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"We've not used it but it's got to be worth a try! Or train to Birmingham and come to UpTheBrum?
J"Aww I spotted a few gorgeous familiar faces are going to that! I'm working Sunday morning sadly! | |||
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"You posting a meet would have a very different impact on site traffic than if I did. " I do worry for my inbox, I don't say that in a big headed way, I just think I'd get a lot of nonsense! | |||
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"It has never worked for me. But I still try everytime. It’s like opening the fridge hoping food will magically appear. It never does. But you keep opening it. " I feel like that with all dating apps! | |||
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"It has never worked for me. But I still try everytime. It’s like opening the fridge hoping food will magically appear. It never does. But you keep opening it. " Literally the perfect analogy | |||
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Second time, we hardly got any replies.
We have just put a meet up for this Saturday as at a loose end ourselves, so will let you know!
We’ve stipulated no cock pics as profiles and so that eliminates about 80% of profiles round here
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"I've got a very rare Saturday evening off work and I'd love to do something. My friends are all coupled up or have young families so last minute plans don't work for them. I'd love drinks and chat a social evening with someone interesting and fun so contemplated using this feature. Has it worked well for anyone or is it actually a bit of a waste of time? X" I use the meet me sometimes but sounds like you’re after a social/date. I would not use it for that. Look who’s near and approach someone you like. Make sure they have decent verification xx | |||
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"Only done it once, and yes it did!" Thats positive! I need more information | |||
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"We've not used it but it's got to be worth a try! Or train to Birmingham and come to UpTheBrum?
J"Ummm we responded to one though | |||
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"We’ve used it a couple of times with mixed results - the first time we met a gent who spoke Italian (C is fluent too) and they spoke in Italian throughout as we both massaged her. It was hot AF
Second time, we hardly got any replies.
We have just put a meet up for this Saturday as at a loose end ourselves, so will let you know!
We’ve stipulated no cock pics as profiles and so that eliminates about 80% of profiles round here
K"Yes but I bet you still get lots of cock pic profiles! Good to hear of another positive experience. | |||
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"It has never worked for me. But I still try everytime. It’s like opening the fridge hoping food will magically appear. It never does. But you keep opening it. "  | |||
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"I've got a very rare Saturday evening off work and I'd love to do something. My friends are all coupled up or have young families so last minute plans don't work for them. I'd love drinks and chat a social evening with someone interesting and fun so contemplated using this feature. Has it worked well for anyone or is it actually a bit of a waste of time? X I use the meet me sometimes but sounds like you’re after a social/date. I would not use it for that. Look who’s near and approach someone you like. Make sure they have decent verification xx " Yes I would quite like "the date experience." I suppose my thinking is that we have time to chat a bit before Saturday to ensure it won't be awful for us both. Years ago I once set my status to lonely in my hotel room and I ended up having an epic night (and a few others with him over the years) . I'm not that brave these days! | |||
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"We've not used it but it's got to be worth a try! Or train to Birmingham and come to UpTheBrum?
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"I reckon you’ll just get shit loads more random unsuitable people messaging, making even more work for your inbox. Even as a bloke I always found it easier to meet if I was chatting with less people. You can focus and build a connection. Potential dates will always know if you’re messaging hundreds of other people. I guess it depends what kind of meet you’re aiming for? "I think you're probably right! Does anyone want to just set something up for me and save me the trouble? | |||
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"Only done it once, and yes it did!" Ha, not a lot to tell really. I was let down going to a club by a friend. My car was out of action so ruled that out and I was dressed ready to go... I didn't want to waste that effort. So I put up a 'Meet Me'. Since they're so rare any female will garner lots of responses I'd imagine. I filtered through them, sent a few messages to one person and met up later that evening. I'd do it again, I prefer spontaneous rather than planning anything too long winded! | |||
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"Only done it once, and yes it did! Ha, not a lot to tell really. I was let down going to a club by a friend. My car was out of action so ruled that out and I was dressed ready to go... I didn't want to waste that effort. So I put up a 'Meet Me'. Since they're so rare any female will garner lots of responses I'd imagine. I filtered through them, sent a few messages to one person and met up later that evening. I'd do it again, I prefer spontaneous rather than planning anything too long winded!" Good on you!  | |||
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"I've never actually used it but have often thought about it. Maybe I'll try it this weekend too "Go for it.. We can compare notes after. Although I already know yours will be far more successful than mine | |||
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"I've got a very rare Saturday evening off work and I'd love to do something. My friends are all coupled up or have young families so last minute plans don't work for them. I'd love drinks and chat a social evening with someone interesting and fun so contemplated using this feature. Has it worked well for anyone or is it actually a bit of a waste of time? X I use the meet me sometimes but sounds like you’re after a social/date. I would not use it for that. Look who’s near and approach someone you like. Make sure they have decent verification xx Yes I would quite like "the date experience." I suppose my thinking is that we have time to chat a bit before Saturday to ensure it won't be awful for us both. Years ago I once set my status to lonely in my hotel room and I ended up having an epic night (and a few others with him over the years) . I'm not that brave these days! " Fortune favours the brave! What’s the worst that can happen - a bigger than normal inbox for a few days. Or look at meets already set up in your area for this weekend and see if any of those are intriguing. We haven’t had any dick pics profiles yet but Saturday night does seperate the single guys from the ‘single’ guys | |||
