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By *essicagrace OP   Woman
47 weeks ago

birmingham

Just spotted a man on my train reading and he has a gold band on his little finger. I let out a small internal groan. Turns out I find that sexy.

What are the truly specific and surprising things you find sexy? (Bums do not count).

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By *ut of my depthMan
47 weeks ago

leamington

I find it sexy that you were checking out my ring

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
47 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Faults. Wrinkles, crinkles and imperfections. Older women trying to look half their age and not quite succeeding.

Bet Lunch

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
47 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Bet Lynch FFS

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
47 weeks ago

BRIDPORT


"Bet Lynch FFS"

I think there should be a prize for some of the typos, they make better reading than most of the posts

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By *eliWoman
47 weeks ago

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Oh Jess. There are many, many things. So recent things.

The way someone says my name. Like they're testing it in their mouth, enjoying and savouring having my name on their lips.

In a similar fashion, voicenotes. When I can hear those subtle changes in tones that tell me they're thinking about me in a more intimate setting, even without them saying it.

Watching someone read something and the emotions that flit across their face. Half smiles make me swoon.

Watching someone drink something, the way they hold it without thinking about it. Big hands around a coffee cup or slender fingers of a musician's hands gracefully holding it. I'll often find my gaze wandering to it and then daydream about their hands on me.

And a new one for me - working out with someone I find attractive. It's sexy as fuck, that sweaty glow after a good one, those little moments when they come over to check on me. Watching their body work and move and seeing their strength and speed. I'm far, very far, from a gym person. If it's with someone I know wants to fuck me? I'm going to become a gym person.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
47 weeks ago

Stratford

Manicures

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
47 weeks ago

Birmingham

Breast milk dripping out

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By *ames_HertsMan
47 weeks ago

North Hertfordshire

An anklet gets me going

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
47 weeks ago

City Centre

Certain accents make me melt.

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By *eliWoman
47 weeks ago

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Oh and because it is a specific thing I adore and isn't celebrated enough for how sexy it is.

Authenticity. I love when people are themselves. Not changing how they speak, how they are to try and appeal to me. I love those moments when a person's eyes light up as they talk about their passion, those moments when someone is messaging me and it feels like the raw conversations you have at midnight with another.

I love people who are comfortable and confident enough to say "I like you".

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

You’d love the mandem, OP

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By *parkle1974Woman
47 weeks ago

Leeds

Scars..so many tell a story x

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By *affeine DuskMan
47 weeks ago

Caerphilly


"I love people who are comfortable and confident enough to say "I like your dong". "

Huh, it me.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
47 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Scars..so many tell a story x"

*Coughs loudly, along with broken nose i've been in the wars

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
47 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Bet Lynch FFS

I think there should be a prize for some of the typos, they make better reading than most of the posts "

Lol I know. I have fingers like pigs' tits on this small keypad too!

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By *eliWoman
47 weeks ago

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"I love people who are comfortable and confident enough to say "I like your dong".

Huh, it me.

"

You're pretty.

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By *ileyandOhCouple
47 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Laughter lines, natural confidence like when a man does dad dancing but just owns it because his that comfortable with who he is.

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By *hriscooperMan
47 weeks ago

Warrington

Always found belly button piercings really sexy for some reason.

When a women is reading a book and she looks up over the pages and smiles.

Smiles in general, a really nice, warm smile always gives me butterflies.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

French manicure.

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By *ruceyyMan
47 weeks ago

London

Nose piercings

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By *ad NannaWoman
47 weeks ago

East London

I have a thing for men reading on trains.

Especially if they are wearing glasses, with their sweater sleeves rolled up.

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By *ad NannaWoman
47 weeks ago

East London

I like fingers too.

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By *ifewantsmore777Couple
47 weeks ago

North West


"Oh Jess. There are many, many things. So recent things.

The way someone says my name. Like they're testing it in their mouth, enjoying and savouring having my name on their lips.

In a similar fashion, voicenotes. When I can hear those subtle changes in tones that tell me they're thinking about me in a more intimate setting, even without them saying it.

