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Best way to meet women on here as a single man ?

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By *amale1 OP   Man
30 weeks ago

london

Just curious for any tips anyone has that may help ? Might need to brush up my profile but I’m trying to initiate conversations and doesn’t seem to go anywhere ?

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
30 weeks ago

manchester

Send dick pics and just a message containing the word “hi”

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By *cottish guy 555Man
30 weeks ago

London

Attend clubs and socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Be hot tall hung and ridiculously good looking

If your not those, I’d say get to a social or clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

You said the answer in your opening post

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
30 weeks ago

Reading

Im afraid

Not accomodating will hurt your chances

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By *mf123Man
30 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Real life is always the best way

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By *hilloutMan
30 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

It requires a lot of effort and investment, even if you are tall, attractive and engaging.

Attending organised socials is your best bet for interaction and prospecting.

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By *hagTonightMan
30 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

The best way is clubs and socials

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
30 weeks ago

Markfield


"Might need to brush up my profile"

Definitely this

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By *agnar73Man
30 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Im afraid

Not accomodating will hurt your chances"

This is my downside. I’d like to, but my circumstances aren’t straightforward and I’d only accommodate after I had met someone or established a dialogue.

But, can only do what you can do, impossible takes longer.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
30 weeks ago

Central

Priority 1 is a man's profile.

Every contact he has with others means they will look at it first. Messages won't get read, if the profile doesn't work.

Go to socials and clubs.

Make realistic expectations. Swinging isn't easy sex.

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By *anted by NightMan
30 weeks ago

Shangri-la

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By *erthy40ManchesterMan
30 weeks ago

Radcliffe

Bulls**t ??

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By *uby StarCouple
30 weeks ago

Durham

Get out into the lifestyle instead of hiding behind a phone screen. Clubs and social events are the best way to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Don’t by any means do what is the done thing these past few months of 2024.

Sending messages to women inviting them on holidays abroad with accommodations and food sorted. Why men think any woman will randomly spend a week or even a few days with a stranger in another country, in the same room, without even knowing if they’d get on is bewildering.

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By *red333Man
30 weeks ago

Dorchester

Leave a trail of cake they'll be along shortly

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

30 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Attend clubs and socials.

"

Bingo

WI

Maybe a cross stitch or crocheting club.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
30 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"Just curious for any tips anyone has that may help ? Might need to brush up my profile but I’m trying to initiate conversations and doesn’t seem to go anywhere ?"

There’s no might about it.

A standard profile for a guy gets you nowhere. Don’t waste any more time on here unless you invest in selling yourself and getting yourself out there too.

K

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By *entleman JayMan
30 weeks ago

Wakefield


"Be hot tall hung and ridiculously good looking

If your not those, I’d say get to a social or clubs "

Neither of those. I’m get meets.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
30 weeks ago

Chichester

Goto a club / social event

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By *essaMayWoman
30 weeks ago

Fairytale Wood

OP Don't try to be something your not, just be yourself. Keep your profile brief an maybe a few points of interest that someone may want to start a conversation. Stay away from making claims about your sexual prowess as pretty every guy on here thinks that will get them somewhere.

Socials. Clubs, don't be a bragger and BS'er, there are plenty on here. As for not accommodating, there are many on here who will assume you're cheating, you may have your reasons. I could accommodate but i won't, i have my reasons.

People are looking for many different things, try not to try and appeal to everyone, just makes you look desperate.

In the end it is a lottery on sites like this. Expect nothing and you wont be dissapointed.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
30 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

In contrast to the lovely lady above, the done thing at the moment is to advertise fully paid for holidays abroad.

Women are jumping at this and some of the guys are beating them off with a shitty stick with snails on.

Single room, double bed, construction yard views and Brits on the piss just within earshot.

Get amongst it buddy...I can hear the fannies fluttering now in anticipation.

Skegness is a veritable hotspot.

Failing that, clubs or socials or putting Fab down and meeting people.

Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago


"Get out into the lifestyle instead of hiding behind a phone screen. Clubs and social events are the best way to meet people."

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago


"Send dick pics and just a message containing the word “hi”"

Adding what the male is going to do to you based on the Reddit ways to seduce women.

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By *lexV16Man
30 weeks ago

Welling


"Just curious for any tips anyone has that may help ? Might need to brush up my profile but I’m trying to initiate conversations and doesn’t seem to go anywhere ?"

Sorry to break this to you op but there is no sliver bullet. Someone else’s success might bring you nowhere. Learn your target audience and be yourself. Has anyone mentioned clubs already?

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By *midnight-Woman
30 weeks ago

...

More luck in sainsburys

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By *hrek101Man
30 weeks ago

Herts

Be Tall, handsome, big cock and probably funny too.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
30 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"More luck in sainsburys "

Now you say that...

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
30 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Be Tall, handsome, big cock and probably funny too."

It worked for Warwick Davis on here. He has a family now.

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
30 weeks ago

Torquay

Have a huge cock, it's a guarantee

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By *mily36CWoman
30 weeks ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"... Attending organised socials is your best bet for interaction and prospecting."

...prospecting?!

So, just like panning for gold

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago


"Have a huge cock, it's a guarantee "

Rubbish. If someone isn't attractive to me and can't converse I couldn't give a XXXX how big his weiner is.

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