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"I've got a very rare Saturday evening off work and I'd love to do something. My friends are all coupled up or have young families so last minute plans don't work for them. I'd love drinks and chat a social evening with someone interesting and fun so contemplated using this feature. Has it worked well for anyone or is it actually a bit of a waste of time? X I use the meet me sometimes but sounds like you’re after a social/date. I would not use it for that. Look who’s near and approach someone you like. Make sure they have decent verification xx Yes I would quite like "the date experience." I suppose my thinking is that we have time to chat a bit before Saturday to ensure it won't be awful for us both. Years ago I once set my status to lonely in my hotel room and I ended up having an epic night (and a few others with him over the years) . I'm not that brave these days! Fortune favours the brave! What’s the worst that can happen - a bigger than normal inbox for a few days. Or look at meets already set up in your area for this weekend and see if any of those are intriguing. We haven’t had any dick pics profiles yet but Saturday night does seperate the single guys from the ‘single’ guys "Yes, that was my thinking too. X | |||
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"Take yourself on a date. Some browsing in antique shops, a few books, lunch, maybe an extra coffee, then a nice walk. All without having to learn things, remember things, or explain your entire backstory to someone. " I'm actually doing that the following weekend. I'm taking myself for a weekend in Paris | |||
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"Nope, never, I reckon it probably works for single fems and couples but as a single bloke it is a complete waste of time. " I think it's very much a numbers game. And while single women or couple might get more responses, there's still quite a high chance I'll be sat alone in my pj's watching Netflix | |||
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"Take yourself on a date. Some browsing in antique shops, a few books, lunch, maybe an extra coffee, then a nice walk. All without having to learn things, remember things, or explain your entire backstory to someone. I'm actually doing that the following weekend. I'm taking myself for a weekend in Paris "Yay! Enjoy!! | |||
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"I've got a very rare Saturday evening off work and I'd love to do something. My friends are all coupled up or have young families so last minute plans don't work for them. I'd love drinks and chat a social evening with someone interesting and fun so contemplated using this feature. Has it worked well for anyone or is it actually a bit of a waste of time? X" It works for us but sadly they are local people who like local things 
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"We've not used it but it's got to be worth a try! Or train to Birmingham and come to UpTheBrum?
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Ummm we responded to one though
Did it go well? "The poster stood us up .. And we were a duo rather than a foursome | |||
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"I've got a very rare Saturday evening off work and I'd love to do something. My friends are all coupled up or have young families so last minute plans don't work for them. I'd love drinks and chat a social evening with someone interesting and fun so contemplated using this feature. Has it worked well for anyone or is it actually a bit of a waste of time? X" Why don't you take a chance and message someone from here to see would they be interested in a social. At least that way you have more control over who gets in touch with you. | |||
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"I've got a very rare Saturday evening off work and I'd love to do something. My friends are all coupled up or have young families so last minute plans don't work for them. I'd love drinks and chat a social evening with someone interesting and fun so contemplated using this feature. Has it worked well for anyone or is it actually a bit of a waste of time? X" 300+ odd blokes will respond and maybe, just maybe one might turn up | |||
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"I've got a very rare Saturday evening off work and I'd love to do something. My friends are all coupled up or have young families so last minute plans don't work for them. I'd love drinks and chat a social evening with someone interesting and fun so contemplated using this feature. Has it worked well for anyone or is it actually a bit of a waste of time? X Why don't you take a chance and message someone from here to see would they be interested in a social. At least that way you have more control over who gets in touch with you. " If only people weren't so far away! | |||
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"I've got a very rare Saturday evening off work and I'd love to do something. My friends are all coupled up or have young families so last minute plans don't work for them. I'd love drinks and chat a social evening with someone interesting and fun so contemplated using this feature. Has it worked well for anyone or is it actually a bit of a waste of time? X 300+ odd blokes will respond and maybe, just maybe one might turn up" Thats how i picture it and a big waste of time | |||
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"It has worked for me a few times over the years. Managed a couple of socials and even a cheeky play meet or two. But not recently… " Good to hear! | |||
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"Nope, never, I reckon it probably works for single fems and couples but as a single bloke it is a complete waste of time. I think it's very much a numbers game. And while single women or couple might get more responses, there's still quite a high chance I'll be sat alone in my pj's watching Netflix " Some crazy folk in Edinburgh not taking you up on the offer… * looks to see how long it takes to drive to Edinburgh * | |||
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"We've not used it but it's got to be worth a try! Or train to Birmingham and come to UpTheBrum?