Watching someone read something and the emotions that flit across their face. Half smiles make me swoon.

Watching someone drink something, the way they hold it without thinking about it. Big hands around a coffee cup or slender fingers of a musician's hands gracefully holding it. I'll often find my gaze wandering to it and then daydream about their hands on me.

And a new one for me - working out with someone I find attractive. It's sexy as fuck, that sweaty glow after a good one, those little moments when they come over to check on me. Watching their body work and move and seeing their strength and speed. I'm far, very far, from a gym person. If it's with someone I know wants to fuck me? I'm going to become a gym person. "

This last one, I completely agree - it’s so hot! Love watching men work out at the gym. Definitely in own little perv world in between sets.

Also, I love a man in glasses. I don’t know what it is, but god I find it sexy as hell! F xx

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

A woman being authentically herself...

Oh and butt wiggles

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
47 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Oh and because it is a specific thing I adore and isn't celebrated enough for how sexy it is.

Authenticity. I love when people are themselves. Not changing how they speak, how they are to try and appeal to me. I love those moments when a person's eyes light up as they talk about their passion, those moments when someone is messaging me and it feels like the raw conversations you have at midnight with another.

I love people who are comfortable and confident enough to say "I like you". "

Meli, you did my one! This, this, one million times this.

Mrs TMN x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
47 weeks ago

Leeds

It's strange & this happens with no one else, usually it would be off-putting but when the Mr winks at me it sends me all gooey, especially if he has the cheeky smile to match.

Mrs

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
47 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

I don't get them about people in general. But B's hands and forearms when he's kneading *melts*

J

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
47 weeks ago

kent


"Just spotted a man on my train reading and he has a gold band on his little finger. I let out a small internal groan. Turns out I find that sexy.

What are the truly specific and surprising things you find sexy? (Bums do not count). "

Oh my, where do I start? The look of concentration on her face when she’s focused on her laptop. Long, slender fingers holding a tea cup. Glasses being pushed up to the bridge of her nose. Unbrushed hair first thing in the morning. The way she wiggles her hips as she pulls down her skirt after a rough and spontaneous fuck. Unguarded laughter. When she’s so comfortable with you she stops trying to make an impression. When her skirts ride low on her hips… Xx

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By *stellaWoman
47 weeks ago

London

Someone talking passionately about a subject that interests them. Ideally something socially justicy.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
47 weeks ago

Staffordshire

When chicks sing along to the radio in completely the wrong tone with the odd correct word.

Love that.

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By *eliWoman
47 weeks ago

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"Oh and because it is a specific thing I adore and isn't celebrated enough for how sexy it is.

Authenticity. I love when people are themselves. Not changing how they speak, how they are to try and appeal to me. I love those moments when a person's eyes light up as they talk about their passion, those moments when someone is messaging me and it feels like the raw conversations you have at midnight with another.

I love people who are comfortable and confident enough to say "I like you".

Meli, you did my one! This, this, one million times this.

Mrs TMN x"

Yes. I was thinking about it and yes, there are the dafter, lighter things. What I've really realised recently is how much I value authenticity. That openness. When people are comfortable to be themselves and actively encourage me to be that way with them. That's my biggest surprising sexy because I didn't realise how arousing it could be.

A happy discovery.

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By *otmyrealname99Man
47 weeks ago

Manchester

Bums .... Oh wait, ok.

Nose rings are hot AF imho then

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
47 weeks ago

Reading

Agile hands.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
47 weeks ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Those leather bracelets on men. They make me go all... ooh

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By *iasubTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Ilkeston


"Oh and because it is a specific thing I adore and isn't celebrated enough for how sexy it is.

Authenticity. I love when people are themselves. Not changing how they speak, how they are to try and appeal to me. I love those moments when a person's eyes light up as they talk about their passion, those moments when someone is messaging me and it feels like the raw conversations you have at midnight with another.

