FabSwingers.com forum: I hate my girlfriend

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sometimes anyway! She can be a real piece of shit to me

--- angry face

Nearly 4 years and still....

I have this stupid emotional tie which I never wanted, I can't see my life without her being better, I just feel really pissed off every now and then, she's shit!!!!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it worth putting yourself through this, no one should make you feel like that.

Big hugs xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Hate is rather a strong word to use... You don't hate her.. she annoys you and you sometimes dislike her. If you are unhappy then think about ending it.. its better to be alone than unhappy and alone in a relationship..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not convinced your user name is overly apt...

So you are on here as a single male presumably cheating on the girlfriend that you "hate", your reason for staying is pathetic - could you be anymore selfish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes anyway! She can be a real piece of shit to me

--- angry face

Nearly 4 years and still....

I have this stupid emotional tie which I never wanted, I can't see my life without her being better, I just feel really pissed off every now and then, she's shit!!!!

Extraordinary post. Some things should be private surely.

Leave is the obvious response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice guy slagging off his gf on a single straight profile yup really nice.

If its not working fix it or leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not convinced your user name is overly apt...

So you are on here as a single male presumably cheating on the girlfriend that you "hate", your reason for staying is pathetic - could you be anymore selfish?"

Totally. If this is a nice one, hope we don't get nasty one any time soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not convinced your user name is overly apt...

So you are on here as a single male presumably cheating on the girlfriend that you "hate", your reason for staying is pathetic - could you be anymore selfish?"

Wrong, she's on here but not photo verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes anyway! She can be a real piece of shit to me

--- angry face

Nearly 4 years and still....

I have this stupid emotional tie which I never wanted, I can't see my life without her being better, I just feel really pissed off every now and then, she's shit!!!!

Extraordinary post. Some things should be private surely.

Leave is the obvious response. "
My thoughts entirely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just leave. Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The opening post is a bit of a contradiction to the username!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not convinced your user name is overly apt...

So you are on here as a single male presumably cheating on the girlfriend that you "hate", your reason for staying is pathetic - could you be anymore selfish?

Wrong, she's on here but not photo verified"

Oh well, let's hope she doesn't read the forums...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill have her, I like a challenge

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make a list about your relationship listing the following;

Strengths

Weaknesses

Opportunities

Threats

It will clarify the situation and tell you what you already know I suspect.

If your cheating on her on here and are this unhappy then the answer is obvious really

Invictus, you are a wise dude you know, must be all that time travel xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ill have her, I like a challenge"

haha hussy

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Make a list about your relationship listing the following;

Strengths

Weaknesses

Opportunities

Threats

It will clarify the situation and tell you what you already know I suspect.

I hope she doesn't decide to read the forums and hit your little green arrow one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not convinced your user name is overly apt...

So you are on here as a single male presumably cheating on the girlfriend that you "hate", your reason for staying is pathetic - could you be anymore selfish?

Wrong, she's on here but not photo verified"

You have just broadcast your feelings on here your girlfriend will read this. Looks like you will be single soon pal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Make a list about your relationship listing the following;

Strengths

Weaknesses

Opportunities

Threats

It will clarify the situation and tell you what you already know I suspect.

If your cheating on her on here and are this unhappy then the answer is obvious really

Invictus, you are a wise dude you know, must be all that time travel xx"

I'm not cheating... I repeat NOT cheating

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Make a list about your relationship listing the following;

Strengths

Weaknesses

Opportunities

Threats

It will clarify the situation and tell you what you already know I suspect.

If your cheating on her on here and are this unhappy then the answer is obvious really

Invictus, you are a wise dude you know, must be all that time travel xx

I'm not cheating... I repeat NOT cheating"

Got that. I did edit it but someone commented first.

The rest still applied though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say in your profile and i quote,

'im a lover not a hater, end quote.

This rant comes over as being totally pathetic you also go on to say in your profile that your 'looking for ladies who know what they want and are not affraid to show it!.

Sounds to me like you have found one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you should sit down and talk with her tell her how you feel and see if you can work throu your differences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make a list about your relationship listing the following;

Strengths

Weaknesses

Opportunities

Threats

It will clarify the situation and tell you what you already know I suspect.

If your cheating on her on here and are this unhappy then the answer is obvious really

Invictus, you are a wise dude you know, must be all that time travel xx

I'm not cheating... I repeat NOT cheating"

Well you must be d*unk, none of this makes sense!

