outfit (that's very OTT)

I'll take myself for dinner and then I'm going to Hemingways for cocktails before being picked up for a private night tour in a vintage car.

I'm very very excited as I've never done anything for me like this before.

To some it might be a bit sad but to me, it's empowering.

Do you wait for others to make it happen or do you date yourself?

And what does your ideal date night look like?

I love going to France. That sounds amazing. I hope you enjoy

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By *sWyld OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I date myself weekly.

Sometimes it's just coffee and a walk. Sometimes it's dinner and a movie.

I have dated myself for years"

Love this. Cinema alone is awesome. I take myself places often too. The beach for dinner is my plan tonight!

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By *sWyld OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"If I’d wait for others, I’d not get anything done, do everything by myself, if somebody wants to join me, great!

Your trip sounds amazing "

Exactly how I feel!

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Sounds amazing and it is along as you are happy isn’t it?! Xx

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Swanage

"I'm taking myself to Paris next weekend. I've planned the perfect Saturday evening for me. I've bought a gorgeous outfit (that's very OTT)

I'll take myself for dinner and then I'm going to Hemingways for cocktails before being picked up for a private night tour in a vintage car.

I'm very very excited as I've never done anything for me like this before.

To some it might be a bit sad but to me, it's empowering.

Do you wait for others to make it happen or do you date yourself?

And what does your ideal date night look like?

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i regularly dress up and go out alone

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Have a truly wonderful time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wooohooo go on you well done wonderful hopefully you have a grate time

for me there’s so meny perfect date senarios

One off them would be

start the day off with a spot off me and then shopping

Me picking they outfit out and then picking my outfit out for the night

Then off for some mid day wine and giggles as we chat as we get lost in each others eyes

Fallowed by back to the hotel room and get changed in to or evening outfits

And off for a spot off dinner fallowed by a lovely walk and talk across the beach or something

Then wisk back to the hotel room with a lovely bottle off champagne and well the rest I will not tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Do you wait for others to make it happen or do you date yourself?

And what does your ideal date night look like?

I’ve started doing things in my own, I had to, and I enjoy it. But I did ask someone for a date. …

And she said yes.

I just see it like this, I like someone, and if I sit and wait and she doesn’t know I like her or tell her, she might never know or find out. So, I had to do it.

My ideal date night is food and drink somewhere and hopefully have a laugh. If we left and wanted to see each other again… that would be wonderful.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Bradford and Stockport

I often have a date night alone on the sofa, just me and south korean netflix...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm taking myself to Paris next weekend. I've planned the perfect Saturday evening for me. I've bought a gorgeous outfit (that's very OTT)

I'll take myself for dinner and then I'm going to Hemingways for cocktails before being picked up for a private night tour in a vintage car.

I'm very very excited as I've never done anything for me like this before.

To some it might be a bit sad but to me, it's empowering.

Do you wait for others to make it happen or do you date yourself?

And what does your ideal date night look like?

This sounds wonderful! I hope you have a great evening, and what a superb plan!

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I admire this quality in people, yet I don't do it myself too often. I think my life has been such that there hasn't been much opportunity; hence, I am not accustomed to it.

Sounds like a wonderful day you are treating yourself to.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Sounds amazing, I'm incredibly jealous. Hope you have a splendid time.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

That sounds really cool. Being happy travelling and adventuring alone is so liberating.

I love going on dates but it’s often a compromise - not many women want to Wildcamp in a desert ghosttown or go backpacking in Syrian-Kurdistan

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

That sounds absolutely amazing! Have the best time!!

My ideal night is just us, away from home, not parenting or working just us, that can be a nice drive somewhere, a meal out I don't really care to be honest, a few months back we drove in the storm and sat at the seafront and it was absolutely perfect.

Mrs

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By *enk15Man
over a year ago

Evesham

Jeez, I hope you will put out for yourself after all that effort!

Hope you have a great time

I'm easily pleased. My perfect date would be plant shopping, followed by hottub and a night of co-op gaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh it sounds spendid!

I'm taking myself to Brighton, going for lunch (or maybe dinner) at a restaurant I've wanted to try forever (but is soooooo far away) and will then walk on the beach with a coffee... Bliss!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I agree very empowering.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Swanage

"Oh it sounds spendid!

I'm taking myself to Brighton, going for lunch (or maybe dinner) at a restaurant I've wanted to try forever (but is soooooo far away) and will then walk on the beach with a coffee... Bliss! "
love your shoes

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Swanage

The devon hills a quiet country pub down a lane that your wing mirrors catch the bush on both sides a cascading river a warm homely open fire and a pint of your favourite tipple as the landlord chats away in his Devonshire drawl

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I do that kind of things almost every week in different cities around the world

No one is going to love us more than our own selves, so why not?

Enjoy your weekend away and get some photos taken in your gorgeous outfit

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

That sounds wonderful! I hope you have the most incredible time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alone time walking in the Lake District or down in Dartmoor is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I date myself. This Saturday I’m going to the royal academy of arts to see an exhibition I saw on my commute. One of my friends is now coming but I originally booked for myself.

Other times I’ve gone to exhibitions, then markets then enjoyed a glass of red wine somewhere on my own.

I do enjoy dating myself. But of course I’d prefer to have sex and the end which is the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh it sounds spendid!

Thank you

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm taking myself to Paris next weekend. I've planned the perfect Saturday evening for me. I've bought a gorgeous outfit (that's very OTT)

I'll take myself for dinner and then I'm going to Hemingways for cocktails before being picked up for a private night tour in a vintage car.

I'm very very excited as I've never done anything for me like this before.

To some it might be a bit sad but to me, it's empowering.

Do you wait for others to make it happen or do you date yourself?

And what does your ideal date night look like?

This is just perfection! Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise, besides, who will take you in such a perfect date?

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

This sounds awesome, have the most amazing time

I’m happy dating myself and do little things for me regularly and I’ll continue to do so

Just need to plan some adventures now

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Swanage

"Oh it sounds spendid!

Thank you

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Do you walk like john wayne in them?

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

Perfect date is unhurried , no preconceptions of how it might go, relaxed conversation, comfortable silences, nice surroundings , informality, connection, drinks, food …. Nothing fancy or complicated

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

"This sounds awesome, have the most amazing time

I’m happy dating myself and do little things for me regularly and I’ll continue to do so

Just need to plan some adventures now

There’s a maze in my pants you’re invited to explore

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

That's sounds lovely.

I'm scared to travel far on my own, so I'd never do anything like that.

I've thought about going on an Uberboat trip on my own, up and down the Thames. I could read a book as I've seen the buildings along the banks many times already.

I'd buy a drink and a packet of crisps and enjoy the ride.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Brilliant

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