FabSwingers.com forum: Do you ever take breaks from here?

By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

Did you feel like it helped? Did you come back feeling refreshed, re-energised and ready for action again?

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By *stellaWoman
41 weeks ago

London

Yep. I used to delete my account when I left, nowadays I just hide it.

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By *ealitybitesMan
41 weeks ago

Belfast

In 8 years I've deleted 3 previous profiles and come back again. The last one I hid the profile and didn't log in for a year.

When I did come back I deleted that profile within a couple of weeks and a month or so later started this one.

I have never once asked someone I've met on a previous profile to reverify me because I always wanted a completely fresh start.

Each time I've left I've come back with a different attitude towards how I was going to approach the site so while I can't say I was reenergised I was always more confident than the previous time.

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By *itty9899Man
41 weeks ago

Craggy Island

I haven't, but maybe I should.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Yes, its great to reset... Fab will keep going and be waiting if /when you are ready to re-engage

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By *affron40Woman
41 weeks ago

manchester

I’ve had lots of breaks over the years. The last 2 times have been around a year each. I think it’s made me realise that it’s no longer serving me so maybe it’s time to move on

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Did you feel like it helped? Did you come back feeling refreshed, re-energised and ready for action again?

Yes I did. And yes I did.

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By *illy IdolMan
41 weeks ago

Midlands

I think I'm about ready for a little sabbatical

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Yeah used to delete my profile when Id had enough, but nowadays i either hide it or write on it im not looking, had a break for about a year just there but now im making up for it

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By *awty_TwoCouple
41 weeks ago

Near Maidstone

We did, deleted first profile and lost our verifications, but if you never take a break, it stops being fun x

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
41 weeks ago

Durham

Yeah on more than one occasion.

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By *ust want fun 888Man
41 weeks ago

nearby

Did leave this site a year last Christmas because nothing was happening and it seemed shit, but for some reason, it’s kind of addictive, came back more or less of the same but still have to look every day

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
41 weeks ago

Wales

It does help but I'd recommend just hiding your account and logging off rather than deleting your account. I've deleted my profile so many times and it's a faff making a new account

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Cor yeah.. End of this month off for 16 days. I may just hide myself away.

Oh yes, left and comd back like a boomerang. Time outs are needed or my head hurts.

I first here a decade ago. Wow. Fab party me thinks on my own though. Got me toys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

I'm just not particularly finding this place that enjoyable right now.

The forums are the only reason I've stuck around. The majority of you are cool af, have a good bit of banter and seem like nice people, you lot are the only reason I've hung around this long.

Outside of the forum I don't know what I'm doing here, it feels like a time waste.

And then every now and then this little glimmer of hope pops up, reinvigorats you, and then just completely dissappears and makes your enjoyment level sink a bit lower than it was before it appeared.

Sorry for the moan, I know its not a unique take.

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By *illy IdolMan
41 weeks ago

Midlands

"I'm just not particularly finding this place that enjoyable right now.

The forums are the only reason I've stuck around. The majority of you are cool af, have a good bit of banter and seem like nice people, you lot are the only reason I've hung around this long.

Outside of the forum I don't know what I'm doing here, it feels like a time waste.

And then every now and then this little glimmer of hope pops up, reinvigorats you, and then just completely dissappears and makes your enjoyment level sink a bit lower than it was before it appeared.

Sorry for the moan, I know its not a unique take."

Use it for just that and have no other expectations. Anything else would be a bonus then

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By *cott14Man
41 weeks ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

Yep , on and off for 10yrs. It’s changed a lot x

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I've turned off my profile several times since I joined and this isn't my first profile. It's not a healthy place to stay for long.

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By *ris GrayMan
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

No never

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By *a LunaWoman
41 weeks ago

South Wales

Sometimes. For a few days or so. Usually when people start to get on my tits.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
41 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Admin give me regular breaks, it’s very good of them, they must really care about me.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
41 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

I quite often take beaks from here. It’s good to take a step back sometimes as it can sometimes become quite boring and tedious. I don’t delete my profile but just hide it for a bit.

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By *elix SightedMan
41 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"Admin give me regular breaks, it’s very good of them, they must really care about me.

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By *ilks xXxWoman
41 weeks ago

East Mids

"Did you feel like it helped? Did you come back feeling refreshed, re-energised and ready for action again?

I regularly take a break … it can be overwhelming for me sometimes and I need to just have a break. I love the thrill but I’m not ?? swinger ….

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By *elix SightedMan
41 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I took six months off last year and it’s the best thing I did.

IMHO, when you’re feeling good and riding high, fab will compound that and you’ll find people are drawn in.

Conversely, when you’re tired, frustrated, battling, that can come across and repel people.

Sometimes it’s best to have a break and come back more chilled.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
41 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Not consciously but it just gets boring sometimes and then I log in less.

Then I’ll log in one time and there’s some good stuff with nice people on the forum and I’ll be back in.

After a bit they will go quiet and if there’s not much totty around I’ll get bored again and stop logging in.

Then I’ll log in and there’s a funny guy or a guy that posts dark sarcastic comments and I’ll be back.

Then I’ll get bored and not log in for a while.

Then I’ll log on and there’s this chick that is really blunt but you can see she’s just shooting ducks and I’ll keep coming back to quack.

Then I’ll get bored and not log in for a while.