I love people who are comfortable and confident enough to say "I like you". "

THIS! Someone just being happy in themselves is so attractive and not changing who they are for others

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

No bras. (When you can see her nipples)

Also, multiple ear piercings.

Also,… nice nail polish and matching toes, hot as fuck!

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
47 weeks ago

Essex


"Those leather bracelets on men. They make me go all... ooh "

Yes. They send me a bit feral

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Sundresses and glasses

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

An older man, not grandpa old, wearing glasses. Especially if they look over the top of them to look at me, and use them functionally for reading, watching TV, or driving for example. This somehow has a direct link to my bits and instantly makes me soaking wet.

A man with rough hands. Not from lacking moisturise but because they are seen loads of friction in some way. Doesn’t have to be someone who works with their hands. It could be from training, the reason with the roughness is irrelevant. If they have sausage-like fingers it’s more arousing too.

Lifting weights together with someone I fancy. Especially if it’s a legs. I have not managed to get through a training session with a partner, ever, without an immense hunger for devouring them. Watching their muscles tense and contract with movements, the grunts they let out throughout the reps, their concentration face, the way they look at me and watch me during my sets, their smell.

Watching a man cook. Their knife skills, the way they organise and manage time, seeing them make multiple things at once, tasting, trying things without sticking their nose in a cookbook or following a recipe. Especially, if they are the type to not be good at sharing the kitchen, but can equally ask for help in something like peeling or chopping vegetables.

Hearing someone passionately share something that means a lot to them. It doesn’t matter what it is whether it’s bird watching or quantum physics. The arousing part is in hearing their passion on the topic, seeing their excitement, and seeing their vulnerability in sharing something they are passionate about with me.

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By *amie HantsWoman
47 weeks ago

Atlantis

Good posture. I was looking at a guys pictures and he was really attractive but his shoulders weren’t pulled back. Made me realise how much I rate good posture. I think I associate it with confidence

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By *ddie1966Man
47 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

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By *ddie1966Man
47 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.


"An older man, not grandpa old, wearing glasses. Especially if they look over the top of them to look at me, and use them functionally for reading, watching TV, or driving for example. This somehow has a direct link to my bits and instantly makes me soaking wet.

A man with rough hands. Not from lacking moisturise but because they are seen loads of friction in some way. Doesn’t have to be someone who works with their hands. It could be from training, the reason with the roughness is irrelevant. If they have sausage-like fingers it’s more arousing too.

Lifting weights together with someone I fancy. Especially if it’s a legs. I have not managed to get through a training session with a partner, ever, without an immense hunger for devouring them. Watching their muscles tense and contract with movements, the grunts they let out throughout the reps, their concentration face, the way they look at me and watch me during my sets, their smell.

Watching a man cook. Their knife skills, the way they organise and manage time, seeing them make multiple things at once, tasting, trying things without sticking their nose in a cookbook or following a recipe. Especially, if they are the type to not be good at sharing the kitchen, but can equally ask for help in something like peeling or chopping vegetables.

Hearing someone passionately share something that means a lot to them. It doesn’t matter what it is whether it’s bird watching or quantum physics. The arousing part is in hearing their passion on the topic, seeing their excitement, and seeing their vulnerability in sharing something they are passionate about with me. "

I hate to say this Bella, but you've just described me to a "T".

If we ever meet, there's gonna be people drowning in drool

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
47 weeks ago

Southampton


"Sundresses and glasses "

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By *o scandalousWoman
47 weeks ago

Glasgow

The way a person laughs.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"An older man, not grandpa old, wearing glasses. Especially if they look over the top of them to look at me, and use them functionally for reading, watching TV, or driving for example. This somehow has a direct link to my bits and instantly makes me soaking wet.

A man with rough hands. Not from lacking moisturise but because they are seen loads of friction in some way. Doesn’t have to be someone who works with their hands. It could be from training, the reason with the roughness is irrelevant. If they have sausage-like fingers it’s more arousing too.

