FabSwingers.com forum: Wolf whistles

By *enrydarren OP Man
41 weeks ago

Harrow Weald

Do women get upset over this, I know you can’t do it now but is it not a compliment?

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By *eneralKenobiMan
41 weeks ago

North Angus

If I were female and was wolf whistled at I’d be pissed off. I’m no a dog

To be fair anyone whistling at me gets a dirty look as, well… I’m not a dog

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

It's just so chavy, it's not hot, nor a compliment some grown ass man randomly whistling that would probably shit him self if she turned round and said come on then let's go.

Mrs

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By *ensuallover1000Man
41 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I find it decidedly uncouth.

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By *ellinever70Woman
41 weeks ago

Ayrshire

No, it's not a compliment

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
41 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Ah yes. The ultimate compliment.

"You look like a viable orifice." Without the rigmarole of using actual human words.

It just doesn't get any more complimentary

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
41 weeks ago

Reading

Not hot.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
41 weeks ago

your head

No, it's not.

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By *s2pervsCouple
41 weeks ago

Truro

Yes they do and for good reason. No it isn't.

Mr. X

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I find men only do this when they are in a large group of their friends to get a reaction out of them and make the woman feel uncomfortable.

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By *enrydarren OP Man
41 weeks ago

Harrow Weald

Fair enough. Was watching a program on flix it was based in the 90’s and men saw women and wolf whistled

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By *icecouple561Couple
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41 weeks ago

East Sussex

Until you've walked alone past a group of wolf whistling builders I don't think you'll ever understand how it can make a woman feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Why can’t you do it?

I think the answer to that will give you the answer to your question OP.

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By *illy IdolMan
41 weeks ago

Midlands

"Why can’t you do it?

I think the answer to that will give you the answer to your question OP. "

He cannot whistle

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By *icecouple561Couple
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41 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Fair enough. Was watching a program on flix it was based in the 90’s and men saw women and wolf whistled "

The nineties was a looong time ago though

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Why is it called a wolf whistle?

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Until you've walked alone past a group of wolf whistling builders I don't think you'll ever understand how it can make a woman feel. "

100% this.. ^^^ it can be intimidating

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

It's not a compliment, it's an imposition on someone's personal space and sense of security. It's rude and it objectifies the person it's aimed at. In their mind, on some level, they perceive that they've been identified as a target of some sort, and all sorts of instinctive fight or fight reflexes are activated. That's not a nice feeling.

Why do so many men just not get this?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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41 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Why is it called a wolf whistle? "

Because predatory males were often labelled a 'wolf'.

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By *damxxMan
41 weeks ago

London

Completly get it and see how it could be intimidating to some but on one occasion i was walking down the street and a load of builders whistled to a women that was walking in front of me. To my suprise she turned around and flashed her tits at them!! Not only did it suprise me but them too! I guess some may like it?!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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41 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Completly get it and see how it could be intimidating to some but on one occasion i was walking down the street and a load of builders whistled to a women that was walking in front of me. To my suprise she turned around and flashed her tits at them!! Not only did it suprise me but them too! I guess some may like it?! "

Yes some women do like it, the problem is that the men doing it can't tell that.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
41 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

"Ah yes. The ultimate compliment.

"You look like a viable orifice." Without the rigmarole of using actual human words.

It just doesn't get any more complimentary

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Why is it called a wolf whistle?

Because predatory males were often labelled a 'wolf'. "

Just a big Yorkie really

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By *cott14Man
41 weeks ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

I can’t wolf whistle - I sound like an ahsmatic seal when I try

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I can’t wolf whistle - I sound like an ahsmatic seal when I try

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Someone did it to me quite recently, my ego liked it. I need to learn to see the negative sides of things more I think.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"I can’t wolf whistle - I sound like an ahsmatic seal when I try

x "

I've got a mental image of you slapping your arms together, your head back, going "urhh urhh urhh" as a woman walks past!

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By *cott14Man
41 weeks ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

"I can’t wolf whistle - I sound like an ahsmatic seal when I try

I've got a mental image of you slapping your arms together, your head back, going "urhh urhh urhh" as a woman walks past!

Isn’t that foreplay ?

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"I can’t wolf whistle - I sound like an ahsmatic seal when I try

I've got a mental image of you slapping your arms together, your head back, going "urhh urhh urhh" as a woman walks past!

Isn’t that foreplay ?

Maybe on your ice floe...

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By *otSoPoshWoman
41 weeks ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Ah yes. The ultimate compliment.

"You look like a viable orifice." Without the rigmarole of using actual human words.

It just doesn't get any more complimentary

Those actual words are such an aphrodisiac though

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
41 weeks ago

Cheshire

I can’t remember a time I’ve been around other men and one of them has wolf whistled at anyone. I just don’t think it’s done anymore.

However in the gay village in Manchester (last July I remember as it was my Birthday) I did have someone wolf whistle at me. Not sure if it was a compliment or sarcastic one, I’ll take it as a compliment.

I just won’t condone it in real life.

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

When I was younger it felt like a threat. Like I was being hunted. Not, you're attractive, but I can have you if I want to because I'm such a big man (as others have said, it's a thing men tend to do in front of their friends).

I'm very glad to be reaching a point in my life where I'm largely invisible. I don't particularly care if someone in the street finds me attractive, I've got shit to do - and if they do find me attractive, there are less demeaning ways of doing it.

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By *adCherriesCouple
41 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

It's only a whistle... I honestly couldn't get worked up about it either way.

Mrs

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
41 weeks ago

Southampton

I don't mind them but then again they're never directed at me

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