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By *ukkakecoupleukCouple
over a year ago

horsham

"well i am no expert but why dont you do the decent thing and put her out of her misery . it sounds as if she has been too good for you .what did she do stay loyal or not go on a swingers site . if you hate her so much let her go but dont tell 5000 people on here do the decent thing and tell her you are not compatible so she can move on with some self respect and not hold a candle to a selfish arrogant idiot like you ... no offence

Sometimes anyway! She can be a real piece of shit to me

--- angry face

Nearly 4 years and still....

I have this stupid emotional tie which I never wanted, I can't see my life without her being better, I just feel really pissed off every now and then, she's shit!!!!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

You're going to cop it big time off some posters now with starting a thread like this - not entirely undeserved in my opinion. Wavinv your dirty linen around isn't the best place for the forums.

The best you can do is read the posts that offer advice and take the others on the chin.

Whatever happens only you can decide what to do about this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not convinced your user name is overly apt...

So you are on here as a single male presumably cheating on the girlfriend that you "hate", your reason for staying is pathetic - could you be anymore selfish?

Wrong, she's on here but not photo verified"

I don't think that makes a difference, being verified I mean, and how nice to vent your anger for all the world to see including her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man up Princess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate is a strong word, but so is love I guess.

You can't see your life being better without her and you only feel like this sometimes. Highs and lows are all part of it. When you share a low with the public, it's difficult for them to balance it off with your highs because your not sharing the highs.

Apart from using the word 'hate' sounds like a normal relationship to me.

Don't leave a relationship until you feel you might be better off, only you fully know you're balance of highs and lows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like airing opinions and dos/donts on anyone's relationship.

You will know deep down what you want and what is right for you.

Hope you make the decision that's correct for you and will make you happy.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

Sometimes anyway! She can be a real piece of shit to me

--- angry face

Nearly 4 years and still....

I have this stupid emotional tie which I never wanted, I can't see my life without her being better, I just feel really pissed off every now and then, she's shit!!!!

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shes like that with me aswell sometimes i just ignore her.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puzzles me what is the emotional tie would it happen to be a child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Puzzles me what is the emotional tie would it happen to be a child

Ok won't hold my breath for an answer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication is key... If you are unable to talk to one another without resolving the problem or come to a compromise then personally I believe you should go your separate ways... As someone said before its better to be happy and alone then together and miserable...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

When love & hate collide

*courtesy of the def leppard department*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so leave her ... Der

she probably feels the same way about you

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Sometimes anyway! She can be a real piece of shit to me

--- angry face

Nearly 4 years and still....

I have this stupid emotional tie which I never wanted, I can't see my life without her being better, I just feel really pissed off every now and then, she's shit!!!!

What's up Chuck?? She wouldn't let you slip it in the wrong'un???

You have done yourself a great diservice with this thread. Your gf is in here and so here is where you choose to announce that you hate her and that she is shit and you wouldn't be with her if it wasn't fir this 'emotional tie'

Grow a pair and leave if you are truly unhappy. Sometimes you can have a tie with someone yet live without them.

If you are not prepared to do that then it's put up or shut up really isn't it.

I dint think this thread will last long if your gf is on here to as talking about other members is not allowed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so leave her ... Der

she probably feels the same way about you

With fear of hijacking this thread... love your pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes anyway! She can be a real piece of shit to me

--- angry face

Nearly 4 years and still....

I have this stupid emotional tie which I

never wanted, I can't see my life without her being better, I just feel really pissed off every now and then, she's shit!!!!

shes like that with me aswell sometimes

i just ignore her.

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lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hate is a strong word, but so is love I guess.

Apart from using the word 'hate' sounds like a normal relationship to me.

Don't leave a relationship until you feel you might be better off, only you fully know you're balance of highs and lows. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Sometimes anyway! She can be a real piece of shit to me

--- angry face

Nearly 4 years and still....

I have this stupid emotional tie which I never wanted, I can't see my life without her being better, I just feel really pissed off every now and then, she's shit!!!!

Sometimes when you're in a relationship things can get very tough, you can feel isolated and unsure of what to do, there's no shame in asking for advice on how to deal with things. I think though that you are being disrespectful to someone you say you have feelings for by saying you hate her in a public forum.

Talk to her and if neither of you are prepared to.make changes in the way you behave you both need to move on, in my experience both partners are responsible to a greater or lesser degree when problems arise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send her round mines mate! Sounds to me like shes suffering from frustration. Maybe you should concentrate more on what you got rather than playing away!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Not the place to discuss other site members

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