Lifting weights together with someone I fancy. Especially if it’s a legs. I have not managed to get through a training session with a partner, ever, without an immense hunger for devouring them. Watching their muscles tense and contract with movements, the grunts they let out throughout the reps, their concentration face, the way they look at me and watch me during my sets, their smell.

Watching a man cook. Their knife skills, the way they organise and manage time, seeing them make multiple things at once, tasting, trying things without sticking their nose in a cookbook or following a recipe. Especially, if they are the type to not be good at sharing the kitchen, but can equally ask for help in something like peeling or chopping vegetables.

Hearing someone passionately share something that means a lot to them. It doesn’t matter what it is whether it’s bird watching or quantum physics. The arousing part is in hearing their passion on the topic, seeing their excitement, and seeing their vulnerability in sharing something they are passionate about with me.

I hate to say this Bella, but you've just described me to a "T".

If we ever meet, there's gonna be people drowning in drool "

So far no one has drooled meeting me. You’d be a first.

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By *zeroMan
47 weeks ago

Glasgow

When people gush about how much they like something. Like when they go on and describe in perfect intricate detail their hobby or what they enjoy.

I like the little window into their world

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By *ddie1966Man
47 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.


"An older man, not grandpa old, wearing glasses. Especially if they look over the top of them to look at me, and use them functionally for reading, watching TV, or driving for example. This somehow has a direct link to my bits and instantly makes me soaking wet.

A man with rough hands. Not from lacking moisturise but because they are seen loads of friction in some way. Doesn’t have to be someone who works with their hands. It could be from training, the reason with the roughness is irrelevant. If they have sausage-like fingers it’s more arousing too.

Lifting weights together with someone I fancy. Especially if it’s a legs. I have not managed to get through a training session with a partner, ever, without an immense hunger for devouring them. Watching their muscles tense and contract with movements, the grunts they let out throughout the reps, their concentration face, the way they look at me and watch me during my sets, their smell.

Watching a man cook. Their knife skills, the way they organise and manage time, seeing them make multiple things at once, tasting, trying things without sticking their nose in a cookbook or following a recipe. Especially, if they are the type to not be good at sharing the kitchen, but can equally ask for help in something like peeling or chopping vegetables.

Hearing someone passionately share something that means a lot to them. It doesn’t matter what it is whether it’s bird watching or quantum physics. The arousing part is in hearing their passion on the topic, seeing their excitement, and seeing their vulnerability in sharing something they are passionate about with me.

I hate to say this Bella, but you've just described me to a "T".

If we ever meet, there's gonna be people drowning in drool

So far no one has drooled meeting me. You’d be a first. "

Too busy picking their jaw off the floor.

I'm drooling now, but that's because I'm currently chomping a cough candy.

One thing, I've never really noticed, about a lady that turns me on is a pierced tongue.

Shallow, I know, but I've only just realised it.

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By *ou only live onceMan
47 weeks ago

London

I like a woman with a pinky ring too, OP. Also, pashminas and when a woman swooshes her hair so it's parted the "wrong" way. Maybe I just like Sloanes.

Tight ankle length trousers and smart loafers, too. Swoon.

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47 weeks ago


"A woman being authentically herself...

Oh and butt wiggles "

and pigtails... definitely tonight pigtails...

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Women in bobble hats with their hair down

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By *ou only live onceMan
47 weeks ago

London

Oh, and nice handwriting!

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By *heeky_kikiWoman
47 weeks ago

Guisborough

Men who have a nose ring

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
47 weeks ago

London

A man blushing

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
47 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

When a clothed man moves so I see a flash of bare skin at his midriff - fucking electric

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By *TG3Man
47 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Scars..so many tell a story x"
i have scars

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
47 weeks ago

London


"An older man, not grandpa old, wearing glasses. Especially if they look over the top of them to look at me, and use them functionally for reading, watching TV, or driving for example. This somehow has a direct link to my bits and instantly makes me soaking wet.

A man with rough hands. Not from lacking moisturise but because they are seen loads of friction in some way. Doesn’t have to be someone who works with their hands. It could be from training, the reason with the roughness is irrelevant. If they have sausage-like fingers it’s more arousing too.