Then I’ll just fancy a wank and log in to look at bellaseas.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I deleted and came back a few times in the past but I've been away for 6 years this time. Definitely a different mindset as I'm not really interested in meeting anyone....yet

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By *im ForbedMan
41 weeks ago

Winchester

I had about a 5 or 6 year break with my profile hidden...when I came back it was like starting again as all my old friends had gone and all but about 3 verifications had disappeared! So I decided to park that profile and start again from scratch..however, I don't think Fab has fundementally changed in all that time...you can just add videos now

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
41 weeks ago

ashford

No! Never! I would just not look here if I had enough! It will probably still b going when I pop my clogs x

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By *obilebottomMan
41 weeks ago

All over

I usually have a kit kat and a cup of tea and return

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By *imi_RougeWoman
41 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Yes, currently on one!

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By *KTim61Man
41 weeks ago

Tipton

"Yep. I used to delete my account when I left, nowadays I just hide it. "

How do you do that ?

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By *ighlandGirl14Woman
41 weeks ago

Inverness

All the time. I quite regularly hide my profile when it gets too much or I just don't have the time or energy for it.

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By *host63Man
41 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Did you feel like it helped? Did you come back feeling refreshed, re-energised and ready for action again?

Becoming more frequent the more of a waste of time it is

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By *awty_TwoCouple
41 weeks ago

Near Maidstone

"Yes, currently on one! "

That can’t be true lol

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I did try yes, will be impossible to have sec with mrs otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Yep. I used to delete my account when I left, nowadays I just hide it.

How do you do that ? "

Account Privacy Settings

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By *illybeachboyMan
41 weeks ago

Guernsey

I tried a few times but within a week I'm back!

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
41 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Sometimes, you just know it’s time to stop.

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By *apiomanMan
41 weeks ago

Shipley

Yes. Sometimes when I end up in a non-swing relationship. Other times I find myself spending way too much time here. But here I am back again!

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By *he Silver FuxMan
41 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Sometimes I get a little jaded or life / work takes precedence- three or four weeks away now and again until I’m in the mood again

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By *viatrixWoman
41 weeks ago

Redhill

Yes, I’ve taken breaks but I’ve never felt the need to delete my account.

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By *riel13Woman
41 weeks ago

Northampton

Yes... Often

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By *heSchwingersCouple
41 weeks ago

Essex

"Did you feel like it helped? Did you come back feeling refreshed, re-energised and ready for action again?

Took a two year break. Not too sure we can be bothered to put the effort in when it’s not reciprocated

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By *parkle1974Woman
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes, just hide my profile until I'm ready to come back whenever that may be x

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
41 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Yes, deleted many profiles, had breaks from fab. Re-energised by it no, as I've also seen fab for what is...nothing more nothing less

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By *KTim61Man
41 weeks ago

Tipton

"Yep. I used to delete my account when I left, nowadays I just hide it.

How do you do that ?

Account Privacy Settings "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Yep. I used to delete my account when I left, nowadays I just hide it. "

Same x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"I'm just not particularly finding this place that enjoyable right now.

The forums are the only reason I've stuck around. The majority of you are cool af, have a good bit of banter and seem like nice people, you lot are the only reason I've hung around this long.

Outside of the forum I don't know what I'm doing here, it feels like a time waste.

And then every now and then this little glimmer of hope pops up, reinvigorats you, and then just completely dissappears and makes your enjoyment level sink a bit lower than it was before it appeared.

Sorry for the moan, I know its not a unique take.

Use it for just that and have no other expectations. Anything else would be a bonus then

Tbh Mr Idol, that's how I have been treating it, I just had a bit of a shit day on fab yesterday and was being a miserable fuck.

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By *essaMayWoman
41 weeks ago

Fairytale Wood

I go in phase, hang around in the chat rooms until i get bored. Different people same old lines, empty complements and watch me wank. Occasionally get to actully have a conversation until it turns to sex talk.

Forums i dabble in maybe comment if i feel can contribute. When it reverts to mostly, rate my cock, who's hot and your not and ultimately jackanory threads i take my leave, how long is dependent on my moods.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
41 weeks ago

Tamworth

We hide our account and log out from time to time, recharge and come back. We've stopped using fab as anything more than to look for events and keep in touch with people we've met along the way so haven't needed to do it for awhile now though

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I go for a year or two then pop back on for a year or two depending on what's going on in life

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Fab works when it works. I’m not always in the same frame of mind or playfulness. Life is ever changing and my focus quite rightly shifts with life. I recently switched from granola to porridge because granola was getting boring, but I might switch back or maybe I’ll try wheetabix, or maybe I’ll skip breakfast because I’m getting too fat?

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By *lder.Woman
41 weeks ago

Not Local

Loads yes. Ive left at least 3 times. Every time I come back I am even more unapproachable so it's barely worth being here really

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Loads yes. Ive left at least 3 times. Every time I come back I am even more unapproachable so it's barely worth being here really

And yet I live in hope

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
41 weeks ago

Worcester

"Did you feel like it helped? Did you come back feeling refreshed, re-energised and ready for action again?

Four years because of the pandemic, dealing with an abusive relationship, and buying a house.

Finally back.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

About once every three months I decide that’s enough and leave.

Do I feel refreshed when I come back? No. Why do I keep coming back? I have no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Yeah, this is my 3rd profile in 6 years (always say I’m not coming back- but like a moth to a flame!) Now I just hide profile like others have said and still come online to look at forums, hot vids when I need a break

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By *ruceyyMan
41 weeks ago

London

Yes, did recently. It's good to hop back in and leave every now and then

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
41 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

I regularly take breaks. Whether I want to be here or interact with anyone is, like, 50/50 sometimes.

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