FabSwingers.com forum: Does this site make you paranoid

By *ing cock nw OP Man
41 weeks ago

blackburn

Hi. I have been on this site many time , last year my wife went to an adult weekender at butlins. I was reading through stories on here about said weekenders and all the ladies seem to get what they want… this got me really paranoid to the point i was questioning her loyalty…

I still dont know weather she got fucked there or weather she behaved but we are not together anymore.. i had a break from the site and my paranoia improved

Wondering if anyone else feels like this

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
41 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Did she know you were on here when you were here before?

If not, maybe that has caused a level of paranoia on your part?

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Is that your wife’s bum in your profile pic?

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By *hoccaMan
41 weeks ago

local

remain Fb’s until you gain confidence in the connection and trust one and other.

And lay clear boundaries that you’re comfortable with. It’s up to you to trust the other half.

But the paranoia is understandable

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
41 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
41 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Often, people who have something to hide are convinced that the people around them are hiding similar things. I think it's mostly projecting the simple fact that if you're not a good enough person to be loyal and honest, they obviously can't be better than you

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

But yeah, fab is by definition paranoia - it’s like an over amplified intimate interaction with other humans who you don’t know and can’t trust

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. Can't say it does.

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
41 weeks ago

manchester

"Hi. I have been on this site many time , last year my wife went to an adult weekender at butlins. I was reading through stories on here about said weekenders and all the ladies seem to get what they want… this got me really paranoid to the point i was questioning her loyalty…

I still dont know weather she got fucked there or weather she behaved but we are not together anymore.. i had a break from the site and my paranoia improved

Wondering if anyone else feels like this "

And also what does it matter she’s an ex.

Obsession isn’t healthy when it causes mental distress.

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By *ing cock nw OP Man
41 weeks ago

blackburn

Im not married now…. But have been guilty of perving on here in the past yes.. and i think thats what made me paranoid.. i have ocd so i do get intrusive thoughts a lot and being on here didnt help…

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
41 weeks ago

Sunniest Exeter...

Ignored? Yes, Paranoid? Nope

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By *eneralKenobiMan
41 weeks ago

North Angus

No the space grass does that for me

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
41 weeks ago

Reading

Nope not a paranoid person in general.

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By *issmorganWoman
41 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Im not married now…. But have been guilty of perving on here in the past yes.. and i think thats what made me paranoid.. i have ocd so i do get intrusive thoughts a lot and being on here didnt help… "

It won't have helped that you were up to no good, so you think everyone else is.

Often people will accuse others of the same things they're guilty of, maybe to make themselves feel better.

Unless you're planning on getting back together, try and leave it in the past op.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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41 weeks ago

East Sussex

I don't think it's a good idea to think that what you read in here represents the average Butlins adult weekenders experience.

In fact I don't think it's a good idea to think anything you read on here is going to apply to you or your partner personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Why?, has someone said something?

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By *cott14Man
41 weeks ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

Nope . Don’t take this place too seriously . It’s not real life until you physically meet someone x

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By *ing cock nw OP Man
41 weeks ago

blackburn

No i have ocd and get unwanted thoughts and paranoia and it doesnt help seeing everything on here

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By *essaMayWoman
41 weeks ago

Fairytale Wood

High proportion of the posts i read i feel would be better placed in the stories and fantasies forum.

Take pretty much everything with a pinch of salt here. Certainly many tell a tall yarn. Unless you know for sure don't let FAB speak fuel any kind paranoia, most it is all derived from fantasy.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
41 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Hi O.P.

Your first post isn't clear to me.

Were you BOTH on here at the time. Was the Weekend away a FAB Weekend for swingers ?

Did you and she agree that she could NOT have sex with others if she went away ?

If it wasn't a FAB Butlins meet...... Why are you reading about women from here to judge your wifes behaviour and loyalty ?

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By *anJenny 181Couple
41 weeks ago

Preston

You have a Man's account on fab so I presume you went behind her back think it states you have had 1 meet in your profile

If you have been cheating on her & she did fuck someone whilst she was on the weekend away some would say that's "karma"

What's happened has happened, nothing will change history, learn from it but go forwards and grow, be true to yourself and those around you.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Central

Nom

OP - monitor your mental health and stay away, if it's affecting you negatively

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By *ris GrayMan
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

I suppose the weather played a part did it rain the weekend she went....... Indoors a lot, sneak back to the room, orgies omg scrabble

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By *ris GrayMan
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

This site certainly makes me something but not paranoid

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"This site certainly makes me something but not paranoid

It makes me laugh 1st. It then gives me some kind of realistic evaluation that we’re all not dissimilar.

Paranoid is far from what it makes me feel.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

No. I trust my wife 100%.

The mr

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
41 weeks ago

Since you were on a swingers site behind her back OP, why is her being loyal to you so important? Does loyality not apply to those with a penis?

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By *imply DeeWoman
41 weeks ago

Wherever

Can’t say it does but then I have nothing to hide and nothing to be paranoid about.

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By *ellroseWoman
41 weeks ago

Brum

I still dont know weather she got fucked there or weather she behaved but we are not together anymore.. i had a break from the site and my paranoia improved

Wondering if anyone else feels like this "

And yet you’re on this site, does she know and does she know you are bi-curios ??

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
41 weeks ago

Wales

A bit hypocritical to be worrying that your wife cheated whilst on fab behind her back (apologies if that wasn't the case). It's done now move on OP for your own sanity

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Paranoia schizophrenic. No.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
41 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Hmm, seems a bit double standards, it was ok for you to be trying to stray but not ok for her (if she even was)?

Anyway. It is unhealthy to stay somewhere that impacts your mental health negatively.

I would suggest at least taking a break and working on your thought process first.

MrsAbz

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By *ellhungvweMan
41 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I would guess that the paranoia comes from the fact that you were cheating and you were worried she was doing the same.

Stop cheating behind her back and the paranoia will go.

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By *stwo2023Couple
41 weeks ago

Worcester

No. Peoples poor behaviour towards me in the past makes me paranoid but I will always enter in to any kind of relationship with hope that they are genuine.

Evie

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