Lifting weights together with someone I fancy. Especially if it’s a legs. I have not managed to get through a training session with a partner, ever, without an immense hunger for devouring them. Watching their muscles tense and contract with movements, the grunts they let out throughout the reps, their concentration face, the way they look at me and watch me during my sets, their smell.

Watching a man cook. Their knife skills, the way they organise and manage time, seeing them make multiple things at once, tasting, trying things without sticking their nose in a cookbook or following a recipe. Especially, if they are the type to not be good at sharing the kitchen, but can equally ask for help in something like peeling or chopping vegetables.

Hearing someone passionately share something that means a lot to them. It doesn’t matter what it is whether it’s bird watching or quantum physics. The arousing part is in hearing their passion on the topic, seeing their excitement, and seeing their vulnerability in sharing something they are passionate about with me. "

Beautiful

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By *cottish guy 555Man
47 weeks ago

London

When I'm chatting with someone about something they are passionate about.

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By *nigmatic x DivinityCouple
47 weeks ago

Up town top ranking

Men in shirts with a few buttons undone, wearing a necklace with or without chest hair

When a man tries really hard not to make eye contact with me once he's had a look I know exactly what's going through his mind just after he checked my bunda out and I caught him lol

The way men drive, changing gears I imagine how he would look holding his cock

How big his hands look on the steering wheel Imagining how good his big thick fingers would feel up inside me

Ohhhh I've soooo many lol

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By *overboysteveMan
47 weeks ago

Colchester

Navel piercing on a flat stomach.

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
47 weeks ago

Midlands

When a man palms the steering wheel when driving. No idea why but it’s so hot.

Mrs

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

47 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nose rings.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Scottish accents

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By *nigmatic x DivinityCouple
47 weeks ago

Up town top ranking


"Scottish accents "

Yep and Irish, I melt lol

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
47 weeks ago

Home


"Scottish accents

Yep and Irish, I melt lol "

it does depend on what Irish accent you are talking about inner city Limerick is not sexy

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By *ittleRed18Woman
47 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Nose and/or lip piercings

Oh and thick veins on guys hands and arms

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By *nigmatic x DivinityCouple
47 weeks ago

Up town top ranking


"Nose and/or lip piercings

Oh and thick veins on guys hands and arms "

Nice There is something about the veins isn't there

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

The accidental display of a lower back tattoo between the top of the jeans jeans and the bottom of a top that has ridden up

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By *olo180Man
47 weeks ago

West London

Glasses, dimples, Toe rings, ankle bracelets, when a lady sits crossed legged and dangles / plays with her shoes off her bare toes…

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By *olo180Man
47 weeks ago

West London


"Women in bobble hats with their hair down "

Yep cute!

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By *ittleRed18Woman
47 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"Nose and/or lip piercings

Oh and thick veins on guys hands and arms

Nice There is something about the veins isn't there "

There really is they can make me growl for sure!

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
47 weeks ago

London


"Nose and/or lip piercings

Oh and thick veins on guys hands and arms

Nice There is something about the veins isn't there

There really is they can make me growl for sure!"

Agree

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By *iddlesticksMan
47 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Nose and/or lip piercings

Oh and thick veins on guys hands and arms

Nice There is something about the veins isn't there

There really is they can make me growl for sure!

Agree "

How many men like me are suddenly looking at our hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

A women who being over 55 .Still has it together no matter what like thrown at her .

Stylish .

As my late Mother said no ugly women only lazy ones ,same thing for men .. She past away at 88

Great fashion sense, and nails done ever week

RIP

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By *ecky and justCouple
47 weeks ago

Godalming

Many many little things that I may not know until the moment they make my pulse race slightly or cause that throb in my trousers.

Recently, some guests at a party whose first words in a beautiful Irish accent made us both go wobbly.

For me, stood behind a lady who had on DM’s and grey over-the-knee socks and knew that she rocked it.

For Becky, every time a fire engine goes past.!

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