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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

Need to convince my wife to fuck others my biggest fantasy needs to come a reality

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By *illan-KillashMan
41 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"Need to convince my wife to fuck others my biggest fantasy needs to come a reality "

Maybe.........

just *novel idea..........tell her.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I hate the word convince

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By *iasubTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Have you spoke to her about this? If you have to convince someone it’s probably not for them

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By *UFSWoman
41 weeks ago

belfast

"Need to convince my wife to fuck others my biggest fantasy needs to come a reality

Maybe.........

just *novel idea..........tell her."

Or,ask her

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
41 weeks ago

chichester

"I hate the word convince"

It’s a useful word in court cases

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By *iddlesticksMan
41 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I hate the word convince

It’s a useful word in court cases

You’d certainly convince me, guilty as charged.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

Older men using her wow love that

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Convince her is the wrong word to use, talk to her and see if she’s up for it, if she’s not and needs convincing it’s not worth it.

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By *parkle1974Woman
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Convince is just a small step down from coercion.....

What if your wife doesn't fulfil your "need"??

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
41 weeks ago

Midlands

"Need to convince my wife to fuck others my biggest fantasy needs to come a reality "

Even if it’s not her fantasy? Your profile says you are chilled out, laid back and not pushy. I’m really getting those vibes

Mrs

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By *ackformore100Man
41 weeks ago

Tin town

This is going to get dark quickly op.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

Well not convince but tell her she can play with others with my full permission

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By *parkle1974Woman
41 weeks ago

Leeds

"Well not convince but tell her she can play with others with my full permission "

So tell her then

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By *parkle1974Woman
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Or you could show her your profile on here and ask if she'd like help to set her own up!

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By *parkle1974Woman
41 weeks ago

Leeds

As per your PM if she get mad when you "tell her" then it sounds like she's not up for it.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
41 weeks ago

Leeds

"Well not convince but tell her she can play with others with my full permission "

On her own or with you watching ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

Then I don’t get her pussy either then lol

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By *parkle1974Woman
41 weeks ago

Leeds

"Then I don’t get her pussy either then lol "

But you have a chance to get pussy elsewhere...

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Convince doesn’t sound great

Maybe try to trick her instead?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

It’s gonna have to be done now or never

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By *eedee27Man
41 weeks ago

cambridge

"I hate the word convince

It’s a useful word in court cases

Very true x

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By *parkle1974Woman
41 weeks ago

Leeds

"It’s gonna have to be done now or never "

If you press rely and quote button we know who you are responding too.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
41 weeks ago

Leeds

"It’s gonna have to be done now or never "

I didn't start swinging til I was 48. Is she in her 30s ?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
41 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

"Convince doesn’t sound great

Maybe try to trick her instead? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"Convince doesn’t sound great

Maybe try to trick her instead? "

How

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"It’s gonna have to be done now or never

I didn't start swinging til I was 48. Is she in her 30s ?"

Yes she is 38

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By *erry bull1Man
41 weeks ago

doncaster

Any pics of her

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
41 weeks ago

chichester

"Convince doesn’t sound great

Maybe try to trick her instead?

How"

Maybe show her fab and your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"Any pics of her "

yes she is my wife lol

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By *parkle1974Woman
41 weeks ago

Leeds

"Any pics of her "

The blowup type don't pose well

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Do what you'd do with anything important: have an open honest sober conversation about it and why it matters to you.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
41 weeks ago

Reading

Oh dear god. Convince and using??? Clearly this is all about you. You wife should run away from you.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
41 weeks ago

Reading

"Any pics of her

The blowup type don't pose well "

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
41 weeks ago

Southampton

"Oh dear god. Convince and using??? Clearly this is all about you. You wife should run away from you."

This .... if you had any respect for your wife OP you wouldn't even think of " convincing" her

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Need to convince my wife to fuck others my biggest fantasy needs to come a reality

Maybe.........

just *novel idea..........tell her."

Yep. Telling us isn’t going to help you.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
41 weeks ago

in Lancashire

"Need to convince my wife to fuck others my biggest fantasy needs to come a reality

Maybe.........

just *novel idea..........tell her.

Yep. Telling us isn’t going to help you.

But it might provide some wank material for the guy..

Maybe..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

Ok shouldn’t use convince but need to tell her a lot of men would love to have the chance to show her how hot she is , she has only ever had my cock

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
41 weeks ago

Reading

"Ok shouldn’t use convince but need to tell her a lot of men would love to have the chance to show her how hot she is , she has only ever had my cock "

Thats not the point. If swinging isnt for her then it doesnt matter how many men want her.