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Ummm we responded to one though "And it worked for us.  Sort of.
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"I've got a very rare Saturday evening off work and I'd love to do something. My friends are all coupled up or have young families so last minute plans don't work for them. I'd love drinks and chat a social evening with someone interesting and fun so contemplated using this feature. Has it worked well for anyone or is it actually a bit of a waste of time? X" get a plane to exeter and I'll pick you up | |||
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"My friend met her current FWB posting on meet me. " Thats a success story. | |||
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"Sometimes good. Most of the time, it doesn’t lead to anything but maybe that’s just for me. " I expect this will be my experience | |||
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"Never used it. Would I. Probably not for the rude vile messages.. Wanna fuck. I know how you feel. Hope you find that 'date' needle in haystack on here. "I've cleared my inbox especially.. Now we wait. | |||
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"Never used it. Would I. Probably not for the rude vile messages.. Wanna fuck. I know how you feel. Hope you find that 'date' needle in haystack on here.
I've cleared my inbox especially..
Now we wait.
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"It has never worked for me. But I still try everytime. It’s like opening the fridge hoping food will magically appear. It never does. But you keep opening it. I feel like that with all dating apps! " Have you tried my inbox? I’ve heard good things about it | |||
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"It has never worked for me. But I still try everytime. It’s like opening the fridge hoping food will magically appear. It never does. But you keep opening it. I feel like that with all dating apps! Have you tried my inbox? I’ve heard good things about it" I would my lovely but you have me blocked! P | |||
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"It has never worked for me. But I still try everytime. It’s like opening the fridge hoping food will magically appear. It never does. But you keep opening it. I feel like that with all dating apps! Have you tried my inbox? I’ve heard good things about it I would my lovely but you have me blocked! P" Get in there. So I can get in yo- 
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"I find that most people expect more than a social, despite what you ask for! Especially if it's evening/night. " Managing expectations is vital | |||
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"It has never worked for me. But I still try everytime. It’s like opening the fridge hoping food will magically appear. It never does. But you keep opening it. I feel like that with all dating apps! Have you tried my inbox? I’ve heard good things about it I would my lovely but you have me blocked! P Get in there. So I can get in yo-
Sorry that was uncharacteristic "Never apologise for being an incorrigible flirt...you'd never stop if you didn't I have missed you my dear P | |||
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"It has never worked for me. But I still try everytime. It’s like opening the fridge hoping food will magically appear. It never does. But you keep opening it. I feel like that with all dating apps! Have you tried my inbox? I’ve heard good things about it I would my lovely but you have me blocked! P Get in there. So I can get in yo-
Sorry that was uncharacteristic
Never apologise for being an incorrigible flirt...you'd never stop if you didn't
I have missed you my dear
P"And I you! What with life and my disappearing acts!  | |||
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 but you may get enough from reasonable users, who've filtered themselves as wanting what you're offering, with a good match. Definitely worth a try | |||
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Good luck op, I’ve replied in the past to people’s requests, I think you’ll get interest I’m sure, even if you get to talking to new people.  | |||
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"I've got a very rare Saturday evening off work and I'd love to do something. My friends are all coupled up or have young families so last minute plans don't work for them. I'd love drinks and chat a social evening with someone interesting and fun so contemplated using this feature. Has it worked well for anyone or is it actually a bit of a waste of time? X" Why don't you go to the Edinburgh social on Saturday to chat to people. | |||
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"I've got a very rare Saturday evening off work and I'd love to do something. My friends are all coupled up or have young families so last minute plans don't work for them. I'd love drinks and chat a social evening with someone interesting and fun so contemplated using this feature. Has it worked well for anyone or is it actually a bit of a waste of time? X Why don't you go to the Edinburgh social on Saturday to chat to people." Actually this ^ | |||
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"Update... No replies so far " I would meet you for a social, but you are sooo far away. Fancy a dinner in Reading? I'll go all out and take you to nandos | |||
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I have no doubts at all, that any single woman in here, will be hiding her profile pretty soon after listing a 'Meet me'.... | |||
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"If there is a social going in Edinburgh on that same date you should go! "It's a social in a swingers club. It's not my thing. | |||
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"I've never actually used it but have often thought about it. Maybe I'll try it this weekend too
Go for it.. We can compare notes after. Although I already know yours will be far more successful than mine "Oh it definitely wouldn't - I've not met anyone off here in over a year unless I'm at an organised group social | |||
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