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By *iasubTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Ilkeston

"Ok shouldn’t use convince but need to tell her a lot of men would love to have the chance to show her how hot she is , she has only ever had my cock "

Has she given any indication she is even interested in this?

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By *eavenscentitCouple
41 weeks ago

barnstaple

"Ok shouldn’t use convince but need to tell her a lot of men would love to have the chance to show her how hot she is , she has only ever had my cock "

What about just letting her be who she wants to be ?

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By *alandNitaCouple
41 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Ok shouldn’t use convince but need to tell her a lot of men would love to have the chance to show her how hot she is , she has only ever had my cock "

Convince is definitely the wrong word.

She's your wife, you should know her best. If it's a good strong marriage, where you can openly share your fantasies, broaching the subject should be easy.

If it isn't, swinging probably not for you as a couple...

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

Thanks all

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By *assConductorMan
41 weeks ago

the wild

"Convince doesn’t sound great

Maybe try to trick her instead?

How"

Jesus. Does your wife know that you're on here?

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By *litterbabeWoman
41 weeks ago

hiding from cock pics.

She may want to convince you to suck cock for her in return.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"She may want to convince you to suck cock for her in return.

No she won’t

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"Convince doesn’t sound great

Maybe try to trick her instead?

How

Jesus. Does your wife know that you're on here? "

Not yet

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Convince doesn’t sound great

Maybe try to trick her instead?

How

Jesus. Does your wife know that you're on here?

Not yet "

Keep it that way, it’s always better to lie about these things if you want to get your own way

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By *bonyGoddessNyxWoman
41 weeks ago

Nottingham

"She may want to convince you to suck cock for her in return.

I think his wife should definitely make this part of the agreement!

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By *bonyGoddessNyxWoman
41 weeks ago

Nottingham

"She may want to convince you to suck cock for her in return.

No she won’t "

How do you know? You haven't spoken to her about any of this. You may be surprised

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"She may want to convince you to suck cock for her in return.

No she won’t "

If you've kept your fantasies secret, maybe she's kept her fantasies secret too

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By *iasubTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Ilkeston

"She may want to convince you to suck cock for her in return.

No she won’t

How do you know? You haven't spoken to her about any of this. You may be surprised

Im waiting for the next thread “wife now want me to suck 4 guys off”

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"She may want to convince you to suck cock for her in return.

I think his wife should definitely make this part of the agreement!"

I’d suck your toes

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"She may want to convince you to suck cock for her in return.

I think his wife should definitely make this part of the agreement!

I’d suck your toes "

As your wife watches a guy rail you?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Convince - no.

If you aren't able to have an honest conversation with her then it's not a lifestyle for you guys.

I'm guessing she doesn't know your here, not the best start is it.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"She may want to convince you to suck cock for her in return.

No she won’t

How do you know? You haven't spoken to her about any of this. You may be surprised

Im waiting for the next thread “wife now want me to suck 4 guys off”

That’s in my local couples accounts.

Wife is never ever ever in, and he’s always around.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
41 weeks ago

barnstaple

I feel sorry for your wife

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"I feel sorry for your wife"
why is that

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By *iasubTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Ilkeston

"She may want to convince you to suck cock for her in return.

No she won’t

How do you know? You haven't spoken to her about any of this. You may be surprised

Im waiting for the next thread “wife now want me to suck 4 guys off”

That’s in my local couples accounts.

Wife is never ever ever in, and he’s always around.

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By *imply DeeWoman
41 weeks ago

Wherever

Hungover horn fantasy, should stay as such.

I hope said wife doesn’t even exist, and if she does - she deserves more respect than this.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
41 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

"I feel sorry for your wife why is that "

Because you're on here looking for sex. Talking about your sex life with complete strangers rather than her. That's why I feel sorry for her.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
41 weeks ago

Middle England

OP. You say on your profile that you are able to accommodate. Why don't you speak to your wife about it and see what she thinks.

If she's ok with it you can have a gentle start in familiar surroundings and then take things from there.

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By *sWyldWoman
41 weeks ago

Edinburgh

If there was ever a full definition of "the ick" then this thread is it.

Poor woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"OP. You say on your profile that you are able to accommodate. Why don't you speak to your wife about it and see what she thinks.

If she's ok with it you can have a gentle start in familiar surroundings and then take things from there."

She works away two days a week

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By *iasubTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Ilkeston

"OP. You say on your profile that you are able to accommodate. Why don't you speak to your wife about it and see what she thinks.

If she's ok with it you can have a gentle start in familiar surroundings and then take things from there.

She works away two days a week "

What about the other 5?

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By *bonyGoddessNyxWoman
41 weeks ago

Nottingham

"She may want to convince you to suck cock for her in return.

I think his wife should definitely make this part of the agreement!

I’d suck your toes

As your wife watches a guy rail you?"

I'm liking where this is going... I'd let him suck my toes in this exact scenario... The guy railing him needs to be fit though, I'm sure his wife would agree...

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I’d b ignore the negative comments buddy. Your doing a good thing. She clearly doesn’t know what she wants, and you clearly do.

Sometimes you’ve got to be cruel to be kind. Can’t make an omelette without breaking a few eggs you know?

She’s the lucky one. She’s silently living her life completely unknowing her husband is putting in the hard graft to find her a bunch of old penis she didn’t even know she wanted

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By *inLemonade65Couple
41 weeks ago

leeds

I feel sorry for his wife, it’s her he should be talking to not a bunch of strangers on a sex site when he’s fantasising about things, he’s already cheating on her with his one verified meet, poor woman might get a lucky break and divorce his cheating ass

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By *issmorganWoman
41 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Yet no mention of a wife on your profile op...

You're on here verified, behind her back and saying your biggest fantasy needs to be a reality.

It's all about you and what you want, talk and ask her if she would want this. Ask her what fantasy's she has and how you could make those happen.

if she says no, will you stay on fab and cheat?.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
41 weeks ago

Coventry

This is a really iffy mentality, RED flags everywhere. I don't like the tone. Needing to convince, needing to happen. Seems very self centred and unpleasant. I get the fantasy, it's common. I totally understand people on here asking advice on how they bring up the subject up and/or gauge whether this is something their wife maybe open to. But sounds like OP's maximalist goal is for this to happen irrespective of his wife's feelings on this. Which totally shows a lack of respect. It's not very nice and doesn't seem to take into consideration any regard for her feelings. Imagine if his wife read this? Very unsavoury indeed.

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By *ris GrayMan
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

"I hate the word convince

It’s a useful word in court cases

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The jury are convinced unanimously that you are innocent

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By *inger_the_NinjaMan
41 weeks ago

Frome

Can't spell convince without the word con.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

The opening words of many a divorce proceeding.

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By *olfandtazCouple
41 weeks ago

Bristol

I don't think this thread is going the way you want it to OP.

So many red flags it's unbelievable! Show her your profile on here and then see what she thinks.

You shouldn't have to "convince" her to do anything she doesn't want to. If she's said no, there is your answer.

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
41 weeks ago

sheffield

I mean it’s good to ask the question… but you have to be prepared to take the answer lol

You can’t persuade surely? That’s like making her do what she doesn’t want to do… but only doing it to make you happy

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By *ris GrayMan
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

Actually Op you might find that she will be convinced when you show her what she can get on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

I woudnt push her in any way just ideas on how I can explain it

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
41 weeks ago

Beverley

Jesus Christ.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
41 weeks ago

Reading

"I woudnt push her in any way just ideas on how I can explain it "

From speaking to swinging couples they have 2 thibgs great comm7nication and a very strong relationship. I am not sure you have either.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
41 weeks ago

in Lancashire

"I woudnt push her in any way just ideas on how I can explain it "

Communication..

Be open and honest with her, including being on here..

You just might be pleasantly surprised by her reaction, plus don't be so naive to think she won't find out if you continue or hasn't already found out..

Give her the respect you owe her..

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
41 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

"I woudnt push her in any way just ideas on how I can explain it "

Show her this thread, it will tell her all she needs to know

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I woudnt push her in any way just ideas on how I can explain it "

Do you have any naughty fantasies? I have some naughty fantasies. How does that sound?

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By *ackformore100Man
41 weeks ago

Tin town

"I woudnt push her in any way just ideas on how I can explain it

Do you have any naughty fantasies? I have some naughty fantasies. How does that sound?"
like an angel crying on your tongue...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

Ok thank you all I re evaluate take care

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
41 weeks ago

South West London

If she doesnt want to sleep with other men then you can't really convince her.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
41 weeks ago

Beverley

I think, basically, you want to convince her so you don't feel guilty about doing it yourself, but you will never actually tell her that you do it, even if you do 'convince' her. Hence the 'fantasy' bollocks you wrote.

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